The road from Africa to Europe

Chapter 395 On the Road
They know one thing very well: the daughter-in-law is only the daughter-in-law of the son, and the young couple is considered a family. If there is any good or bad, they can be considerate to each other. It means that the daughter-in-law is her own.

A daughter-in-law is completely different from a son. When they meet their daughter-in-law, they must never catch up with a problem and chase after it, let alone criticize and point out the daughter-in-law wantonly. This is because there is no blood relationship between the daughter-in-law and the parents-in-law. There will be knots in my heart.

For example, parents criticize their children’s actions for various reasons. Because of that criticism, both parties involved, that is, parents and sons, may quarrel over something, and both parties will feel very angry. Stubborn, one feels that the elders are just grabbing small things and chattering endlessly.

Because this time the two parties in the quarrel will even hurt their feelings because of this. If the elder has a bad temper, he will just take things and rush the children to leave, and never come again, and the other party will be too angry. He slammed the door and went out, angrily left.

Ordinarily, a quarrel of this level would extremely hurt the feelings of both parties, and both parties would be anxious about what the other party did wrong.If the parties are not related by blood, the two parties may never communicate with each other, and both parties will blacklist the other party and never see each other again.

But if it happens to people who are related by blood, especially between parents and children, even if both parties are so angry at the beginning that they don't want to see each other again, it will quickly turn over in a few days. This article did not leave too much trace on the two parties at all. After a long time, both of them will forget that they had quarreled once. This is the charm of blood relationship.

But if the daughter-in-law can't do it, she will write it down in her heart: On a certain day of a certain year, for some reason, the parents-in-law and the mother-in-law asked for trouble.

Looking for trouble, the daughter-in-law will indeed think so, and feel that she has been wronged and wants to object, but finds that her parents-in-law are also elders, and it is definitely not good if they dare to quarrel with the elders. Also, if there is a child, should the elders Help me take a look?These things will make the daughter-in-law a little depressed, and everything can only be written down in a small notebook.

Often when a new daughter-in-law gets married, the conflicts between the parents-in-law and daughter-in-law are not too big, and if there are, they are usually small things in life, such as whether the two parties like to eat or not, and the work and rest schedules will also be different. , they are not saints to each other, just ordinary ordinary people.

It’s just that after a long time, the so-called small conflicts will become bigger like a snowball, and may lead to big problems. It’s okay if they vent it normally, but if one party keeps holding back and just doesn’t talk about it, maybe there will be some There is a big explosion in the field, and among the people who usually endure it, most of them are daughters-in-law.

The daughter-in-law will definitely feel that the father-in-law and mother-in-law are very poor, and she is not very happy in her heart. It is uncomfortable for everyone to live together. The original owner's parents think very openly, so it is better not to live together in the first place, and it is better to live separately. Isn't there a saying that smells near you, but smells far away?

Therefore, although the original owner's parents and son's family lived in the same community, they did not live in the same house.Normally, they would help take care of their grandson after their son and daughter-in-law went to work, but they live a very nourishing life according to their own living habits.

It seems that the old couple and the daughter-in-law are not very familiar without living together. It seems that there may be problems in the future.

They didn't care. Anyway, the family has money, and if it doesn't work, they can find a nanny. As long as the son and daughter-in-law can visit often, the old couple thinks very openly, and they can live happily.

Besides, their daughter-in-law and her husband worked together in the small family, and gradually the small family got on the right track. After the third generation was born, she found that her parents-in-law were willing to help take care of the grandson. This alone moved the daughter-in-law very much.

You must know that the fashionable parents nowadays insist that they don’t care about anything for the third generation. At most, they will give some money to subsidize them. It is really worrying to hand it over to the nanny.

If you are worried about the babysitter, her family will not let her see her, so she can only take care of the child at home without going to work. The daughter-in-law is a little scared in her heart. Fortunately, the parents-in-law did not say that they will not take care of the third generation and are willing to kiss each other. Why doesn't my grandson make my daughter-in-law happy?She decided in her heart that when her in-laws are old, she must repay her in-laws well.

So at the beginning of the marriage, the two parties got along more politely, so they didn't place too much hope, and any small frictions passed quickly.After having a grandson, the relationship between the two parties has improved a lot, and the daughter-in-law is still more willing to give in.

In addition to improving the relationship between the two parties, there are also some advantages. For example, if the daughter comes back now, if the old couple has no house, they will live with the son. I am afraid that there will be no guest room, and the daughter will be unhappy if the daughter lives for a long time. Now The separation is naturally for the daughter to stay for a few days as long as she wants.

It just so happened that this period of time was relatively free. Both the husband and wife had reached the age of retirement. They didn't help much when their daughter gave birth before, which made both of them feel a thorn in their hearts, feeling that they were not doing well.

Later, when buying a house, my daughter specially provided a sum of money to be able to buy two houses. Later, after the house price rose, they felt that it was too suitable. They were still very grateful to their daughter for her help. Without her help, they would only have one house at most. , I feel more sorry for my daughter.

Afterwards, their daughter never came back to see them. They felt very disappointed in their hearts, but because they didn't take care of their daughter's confinement problem at the beginning, and didn't think about raising children for her daughter, they felt guilty and would not complain about her daughter.

This time when I heard that my daughter was bringing the child, the two of them were overjoyed. They were preparing to eat and tidy up the special room. They just waited for their daughter to come and stay for a few more days. The two of them were like fighting chickens I was as excited as my blood, and I didn't know what the pair of dragon and phoenix twins looked like, and the couple were thinking about it in their hearts.

As for how many years younger their grandson is than the twins, it just so happens that the daughter-in-law's natal family came here to see their grandson, and they live in the son's house, so the younger grandson will not come over during this period.

The old couple who were still concerned about their grandson wanted to see their grandson more after they found out, but they couldn't keep their grandson from being with their grandparents. Now the daughter and the children are very welcome, and the two of them can't see the grandson at a glance. Dejected, he prepared things happily, and everyone around knew that their daughter was coming.

But what they didn't expect was that the package that arrived before the daughter's family was a package specially delivered to the door by a courier company that had just been established not long ago, which surprised the old couple, I'll go!A lot of things were delivered by express delivery, which gave them the feeling that their daughter was spending too much money.The person hasn't arrived yet, and the things have arrived. Is it necessary to spend a special courier?
But soon after receiving a call from their daughter, the two old people said: "Qing Huan! Don't spend too much money. You must know that you can't get back the money after spending it. This person must learn to save money, otherwise if one day If you don’t have money, you’ll be in trouble.”

The corners of Ling Xiao's mouth twitched after hearing this, because she finally understood where the original owner's frugal temperament came from. She only saved money after listening to her parents, and she didn't live like a rich man's wife.

"Look at you, come and come! Why did you send your luggage here first? You child, pay attention, you are not working now, and you have been counting on your son-in-law for money. It's not a problem." Speaking of this, the original owner's mother was a little depressed, Because she was afraid that her son-in-law would change his mind.

According to her experience, if a man stays away from home for a long time, the possibility of cheating is very high. She has been thinking about this matter in her heart, but she can't tell her daughter, because the son-in-law goes to work in other places to earn money.

Saying it made her daughter feel uncomfortable, not to mention that the old lady felt uncomfortable, and later she didn't mention it because she couldn't see her. She planned to find a chance to have a good talk with her daughter after her daughter arrived.

But when the original owner's father touched his wife, he signaled not to talk about it, and it would not be too late to talk about it when his daughter came over. Fortunately, Ling Xiao had already explained on the phone at this time, and the old couple knew that if they didn't send it by express delivery, the daughter would not be able to bring the two together. children and a pile of luggage on the road.

The old couple heard it right, they both forgot one thing, there are two children, and the daughter is only one, if she brings luggage, she really can't bring it, money is important, but the children are more important.

The two of them also knew that there were still children abducted and trafficked, so they asked their daughter to pay attention and take care of the children. They also made an appointment with their daughter to pick up the children at the train station.

Ling Xiao put down the phone and breathed a sigh of relief. This is the elder who went to see the original owner, so he still needs to pay attention, hey!She is used to a life without the guidance of her elders, so she should pay attention and take a look at her whole body in the mirror.

In fact, the main reason why the original owner became mediocre was that she was too nerdy, failed in body management, became chubby, and was very frugal in her clothes. She belonged to people who like to wear street clothes.

Ling Xiao started exercising after he came here, and he didn't plan to wear any famous brands in his clothes after he lost weight successfully. She didn't plan to wear any famous brands after she knew about the real famous brands.

Because she doesn't have the strength, she can't afford clothes that are worthless after wearing once, and even if she can afford them, she doesn't need them. She doesn't plan to attend any rich people's gatherings, and she plans to focus her energy on studying.

Of course, she didn't want the street stalls, and the famous brands didn't work either, so she went to buy some clothes that looked good in quality and style.

In addition, she decided on the most important outfit, and directly asked someone to order the clothes. Anyway, someone made them well. After these cleanings, the body glowed with brilliance, which was the demeanor that her body should have.

Fortunately, the original owner took good care of his children, and the clothes he wore were generally very good. Although they were not top brands of children's clothing, they were still good brands.This is the item that the original owner spent the most on.

It's just that when the family is together, the plainly dressed original owner looks a bit like a nanny. No one thinks that they are a mother-child relationship. Now that Ling Xiao has lost weight and puts on decent clothes, it can be seen that they belong to the family. mother-child relationship.

In this way, Ling Xiao only carried a backpack, and took the two children into the car with both hands free. After getting in the car, she was more vigilant along the way. You must know that problems are most likely to occur on the road. Now that the children are still young, if something happens to the child, Don't you regret it?

She is alone, and cannot entrust the children to outsiders, and takes two children with her wherever she goes.Fortunately, I brought a puppet in the dark, a doll that looks very inconspicuous, this is the trump card, if there are traffickers, they will definitely let them come and go.

People along the way just greeted each other, and they didn’t plan to talk deeply. They are all travelers, they have been coming and going, met by chance, and will be separated soon, so they may not be able to see each other again. The reason why everyone in the car didn't know each other very well.

Since there is no chance to see each other again, don't say much, unless it is the kind of person who is naturally willing to make friends, and they are usually nodding friends. Ling Xiao is very satisfied with this, because it is very good, and she must pay attention to bringing two children alone.

Baby and Beibei were full of energy at the beginning, but then they felt that it was meaningless. Fortunately, Ling Xiao led a radio and let the two of them listen to the radio. They also went to the bathroom together, and did not put a child on the seat to prevent problems. .

After arriving at the station, Ling Xiao got off the bus with the two children, and saw two people waiting on the platform from a distance. The two of them searched the surroundings carefully, for fear of missing them. A child walked over quickly, "Mom and Dad!"

The original owner's surname is Yao, Yao's father and Yao's mother belong to the kind of people who have always been responsible.

As a result, two good-looking parents actually gave birth to a very beautiful daughter. On the contrary, the twin brother looks a little miserable. Not so good, her academic performance is average, worse than her own parents.

This kind of strong contrast made the two brothers and sisters disagree with each other when they were young, and later they even looked down on each other. Although they never quarreled again when they grew up, they definitely had no common language, let alone any connection.

Ling Xiao didn't know what to say after he knew about it. In fact, it's hard to say who is right and who is wrong in this situation. For example, it is understandable that the original owner's brother is in a bad mood. No one would want to be the loser in the control group. Makes people feel uncomfortable.

Of course, the original owner was not wrong. Could it be that he gave way to his brother because he was good-looking and smart?cannot!In this world, people who are beautiful and smart are much smarter. She is not afraid of a big man who cares about a piece of wool. She is not used to her brother.

And this time when Ling Xiao came, he didn't inform the original owner's brother, and waited until we met to talk about it. I hope that the man in his teenage years would think about it when he grows up.

Besides, Yao's father and Yao's mother were a little surprised when they saw their daughter. You must know that they had been to her daughter's place before and found that their daughter had changed a lot. She looked like a housewife.

At the beginning when the daughter gave birth, the husband and wife hadn’t retired yet, so they didn’t go to help their daughter confinement. After retiring, they went to see their daughter and found that she had become a housewife. The two of them felt that it was not very good. I want to say something to my daughter.

They unanimously feel that if the daughter has been taking care of the children at home, isn't she out of touch with society?This is not going to work, but soon I found that I have no position to talk about my daughter. They did not help her daughter with the child, and even the confinement child was looking for a confinement wife.

But at that time, there was no way. They were approaching the age of retirement, and at that time, many places were laying off employees. If there was a bad one, there would be no pension, and they could only feel sorry for their daughters. So what right did they have to blame their daughters?

Even if they come to see their daughter, they can't help more, because they will return to their home soon. You must know that the daughter-in-law is pregnant, and the young couple needs their help to take care of the child. Since this is the case, they naturally cannot help With her daughter and children, how does she go to work?
After confirming the reality, the Yao family swallowed the worries in their hearts and didn't say anything to their daughter, because they had no face to say it, and no one would help take care of the child if they did. They don't have the face to let their daughter leave the child behind to go to work.

Later, the two of them asked their daughter, seeing that the son-in-law gave them a lot of money, so they didn't say anything more, after all, the child should be taken care of by the mother.For the sake of the child, let the daughter bear it!
As the time passed, they knew that their daughter was still at home raising their children, and they thought: If they wait for their granddaughter to go to elementary school, then let their daughter find a job, it is impossible to stay at home every day!Taking other people's money, even her own husband's, is not enough. She should have the ability to make money.

But they also knew how their daughter's future would depend on her own thoughts. This time, they were really happy to hear that their grandson and granddaughter were here, so they couldn't believe their eyes when they first saw Ling Xiao.

When they went to see their daughter before, they found that her daughter had become fatter and aged a lot all of a sudden, so they couldn't believe that this was their own daughter, but they didn't say anything because of the hard work of raising the child by herself.

(End of this chapter)