The road from Africa to Europe

Chapter 830 The world is unpredictable
Why do you say that?Because if a man dies early or plans to divorce, at least half of the property of the couple after marriage belongs to the wife, and the law will protect the legitimate interests of the woman.

Neither the man himself nor his parents or children can deprive the woman of the property division she deserves during the continuation of the marriage, which is the compensation women can get in case of divorce.

And being a lover is indeed not very illegal (the kind of extramarital affairs is not included), but the lover is not entitled to divide the property earned by the cheater during the cohabitation, and can only count on the cheater to donate (but the other party who engages in extramarital affairs has the right to recover ). (1)

Once the man doesn't like the lover, he can find a way to get the woman away. Anyway, his heart will harden after he doesn't like her. It's not too difficult to get rid of his lover. There are methods and means.

Speaking of it, it is not bad to be a lover if you can escape unscathed, why do you say that?That's because a certain woman once became the lover of a very powerful man, thinking that she would have a good life in the future.

However, the world is unpredictable. After being a lover for several years, not only did she not get any benefits in the end, but she also ended up with a heavy debt because she was the legal person of several companies. From this, it can be seen that being a lover is not without risky.

Of course, there are relatively few people who are at risk of debt like that unlucky guy. After all, there are really too few men who are so unscrupulous in finding a lover, and ordinary men don't have that ability.

Although there is no risk of debt, there are still other risks. It is better if the man does not have a wife. If he has a wife, there is a risk of being kicked out by his lover's wife and being regarded as a bad woman who destroys the family. .

If the man is not married, it is not completely risk-free. When two people live together, the man suddenly wants to get married, and often directly finds another woman to marry, and gives up the lover who has lived together for many years.

If someone finds it strange, after all, although the two lovers have not been married for so many years, they have always been together in love. Compared with ordinary couples, it is only a formality. Why did the man change when he turned around?

The question is: After living together for many years, the two have become too familiar with each other and have no passion for love. Therefore, when the man meets his lover who inspires his love again, he is very happy. In order to show respect for the woman, he proposes marriage immediately, and then gets married.

This is a real event: There was a man and a woman who lived together for several years. They were a handsome man and a beautiful woman. No matter how they looked at them, they were a pair of lovers made in heaven. But the man met true love after a trip abroad. Immediately got married and married a petite wife. The original old lover didn't care about him.

And the abandoned woman never thought before the incident happened that her lover would move on when she went out for a trip, and she would get married right away.

Before the man went abroad, the two were very affectionate, but in a blink of an eye, the husband became someone else's husband. This shock was like a bolt from the blue to her.

And her ex-lover never thought that she would fall to that point. After she found out, it was too late. Her man had already changed his mind, and there was nothing he could do to bring it back.

Because the other party was already married, her old lover became a third party instead. She was the first to arrive, but because she didn't have the protection of a wife, she became useless.

She was pregnant at that time, and thought it was a surprise for the lover, the two finally had the crystallization of love, and in a blink of an eye she found that she was abandoned, and after being hit, she had a miscarriage.

From the above example, it can be seen that as cohabiting lovers, even though the relationship between the two of them has the reality of being a wife during the cohabitation period, they have never been named as wives.

At some point, it is a disadvantage to not have a real status. Once a man wants to move on, he doesn't need to give the woman an explanation. As a result, the abandoned woman has no buffer time at all.

If the woman above did not live together but got married at the beginning, then the man would definitely not be able to get married so quickly. After all, there are not many countries that support bigamy, and most of them are monogamous.

If the man who has moved on to another love wants to get married again, he must first divorce before he can pursue his new love again, so he must give his wife an explanation.

If you make such a comparison, you will find that the disadvantaged party in the lover suffers a lot. For example, if you do not have the status of a wife, you will not get any compensation at all when the relationship ends, because the law does not support it.

Some people may say that this is completely a matter between two people, if they get along, they will get together, if they don't get along, they will separate.

But Ling Xiao thinks it would be silly to do this. Even if a woman chooses to live together, she will often give a certain amount of her true feelings (except for those who are purely for money), and she will be dismissed immediately after any benefits are not obtained. , is it too cheap?
Does this make a man feel good about a woman?No, in fact, some men will not think that those infatuated women who think that having love can have everything are very precious.

If the woman feels that she has lived together for many years and is unwilling to break up, there will be no good end. She is afraid that she will be labeled as a money worshiper, so there are many risks in being a lover.

This point is indeed not as good as the status of a wife. If the man wants to have a second life after getting married, he can only go to divorce. As a wife, he has the right to delay and use this as an excuse to deal with it when he has time.

Even if the husband finds a new lover and enters the house and wants to abandon his wife, the wife has every position to accuse the other party, and even get compensation for her husband's cheating.

From this point of view, if the husband cheats in the marriage, the wife will get the support of other people's public opinion, and the possibility of being sympathized as a lover is too small. compensation.

Some people think that thinking about property is very philistine, but Ling Xiao doesn't think it's a normal division of property!You must know that there is a good saying: Money is not everything, but without money, absolutely nothing, why not take the property you deserve?

Of course, Ling Xiao doesn't have the idea of ​​forcing other women to enter the marriage hall. After all, marriage has different views for different people. Some people get family members for a lifetime in marriage, and some people think that marriage is the grave of love.

The different opinions mean that everyone should have their own choice, as long as it is not illegal, and it is absolutely impossible to use your own ideas to force others to follow the same path.

The reason why Ling Xiao thinks so much is because he wants to discuss with the original owner. After all, the original owner may get married. As a mother who does not like her, she lacks the guidance of female elders, and she may not be able to figure out anything.

And Ling Xiao couldn't stay with the original owner for the rest of his life, and hoped that the original owner would live well, so he thought a little more.While surviving, discuss the relationship between men and women with the original owner.

We must know that in the relationship between men and women, the woman is generally at a disadvantage, especially in the relationship between men and women in various eastern countries, the man is the dominant one.

Judging from the two dramas "Madame Butterfly" and "Miss Saigon", it can be confirmed that the heroine is completely weak. Neither of the two male protagonists thought about marrying the heroine in the drama, but they just found someone to take care of themselves. By the way, NUAN bed That's all.

This is also the reason why Ling Xiao judged that the two male protagonists are not a thing. They have never considered the future of the heroine at all, or in their eyes the heroine is just a docile plaything.

The overall environment of the heroine in Madame Butterfly is better than that of Miss Saigon. For example, when Madame Butterfly followed the heroine, she did not fall into the dust, nor fell into the dust.

But whether it is Madame Butterfly or Miss Saigon, the man they both fell in love with finally flapped his wings and returned home. They just left the two girls without thinking about how the heroine should live after they left.

Mrs. Butterfly always thought that she and him were married, and stayed at home as a full-time wife according to the custom of her country, but the full-time wife had no salary and no work experience.

When the man left, he probably didn't think about how Madame Butterfly would live after he left. Without a source of money, even leaving a sum of money to Madame Butterfly would be nothing.

So how should Madame Butterfly continue to live in the future as a single woman who has recovered again?This question should also plague another heroine, Miss Saigon.

The two male protagonists walked away without a trace of guilt, and it was nothing more than an affair.Anyway, they never thought of marrying the heroine, why would they say that?Because the two male protagonists got married after returning to China, and married their real wives.

The two silly women waited and waited until they couldn't wait for the man. Instead, they found out that they were pregnant, so they both decided to give birth to a child, and the child they gave birth completely inherited the blond hair and blue eyes of the hero.

Why!When seeing this kind of plot, Ling Xiao didn't feel very good, because it made the child different from the children around him, and it is generally difficult for this kind of child to integrate into the society, which puts more pressure on mothers.

The plot of Miss Saigon in these two dramas is even more uncomfortable. At the beginning, the heroine was sold to the JI hospital by a French Vietnamese (2) to become a JI girl, and thus met the male protagonist.

This is the first meeting between a man and a woman's pig's feet, the location: a JI hospital, and the hero and heroine are a JI woman and a prostitute.puff!This way of meeting the hero and heroine is so unique that they meet in such a bad place.

After the hero and heroine got together, the heroine quickly fell in love with the male pig's feet, and completely forgot that it was the country where the hero was located that launched the war of aggression, which resulted in the destruction of many of her compatriots.

So much in love?When seeing this, Ling Xiao didn't feel any tenderness, but only felt uncomfortable, and had a kind of nauseating thought, because there were so many innocent Yue people who died behind this, and the male protagonist was one of the invaders.

Two people being together does not mean that the future will be better. That unjust war finally failed, and then the male protagonist abandoned the female protagonist under the iron fist of Saigon, and evacuated with his own people.

The heroine was rescued by her fiancé and her cousin, but she refused to listen to her cousin's words, so the two had a dispute and beat her cousin to death by mistake.

Afterwards, panicked, she found the French-Vietnamese man who had betrayed her, and asked him to take her to another country.Seeing this, Ling Xiao didn't understand what the heroine was thinking?Are you out of your mind?
Shouldn't there be an irreconcilable relationship between a normal person being trafficked and a human trafficker?She even asked the man who sold her once for help, isn't she afraid of being betrayed again?The action of the heroine is incomprehensible.

The part of the plot that once again made Ling Xiao feel even more disgusted was that the heroine, Miss Saigon, lived with the French Vietnamese. One was a JI girl and the other was a human trafficker, supporting the child born to the heroine.

A plant!Human traffickers should be cut to death. Anyway, this plot did not arouse Ling Xiao's compassion at all. After all, human traffickers continued to commit crimes while helping one of their victims to raise their children. This person is somewhat contradictory.

If it is operated according to the normal human traffickers, the heroine and her child must be sold together.Don't say anything reluctant, the hearts of people who are traffickers are black.

Back then the heroine was sold to the JI courtyard and the human traffickers didn't have any compassion, so it doesn't make sense to show kindness now.Did the trafficker fall in love with the heroine?Otherwise, the human traffickers will collapse.

In the two dramas, after a few years after the child is full, the two male protagonists take their wives to travel again to the place where they once had an affair, and they happen to meet the female protagonist who is still desperately waiting.

Only then did the heroine suddenly realize that there was no result for them to wait. They were not someone from the other party at all, but just a lover. They had no rights at all, and it was normal for the other party to get married.

The male protagonist in Miss Saigon is even more vile. When faced with the lover's request: let him take his own child back, he does not agree at all, and does not want to admit his illegitimate child at all.

Following the biggest show operation in the two dramas, the two heroines actually killed themselves, just to let the men adopt their own sons.

Seeing the final ending of these two dramas, Ling Xiao had a thought in his mind: Could this be written by a screenwriter?Although there are some differences in the middle, the beginning and end are too similar.

And after watching these two dramas, I only have one thought: I don't like it at all, and the plot is full of the feeling of sex first.In particular, the male protagonist in Miss Saigon is a small person, and the female protagonist kills people for such a person, and even defected to her own country?

Seeing this, Ling Xiao had to think deeply, I'm afraid the heroine in Miss Saigon's show has lost her mind, and this supposedly popular musical is actually such a trash hero!

The scariest thing is that the heroine in the play still treats this kind of trash man as a treasure. For his treason, she accidentally killed her own relatives. She loves so deeply.

I have to remind Ling Xiao of other people's analysis, saying that this show secretly ridicules Asian men as bad, so bad that the male lead is not wanted, and it is sincere, and it doesn't look down on men from its own country at all.

After thinking about it for a while, Ling Xiao looked back and felt that she would not like this kind of man at all. In her opinion, neither of the two male protagonists has the responsibility of a man.

Of course, maybe in the western world, this kind of behavior of the male protagonist is not very criticized. After all, a certain country in the west once set up a special title for his mistress. The rich people are not ashamed of it, but proud of it. This involves cultural differences. question.

In Ling Xiao's eyes, if the love between a man and a woman is just for fun, there is no need to play at all, at least to ensure one's physical and mental health.

Of course, she will not force others to do the same things as her own. Some things are based on personal choice, and she chooses to stay away from that kind of man. Who knows if he is sick?

In addition, even if there is a woman who insists on falling in love with that man, don't wait foolishly and let yourself go!Live well for yourself instead of expecting a man who will never come back.

The most fascinating operation is that the heroine committed suicide in the end, in order to let her children live a good life with their father, but can they really live a good life?
And gave the child to that man, can this kind of man treat the child well?To put it bluntly, men don't want to be responsible for what happened at all. This kind of man is unreliable.

The male protagonist marries another wife, and the young illegitimate child will not be taken care of by the man, there is a high probability that the male protagonist's wife will take care of it, so it is difficult to say whether the child's future is good or bad.

This is because the quality of the family is a big factor in the growth of a child, and raising a child requires not only energy but also a lot of money, the future of the child will be very difficult.

Especially the man's wife who has to work. I'm afraid the real wife will be very angry. It's a world of two people, but she has to adopt her husband's own son. What's the matter?

Waiting is to subvert your own life plan and directly add a heavy burden to you.All this was a sudden blow to the woman, and no matter what she did, it might feel bad.

If it were a more vicious woman, she would take revenge on that child if she had a chance, and even if she didn't take revenge, she would feel a little lumpy in her heart.

　PS: I haven't watched the two dramas in full, but after watching the plot, I only have one thought: a plant!
　　(1) Here, besides the man who dumped the woman, there are also men and women who dumped the other party. Of course, there is no shortage of women who dumped the man, making a lot of money and running away.Because this article is about women, the victims are mainly about women.

　　(2) Why do you think of a word inexplicably when you see this supporting role.

　　
　
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