Splendid peasant girl busy farming

Chapter 4868 Raising a son is useless?
When asked if Dabai made amends to her regret, Yang Huamei couldn't laugh anymore, and sat down a little lonely, with a desolate expression on her face.

"In front of the two sister-in-laws, I don't say those brave words. I'm telling the truth. Although I won't really care about Dabai to the end, in my heart, I still have something to do with the child's behavior."

Yang Huamei raised her finger and pointed to her heart.

"When I was young, this kid has more heart than Xiao Hei. Xiao Hei was disobedient, and he was bluffed after a few slaps."

"But I understand that this child has matured early. If you beat him, scold him, and reason with him, you won't listen to him at all. You will cry with your eyes closed. We will leave him alone. Other people's children will naturally cry when they are tired." Okay, but it seems like he will never get tired, instead he hits his head against the wall, and if he doesn’t let him hit the wall, he hits it somewhere else, wherever he catches him, no matter what, my mother-in-law was frightened several times at that time, Later we were all afraid of him, and we let him do everything.”

"When he was young, he lost his temper and beat and kicked me a lot, but at that time he was a baby, and he didn't care about it with the baby. Now he is 12 years old and has studied for four or five years. A learned person, I can't even say a soft word to me like this."

"On the contrary, I was the one who waited on him patiently, feeling sorry for his leg, and he was angry with me. To be honest, two sister-in-laws, I really feel chilled. It's useless to raise a son..."

As Yang Huamei said, she picked up the corner of her clothes and wiped her eyes.

Raising a son is useless?
Bao Suyun and Sun Shi looked at each other.

Sorry, both of them have sons, but the sons in the family are obedient and sensible, and know how to be considerate of their parents.

"Mei'er, you don't want to hear what Third Sister-in-law has to say." Sun said out loud.

"What you said earlier has nothing to do with raising a son. Don't worry about sons and daughters. If you don't teach them well when you are young, you won't succeed. I won't talk about anything else. You just look at your fourth uncle's family He'er. Is that a daughter? How did it turn out?" ?”

Sun's words left Yang Huamei speechless.

Seeing Yang Huamei's weeping look, Sun's tone softened a little, and he continued: "We all know that it was not easy for you to conceive twins, and we also know that twins are born, for the old Wang family with few heirs. , it’s like the stars and the moon falling from the sky, it’s a treasure.”

"Ke Meier, which family's children didn't come here like this? Our parents love their children, and we have to look for the long-term for them, instead of satisfying their desires unlimitedly when they wanted something when they were young."

"Desire is something like a bag, not to mention a child, but an adult. The bigger it is, the more things it wants to hold. The appetite is too big, yes The child is not good. Suyun, don’t you think so?”

Bao Suyun nodded quickly: "I think it makes sense."

"Children were ignorant when they were young, and they wanted few things. A handful of candies and two small slingshots can satisfy them. But when they grow up a bit, they want more things. They learn to compare and see others The Four Treasures of the Study Room are famous products, but my own is just ordinary goods, so maybe I feel unbalanced.”

"When I see other people wearing silk and satin, but I wear coarse clothes, I also feel that I can't hold my head up."

"As parents, if we grit our teeth at this time, maybe we can make him fulfill his wish, but the heart of comparison is always there, and he doesn't work hard himself. When he gets married in the future, he wants a grand mansion. , I want gold, silver and jewels, I want to marry the most beautiful girl, I want to buy a carriage, and a farm shop to fill the show, do we have that condition as parents?"

"I can't be satisfied, come on, the marriage is over, and I'm making trouble at home all day long, beating and complaining about my parents, and worrying about why I was born in such a family. At that time, what will we do as parents?"

"My heart is broken into pieces, and I have to be sad with him. I can't think about it, and I am so useless that I commit suicide! I am not alarmist about this kind of thing. When I was in Qing'an County, there was an alley behind the restaurant. What happened to my family!"

"That's why I often tell my family's eldest treasure that in the future, you can eat as much food as you can. If your parents can raise you up, you have fulfilled your obligations. When you didn't save money when you got married, your parents can help you again." Once your daughter-in-law enters the door, you have to hold up the door yourself, do things down-to-earth, and provide me and your father with retirement in the future!"

Yang Huamei was dumbfounded.

After Bao Suyun finished speaking for a while, Yang Huamei still stared at her.

"Fifth sister-in-law, I feel like I've lived in vain." She finally came back to her senses after a long time, and said with a wry smile.

Bao Suyun sighed, "Mei'er, don't say such frustrating words, my third sister-in-law and I didn't mean to find fault with you and Dabai when we told you this, we just want to help you."

"Dabai and Xiaohei are now talking about whether they are big or small. Let's expose the past. In the future, you have to help them plan well. When it is time to strictly discipline, you will be tolerant. Don't be sloppy, otherwise, it will be really too late to discipline after a few years when it's time to say goodbye!"

Sun nodded: "I have the same idea as Suyun. If you want to take care of it, you have to take care of it now. Now you can use your strength to straighten the child."

Yang Huamei didn't speak, she frowned slightly, but she made up her mind.

Yes, no matter what this time, we must discipline the children well, otherwise we will raise two evils in the future, especially Dabai!

"Dabai's foot injury, did you go to the town clinic? What did the doctor say?" Sun asked again.

Yang Huamei's face was full of despair: "I went to see it. The doctor said that the child's feet will not return to normal. Even if he can get off the ground, he will be a little lame in the future. The way of studying is not going to work."

"I discussed it with Shuanzi. As long as he can live well, do things in a down-to-earth manner, and be neither lazy nor lazy, he will always have a bite to eat in the future, so he won't starve to death."

Sun and Bao Suyun could only sigh.

To study, you must have good facial features and no obvious physical defects. It is clear that the road to study is really broken.

"My family's eldest treasure is not lame, but he is not a material for studying. He studied for several years and was sent to Qing'an County to study. Last time, he went to Changhuaizhou with your family, Dabai and Xiaohei, for the exam, but he didn't pass the exam. As a scholar, his father said, after the Lantern Festival, he will take him to a restaurant in Qing'an County, and he will learn how to do business with him in the future."

Mrs. Sun also laughed, "My family's Xiaoan is not expected to study. Back then, he went to the southwest battlefield with his brother-in-law, which worried me to death. Fortunately, he finally found a job in Qing'an County with his military exploits. I also feel at ease in my heart, a cow can eat all the way, and every cow can eat enough."

(End of this chapter)