The road from Africa to Europe

Chapter 833 Talented Scholars and Beautiful Ladies

Ling Xiao knew that if she said this idea that she must keep herself clean, someone would say that her thinking was very rigid, and that she died early in the morning, as if her thinking was very wrong.

And the phrase "dead early in the morning" is often used by netizens on the Internet to criticize those people with rigid thinking.Those who are labeled as such often give other people the first impression that they belong to that kind of stubborn feudal remnant.

It's just that Ling Xiao felt a little funny after reading this kind of comment. In her opinion, indeed, the person who liked to make a lot of words and YU died early in the morning and became a piece of history.

So many rules and regulations that imprisoned people's thinking have been abolished, and it is no longer only a small number of people who can speak out, that is to say, there are different voices, so is it wrong for her to want to express her thoughts?

And why in the eyes of some people, a clean and self-sufficient person must be old and stubborn?How is this divided?What is the standard?Moreover, is it different from so-called hegemony to put a label on someone without understanding it at all?

Ling Xiao knows that there are people who are willing to go out and wander, whether it is to travel, or to explore unfamiliar places before, or to be the king of the sea, that is the path of personal choice.

Maybe others can praise those behaviors as daring to pursue themselves and having an unrestrained heart, but it doesn't mean that you can satirize those who don't want to be profligate. This is also a personal choice, okay?

Ling Xiao appreciates those who work hard to keep themselves clean in order to prevent strange sexual BINGs and ensure their own health, and they can stick to their own ideas. What she and he did is not wrong.

What happened to cleanse yourself?What's wrong?Some people think that there is nothing wrong with preaching the so-called liberty of sex, but it is wrong for those who preach cleanliness?Funny!What's wrong with promoting your ideas?

People live not for others, but for themselves.So Ling Xiao believes that he has the right to decide how to live, and he can even express his thoughts with his family and friends. People need to exchange ideas with each other when they live, and there is nothing wrong with it.

In her opinion, one should live according to one's own ideas, instead of being told what to do all the time, and is the idea of ​​keeping oneself clean illegal?No, not only is it not illegal, it is not even beyond the ethical code.

But others have the right to call those who are willing to clean up their lives old-fashioned?No!Ling Xiao just sticks to his own ideas, but in the eyes of some people, Ling Xiao seems to have done something heinous, and he can't wait to get rid of it.

Ha ha!In the eyes of some people, any thoughts that are not the same as their own are negative teaching materials, eager to suppress and destroy them.Some people's performance makes people feel cold, how do you think they are vicious in order to exclude dissidents.

She knows what she is doing and her philosophy, and some people may not want to listen to it. This is everyone's right, and Ling Xiao does not force others to accept it.

Ling Xiao felt that they should respect each other's own ideas, that they had different ways and should not seek each other's way, and each went his own way.For those who are clamoring about old-fashioned things, since they know that each other has different ideas, they don't need to care about each other's opinions.

She just wants to be able to live a clean life. There is nothing wrong with it. She even hopes that everyone will do the same to prevent the spread of certain bad diseases to the greatest extent.

And this point has also been approved by the original owner, and I feel that in the relationship between lovers, we should prefer lack over abuse. This is because of the experience she had after peeping at Eliza.

I think Elisa was very beautiful back then, and she and her ex-boyfriend were considered a golden couple, but then she became a lot more mature in order to take care of her children.

Although the people of country A generally seem to mature early, less than 15 years old, they look exactly like an adult in appearance, but Eliza matured too early like a middle-aged woman just after she became an adult.

Later, the original owner thought that maybe Eliza was just an example, not accurate enough, so she paid special attention to the situation of her other classmates, and then discovered many things, and she seemed to have opened up a new world.

Originally, the main task of her classmates was not to study, but to do other things.Although she had known for a long time that her classmates didn't like children who studied hard and called them nerds, she didn't expect that they would have so many activities to pass the time, and everyone preferred children with super athletic ability.

And she who doesn't want to do activities at all will naturally not be liked by her classmates, EMMMMM!What is gained is what is lost, and the original owner does not regret his choice.

Then I found out that there are many lovers among her classmates, and there are many types of lovers, there are only unexpected and invisible ones, and there is also the so-called Shura Field.

For example, there is a situation where A likes B, B likes C, C likes D, and D likes A, which is simply a single arrow.

In addition, there is a situation where a woman is pursued by N men, and every male student wants to peacock to attract the attention of his sweetheart.Of course, there is also a man who is pursued by N women, which has caused many fights.

Wow!There is such a bloody drama?The original owner didn't notice this kind of thing before, because she has been a transparent person, so naturally no one shared these gossips with her, and she didn't even think about it as a straight girl of steel.

It wasn't until she found out about Elisa that she suddenly became enlightened and found a couple of lovers. Of course, when she encountered such a situation of fighting for love, she always left early.

As an outsider, she naturally wouldn't get to the bottom of who was with whom, but she found that the so-called couple had changed several times, and the so-called love came and went quickly.

There were also so-called lovers who fought very fiercely.If someone interfered, the two lovers who wanted to kill each other would unite together and accuse outsiders of meddling. This operation would make others feel cheated.

This is also the reason why the original owner doesn't sympathize with the heroine of the musical. Don't waste your feelings. If one party doesn't realize it, no matter how much outsiders help, they will only be disgusted by the party involved.

Precisely because of watching too many separations and reunions of men and women, the original owner felt that the so-called dating was a waste of time, and that he might as well study hard if he had that kind of effort.

Ling Xiao was a little surprised when he heard about it. The original owner could see it very clearly. This is why she never wanted to fall in love, right?Therefore, I can't help but rest assured that the original owner should not be deceived by rhetoric.

She doesn't want the original owner to live such a humble life like those two heroines, who can't even wait for the lover's pity and love from the heart. The original owner should have a bright future.

The original owner laughed after knowing Ling Xiao's thoughts, and she said lightly: "What is there to like about that kind of man? Is it because a man is handsome that he must like it?

Yes, people like beautiful things, but most of the time, beautiful things just look at them.Otherwise, just because I saw the beautiful scenery, I was thinking about digging the beautiful scenery in front of my window? "

At this point, she laughed, and continued: "To be honest, looking at a beautiful man is better than looking at the beautiful scenery, because a beautiful man also has a certain shelf life, and it will surprise people afterwards.

There used to be a man who was considered extremely handsome, but he gained weight after he got older, and then he was not a handsome man. A sentence was vividly reflected in him: Time is a butcher's knife. "

After knowing the original owner's thoughts, Ling Xiao couldn't help but want to laugh, and the original owner also smiled and said: "This is the pain of outsiders watching the so-called beauty's twilight?! I understand this very well.

Ahhh!I can't believe it's true, why didn't I think that a peerless handsome guy would have a belly after gaining weight, and a beard all over his face, I really couldn't bear to look directly at him.

Why!Although the flowering period of beautiful men is generally longer than that of beautiful women, except for a very few people, in the end, handsome men and beautiful men will lose their former beauty little by little due to time. "

After hearing this, Ling Xiao nodded repeatedly, and said, "Yes! That's true. The big taboo for handsome men and beautiful women is being overweight. Of course, some beauties are good even if they are plump, but being plump does not mean being overweight."

"It's not very good for normal human beings to be overweight. Not only may it make their face shape and posture worse, but even their internal organs will be affected. Atherosclerosis and fatty liver are all things to pay attention to. .”

Ling Xiao specifically told the original owner, and the reason for emphasizing it was because he knew that the original owner belonged to the kind of person who was not very willing to be active, and in this kind of situation where he would not be hungry at all, it was easy to gain weight, which was not good for his health.

The original owner felt a little shy after being pointed out her shortcomings. She pursed her lips and said that she should pay attention in the future, and then wanted to change the subject.

In fact, she vaguely remembered that her mother had watched similar dramas, and she said with some reminiscence: "I still remember my mother crying at that time, which surprised me at that time."

Ling Xiao was very interested when she heard it. She had also explored the original owner's memory before, but she didn't pay attention to some details at all, so she listened to the original owner's review with some seriousness.

"Maybe it's because I have a bad relationship with my mother. What she likes is often what I dislike. I don't like what she likes even if it's good."

When the original owner said this, he felt a little sad. Obviously, the mother-daughter relationship should be the closest, but because of the relationship between the mother and the mother, there was too much estrangement between them.

"In the past, I really didn't like that kind of plot, but after all, I didn't know much about it. Now that I finally know a relatively complete plot, I only have one thought: some plots are really too stinky.

There is only one thought for the two heroines: I really hate iron but can't make steel, girl, it's really incomprehensible to meet a scumbag and still refuse to let go.And you are not afraid of death, why don't you have the courage to live? "

EMMMMM!Ling Xiao wanted to shake his head, although there is a saying: It is better to live than to die, but they actually feel that they can solve the problem of their son following their biological father on the one hand and break their defenses on the other hand.

Maybe they didn't think about it, and they always had a dream of being happy, but after the man came, they found that their dream was completely shattered. This result made them unacceptable.

Ling Xiao thought for a while, and felt that the original owner couldn't understand the heroine's mentality. After all, she had no relevant experience, so naturally she couldn't imagine the woman's despair after her hope was shattered.

The original owner went on to say: "Even if I will get married in the future, I will not find a man who plays games in the world. What I want is a partner who can communicate with each other and share life and death, so that I won't get married because of different views. grave.

If two people find that they are not compatible with each other after they get married, and they can't go on, they will go on alone, because marriage is only a part of life, and there are other places for me to work hard after the marriage is over. "

Ling Xiao smiled slightly when she heard her words, and stretched out her thumb, because she felt that the original owner had a good idea, and it was inevitable to encounter ups and downs in life, so that she could live a better life.

The original owner was very smart before, but she was soft-tempered before, but after these years of adjustments, the original owner has matured a lot, making Ling Xiao feel her changes, which is great.

Ling Xiao didn't object to the original owner's desire to get married.Love is indeed the most important emotion in a woman's life, and it would be great if she could get a true love.

But Ling Xiao is a little worried. This is because women are more emotional. Among the two parties in the marriage, there are more women who are loyal to the marriage partner. Some women may be more open before marriage, but after marriage they really want to be a good wife .

It is hard for men to say, even if they have tried everything possible to pursue a woman, they have spent a lot of time, even devoted a lot of emotion and energy, but after waiting for the real marriage, they gradually forget the vows they made to their wives in the past .

Once a certain witty man fell in love with a good-looking lady, and in order to pursue that woman, he often wrote love letters to her. As the woman, she didn't love the witty man, so she refused the witty man's pursuit, saying that she didn't love the witty man.

As a woman, she does not want the love letter given by the other party, because this kind of behavior is not good for women, and makes outsiders mistakenly think that the woman is willing to have contact with the talented man, so she does not let the talented man write her a love letter.

But that wit didn't want to, just because he fell in love with her, and the woman's conditions were much better than his. The only thing he could show was his own talent. A love letter was his best gift, so he still wrote it to her.

In the end, the woman was a little impatient, so she went to the talented man's boss and asked him to stop his subordinates from pursuing her. She already felt extremely troubled.

But the boss had a different idea. He felt that she was a good match for the wit. As the saying goes, she is a talented woman, and the boss strongly recommended his subordinates.

In the end, she had to leave disappointed, and was very helpless in the face of the gifted man's pursuit. Even though she was not happy at all, the gifted man's pursuit was still very enthusiastic.

It has always been that the man is eager to pursue, and the woman is not happy, but after a long time in this situation, problems arise. Even her own sister thinks that her sister should try to date the talented man.

Besieged by all sides, the woman finally had to agree to the pursuit of the talented man. After a while, the two officially got married, and the talented man and the beautiful woman really became a family.

She soon had her own child, so it was impossible for her to go to work to be a professional woman, so she put her focus on the family and started her life as a good wife and mother.

It's just that one day she seemed to be struck by a bolt from the blue sky. It turned out that the wit had cheated on her during the continuation of her marriage, and a talented woman who worked with the wit became the new sweetheart of the wit.

After knowing the news, the woman was no longer willing to be with the talented man. Although the husband and wife did not divorce, they just broke up.

Ling Xiao didn't know what to say after knowing this real example. She didn't know what the talented man thought. She was the wife that the talented man had spent a lot of effort chasing after. lost his wife.

If the woman is a weaker person, let alone able to support herself and her children, in order to be able to give the children an opportunity to educate, then I am afraid that the two couples will get back together one day.

But the woman is not the kind of person who has no ability, she has her own ability, and she flies away after flying out.She did not return to her husband in the end, but waited for his death to sort out his anthology and publish it.

When I know this situation, I really feel that women are very powerful, and girls should keep their own thoughts after marriage.Please remember that a woman is a person first, and then someone's daughter, wife, mother.

For your own sake, please insist on having free thoughts, don’t entrust everything you have to others, rely on yourself, only such a life will stand up again under repeated blows.

Don't turn yourself into a dodder, because after the thing that the dodder is attached to collapses, the person it is attached to will inevitably collapse along with it.

If you can make a tree that can grow freely, and strive to grow upwards, so that you don't need to depend on others, everyone can live a wonderful life.It may not be exciting enough, but life without being attached to others is better than being a dodder.

I believe that the original owner is completely thinking about it: she is a person first, and she lives not only for love, but also for herself, so that she can live meaningfully, and people who have goals in life can live well.

(End of this chapter)