The road from Africa to Europe

The reason why I want to remind Tangmei Lin is that Ling Xiao knows very well that a child's childhood is too important, and what happens in his youth will affect the child's life. Generally, children who live relatively happily in childhood are mostly very peaceful.

Of course, there are also special circumstances. Some people have lived in misery all their lives and are still untouched, but they will still extend their helping hands when they encounter danger.There are also people who are completely opposite. They live in a honeypot from birth, but they are unwilling, and they think about how to take revenge on society whenever they have the opportunity.

Well!Each has its own way of life, but it is still the first thing to give children a good childhood. It is the responsibility of a mother to give children a sense of security and teach them the correct three views.

That man was completely unqualified. When he got another marriage, he never thought that he was the father of two children. That's why Ling Xiao helped cousin Lin fight for the custody of the child.

Ling Xiao naturally knew that Tangmei Lin could not be perfect as a mother, there is no perfect person, and she is not a so-called saint.It's normal to make mistakes along the way as a mother.As long as people do things, they will make mistakes. I hope that Tangmei Lin will correct her mistakes if she knows her mistakes. Don't think that because you are a mother, you can not admit your mistakes.

You must know that it is the responsibility of Tangmei Lin as a mother to raise a good child. Since she brought the child into this world, she must fulfill her mother's responsibility and educate the child well. people.

EMMMMMM!Ling Xiao thought about one, two, three strategies for raising children in his heart for a while, and planned to talk to Lin cousin when he had the opportunity, so that she could better raise the two children and make the children grow up.

Some things must be emphasized. For example, Tangmei Lin has a son and a daughter now, so Ling Xiao hopes that she will treat the two children as fairly as possible. This must be paid attention to, whether it is partial to the son or the younger daughter, it is not correct.

There is also a possibility that Tangmei Lin thinks that her son is older, so she thinks that her son should miss her younger sister, and it is not correct to ask her son to be patient with her daughter everywhere. A mother must learn to be fair to the two children, and not ignore the child just because she is good. Good boy.

In fact, in the world that Ling Xiao has traveled through, there is no shortage of eccentric parents. It's just that the child is still young and cannot resist the eccentricity of the parents. When the child grows up, it is very likely that the child will be completely alienated from the parents. After all, people's hearts will gradually change. hard.Of course, it is also possible to prove yourself and turn yourself into a top filial son.

Children who are mistreated will be somewhat distorted psychologically, and they will not live a very happy life. They may be very glamorous on the surface, but their minds may be abnormal in secret, unless the child is redeemed.

Ling Xiao intends to wait until the matter of Tangmei Lin is resolved before talking with her, so as to give the children a safe growth environment as much as possible, which is good for Tangmei Lin and the two children.

The outbreak of Tangmei Lin gave Ling Xiao a new idea: How to help those divorced original spouses, especially those who divorced and never left home. People can rely on, without the custody of children, and even without the conditions and opportunities to survive, they have to be attached to the ex-husband's family.

This time, the case of cousin Lin can be used to peel off the skins of some people, and also give those original spouses a chance to live, and Ling Xiao plans to allocate a sum of money to help those women.

Fortunately, we haven't finished discussing the transfer of assets before, so we can just add it in. I hope that more women can get the respect they deserve, instead of being labeled as feudal remnants. We still need to strengthen education so that more people can have The ability to judge things, not to follow what others say.It can be said that all aspects need to be developed, so the steps should not be big, but only step by step.

Thinking of this, Ling Xiao finally decided not to intervene in more things, because she believed that the people of Kyushu would grope forward step by step, the whole environment would become better, the future was bright, and the road was tortuous.

Tangmei Lin, on the other hand, looked at Ling Xiao and the original owner with glowing eyes because she heard that she could get the custody of the child. If this was the case, she would not be afraid. She could live with her children, who would want that change? A man with a broken heart?Who cares about those two old men who changed their faces?

In fact, men don't want her, it does make her feel a little sad, but not too much, she is no longer that ignorant and innocent girl who is used to single life, all these years she gritted her teeth and suffered, shed sweat , making her a completely different person.

In order to live, she abandoned women's love of beauty and regarded herself as a man who could support the family, so that the family could survive, and what she paid was her appearance, she was much older than her peers.

She had fantasized that a man would come back one day to help her work, but there was no news of the man. Over the years, there were news from the men who escaped because of arresting young men, dead, alive, and officials.

Only her husband has not had any news. Tangmei Lin has long been used to being single. Her hard work has left her with little time to think about men. Every time she goes to bed, she falls asleep immediately. She is really too tired.

This is also an important reason why she was very annoyed after she knew the truth of the matter. Why should she treat her like this?What did she do?Why did her in-laws treat her like this?
She is a woman who has to support her parents-in-law and children. From spring to winter, she doesn't have much time to rest. It's really hard work. As a result, the husband who is alive has never looked for it, and even married another wife. It's really true is too much.

"Let's go back and find someone to discuss what to do. Some things still require a man to come forward." Ling Xiao said, she is now a visitor from outside, and she has made up her mind, so she doesn't come forward very much. The Lin family must come forward anyway. I believe the Lin family is also the same. Think so.

"Okay, but I don't know if the Liu family will come after them?" Tangmei Lin said, her body trembled, because she thought that she was locked up not long ago, and she never thought that one day she would be locked up in the Liu family. in the ancestral hall.

"You plan to divorce the man completely, so why are you afraid of your in-laws? Anyway, this land belongs to the Lin family, so you don't have to be afraid of those in-laws," the original owner said, "We're not afraid even if we come, there are some things that need to be resolved. "

A group of people returned to the original owner's house. Lin's father and Lin's mother watched their daughter come back with others curiously. The original owner gave a general introduction of what happened to Lin's cousin, which made Lin's father very annoyed. What's the matter?

At this time, the people who were looking for Tangmei Lin also arrived. After some quarrels, the Lin clan finally figured out what was going on. They all turned to Father Lin, hoping that the people in the city would give them some advice.

Father Lin's face turned livid when he knew the truth. Although cousin Lin is not his daughter, she is also a girl of the Lin family, but she was bullied and closed the ancestral hall?What did the niece do wrong?
The people who were looking for saw Papa Lin, and didn't dare to say anything for a while. Although some members of the Liu family became officials, they didn't come back, and Papa Lin came from the city, so he was not the same as them. There is a bit of awe of the city people.

"What else are you looking for? Looking for my niece? Don't you want my niece to divorce? Divorce! Of course you have to leave, which means that the Lin family will have nothing to do with you in the future. What are you looking for? Don't come to our Lin family village in the future. Get out." Papa Lin said angrily.

The Lin family drove them out of the village, and found Dad Lin later, wanting to ask what was going on, and only then did they know what was going on. When family members seek trouble, they must know that the people do not fight with officials, so they are naturally a little afraid.

The original owner explained his thoughts clearly to Dad Lin. After thinking about it for a while, Dad Lin agreed with the original owner's idea, and finally took someone to find Lin's ex-husband. live with their children.

Afterwards, the old couple of the Liu family went to Linjia Village to cry bitterly and wanted to take the two children away, because they believed that the children should be raised by the man, and the woman was not eligible for custody. Impossible to kill them?

Seeing this scene, Ling Xiao wanted to scold someone, what's going on?So he asked Tangmei Lin's ex-husband to take his parents away to support him, but the old couple would rather die than leave.

The thought of the old couple pestering the three of Lin Tangmei like brown sugar in the future made Ling Xiao feel very annoyed, and finally decided to let Lin Tangmei and the two children live in the city where Lin's father and Lin's mother lived, and directly avoid the old couple. Noisy.

The original owner, brother and sister, both went to work in other places. Lin's father and Lin's mother had no children around, so it happened to let Lin Tangmei take care of one or two, which could kill two birds with one stone. The Lin family's parents agreed to the plan. It's too late to know anything.

Ling Xiao waited for the final news. You must know that it took a lot of time to deal with related matters. After the final handover, Ling Xiao felt that she was light. She planned to leave. The new journey had already started, but she stayed for a while , Fortunately, a problem has been solved, and it is not considered fruitless, and even a hidden danger has been solved, but the delay is a bit long, so you have to leave quickly.

All the puppets were put away, and only the last one was left. This was because Ling Xiao knew that he could not disappear without a trace suddenly, which would cause some problems instead, and he did not leave any hidden dangers before leaving.

In particular, some people cannot be left behind. For example, the puppet identity Ling Xiao is using now used to be real, but the girl died in the darkness before dawn, and her last thought was to return the fallen leaves to their roots, so Ling Xiao used them.

If you want to go, you have to go very thoroughly and cleanly.Can not leave hidden dangers to the original owner, so as to prevent it from being used by some people with intentions to cause some things that should not be done.

After thinking about it for a while, Ling Xiao decided to simply let the puppet disappear in front of many people, and if he looked for it later, he could only find a corpse, so as to prevent any problems with the original owner to the greatest extent, and Ling Xiao began to plan.

On this day, the original owner received a stack of letters. After looking through them, he found that they were letters from some friends, and there were two letters from his family members. At first glance, they were letters from his father and elder brother.

She couldn't help being a little happy, because she hadn't contacted her relatives for a while, and she didn't know how they were doing?If you read the letter, you will know whether they are all right or not.Looking at it, the original owner cried, because she knew that her benefactor had left and would never see her again.