Qiming 1158

Chapter 251 Su Yonglin's personal problems are very problematic
While integrating the forces of all parties in Hebei, Su Yonglin expanded the army and trained troops to prepare for war. At the same time, he made various judgments on the current world situation and prepared to meet various challenges in the next stage.

At this time, all his energy was devoted to expanding the army and preparing for the war, preparing for the decisive battle with Wanyanliang, expelling the Jinting forces from the Han region in one fell swoop, and turning the world situation in one fell swoop.

At first, he did not expect that the uprising would achieve the expected goal so quickly that Jin Ting's strategic forces to fight the rebellion in the south were eliminated by him. After a big victory, the situation in Hebei was reversed.

Shandong and Hebei, the two important strategic support points of Jinting, were taken down, and Jinting was cut off in the Central Plains, and he was bleeding profusely.

After this wave of hemorrhage, the strategic power that Gin Ting can mobilize has also been greatly reduced, and the strategic power that Su Yonglin has obtained has greatly increased. In the future, in the strategic decisive battle, the probability of success will be higher.

With this as the goal, Su Yonglin galloped forward all the way.

But he didn't expect that because of the growth of status and power, and the huge possibility of the future, his own personal life problem has become a big problem.

It is also helpless.

When he was still in the Southern Song Dynasty, his grandfather once arranged a marriage for him.

The woman was a lady of every family, she was only 13 years old at the time, and it was said that she was gentle, virtuous, knowledgeable, and courteous.

It is said that she is gentle, virtuous, knowledgeable, and courteous, and her appearance is also good, but Su Yonglin has never seen her before, and has no impression or feeling of this woman.

However, at that time, Su Yonglin didn't have any resistance to arranged marriages, and even felt that it was easy for someone to help arrange it.

Anyway, he doesn't have any women he likes, and even feels that love is an obstacle to his progress. Love will only affect the speed at which he draws his sword and the progress of the revolution.

Wouldn't it be beautiful to have someone help resolve the major matters of marriage, in one step, at ease, and save the family's nagging?

So he readily accepted and waited for marriage.

But before the marriage was held, the woman fell ill and died.

It is said that he contracted the cold on the way back to his hometown with his parents to worship ancestors. After returning, he fell ill and died, and then the woman's mother died because of excessive sadness. Before the happy event came, it became a funeral.

At that time, Su Yonglin was quite regretful.

But then, Su Yonglin had no time to feel sorry for others.

Not long after, his grandfather passed away, and the Su family, "suspected by a young country," also suffered drastic changes.

Under the provocation of Sun Yuanqi, the grandfather's two right-hand assistants plan to divide up the share of the Su family's private salt, from the Su family's to their own, and to make the Su family the abandoned son.

In their plan, Su Yonglin, who lost his family business, of course let them flatten and round, and do whatever they want. The Su family's human, financial and material resources and years of human connections will become theirs.

However, after Su Yonglin learned about the incident through channels, he decisively decided to overturn the table.

He quickly killed the two bastards with his cronies. He did not do the other two endlessly, destroying the entire family of the two families, and seized the real power of the family with lightning speed, forcing Sun Yuanqi to admit the established facts, and deter other people with bad intentions. , to continue the business of smuggling salt.

Bloody business.

At the same time, he also embarked on a revolutionary road that would never turn back, so he put his own affairs on hold.

It wasn't really a problem at the time.

At that time, Su Yonglin was only 16 years old, and it was only because of his grandfather's death that he had to become an adult in advance, but the men of the family with some status usually get married at the age of 20, so there is nothing wrong with him not getting married.

Moreover, there were no other elders in his family, and no one urged him to arrange.

Then there is now.

In the new year, Su Yonglin is one year older, already 21 years old.

Because of the busy government and military affairs, he did not celebrate his birthday with a big deal. Several of his close subordinates got together and had a simple meal, even if it was a birthday.

Then at the birthday party, Guo Jingshun, the oldest in the team, raised this question.

He said that Su Yonglin is in her 20s and is still alone with no family or son, which is not good, should she consider getting married?

Su Yonglin was cooking with big mouthfuls at that time, and was about to finish his meal to continue his military affairs. Hearing this, he was stunned for a moment, and his mouth that was chewing quickly stopped.

"marry?"

"Well, get married, Ah Lang, you are already 21, it's time to think about lifelong events, and this time I was really scared. You said that you are the only seedling in the Su family. If you have troubles, what should we do? ?”

The old Guotou looked at Su Yonglin with a bitter look: "This is not auspicious to say, but Alang, don't blame me for speaking straight, I'm really afraid, we were rebelling from the beginning, and it's a precarious situation, no one dares to say that they can live In the end, do you think so?"

This was true, and a group of close subordinates kept nodding their heads in agreement.

Su Yonglin chewed and swallowed the food in his mouth, put down the table and chopsticks, and thought about this matter seriously.

Actually they were right.

In an era of precariousness, who dares to say that he can live to the end?

Speaking of which, even if they did not rebel in this era, and even if they were born into a wealthy family, it is hard to say that they can live a life without illness or disaster.

In an era when medical and sanitation conditions were very underdeveloped, people actually lived every day.

At this time, children generally do not have a name until a certain age.

There is only a small name, no big name, and no words.

The reason is actually very simple and cruel.

That is, the family is not at all sure that this little child will live to adulthood, to be in his seventies and eighties.

Before he reaches a certain age, the family is really not sure that he will survive, so the child is only given a small name, not a big name, and is not included in the genealogy.

When he reaches a certain age, it proves his vitality, and proves that he can survive. Only then will he be given a name, given a name, and included in the family tree. As a member of the family, he enjoys the normal rights of an adult family member.

In an era when plagues are rampant and there is no cure, people are really precarious, and if there is no, there will be no.

Whether you are a commoner or an emperor, is the virus familiar to you?
The ancients said that the more children, the more blessings, so they tried their best to have children. In fact, this is also because of this.

They dare not guarantee that the child will survive. In order to continue the incense, they have to work hard to give birth. If there are many births, there will always be one who will survive and continue the incense, and the fight is a probability.

Therefore, Su Yonglin, the only seedling, really belongs to a high-risk group in the eyes of everyone.

And now everyone's life, life and future well-being are pinned on him alone, but he is wandering around all day long without starting a family and leaving no descendants. This...

It's irresponsible behavior anyway.

In case he is gone one day, everyone wants to continue fighting and can't find anyone who can continue to serve as the leader.

No one is worried about having five, six, seven or eight children.

Su Yonglin thought about it for a while, and felt that the concerns of his subordinates were indeed understandable, and it was indeed a problem, and it was a problem that needed to be solved urgently.

With more and more power, more and more people follow, and more and more people need him to protect their own interests, so no matter from which point of view, getting married and having children is an important task for Su Yonglin.

He got married and had children, which shows that he has perseverance in this rebellion and will continue to persevere. It is also an important political statement.

It is difficult for a single man without a family and children to be widely recognized by society in this era.

Whether it is a superior or a subordinate, it is difficult to identify with a man who has reached the age to marry and have children but has not yet married and had children.

Not only that, Su Yonglin soon realized that under the current military situation, the idea of ​​announcing marriage was more of a test for his followers.

After some thought, Su Yonglin nodded slowly.

"It's not that I don't want to get married and have children, it's just that I was too busy before, I just wanted to survive, and I didn't have time to think about it. Now, although I have intentions, but before defeating the army of gold masters, there are really good people who are willing to marry their daughters. me?"

Xin Qiji stood up and made a statement.

"If Su Shuai has really defeated the army of gold masters and is enough to win the Central Plains, then at that time, who is willing to marry his daughter to Su Shuai, compared to the family who is willing to marry his daughter to Su Shuai at this moment, who is the best? Is it a good family?"

Su Haisheng and Han Jinggui praised Xin Qiji's words quite well.

"As expected of a scholar, he can speak."

"Insightful! Straight to the point! Alang, You'an is right, can the family who married their daughter at this time compare to the family who married their daughter at that time?"

Su Haisheng and Han Jinggui supported Xin Qiji's opinion, and then the others nodded in praise of Xin Qiji, saying that Xin Qiji could speak and see questions very accurately.

Su Yonglin looked at Xin Qiji approvingly.

"You'an is right, but speaking of it, my marriage shouldn't just be my personal affair. What do you think? What kind of family is more suitable for me?"

(End of this chapter)