Splendid peasant girl busy farming

4859 - Chapter [-]

Xiaohua couldn't help but also got a little excited, and said: "Duo'er, you asked a good question. Since the family is separated, there must be rules for separating the family. What did Sheng Nan say?"

Xiaoduo said: "Shengnan naturally swears that the Xiang family is really separated, and there is absolutely no such thing as lying to our Yang family."

"I said that's fine. Now that the family is separated, it's a matter of starting a new family. They are relatives, just like the relationship between my natal family and my uncles. We need to move around and get close, but we also need to be close. measure."

"If you find a reason to get together to make a fire and cook, then you have a reason every day, why do you have to separate? Just live together as a partner."

"Since the family is separated, there must be rules for separating the family. You adopted the name of your uncle, and your uncle doesn't have to go to your mother's family, so naturally we don't have to go to their house to pay New Year's greetings after we get married. Walk around, unless there will be a big red and white event with your two uncles in the future, let's go for a walk to show that this is okay, and we don't go for the usual reciprocity and New Year's greetings."

"So Sheng Nan's parents took Jin Nan to her natal home to celebrate the New Year, and Sheng Nan and I went back to my own natal home to celebrate the New Year. We have nothing to do with each other," Xiaoduo said.

After talking so much in one breath, my mouth is dry.

There were three tea bowls on the small table in front of her, and Xiaoduo didn't bother to distinguish who belonged to which, so she drank a few mouthfuls after taking one of the bowls.

Seeing Xiaoduo like this, Sun's eyes were full of warmth.

In the eyes of Mrs. Sheng, the cold and distant daughter-in-law is also someone else's well-behaved and caring daughter.

People have two sides, different identities, and depending on their identities, they have different ways of doing things. Mrs. Sun is glad that she is on her mother's side.

But at the same time, Baozi's grandson disagrees with Xiaoduo's approach.

"Duo'er, even though you agreed not to go around with Katsunan's uncle before you got married, you can go for New Year's greetings. Usually, you don't have to go if you have any happy event at home or visit a doctor. New Year's greetings You can go, not to mention that you are a bride, and in the first year after entering the house, if you don't go to his uncle's side, they will definitely think that your daughter-in-law is strong and airy, and will have a bad reputation for you."

Xiaoduo put down the teacup in her hand and said to Sun: "Mother, if my sister is at home, she must agree with my approach."

"Like the relatives at Uncle Shengnan's house, last time Shengnan's family moved into a new house, let's give gifts, have you forgotten?"

"Everyone rushed over to talk, they were all about relatives who couldn't be reached, those people were like brown candy, if Shengnan and I provoked them, they would come over to pay New Year's greetings in a swarm, looking for them on weekdays. From the beginning, it is not easy for us to drive people out, because after the New Year greetings, they are relatives, and it is not appropriate to drive away relatives, but if they do not pay New Year greetings, they are not relatives, and they will not find a chance to come to the door."

Xiaohua pondered for a while, and said: "I also agree with Duo'er's approach. Although it will cause a bad reputation with Uncle Shengnan's house at the beginning, it will still be beneficial to Duo'er in the long run. It’s called Kuai Dao Zha Ma.”

"Fame or something, in fact, sometimes it's not that important, the main thing is to live a comfortable life behind closed doors, just like what my sister always said, don't care how good you are, Delicate, some people like you, there must be some people hate you, so we don't need to worry too much, it's best to follow Duo'er's own opinion."

Sun smiled wryly, "Okay, the three of you sisters have grown up, and each has more ideas than the other, so let's not talk about it, as long as you live well."

There is really nothing to say, Sun is self-aware when it comes to being a daughter-in-law.

I am a failure. I have been living under my mother-in-law for more than ten years, and I can't even go back to my mother's house.

If it wasn't for my eldest daughter, Qing'er, who worked so hard to separate the family and lead the big guy to make a fortune, I am afraid that now my old daughter-in-law in her 40s would have to live under the fingers of her long-lived mother-in-law. I can't even take my idea!
Xiaohua said: "Mother, don't say that, we are all your daughters, and our kindness follows you."

Xiaoduo also smiled and said: "Yes, I am the daughter-in-law of the Xiang family. I think I will not be harsh. I will be filial to the uncle of the cattle dealer and live a good life with Sheng Nan. These are all taught by my mother when I was in my mother's house. mine."

"But for some things, I have my own plans, especially the things that Katsuo discussed with me. If there is one, there will be two. If I retreat, he will advance. If I wrong myself from the beginning to make concessions, then in the future , I’m afraid it will form a bad habit, it’s not that I don’t believe in Katsuo’s sincerity to me, what I don’t believe in is human nature, and it’s human nature to make progress!”

Xiao Hua nodded again: "Duo'er is right, I seem to see the shadow of our sister in you."

Xiaoduo smiled bitterly, "How can I compare with my sister, my sister is more capable than me, and luckier than me, my brother-in-law loves her to death, and I meet such good mother-in-laws, the whole family lives together happily. "

"In fact, I also wanted to be a filial and considerate daughter-in-law at the beginning, treat Shengnan's parents well, and even support Brother Jin Nan, but the matter between them and Cui'er later made me chill, and it became like this. This is everyone's good fortune, and I have nothing to do with it!"

Both Sun and Xiaohua nodded, isn't it just that, not only Xiaoduo was chilled, but they were all chilled too.

And the last time Sheng Nan's father came to the door with a basket of eggs, he wanted to find a leisurely job for Jin Nan in the Taoist temple.

After being rejected by Mrs. Sun, Sheng Nan's father didn't forget to take the basket of eggs with him before leaving!

The impression is completely ruined.

"As long as you live a good life with Shengnan, it's better than anything else," Sun said with a smile.

"From the current point of view, I still like Katsuo's temperament very much. He doesn't talk too much, he is diligent, and he is good to you. Don't bully others. You are good to Katsuo, but you can't be too good. Remember to be good to yourself, if you are not good to yourself, then he might not be good to you, this is also the way of husband and wife, mother taught you, also taught Hua'er, you all have to remember."

Xiaoduo pursed her lips and smiled.

"Mother, you leave it to me to guard against this Katsunan, I understand that. But you teach Hua'er to let her keep Brother Da'an? I don't understand that." Xiaoduo joked.

Xiaohua smiled softly, and said: "Brother Da'an and I are different from you, we are husband and wife, brother and sister, I can treat him as good as I can, because I believe in him."

Sun looked at Xiaohua with satisfaction, and said: "You can say this, mother is very relieved, Da'an is a man after all, and men doing things outside will inevitably make our women feel sad. From the current point of view, Da'an is not bad in that respect." , clean yourself and love yourself, if there is such a day, don't worry, mother will have a sigh of relief, you are the only eldest daughter-in-law in this family, and there will be no such miscellaneous things!"

(End of this chapter)