The road from Africa to Europe

Chapter 388 What to do?
You must know that the heroine—the wife of the cheating man stays at home every day, that is, she is responsible for doing housework, shopping, staying away from the former workplace, and chatting with girlfriends and friends at most. Busy with her son, she quietly transformed into a real housewife.

Even if the hostess has a lot of money and wealth from her husband, the hostess is also the kind of person who pays more attention to dressing up and will not treat herself badly. She buys luxury goods from time to time, such as clothes and cosmetics. Much brighter than the original owner, she looks like a very beautiful woman.

But in the eyes of the cheating man: his wife is terrible, because she has not worked for many years and has been completely out of touch with the social environment. He doesn't know anything about hot topics when talking to her, and he feels too tasteless when talking to her.

This was discovered after having a female colleague. He became more willing to talk to the woman who had a common language. In his eyes, a female colleague is good in everything. Going to his heart, saying everything has something to say, and it always makes him feel her caring.

Following him, he found that every time he encountered a problem at work, he would get the most suitable help from his female colleagues, and soon found that he and his female colleagues were like perfect swords in the workplace.Invincible everywhere.

Although the female colleague is a divorced woman, the more I get to know her, the more I feel a pity. Why did such a good woman get divorced?Was her ex-husband blind?Being with her gave him new sensations and made his blood boil.The passage of time makes him more and more inseparable from her, for him she is the best confidant,
As for the wife?The image of that once intelligent and beautiful woman has changed drastically. In the lifeless tomb of marriage, she has become vulgar, unable to keep up with his footsteps.The passage of time made her lose her former charm, and compared with her confidante, all the topics she talked about gradually became dull.

When he was with her, he only talked about children, children, and some clothes, shoes and hats, which he was not interested in at all, but his wife had no other topics besides these. In his opinion, his wife directly became a yellow-faced woman.Ow!It will also cost money, you must know that these will cost a lot of money.

When he saw that his wife was not pleasing to the eye, he completely forgot that this road was the one he had drawn for his wife. It was he who said that the child was still young and needed someone to sacrifice his career to take care of the child. The child has always needed the help of the elders along the way. Accompanying, then being accompanied by a mother will definitely make the child live well.

The wife heard that it made sense, but she was a little worried. After all, if she left like this, all the hard work and achievements she had put in for her work would be in vain. She should have some hesitation in her heart.

Because she found that the time span after returning to the family was a bit too long, she might fall behind and become a housewife with no salary, three insurances and one fund, and no connections. In the eyes of many people, the contribution of a housewife is not certified.

After the cheating man found out, he persuaded his wife not to worry about work. He will support his wife for the rest of his life, and he also has a share in his son. It is a great achievement for his wife to take good care of his son.

The hostess dispelled her worries and concentrated on being a housewife at home, but Bai Yueguang gradually became a grain of white rice, and the ordinary and trivial life wore away her former brilliance, and in the eyes of the cheating man, she became a gradually vulgar yellow-faced woman.

When he met a like-minded female colleague, after comparison, he felt that his wife knew nothing. The higher education he had received did not add points to housewives. In fact, people with elementary school education can also be good housewives.

After he stepped up to the top step by step, he found that his wife did not help him at all, and he had no common language. He no longer loved her, because she was no longer the woman he fell in love with.

Now that he is no longer in love, there is no need to maintain this marriage. He confessed to his wife that he had cheated mentally. He fell in love with a female colleague and asked for a divorce from his wife, because marriage is the result of the union of two lovers.If he doesn't love his wife, then don't continue this loveless marriage.

Just such a yellow-faced housewife who has been completely out of touch with work for eight or nine years, was forced to end this marriage that she gave everything for. In the eyes of her ex-husband, she is a woman with no characteristics. Those domestic nannies are no different, and naturally have no pity value.

Everything she did to save the marriage was hysterical in the eyes of the cheating man, making him even more eager to get rid of this woman.This woman married him, but he never treated her badly. Look at what she wears and uses are all his salary. Besides, she has no love and still doesn't want to divorce!Ah!She really doesn't have any female self-esteem. This ridiculous marriage must end. It's good for her son to follow him and be his father. Anyway, she doesn't have the financial strength to compete with him.

In fact, this is the most frightening point. Because there is no economic foundation, the woman will also fall into a disadvantage in fighting for the custody of the child.As a housewife, there is no channel for promotion, no salary as compensation, and no future. Naturally, after divorce, there will be no family given by the man, so the woman will directly fail.

In order to protect the interests of the children, to ensure that the children have a house to live in, clothes to wear, food to eat, and sufficient education funds when they grow up, the custody of the children will be biased towards the party with financial strength.

The hostess is a housewife and cannot get custody of the child at all.In fact, after the divorce, she didn't care about the issue of child custody at all. She had to figure out how to live. No job meant no salary. Then there were still many places to spend money, so she had to think about going to work again. workplace.

But the heroine, who has been away from society for many years, found a problem after looking for a job everywhere: she is at a disadvantage in the workplace, and basically some promising jobs will not hire her. What I can only do is to buy energy, the salary is low, and there is no future.

This had to remind her of the job she had before giving birth. If she persisted in doing it, how could she have reached the middle level?Instead of being like now, hey!Once there was a good job in front of her eyes, but she didn't cherish it. She listened to her husband and went home to take care of the children. Hey!The regret in the hostess' heart.

While regretting in her heart, the heroine also knows that as long as she still loves her child, she will leave work and go home to take care of the child, because she has no choice but to give birth to the child. If she doesn't love the child?Who will love?

Children, especially boys, are very difficult to raise. They have to go to the hospital almost once a month. One bad thing is bronchitis or pneumonia. This requires injections and medicines, which cost thousands of yuan a month. It was gradually getting better, and I didn't like being sick very much.Can she give up all her children, ignore everything, and only think about work?cannot!
This is the case of the heroine. She gave up her job for the sake of her child, gave up the channels for her to be promoted, and let herself fall behind, but the cheating man who pursued love dumped her unceremoniously. After the divorce, she began to look for work, everywhere. hit a wall.

Because it requires experience when applying for a job there, and she is not the kind of student who just graduated. It is normal to say that she has no experience. Who would use her if she is too old and has no work experience?Don't talk about her previous work experience, but know that her so-called work experience is from her early years.

Being a housewife takes too long, so this calculation is equivalent to having no work experience, that is to say, she needs work experience but no work experience, needs contacts without contacts, and is still old, so she has no advantage in finding a job.

There is no shortage of people these days. There are a lot of young people who are vying for the same job. There are not many units that are going to be older. The heroine is very panic. Everything makes her feel cruel. Girlfriends are the only ones who can barely stand up in society.

After a lot of struggle, the heroine, who was originally a consumer of luxury goods, became a salesperson selling luxury goods. This kind of identity change and gap is too big, but the heroine still persists.

Recalling this, Ling Xiao's mood became heavy. Will the heroine's experience fall on the original owner?It's really hard to say, Ling Xiao checked the original owner's memory, and found that the original owner had almost forgotten what he had learned, and returned it all to the teacher, which meant that he didn't have the ability to eat.

Based on this calculation, although the original owner is not very old and has no work experience, the only work experience is mainly fishing. After all, it is impossible for everyone to treat a pregnant woman too harshly, so work experience is equivalent to no.

Ling Xiao recalled that the original owner was too silly. According to the original owner’s memory, the original owner’s husband Zhang Xiaotian was a few years older than the original owner. Only those who have the ability will have the confidence to let the original owner resign and take care of the children.

According to the memory of the original owner, this person changed jobs later, and the salary was higher, so that the original owner did not go to work without affecting the quality of life. When Ling Xiao saw this, he had a bad premonition. There is a saying that is good: men have The money will go bad, so what will happen to the husband of the original owner?
This point makes people feel suspicious. You must know that the time they spent together as a couple is too short, and the relationship gradually has no communication. There are too many temptations that will make him sink, so what should the original owner do?
Ling Xiao still had a weird feeling after reviewing the memory of the original owner. The combination between her and her husband was not very suitable. The two people had different ideas. Because of the young age, the original owner was a little unaware after being chased by her husband. At a loss, they became a couple after everyone booed, and he took the initiative to get married later.

That man is relatively strong. Marriage and work are all his ideas. According to my memory, the original owner in the early years belonged to the kind of person who likes to study. At the beginning, he didn't intend to marry so early. After being moved by her husband's sweet words, he didn't continue to study PubMed, but work out.

The original owner doesn't like well-dressed people very much. What she loves is tidiness, and it's good to wear it properly. A piece of clothing can be worn for several years, so she basically has no impression of the brand of the clothing.Ling Xiao couldn't help thinking of the pajamas that were sold on the street, and realized that if the original owner liked to dress up, he would definitely not be able to bear it.

Of course, there is another reason why the original owner lives so simply. She belongs to that kind of ordinary family. buy a car.

The original owner's natal family still has a twin brother, and it is even more impossible to give her a lot of money. She even studied hard when she was in college, and she wanted to use the school's bonus as tuition fees. Because the family cannot subsidize a lot of money for her to go to college, the original owner has been reluctant. Likes to spend money randomly, it can be said that this person prefers to save money.

Even after Zhang Xiaotian's salary got higher and higher after marriage, the original owner didn't develop the habit of spending money like water. She always cared more about eating and drinking in her life, and didn't care much about what she wore.

But Zhang Xiaotian's idea is different from that of the original owner. The reason why he said this is that Ling Xiao found out that there was something wrong with the original owner's husband based on some clothes such as ties, shirts, and a watch he left behind. Ling Xiao went to search for some photos and found that Everything Zhang Xiaotian wears is of great value.

Of course, she is still not very sure, the reason why she has some doubts is because Ling Xiao doesn't care much about luxury goods, and she doesn't have much memory of luxury brands, so she wonders if she made a mistake?

Ling Xiao's travels through several lives did not make her develop the temperament of spending money like water. After knowing the so-called famous brands, she has no feeling for famous brand clothing after traveling through several worlds, so naturally she has no interest in researching related knowledge.

But she has met many rich people in the worlds she traveled through, and even as a bodyguard, she would know more or less about the preferences of her employers, or in order to judge the relevant situation, she would still know more or less about the so-called luxury goods.

He pays less attention to the brands of famous clothing brands that men like, but he still has a trained eye. It can be seen at a glance that the clothing that Zhang Xiaotian wears are all branded products, at least they are the kind of mass luxury goods.

Ling Xiao made a judgment. If everything Zhang Xiaotian wears is not imitation (according to Ling Xiao's intuition, it is genuine), but genuine, it means that he has a certain amount of money, but he has not yet found someone to order The point of the clothes.

Then Ling Xiao can judge that that man is really rich, much richer than ordinary people. Although he doesn't know if he can enter the wealth list, he definitely belongs to that kind of rich man.Ling Xiao searched the memory of the original owner again, and found that he did not tell the original owner what occupation he is now. Was this intentional?

Or if the original owner didn't ask, he didn't plan to say it?All of this is so confusing, but fortunately, I still know his mobile phone number.Otherwise, Ling Xiao would have thought that the original owner married a dummy, but she felt in her heart that the original owner would be at great risk after marrying someone. You must know that the gap between her and him is too great now.

If you take a closer look, you will find that the original owner is a housewife who has achieved nothing. She doesn't like to dress up, she likes to wear clothes on the floor, and she doesn't even have a vase.What was even more frightening was that she found that the knowledge she had learned had been gradually forgotten. If this situation broke out, I am afraid that few people would like the original owner.
The other party of the marriage——Zhang Xiaotian was completely different. From the memory of the original owner, his situation was completely opposite to that of the original owner. He was a person with a lot of connections, and he was very careful about his clothes.

That man not only has a high degree of education, can read, and his IQ is not low, but he is also very good after work, with a high EQ. Although the original owner does not know what kind of job he is, it can be seen that he makes a lot of money because of it.

From the clothes he wears, it can be seen that this man pays more attention to his own clothes, and even spends a lot of money on clothes. His every move has the characteristics of nouveau riche. Fortunately, the temperament of learning overwhelms the temperament of nouveau riche.

The original owner didn't have the strings to pay attention to clothing. She would rather save money than spend a lot of money on famous brand clothes, and basically only wear them for one season. It is said that if the new spring clothes of famous brands are autumn If she wears it, she will be ridiculed by those who care about it, so wouldn't she be laughed at even more if she has worn clothes for many years?
After learning about the famous brand clothing, she didn't think about becoming a celebrity at all, and she didn't want to be good at dancing. Even after Zhang Xiaotian told her to dress up, the original owner still went her own way.

Probably the original owner didn't have this tendon at all. Even though the distance between herself and her husband was increasing step by step, she didn't want to change her lifestyle. She disliked the so-called famous brands and felt that they were too extravagant.

The original owner felt something wrong with Zhang Xiaotian, but she didn't want to pursue it to the end because she had to take care of the two children. Although the twins look nice, in fact, taking care of them is too tiring, even more tiring than one child.

This is also the reason why the original owner has been neglecting her profession. If the two children are sick, they will have to give birth together. Every time she lives, she will be very tired. She takes care of the two children alone, and she has no time to care about them. specialized.

After Ling Xiao saw it, she felt tired for the original owner. No one helped her. Every time the child was sick, she had to take the two children to the hospital. Ling Xiao decided to wait and cheat, so that the children would not get sick every month, otherwise the child would be sick. After recovering from illness, the adults almost lay down.

In fact, the original owner's body is a bit weak!It looks fat and not very healthy. She was thinking about what to do after wearing it, and now she was relieved when she found the problem.

If the original owner remembered them as a loving couple, then it would definitely be troublesome.If Ling Xiao crossed over and caused a loving couple, Lao Yan, to separate, it would be tantamount to committing a crime, and she would naturally feel very uncomfortable.

But if the marriage between two people turns sour, it will naturally look different.It can be seen that the original owner is gentle, but also very stubborn. Once he makes up his mind, he will go all the way to the end.

　PS: Some personal opinions have been added to the TV series above, if you want to watch it yourself.

　　
　
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