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Chapter 4081 His Marriage
Seeing Yang Ruoqing staring at him unblinkingly, Mu Zichuan continued to say, "My uncle means that he wants my cousin and I to take advantage of the heat to get married."

Hot filial piety?
Yang Ruoqing did the math, and it was within seven or forty-nine days of the godmother's death.

If the hot filial piety period is exceeded, then you have to wait until Mu Zichuan has observed the filial piety period for three years before getting married.

The son keeps filial piety for his mother. This is the largest and heaviest filial piety among the 24 filial piety, so it must be kept for three full years.

And within these three years, you are not allowed to go out to be an official. This is called Ding You.

This is not only the custom of Mianniu Mountain, but also the custom of the whole Daqi.

Daqi governs the world with filial piety, from the imperial court to the county government, every level of officials strictly abide by this rule, even if you become a cabinet scholar, your parents pass away, you still have to go back to your hometown and keep filial piety for three years. Only after three years can he return to his official position.

So, when she was in the capital, Yang Ruoqing heard a lot of jokes about this.

It is said that there was an official who finally climbed up from the road of imperial examination step by step, and then got mixed up in the officialdom at the critical moment of prosperity, and the wife and mother at home were not in harmony.

As for this official, he is a strict wife, and he doesn't dare to control his wife's behavior too much. As a result, his wife contradicted the old lady, and the old lady was directly pissed off.

His career was going well, but because of his mother's death, he had to resign and return to his hometown Ding You for three years.

In the officialdom, this opportunity is fleeting, and the situation is changing every moment.

There is a saying that tells people to leave the tea, and this time will last for three years, unless you are outstanding and irreplaceable, otherwise, when you come back three years later, your pit has already been taken by others.

Moreover, the emperor was furious when he heard about this official's family and the cause of his mother's death, and punished him by ordering him to divorce his wife!

Therefore, after this incident, the officials in Daqi were panicked, but everyone also understood that if they want to experience some twists and turns in their official career, it is best not to be cut off in the middle.

Then you must be filial to your parents at home. If you are an official outside, if you cannot be filial in front of your parents, you must also tell your daughter-in-law to perform filial piety on your behalf.

As for the daughter-in-law, she also dare not easily contradict her parents-in-law. For the sake of her husband's future and not being divorced, most of the daughter-in-laws are very respectful, at least in face.

They pray for the stars and the moon, and they hope that their parents can live a long life.

And Mu Zichuan happened to be in Ding You right now.

However, a talented person like Mu Zichuan, who is also the favorite student of Zhang Dashi in the cabinet, and a friend of the second prince, is also very close to the emperor Qi Xingyun.

Therefore, his return to Ding You for three years will basically not have any impact on his official career.

"Your uncle has his reasons for planning this way. After the hot filial piety period, it will be three years later."

Withdrawing her thoughts, Yang Ruoqing said.

"Then how did you tell your uncle that?" She continued to ask.

It's normal for people to respond.

If he really agreed, he had just finished the May Seventh Festival, and there was still half a month left to prepare for the wedding.

"I told my uncle that Ya just lost his mother, and at the time of the trough of grief, he just wants to keep his filial piety quietly, remember his deceased mother, and has no intention of getting married!" Mu Zichuan's voice came into Yang Ruoqing's ears.

"Even if you marry Cousin Cardamom and come in, you will definitely be left out in the cold. Instead of doing this, it's better to wait another three years. Cousin Cardamom is still young, just fifteen."

"Three years later, she will only be eighteen. This will allow her to stay with her uncle and aunt for three more years."

Hearing Mu Zichuan explain so much, Yang Ruoqing summed up one meaning: this guy is delaying the marriage again, and the delay lasts for three years!
"Zi Chuan, you're 33 this year, and you'll be [-] in three years. Are you sure you really have to wait that long?" Yang Ruoqing stopped, looked at his profile and asked word by word.

"If you take advantage of the hot filial piety and get married now, if it goes well, your children will be running around in three years,"

"If you're lucky, and you have two children in three years, wouldn't the family be full of excitement?" Yang Ruoqing asked again.

There are some things that she can't say too bluntly, three years, three years can be long or short.

Liao Meiying's temper can wait for three years, but for a charming lady like Liu Doukou, three years is a torment and a test for her.

Moreover, Mu Zichuan's character will definitely not cling to Liu Doukou like maltose in the past three years. Can Liu Doukou persist?

Seemingly seeing the worry in Yang Ruoqing's heart, Mu Zichuan smiled indifferently and said, "If you really like someone and want to stay with that person for a lifetime, you will never give up just because of three years."

"If she can't wait for three years, she will have two hearts when she sees me staying at home during these three years, with no entourage, no high-ranking officials and rich salary, and no contacts with high-ranking officials,"

"It can only be said that she is definitely not a good match. A really good dish needs a certain amount of cooking before it is served, so don't rush!"

After saying this, he smiled meaningfully, turned around and walked forward.

Yang Ruoqing stood where she was, pondered over what he said just now, and felt that there seemed to be some truth to it.

True love has to be tested.

What's more, Mu Zichuan's personality is slow and slow. If Liu Doukou really loves him, then Ding You's three years is really a good opportunity.

It takes three years to warm a man and touch a heart.

Muzichuan is not a rock, nor is it a glacier. He is a person, and a person is bound to be vulnerable and lonely. Therefore, when that sincere person appears, he will definitely be melted.

She hurried to catch up, "Zi Chuan, can I ask you one more question?"

"Don't mention one, you can ask a hundred questions casually, as long as I know the answer." Mu Zichuan said.

Yang Ruoqing said, "If Liu Doukou insists on waiting for you for three years, will you fulfill your promise after three years?"

Mu Zichuan thought for a while, and said: "If she is really willing to spend three years of her youth waiting for me, after the three-year filial piety period expires, the first thing I will do is to marry her with ten miles of red makeup, and I will only treat her alone for the rest of my life." Alright, like Feng Tang treats you with one heart and one mind, no concubine, no flirting with women, a couple for life!"

Yang Ruoqing said: "If that person's temper is not very good, jealous, narrow-minded, etc., are you willing to treat her like this?"

Mu Zichuan smiled.

"Everybody has a temper, especially women," he said.

"The reason why she is jealous, cautious, and moody, in the final analysis, is because the man she cares about can't bring her a full sense of stability and stability, so she worries about gains and losses."

(End of this chapter)