Splendid peasant girl busy farming

Chapter 3160 Be more open-minded (four more)

Bamei Cao said to Xiaojie in a low voice: "You silly girl, do you really take it seriously?"

"A slap is another floor. Those people don't know how many floors are separated from us. You said, if their old lady passed away, would you be so sad that you couldn't eat?"

Xiaojie shook her head without hesitation, "How is it possible? I don't even know those old ladies very well. Even if I met them when I was young, seven or eight years have passed. We are not together and have no feelings for each other!"

Cao Bamei said: "That's right, if you treat others like that, then others must treat us the same way."

"It's very good if people can squeeze out a few tears in front of the coffin and pretend to be sad,"

"The ones who are really sad are our own family members. They were invited to help with the funeral. As long as they do the cooking, it's fine. Let's not worry too much about it," Cao Bamei said.

Xiaojie frowned, "I didn't think too much about it. The main reason is that I got angry when I saw them smiling so brightly. My grandma just died and hasn't been buried yet. I can't see anyone laughing!"

Bamei Cao raised her hand, and pinched Xiaojie's nose affectionately, "You're a girl of twelve or thirteen years old, why do you speak so childishly?"

"The one who passed away was from our family, not theirs. They laughed at them. You are just asking for trouble!" Bamei Cao said.

Xiaojie curled her lips and sat there silently.

Yang Ruoqing also took Xiaojie's hand, and said to her: "One hero and three gangs, just relying on the dozen or so people we came here, we can't hold Granny Ga's funeral in style."

"We do as the Romans do, and if we want Gapo to leave in a lively manner, we have to be more open-minded,"

"Remember, the purpose of our trip is to handle the funeral in a smooth manner, so that Gapo can be buried in peace, and the rest can be ignored. They are just talking and laughing behind the scenes, stealing a few meatballs, it's nothing It's a big deal, pretend you didn't see it."

Hearing Yang Ruoqing say the same thing, Xiaojie had no choice but to nod, "Well, I won't say anything, I just hope that this funeral will end soon, and I'll go back to Changping Village as soon as possible, now I'm not familiar with it at all..."

Cao Bamei said: "No way? This is your hometown, the place where you were born."

Xiaojie shook her head, "I was only five or six years old when I left here, and I don't remember many things."

"Compared to here, I feel that Changping Village is more like my home. There are my good sisters, Xiaohua, Xiaoduo, Sister-in-law Huangmao, and two older sisters from Aunt Osmanthus's family..."

Yang Ruoqing caressed Xiaojie's head, "It doesn't matter where, as long as there are relatives, it is our home."

"Yes, yes!" Bamei Cao nodded, "My home is also in Changping Village. After the funeral is over, let's go back together."

Xiaojie nodded vigorously. "I'm going to change the stick of incense for my milk."

Watching Xiaojie get up and go to the desk in front of the filial tent to exchange incense, Cao Bamei said: "Xiaojie's personality is like my sister-in-law's, straightforward and aggressive, and she can't tolerate sand in her eyes."

"There are advantages and disadvantages to having a straight gut like this. If you meet someone who is equally open-minded, that's okay. If you meet that kind of twisted in-law's family, Xiaojie will suffer a lot," she said.

Yang Ruoqing said: "She's still young, and being young can't be without arrogance. When she becomes more sensible in a few years, she will know how to make appropriate detours."

Cao Bamei said: "That's true."

Looking at Xiaojie, who was adding fragrance seriously and whispering to Mrs. Sun's tablet, Bamei Cao said, "Is Xiaojie about the same age as Xiaohua and Xiaoduo?"

Xiaohua said: "I'm fourteen, Xiaoduo is a few months younger than me, and sister Xiaojie is half a year younger than Xiaoduo, but the three of us grew up together."

Bamei Cao nodded and said, "Of course I know. Like Qing'er, I grew up watching you guys grow up."

Xiaohua pursed her lips and smiled, "Second sister-in-law, you're selling yourself off again."

Xiaohua married Da'an, because Xiaohua was raised by Yang Huazhong and Mrs. Sun. Even though the house was not consummated, in the hearts of the big guy and Xiaohua herself, she was already the daughter-in-law of the third wife of the old Yang family, so she called Bamei Cao It is only right and proper to call out the second sister-in-law.

Cao Bamei also understood it as a matter of course.

She said to Xiaohua: "I think out of the three of you girls, so far, your luck is the best,"

"The number one scholar who came out only three years ago in our university has become your husband-in-law. Your fate is the fate of a born noble lady!"

Xiaohua blushed.

Yang Ruoqing also said: "Bamei is really right about this point. The girl Xiaohua's face, Goddess Li once took a look at her and said that she is a noble lady, and she is a prosperous husband."

Xiao Hua's face turned red like a monkey's butt, "Second sister-in-law, sister, let's not talk about it at a time like this, okay? People in Sunjiagou will hear about it later, I'm sorry."

Yang Ruoqing said: "There's nothing to be ashamed about your upright marriage. But it's better if you don't tell us about it, so as to save some trouble."

trouble?

Bamei Cao and Xiaohua looked at each other, Xiaohua was innocent and didn't understand the mystery in Yang Ruoqing's words, but Bamei Cao understood.

"That's right, we're here to attend the funeral of the old lady, and we won't talk about other things," Bamei Cao said.

After lunch, Dasun and Sun came to the ancestral hall.

"We're here to guard, you go back to eat quickly." Dasun urged.

Cao Bamei, Xiaojie and the others got up quickly, while Yang Ruoqing asked Da Sun and Sun in a calm manner, "Which family is in charge of the kitchen? What should we call when we meet?"

Da Sun was stunned for a while. She had been busy with the funeral for a long time, but she neglected the details.

If you don't make it clear, when the children go back to eat, when those women come to say hello, the children will be laughed at behind their backs if they can't call them by their names.

Da Sun said: "Let me accompany you back, I just want to get some things too. Mother Qing, I will give you a few here at the ancestral hall."

The Sun sisters and the eldest Sun sisters were of the same mind, and they both wanted to go together, so they hurriedly said: "Well, we are here, sister, you can go back with the children first."

The Sun family village is not big, there are only about twenty households in a village, all of them have the surname of Sun.

Because of the terrain, this village is not like other villages in Shangadari, where there is a family here, and there is a family there, and sometimes there is a cliff between the two families.

Sunjiagou is low-lying, with the ancestral hall as the center, and more than 20 families are located in the east, west and north of the ancestral hall.

After going out from the side door of the ancestral hall, go straight back, and you will arrive at the old house in a while.

This old house, compared to Lao Yang's old house, is really simple and shabby.

A courtyard wall made of half-person-high stones, a fence gate, and a thatch over the fence gate.

In the yard, two sheds were set up, three or four tables were placed under one big shed, and two large tubs for bathing were placed under the other smaller shed.

The big wooden basin was filled with water, and there were several stacks of bowls and chopsticks. Several women squatted by the big wooden basin while washing and chatting.

(End of this chapter)