Splendid peasant girl busy farming

4312 - Self-experience

"I, a married eldest sister, went back to my mother's house, and I don't know how many times I was run over by my sister-in-law. Mother, you dare not support me with my sister-in-law. Is it possible that you have to go to Yangzhou to support me at my husband's house? "

What Zuo Yingchun said made Yingchun speechless when he questioned her. Thousands of words were piled up in her throat. Pazi covered his face and wept.

Zuo Yingchun turned her head irritably, and said to Mrs. Zuo and Yang Ruoqing: "Crying is the last thing to solve the problem. My mother is such a person. Back then, she was greedy for the money and bride price from Yangzhou, and she wanted me marry,"

"If I follow my own way of thinking, even if Cousin Junmo doesn't like me, I won't marry far away. I just want to find a well-matched family in Huguang County to marry. What about the third young lady of a wealthy businessman in Yangzhou? , I don’t care about going out in groups of maidservants, I really don’t care about it!”

Yang Ruoqing nodded: "We girls, it's better not to marry too far away, your original idea was correct."

Maybe some girls will say, there is a thread of fate for thousands of miles, as long as you love each other, so what if you go far away with him?
Where there is love is home, with him, everything is enough.

Regarding this statement, Yang Ruoqing could only smile.

There are some things that you don't understand when you are young, but when you are a little older, you will naturally understand.

I understand why your mother tried so hard to stop you from marrying far away. It wasn't because she really wanted to break up your lovers. What your mother thought about, after you married far away and became a mother yourself, you naturally Understood.

No matter how much others say, you can't listen to it. You have to experience it yourself.

If you are married far away, the man you meet treats you as a treasure, and your family life is well-off, your children are perfect, cute and healthy, then you are lucky.

But if that man doesn't care for you as much as before after marriage, the financial conditions are tight, and the people around you exclude you.

Your natal family is thousands of miles away. Every time you quarrel with a man and open the door but find that you have nowhere to go, you will regret your original choice.

Well, it's far away, I was listening to Zuo Yingchun's experience, Yang Ruoqing took a sip of tea, pulled back her thoughts, and continued to be a quiet listener.

Zuo Yingchun said to Mrs. Zuo: "Auntie, I'm really ashamed today. My niece came back five or six years ago to pay New Year's greetings to your old man, but she made us cry. It's very unlucky, and I've troubled you too. My niece is so ashamed. very……

Mrs. Zuo waved her hand and smiled lovingly: "Silly boy, although you and I are related as aunt and nephew, you have grown up beside me since you were young, and I treat you as a daughter."

"You are not living as you wished in your husband's house now, and my aunt is not feeling at ease. Seeing your puffy and swollen face, my aunt is anxious. Father Doudou is sick, what is it? Do you want to take care of your body? Find a doctor to make a proper diagnosis?"

Hearing this, Yang Ruoqing also turned her gaze back to Zuo Yingchun.

Zuo Yingchun was indeed a little swollen, with blue under his eyelids, and chloasma on his face. It is estimated that his endocrine system was out of balance, and menopause might come early.

The entire delicate flower looked like it was about to wither.

Zuo Yingchun shook his head: "I don't need it, I know my own situation. As for Doudou's father's illness, every doctor has his own way of saying it. My parents-in-law may know about it, but they don't tell the truth to me."

"Your parents-in-law are really selfish. You are a daughter-in-law. You have to rely on your husband to get by in your husband's house! How can you hide it from you? It's outrageous!" Mrs. Zuo said angrily.

Zuo Yingchun looked dejected: "Although Doudou's father was fooling around with the boy when we first got married, he has been good to us mother and daughter in the past two years, and I don't want him to die early. But if he really dies of illness, then my mother and I It's a really sad day."

Mrs. Zuo said: "In such a big family, if the men don't support you and make decisions for you, it will be difficult for you to gain a foothold in the house. The maids and servants are all good people, and they look after the chopsticks."

"If the man leaves, the orphans and widows left in this house will be really pitiful."

"It's not uncommon for some mean people to be kicked out!"

"Stop crying too, what's the use of crying? You two need to think of a solution sooner!" Mrs. Zuo said this to Ying Chunniang.

Yingchun Niang stopped crying and looked at Mrs. Zuo: "My daughter is having a hard time, and I am definitely not happy as a mother, but my in-laws are also considered to be well-known and well-known families in Yangzhou."

"I won't hide it from you, sister. In the past, when I was not married, my family and their family, although they were the same family, the relationship between cousins, but to put it bluntly, my natal family and my cousin's family had five clothes. They rely on the autumn wind to make ends meet during the New Year’s festival.”

"So when they came to me and said that the two families got married, I seemed to see a pie in the sky!"

"After a long time, it doesn't matter if my uncle has a broken sleeve, he is still a short-lived ghost with a bad health. Maybe there is some disease on my uncle that can't be cured from the beginning. That's why my cousin and sister-in-law came to me. I married my daughter, it must be like this!"

Old Madam Zuo was so angry that she threw the tea bowl in her hand on the table heavily, "I want you to think of a way, I'm not listening to you cursing my uncle like this!"

Yang Ruoqing couldn't help but opened her mouth: "That's right, now that the uncooked rice is cooked, it's time to look at the future instead of pursuing the past mistakes!"

Zuo Yingchun shook her head: "Don't talk about that with my mother. If she understood, she wouldn't have forced me to marry far away."

"My own life, I know what's going on, I have arrangements, don't count on my parents." She said.

"You are a woman, what arrangements can you make?" Mrs. Zuo asked again.

Zuo Yingchun said: "I have a dowry. Even if Doudou's father is gone, Doudou and I can still live with that dowry. When I grow up Doudou and let her recruit a husband-in-law, it will be fine." Hold up the door."

Old Madam Zuo shook her head: "You are still too young, thinking everything is too simple, Qing'er, tell her for me, she is just like her mother, with a simple mind."

Yang Ruoqing's head was full of black lines.

But Zuo Yingchun looked at her expectantly: "Mrs. Luo, my aunt is right. I was simple-minded. When I was young, I was impulsive. I even regarded you as an imaginary enemy. Now that I think about it carefully, I misunderstood you. Pay me!"

Yang Ruoqing pursed her lips: "I won't mention the past, I didn't take it to heart at all. But now, your situation is really bad, you should think about it carefully."

(End of this chapter)