Splendid peasant girl busy farming

Chapter 10841

Regardless of whether they are talking nonsense or reasoning, ten Suns tied together cannot defeat Yang Ruoqing.

It would have been better if Sun didn't refute it. This refutation would easily lead Yang Ruoqing into thinking. In the end, step by step, she fell into a loop that Yang Ruoqing had set up in advance. Everything inside and outside was what Yang Ruoqing said. reason.

The end result is that you are completely convinced, brainwashed, and accept new ideas.

Of course, the premise is that these principles are not too inconsistent with Sun's most fundamental principles.

What is Sun's most fundamental principle?

For example, Sun's most fundamental principles are kindness, enthusiasm, generosity, and a generous heart.

In this regard, even if Yang Ruoqing was lying on the ground, kneeling on the ground, holding a knife on Sun's neck and trying to reason, it would be impossible to convince Sun to change these characteristics, let alone to be a cold, selfish, or even Cruel person!

Sun, who was full of education, took Fuwa to the bathroom to wash up, because Fuwa was sleepy and wanted to sleep.

Yang Ruoqing, Xiao Hua, and Jun'er were the only ones left in the room, who had eaten and drank enough and was still touching the stool and playing with toys on the floor.

Xiaohua said to Yang Ruoqing: "Sister, just say this to me and Brother Da'an."

Yang Ruoqing smiled, "That's because you two have different personalities from me. Even if you are a family, you are always polite and cautious when talking to each other, for fear of making each other unhappy."

"I'm different. I'm outspoken and can say whatever I want. I'm not afraid of my mother being depressed or frustrated."

But the premise is that what you say makes sense and is tenable in the long run.

"Hua'er, when it comes to educating children, I have already made it clear to my parents that they will no longer protect their children in front of their faces. You must preserve your dignity. Otherwise, the children will have someone to rely on and will be in trouble if they disobey the discipline. ”

Xiaohua nodded repeatedly, as if she understood this deeply.

"But here, I still have to say,"

"Sometimes Da'an is a little strict when he teaches his children. For example, Da'an randomly checks Feng'er's homework and punishes him, such as starving him, making him stand for half an hour, or slapping his palms with a ruler. some type of,"

"As a mother, you are watching and feeling distressed. I completely understand this."

"But no matter how distressed you are, you have to hide it. You can't show it in front of your face, and you can't jump out to dissuade Da'an from lowering the punishment. Your behavior is a disruptive behavior, and it will have a bad impact on the children over time."

Yang Ruoqing's words made Xiaohua blush, because this kind of thing had happened several times in Daan's study.

She was afraid that Da'an would accidentally hit the wrong place in his anger and hit an important part of the child.

I am also afraid that the growing child will be starved and something will happen...

"You have to know that Da'an is not an outsider, he is the biological father of the children."

"No matter how angry he is, he can't really beat up the child by mistake!"

"Again, it's okay to be hungry for one meal. The next meal will be more delicious."

"As for being punished by standing for half an hour, it's not a bad person. Think about the children of our farmers who work in the fields with their parents at a young age, and they work for several hours."

"Especially during the autumn harvest, when the rice is being threshed, those little feet are running back and forth in the muddy fields, helping the adults to pick up rice ears. They run for several hours, and they are still strong!"

Xiaohua lowered her head in shame and said softly: "I understand the truth, but my heart doesn't listen to me..."

"You have to endure even if you don't obey orders, don't let Daan's efforts go to waste!" Yang Ruoqing's resolute tone made Xiaohua feel that she really couldn't joke about this matter and had to be very serious and rigorous.

"You feel sorry for him, wait until the matter is over, and then add some of his favorite things to the child's food." "You feel sorry for his leg and hand pain, and wait until afterwards to apply some medicinal wine on him. Sometimes you can coax him to say some words of encouragement to calm his mood.”

"As parents, isn't it like this: one is a good person and the other is a bad person? But it must be done in order. After the good person sings, the bad person will finish."

If two people make a fool of themselves together, they will not be able to control the child, and will be led by the child.

If two people are the favorites, then the family will be a powder keg, and they will scold and fight if they disagree.

This coercive, high-pressure, violent and arbitrary family atmosphere is even more unsuitable for educating children.

Over time, children will develop corresponding psychological problems.

Speaking of children's psychological problems, Yang Ruoqing couldn't help but think of the mother and daughter from later generations who had troubled her dream a while ago...

The mother is right, she hopes that her child will be well and have a bright future. I hope that I can take care of my children at an age when they are ignorant and prevent their studies from going to waste.

It’s just that the mother’s methods were a bit extreme and ignored the psychological endurance of children of that age. So in the end, the mother’s love became the last straw for the child, leading to an irreversible tragedy...

So for a long time now, Yang Ruoqing will start thinking about this issue whenever she has time...

Yang Ruoqing estimated that she had already made Xiao Hua dizzy.

She stopped when she was satisfied, and said a few words to Xiaohua. When she heard the noise outside, it seemed that Yang Huazhong and the others were coming.

So Yang Ruoqing asked Xiaohua to stay in the house to take care of Jun'er and sleep when she felt sleepy. She went out to meet Yang Huazhong and the others.

……

Half an hour later, after meeting Yang Huazhong and Yu Zhong, Yang Ruoqing arranged for a table of food and wine to be delivered to the guest room where Yu Zhong and the others were staying tonight.

She and Yang Huazhong came to the door, and the father and daughter spoke a few words alone.

"Dad, let's have a good rest at the inn tonight, and we'll set off home after breakfast tomorrow."

"At this time tomorrow, we can rest at home!"

Yang Huazhong couldn't believe it when he heard that he could set off tomorrow.

"That can't happen, right Qing'er? Isn't it snowing over there?"

"It's snowing heavily! It's almost up to my knees when I step in!" Yang Ruoqing said truthfully.

Yang Huazhong took a deep breath, "It sounds like the snow will get heavier the closer you get to home?"

"On our side, the snow isn't that heavy, but it's been raining for two days in a row and we can't walk! We won't be able to leave tomorrow!"

Here, a sum of money was spent to mobilize dozens of villagers to shovel snow.

Fortunately, the distance to shovel the snow was not too far, twenty miles away, and there were enough people, so we reluctantly sent them from Yuqian Village to the inn.

But it’s eighty miles away from here!

"Dad, are you too busy to be confused?" Yang Ruoqing covered her mouth and smiled.

"Look at me, your daughter and I are standing here perfectly fine. What does this mean?"

Yang Huazhong was stunned for a moment, looked at the girl standing in front of him, and suddenly came to his senses, he patted his head and laughed.

(End of this chapter)