Splendid peasant girl busy farming

Chapter 3253 Recruiting a son-in-law? (one more)
Xiaoqin got up and was about to cover Yang Ruoqing's mouth, her face was flushed with anxiety, and she spat in a low voice: "You damn Qinger, why are you talking nonsense, if someone hears it, my face will have nowhere to go! "

How could it be possible for Yang Ruoqing to let Xiaoqin cover her mouth, she turned around and sat on another stool beside her, giggling twice.

"Oh, I'm telling the truth, no nonsense!" She said fearlessly.

Xiaoqin didn't know what to do, she glared at Yang Ruoqing, and covered her face with her hands.

"Stop talking, stop talking, you're ashamed to see people!" A muffled voice came from behind Xiaoqin's fingers.

Yang Ruoqing stretched out her hand to break off Xiaoqin's hand, and said, "Okay, okay, let's stop joking, I'm going to ask you seriously."

Xiaoqin looked up at Yang Ruoqing, "I know what you want to ask,"

"Qing'er, I will not remarry again, I will not betray Daping..."

"Xiaoqin!" Yang Ruoqing interrupted Xiaoqin,
"Brother Daping has already left, you are still young, and you still have decades to live."

"There is no betrayal or not, but a real life. You are a woman with two daughters. It's not easy..."

"No matter how hard it is, I will grit my teeth and carry it through." Xiaoqin interrupted Yang Ruoqing's words, her eyes filled with determination.

"When Daping just left, the second daughter was only a few months old, and she was still breastfeeding in my arms." Xiaoqin continued.

"Daping's bad news came. My milk was returned at that time. My second daughter was raised by me with rice soup and batter,"

"It's almost three years old now, and I have survived the most difficult times,"

"Now the eldest daughter is about the same as your baby. She will be seven years old soon, and the second daughter will be three years old. In another seven or eight years, my eldest daughter will be able to talk about marriage. When the time comes, I will be able to be a mother-in-law with peace of mind. it is good!"

"When the second daughter grows up, I will marry her in our Changping Village. The two daughters will help each other, just like your mother Qinger and your eldest aunt. Everyone is envious!"

Looking at Xiaoqin's glimmer of light in her dim eyes when she was thinking about a better life in the future, Yang Ruoqing was also very touched.

"What you said is good, but have you ever thought that before your two daughters grow up, get married, and meet two sons-in-law who let you feel at ease and reliable, the seven or eight years, nearly ten years During the kung fu, what will happen? What will happen?" Yang Ruoqing asked.

Xiaoqin was stunned for a moment, looking straight at Yang Ruoqing, not quite understanding for a while.

Yang Ruoqing thought for a while, and then said: "Let's put it this way, let me make an analogy."

"If your eldest daughter grows to twelve or thirteen years old, she will look very beautiful."

"Because you don't have a pillar man in your family, some kind-hearted people may plot against your eldest daughter."

"Go to the market, go out to do errands, go to the mountains to dig wild vegetables, visit relatives, and even go out to play with the handkerchiefs..."

"What should I do if I am bullied?"

"When you arrive, you will be a woman, and they will not take you seriously at all."

"Even if your eldest daughter Shun Shun Dang recruits a son-in-law at home, the conditions of the son-in-law who is usually recruited will not be very good,"

"Either the son-in-law's family conditions are not good, like Chen Biao, the husband-in-law of my cousin Ju'er."

"Or the condition of the son-in-law is not good, such as my uncle and my aunt, my uncle is a head shorter than my aunt, and his body is also thin."

"Even if your eldest daughter supports the family, such a family is still a weak one in the village. Don't blame me for speaking directly, I'm telling the truth." Yang Ruoqing said.

With a dejected expression on her face, Xiaoqin murmured: "I don't blame you, what you said is indeed the truth."

"When washing clothes at the pond at the entrance of the village, you can see it at a glance."

"Which family is strong, has many brothers, and has many sons. The woman who washes clothes there must be loud and talkative. She must wash the few good stones first."

"As for widows like me who don't have sons, I wait until they have washed me before I go. No one has said this rule, but they are all clear about it, and no one dares to break it. "

Xiaoqin said, in the past few years, she has really learned enough, besides, there are those behind-the-scenes pointers.

"Let's talk about your second daughter again," Yang Ruoqing continued.

"When a girl gets married, what she wants most is not only the love of her husband, but also the support of her natal family."

"A woman in her in-law's house, if she doesn't have the support of her mother's family, really hates to suffer. If you don't talk about it, you can look at our old Yang's family."

"My mother and the others had five sisters-in-law. The most popular one was the second mother, and the most pitiful one was my aunt."

"My second mother is popular because her natal family is from the same village. Her older brother started a business and made a fortune long ago. If he is rich, my second uncle has to rely on my second mother's brother to make money, so my second mother is the most popular."

"My aunt is the most pitiful, because she is a deaf-mute orphan and has no family."

"We never knew why my grandfather asked my aunt to be my uncle's wife. Anyway, my aunt lived a very hard life in Lao Yang's house."

"My uncle always wanted to divorce her, but my aunt was determined and gave birth to four sons in one go."

"My fourth aunt didn't have a son, and she had three daughters at one go, but the fourth aunt's family has many older brothers, and both parents are still alive, so they can support her."

"My mother and my fifth aunt are suffering. My mother was bullied by my grandma at that time, and she dared not go back to Sunjiagou to tell her."

"Whenever my mother-in-law and the others ask me, my mother always reports good news but not bad news." "Why? Because there is only one older sister in my mother's family, and my brother-in-law is thin and thin. After all, she is not a real brother, and my fifth aunt is even more pitiful... ..."

"So, I have always suggested that you remarry, and remarry with your children,"

"Otherwise, find a son-in-law to come to the door, re-establish a family, and have two sons. It will be the greatest help and support for you and your two daughters!"

In ancient times, it was an agricultural society, and labor was the most important.

Whether it's farming, production, business, or the frequent wars...

Human power is the most important, especially men.

There were many wars in ancient times, the death rate of men was high, and there were more women than men, so men were more scarce, and the patriarchal thought was stronger.

Of course, these are the background and orthodoxy of the great era, and there are exceptions.

In the minds of Yang Ruoqing and Luo Fengtang, sons and daughters are equal.

And the conditions of their family also determined that Luo Baobao was strong enough even without the help of his brothers.

Xiaoqin didn't speak, and sat there with a dejected expression on her face. The gleam of light that had just ignited in her eyes disappeared again in the endless darkness...

"I don't want to remarry, I don't want to take my two daughters to another country, I just want to stay in Changping Village..."

After half a sound, Xiaoqin murmured.

"It's really impossible. For the sake of the child, I can only recruit a son-in-law."

"However, there is probably no one in this world who would be foolish enough to come to be my door-to-door son-in-law, and help people raise two daughters for nothing..."

(End of this chapter)