The road from Africa to Europe

Chapter 132 Stay-at-home Mom

Xi Yan sighed, "It's really hard to be a doctor, and there are many exams."

When I was studying, it was the major with the most class hours, and there was a long internship period after graduation.

She has been watching as a bystander, and she is a little glad that she did not study medicine at the beginning.

When she first chose a major, she was afraid of taking anatomy class, so she directly chose the subject of law.

Even if urged by her mother's family, she still doesn't learn, and she is afraid of the general teacher.

Fortunately, she didn't study. As a roommate, she knew very well what a great scholar the roommate was, and it still took so much time.

In addition, as early as during his studies, Ling Xiao began to enter the clinic with his tutor, and came into contact with various patients, and there were no winter and summer vacations.

Ling Xiao has no complaints about this, she has seen it with her own eyes.Doctors who are resting at home will be summoned to rescue patients by a phone call whenever something happens.

This is something that every medical worker may encounter, and they must persevere through gritting their teeth. After the three of Xiyan and the others knew about it, they really respected people in the profession of doctors from the bottom of their hearts.

Those who can persevere in studying medicine, persevere through trials and tests, and finally become doctors are some truly brave people.

"It's a bit difficult. While mastering the original knowledge, you need to learn new knowledge at any time." Ling Xiao nodded, she did not deny that studying medicine is really difficult.

"Even after Xiao Xiao becomes a doctor, he still has to take the exam every two years, otherwise his license to practice will be revoked, tsk tsk tsk." Qian Rui said.

Ling Xiao shook his head and said, "Now you have to work hard in that line of work. Even a teacher has to pass the test again and again?"

"You have to work hard and recharge your batteries while you're alive, just like you and me." Qian Rui agreed after hearing this.

This is true. Nowadays, many industries are constantly learning new knowledge, and they also need professional qualification certificates.

Doctors are not the only professions that require certificates, many professions require corresponding qualifications.

Xiyan and Qian Rui have gone through repeated assessments, and they have a deep understanding of this.

For example, when Xiyan joined the ranks of civil servants, she passed the exams again and again.

He even took part in the judicial examination.

But it is undeniable.

It's more professional after doing this.

Now you can see some results.

For example, someone with a very strong local accent.

It is impossible to become a teacher at all, because Mandarin is not good enough.

They have nothing against dialects, but they must speak Mandarin if they want to be teachers.

You must know that the accent in certain places is highly contagious, and if you are not careful, you will follow the teacher astray.

There are also dialects in some places that others can't understand at all. You must know that there are too many dialects in Kyushu.

Especially the teachers in the university, they come from all corners of the country. Imagine that the teachers don't speak Mandarin, but dialects.

EMMMMMM!There will be communication barriers, and the northern language families still have something in common, and the southern language family and the northern language family are too different.

For example, if the word "washing hair" in Mandarin is spoken in Shanghai dialect, it will be very strange to outsiders, because it is not called washing hair, but beating the head. head.

Therefore, as a teacher, you must pass the Mandarin test. This is to enable the students to study hard. Otherwise, the teachers on the stage will use various dialects to give lectures, and it will take a lot of time for the students to understand. A lot of time.

After everyone has learned the dialect by themselves and can understand the teacher's words, the courses taught can only be self-study, but some courses need to be explained by the teacher.

This requires those who are engaged in the teaching profession to use a relatively standard Mandarin, not only to speak dialects in class, but also to pass Mandarin.

It is not very eye-catching to meet the standard of Mandarin, but it is for the sake of students, and it also makes teachers more professional in their work and can better educate students.

This requirement better promotes the popularization of Mandarin across the country, and also allows people in various places to have more communication possibilities.

The same doctor's qualification certificate is also to test the level of medical practitioners, which leads to a lot of exams for students.

All four of them passed the foreign language qualification examination, and Ling Xiao had more, passing at least a few foreign languages.

"After graduation, we have fewer chances to take exams, and the qualification certificates that should be exams are also obtained." Qian Rui said.

Many people feel liberated after graduation, but there are still many people who will continue to research, including Ling Xiao.

Qian Rui looked at Ling Xiao. Anyway, those who want to make progress still have to keep learning.

Zhang Shanshan said: "Xiao Xiao still has to take the exam, it's really hard work."

"Xiao Xiao, then I wish you to pass the exam as soon as possible." Xi Yan said.

"Yes! Xiao Xiao, you need to become a regular soon."

"Okay, I will try my best to do well." Ling Xiao said.

Zhang Shanshan looked at them with envious eyes.

She didn't want to go to work, but had other plans of her own.

She had planned it when she was in college, and she is still very determined.

But it is undeniable that at this moment, she is still a little envious of her three roommates.

Because in reality, the three of them are considered big women, and they want to compete in the workplace.

She said quietly: "The three of you all have goals, but I am the one who has no ambition."

When I was talking, I was a little afraid that my friends would look down on her, because after she graduated, she planned to get pregnant after returning home.

Fundamentally speaking, she never thought of becoming a strong woman in the workplace. Speaking of which, she is the most unpromising one in the dormitory.

Although wanting a baby has always been her biggest wish, but seeing that her roommates have their own career plans, she feels a little incompetent, is she too salty?

Don't you go your own way?But she really hopes to watch the baby grow up slowly, she has that ability and that opportunity.She prefers to be a good mother and accompany her children to grow up.

After hearing this, Ling Xiao shook her head gently. It is very difficult to be a good mother. I believe Zhang Shanshan will work hard. She looked at her brightly. Among the four girls in the dormitory, she looked the least like a good wife and mother. Instead, she wants to be a good wife and mother.

Xiyan said: "This is your choice. It has neither broken the law nor harmed others. Why not? It is not easy to be a good mother."

"Shanshan, haven't you been devoting yourself to being a good mother these days? You've worked hard." Qian Rui also said.

Hearing what they said, Zhang Shanshan was very grateful for her roommate's opinion, and she looked at Ling Xiao, who was the only one who didn't speak out about this matter.

She asked: "Xiao Xiao, do you think my studies are useless? If you want to be a full-time mother, you don't need to study for a doctorate."

"Why in vain? Didn't you study hard all the time in college?" Ling Xiao said with some surprise.

"The books you have read may be gradually forgotten, but you will remember what is useful to you."

This is really Ling Xiao's idea. Learning is for oneself, and learning is not a loss.

Zhang Shanshan nodded after listening, with a happy smile on the corner of her mouth.

Ling Xiao noticed that she seemed to have some doubts about this aspect.

He continued to ask: "Isn't this what I gained after going to school?"

"Aren't you learning for yourself?"

"A full-time mother can't go to school?"

These words made Zhang Shanshan's eyes light up.

She was really thrilled to get the support and approval she needed from this statement.

Zhang Shanshan's eyes lit up when she heard this, and her roommates had never ridiculed her thoughts.

Even after knowing her ideal now, the three of them are all slightly surprised.

But as a relatively enlightened person, I will not criticize at will.

Zhang Shanshan's choice is reasonable and legal.

Not long ago her thoughts were heard.

Post it online.

It was criticized by many people.

Said she was a waste of national educational resources.

After letting Zhang Shanshan know about it occasionally, there was a lump in her heart.

It feels like taking up other people's learning opportunities and not cherishing resources.

The more she didn't want to care about this kind of thinking, the more uncomfortable she felt.

In fact, many people on the Internet can't wait to get her flesh out.

It made her a little troubled, but also a little scared.

Someone was already pointing at her nose and scolding her.

Said she was a moth.

Let Zhang Shanshan accept incompetence.

She didn't want to say it at first.

I'm afraid my roommates think the same way.

It's just that the atmosphere today is very delicate, which made her troubled by speaking out.

"Tang Linfeng must be very happy that you continue to study, right?" Ling Xiao said.

Ling Xiao's continuous question made the big stone in Zhang Shanshan's heart be removed at once.

She nodded with a smile and said repeatedly: "Thank you for letting me know that I am not doing something stupid."

She has always known that among the roommates in the dormitory, she is the slowest one, and the other roommates are all sharper than her.

However, Xiao Xiao has always been quiet. What she didn't expect today was that she would talk so much. She found out that this roommate had been silent before, but he knew it very well.

Naturally, Ling Xiao could see that, lightly touched Zhang Shanshan's wine glass with the wine glass in his hand, and took a sip of the sweet fruit juice.

"Shanshan, you have to remember one thing, don't try to please everyone when you live in this world."

"No matter how well you do, some people will look down on what you have done."

"Just do your own thing." After finishing speaking, Ling Xiao nodded.

Xi Yan and the two also looked at Zhang Shanshan and nodded.

It is impossible to be liked by the whole people.

It is gold, and some people say that copper stinks.

They are going to work hard.

But I will never look down on full-time mothers.

Because they gave everything for their children and family.

Hearing Zhang Shanshan's story, she felt a little funny.

They also did not think that Zhang Shanshan who received higher education was a waste of educational resources.

Zhang Shanshan was admitted by herself, and she also paid full tuition and other expenses.

In addition, as roommates, they feel that their roommate will not become a person who only cares about the family.

Zhang Shanshan's efforts are obvious to all, and Zhang Shanshan has learned a lot about the theory of becoming a good mother.

Even when encountering various problems in life, she will think from the perspective of her mother, which is a novel experience for them.

If you want to be a good mother, you don't just have to do it in theory. There are thousands of differences in practice, and many times you have to figure it out a little bit.

As for those of them who are not yet married, they can get the first-hand and most authentic materials from Zhang Shanshan so that they will not make detours in the future.

So in their view, Zhang Shanshan is a pioneer, and everything she encountered in raising children is the best reminder for them.

At this moment, they hope that Zhang Shanshan will write a special book on parenting. She has the strength to write and the spirit to study the situation.

She also has the financial resources and energy to do it, because she has much more time than professional women, which is a good plan.

If it was replaced by the other three female compatriots, I am afraid that they will not be able to spare time to grow up with the baby.

They are well aware that they cannot do this. As professional women, they have to work and have children.

It is absolutely impossible to observe carefully the child's every move like Zhang Shanshan, she is patient.

And the three of Xiyan thought that they might not be that patient with the child.

You must know that many parents are like fire-breathing dragons when they supervise their children's studies.

After a tiring day, they are really impatient.

But had to deal with a bear child.

Having kids is tiring, don't.

It was then discovered that this was not possible.

Unless it is said at the beginning that you don't want children.

And they also know: there are gains and losses.

Life is impossible to be perfect.

The reason why roommate Zhang Shanshan has the confidence to be a full-time mother.

It was because her bamboo horse was a good husband, and also because her natal family gave her confidence.

Of course, changing to someone else is just a feeling, and there is no idea of ​​changing with Zhang Shanshan at all.

Because they imagined that they would stay at home 24 hours a day, and they would not be able to sit still.

The reason they didn't object to Zhang Shanshan's choice was because they knew that was the way she wanted to go.

But it doesn't prevent them from wanting to work hard outside and see more things.

Also want to prove that women are not inferior to men in many ways.

Even better performance in some places.

But no matter if you want to continue to spread your wings and fly high.

Still ready to be a good mom.

All are good choices.

This is the right given to women by society.

Give them the ability to choose their own way of life

This belongs to the progress of civilization, giving women the opportunity to choose.

They are fortunate to be born in such an era, so they naturally hope to be friendly.

The three looked at each other and said in unison: "Shanshan, be a good mother."

Even Qian Rui said eagerly, "We are waiting for your notes."

"Be sure to record in detail what your child has experienced, so that we can make inquiries later."

After talking with her roommate, she has a new idea. Is it a crime to want to be a full-time mother?

Both her mother's family and her in-law's family are willing to support her approach, and they are not afraid.

She is happy to be a good mother herself, what does anyone else care about?

Some people just like to dictate other people's affairs.

Really disgusting people.

Go and wait.

After thinking clearly, she smiled.

"Xiao Xiao, you are really right."

"Dongdong likes me to keep learning." Having said that, she blushed.

"He also told me: My major can be studied at home and I can work hard."

Zhang Shanshan told her roommate that when she was in school, she and Dongdong discussed the future and family development.

For the development of Dongdong's career, the couple had to use contraceptive measures in the early stage of marriage, and they did not plan to have children early.

Because Dongdong wanted to work hard when he was young, and lay the foundation after he worked hard.

Wait for Dongdong's career to enter a certain period of stability before having children.

It was not too late then.

Of course when you have kids.

Zhang Shanshan can't be too old.

Because it is not good for mother and child.

For this reason, the two of them specially consulted.

In this way, after the child is born, Dongdong will have the opportunity to accompany their mother and child (daughter).

As children grow up, they will have the care of both parents.

To know both husband and wife, whether it is the father or the mother.

They are all providers of security for children.

After hearing Zhang Shanshan's plan.

Xi Yan and Ling Xiao wanted to laugh a little.

Qian Rui was a little surprised that such a good husband

It feels like Zhang Shanshan must have saved the entire galaxy in her previous life.

To have such a good partner, but really a happy couple.

After Zhang Shanshan knew what the bamboo horse was thinking, she wanted to enrich her life more.

She chose the path of going straight to a Ph.D., so that she could acquire more knowledge.

After entering the university, she found that she made the right choice and learned more knowledge.

I also met a very good roommate and found a friend who I may have for life.

When she entered school, she thought that she might not be able to persevere.

But after getting in touch with a few roommates for a long time, I dare not not work hard.

She didn't want to be the one who was dragging her feet in the bedroom.

Even if she doesn't care about the degree.

After hearing this, Qian Rui and the others felt a little sour.

The roommate and boyfriend are throwing dog food again, or showing off unconsciously.

(End of this chapter)