Since I am Yu Huanshui

Chapter 329 Learning
"You said that taking random exams at the beginning of school is putting too much pressure on children.

Fengfan Primary School has not always been centered on the correct educational philosophy. It is said that education is a long-term process, not a [-]-meter race or something. It is a bit embarrassing to take a test at the beginning of school. "Qian Wen said while washing the dishes.

Tian Yulan, who was cutting meat with a kitchen knife at the side, took a look at Qian Wen, "What's so stressful about it? It's just an exam, and you can teach your children better if you get to the bottom of it.

Besides, our family, Ziyou, was born a prodigy, so this exam is nothing but water for him. "

Qian Wenwen looked at Tian Yulan when he heard the words, Ziyou was smart and he didn't refute it, but a natural prodigy was a bit too much, but Ziyou was Tian Yulan's pride, he just smiled when he heard it, as long as he was happy.

"A parent-teacher meeting tomorrow?" Qian Wen put the washed vegetables in the basket and shook the water off his hands.

"Alas~ I threw everything around my neck." Tian Yulan shuddered and gave Qian Wen a blank look.

Qian Wen chuckled, reached out to her, and wiped his hands on her apron.

"Isn't there a paper towel next to me, why wipe my apron!" Tian Yulan raised the knife in her hand and bluffed.

Qian Wen was so frightened that his eyes were fixed on the blade in front of him, and some hairs stood on his head.

"Knife, what are you dancing like a knife, I don't have enough meat and I want to give Ziyou another meal!" Qian Wen quickly grasped Tian Yulan's wrist, telling her not to be silly.

"Hmph~ I'm not helping you, I dare to make trouble..." Tian Yulan wanted to dance with a kitchen knife as she said that.

Qian Wen held her wrist tightly, Tian Yulan snorted coquettishly, telling him not to make trouble.

"There will indeed be a parent meeting tomorrow. The teacher will communicate with the parents and talk about the children's exam situation." Tian Yulan took back the kitchen knife in her hand and continued to cut the meat on the chopping board.

"Then you go or I go, I am more free to commute to and from get off work, why don't I go." Qian Wen took out a few plates from the sideboard and put them in Tian Yulan's hand.

"I've already asked for leave in advance, and I'll go back to Ziyou's parent-teacher meeting, why are you joining in the fun.

Can you communicate with the teacher?" Tian Yulan glanced at him, eyes full of disgust.

"Hey~ Isn't it Zhong Yi's partner Zhang Xue'er? We are so close that we can't be familiar with each other. There is nothing we can't communicate with." Qian Wen refused to accept, why is he looking irresponsible all over his eyes, you know I did it quietly How many things?
"Ms. Zhang Xueer, do you know Ziyou's math teacher, Chinese teacher, and English teacher?
There are other parents in the class, do you know them well? Can you tell me something that you can use for Ziyou? " Tian Yulan looked at Qian Wen and said softly.

Hearing this, Qian Wen snorted and walked away.

Would a poor parent need such trouble? It's as complicated as underground work.

Tian Yulan looked at Qian Wen's back and smiled.

After Tian Yulan finished dinner, Cai Juying came back with Ziyou.

"Father~" Zi Youxie ran towards him without changing.

"Changing shoes is full of footprints. Be careful that your mother asks you to write an extra paper." Qian Wen said with a smile.

Hearing this, Ziyou looked at the string of small footprints behind her, stuck out her tongue cutely, looked around but didn't find Tian Yulan's figure, and hurriedly slipped back to change her shoes.

"Where is Lanlan cooking?" Cai Juying changed her shoes and walked in with Ziyou's schoolbag in her hand.

"The meal is ready, and I'll wait for you." Qian Wen said with a smile.

Cai Juying put Ziyou's schoolbag in the study, then went into the bathroom, came out with a mop, and wiped off the footprints that Ziyou had just stepped on.

The current study room is not the small partition of the past. It has sufficient lighting, large space, a row of large bookcases, and green plants dotted throughout the study room. It is quiet, simple and elegant, and full of learning atmosphere.

"Father, where's my present?" After changing his shoes, Ziyou trotted to Qian Wen's side, and looked at him expectantly with his eyes wide open.

"You haven't got your test scores yet, how can I give you a gift?
If I fail the exam, wouldn't I just buy it for nothing? "Qian Wen and Ziyou played together.

"That's impossible, this time I performed supernormally, I'm going to order your gift!" Ziyou proudly said with her head held high.

Now Qian Wen not only cultivates Ziyou's good study habits, but also cultivates Ziyou's character and ability to withstand stress.

Ziyou's current personality is much more cheerful than in the play, and he is very sensible, making him even more likable.

"Have momentum! Our Ziyou is the best. How could a small random test make my son fall down, just kidding." When Tian Yulan held Ziyou, she still didn't forget to glance at Qian Wen, looking like you Looked blind.

Then Ziyou shifted his position and went to Tian Yulan's side to act like a good boy.

The family finished their meal talking and laughing.

Ziyou went to study, and Tian Yulan went with tutoring.

Cai Juying was restless tinkering with something in the kitchen, as if it was some snack.

Counting Qian Wen was the most leisurely, lying down and watching TV for a while, went to the kitchen refrigerator and cut some fruits into small pieces, and sent them to Ziyou and Tian Yulan in the study.

"Ziyou, do you think the set of papers you just made is difficult?
Is there something that you can't, or can't understand. "Tian Yulan sat beside Ziyou and asked.

Ziyou thought about it, and recalled the paper just now, "There is no problem. I have taught it with Mr. Zhong Yi in class, and it was very easy to do."

"That's right, this paper made a careless mistake on the last extended question, but everything else is fine, Ziyou is awesome." Tian Yulan looked at the paper with satisfaction and said happily.

Ziyou also smiled happily, he would like to see his mother's smile.

"Boom, boom, can I come in?" Seeing that Ziyou wasn't working on a question, Qian Wen knocked on the door softly.

After delivering the fruit, Qian Wen went to see Cai Juying, wanting to help, but was kicked out.

I had no choice but to continue to lie leisurely on the sofa.

Cai Juying went home at night, and Qian Wen's house also turned off the lights.

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After the parent meeting, Tian Yulan's face was full of radiance.

Ziyou did very well in the test this time, with full marks in mathematics and English, and a score of 98 in Chinese. Just now at the parent meeting, the teacher praised Ziyou by name, which made Tian Yulan look good in front of all the parents.

"Ziyou did really well in the exam this time." Nan Li and Tian Yulan walked out of the school side by side.

Without Nan Jianlong, the conflict between Tian Yulan and Nan Li has dropped sharply. Now the two have not had any conflicts or quarrels for a long time.

"The reward after hard work is expected." Tian Yulan said with a smile.

"Do you think it's true what Teacher Zhang Xueer said just now that Xiaoshengchu will be lottery? If so, the efforts of many parents and children will be in vain." Nan Li asked.

Thinking of the gossip she just learned in the classroom, Tian Yulan suddenly became less happy.

"Find a place to sit." Tian Yulan said.

"Okay, I happen to be worried about Huanhuan's studies, and I have something to ask you." Nan Li agreed.

This time Xia Huanhuan's other grades were not so-so, but the math fell off a cliff, causing Nan Li a headache.

Ever since she heard from her colleagues about the probability of entering a higher school and the difference between a good school and an ordinary school, she was in a hurry and took over Huanhuan's education directly from Xia Junshan.

But I don’t know if I don’t have tutoring, I’m startled when I touch it, this Huanhuan is not worry-free at all, she can learn, but asking her to review the past and learn the new is like killing her, say it once and forget it, and say too much I lost my temper and cried like crazy.

She still doesn't realize her fault at all, she looks like she has worked hard and can't blame her

In the end, I had no choice but to find another way. I learned about the existence of Yade Middle School from my mother some time ago.

Yade Middle School is a good choice, it fits well with her and Xia Junshan's educational philosophy, and the enrollment rate of the junior high school is very good, which is much better than Fengfan Middle School. Although it is worse than Hanlin Middle School, it allows both of them very satisfied.

Yade is directly promoted, that is, the household registration in this district can be directly promoted to Yade Middle School, so Huanhuan's pressure will be less.

But she and Xia Junshan had just discussed with Nan Jianlong who was in the nursing home to change their account, and just after finishing the formalities, the Education Bureau issued a new policy for further education.

It only looks at the student registration and not the household registration, that is to say, if you want to go to Yade Junior High School, you have to be a student of the Yade Junior High School, otherwise you have to hang up if you want to go to Yade Junior High School.

This made her and Xia Junshan's hearts, which had just warmed up, suddenly cool down, and they returned to the original point.

Now she can only make Huanhuan struggle crazily by taking advantage of the time left, step by step slowly, she doesn't want Huanhuan to not even be able to get into a better university in the future.

I found a cafe near Tian Lun International, and the two sat down.

Just as Nan Li was about to order, Tian Yulan's cell phone rang.

"You have something to do. I also want to ask about the remedial class and how to help children study." Nan Li said disappointedly while holding the coffee order.

Tian Yulan took out her mobile phone and saw that it belonged to Qian Wen, she smiled and said, "It should be fine, it's Yan Peng's call."

Tian Yulan answered the phone.

"Hello, Yulan.

How did Ziyou do in the exam?" Qian Wen asked.

"Why are you so concerned about your son's grades? I wasn't so active before." Tian Yulan said with a smile. When she mentioned Ziyou's good grades, she couldn't help being happy, from the inside out.

"Isn't this a promise to buy gifts for Ziyou after passing the exam? I'm going to find out about the enemy's situation and see if I can give you this surprise." Qian Wen is now wandering in a toy store, surrounded by a variety of toys.

"Mathematics, English full marks, Chinese composition deducted two points 98.

You can surprise the elementary school bully. "Tian Yulan's face was full of smiles.

Nan Li on the opposite side was not feeling well. The two had been fighting for more than ten years, and now the child's grades were so much worse than the other's, so she had mixed feelings.

"Okay, okay, Nanli and I are at Tiantian Cafe on Hengnan Road, um, I see, I'll wait for you." Tian Yulan hung up the phone with a smile.

"Yan Peng wants to prepare a surprise gift for Ziyou, and ask me about Ziyou's grades." Tian Yulan raised her phone with a smile.

"Yan Peng has changed so much, I almost don't know him anymore." Nan Li said with emotion.

"What's changed, I'm still as lazy as before." Tian Yulan laughed and complained.

She is very satisfied with her current life, her son is willing to work hard, her mother is free from hard work, and she no longer confronts her father-in-law and mother-in-law. The most satisfying thing is that her husband has changed a lot. Although he is still lazy as always, but Now that he looks like the head of the family, he can always take the lead in major events. Now there is nothing dissatisfied.

Tian Yulan's face was full of smiles, and Nan Li smiled dryly with bitterness in her heart.

"Nan Li, if you have anything to ask, I can still solve one or two things in terms of study, remedial classes, and tutoring children." Tian Yulan called the waiter and ordered coffee and dessert.

Nan Li put away the bitterness in her heart, ordered a cup of latte for herself, pursed her lips and thought for a while, "Yu Lan, Huanhuan's math score is really bad, this time she got a 61 and almost failed Well, do you have any suggestions?"

Tian Yulan looked at Nan Li in surprise, "I can't, Huanhuan has been enrolling in the number-selected intensive class."

Just now, Nan Li has been hiding Huanhuan's grades. Tian Yulan saw Nan Li's bad face, and just guessed that her grades were not good, but she didn't expect it to be so bad.

Nan Li sighed, "It's not that I'm picky. This number-choice intensive class was still useful at the beginning. Huanhuan's math performance has indeed improved, but then it went downhill again and again. Until now, if Xia Junshan and I don't go to audit and go home I told Huanhuan carefully, but Huanhuan couldn't keep up at all and couldn't understand.

I want Huanhuan to quit class. This is simply wasting time and putting pressure on the child, which has no effect at all. "

Tian Yulan blinked, choosing numbers is indeed a bit of a force-feeding education, and it is really difficult to keep up with the super forward education and learning.

Even in the past, Ziyou struggled a bit, if Zhong Yi hadn't supplemented the foundation, the effect might have been halved.

Tian Yulan thought for a while and said, "Didn't Huanhuan also enroll in the remedial class for Zhong Yi, and it didn't work?
Zhong Yi's teaching level is still very good. Ziyou has such achievements now, and Yan Peng and I should thank him. "

Nan Li shook her head, "Zhong Yi's teaching level is indeed good, but now he is the person in charge of the remedial class, and how many students are there in his remedial class, how can he be happy.

Huanhuan's foundation and patience are poor.

Especially during the summer vacation, Huanhuan felt that she was under a lot of pressure to study. After a while, we felt sorry for the children, so we didn't let Huanhuan go to Zhong Yi's class for a while. "

The coffee and dessert came, and Tian Yulan took a sip.

Nan Li was also a little melancholy. In the past, it was the happy education method, and everything was good for children to grow up healthily. Now that they have contacted the school, parents, and the college entrance examination situation, she and Xia Junshan became anxious.

"Yo~ where are you guys here? It's really hard to find." Qian Wen walked in empty-handed.

Tian Yulan, who was about to give Nan Li some advice, turned her head away when she heard Qian Wen's voice.

Seeing that his hands were empty, he asked strangely, "Didn't you prepare a surprise for Ziyou, where are the things?
And why did you come here so soon?"

Qian Wen smiled and sat down, "I'm right in front of you, as for the surprise..." He made a big gesture in the air, "The surprise is a bit big, it's in the trunk."

"What are you preparing for?" Tian Yulan asked curiously.

Nan Li also looked at Qian Wen, she was also curious.

"Big Lego blocks." Qian Wen said.

Tian Yulan who heard the words gave Qian Wen a blank look, "Spending money recklessly, why buy such expensive things!"

Looking at the size of Qian Wen's gesture just now, and thinking about Lego blocks, she knew that they were expensive.

"I don't agree with Ziyou, let's talk about surprises, how can I do without shock!" Qian Wen said with a smile.

Tian Yulan gave Qian Wen another white look, but didn't say much, she was happy today, so she didn't talk about wasting money.

"Now all the students and parents are working hard for the primary school. You bought such a big toy for Ziyou, aren't you afraid of delaying your studies and affecting Ziyou?" Nan Li asked.

In the past, Nan Li would definitely not have asked such a question, but since she tutored Huanhuan in her studies, she really knows how easily children are distracted.

"It's not that serious. Lego blocks can exercise children's spatial imagination, thinking ability, and hands-on ability, which is also a kind of learning.

Besides, Ziyou is very worry-free, self-conscious in learning, knows when to study and when to play, and has developed good study habits.

We can just correct it now and then, it doesn't bother us that much. "

Tian Yulan also nodded repeatedly, Ziyou is really sensible now.

Nan Li thought of Huanhuan when she heard the words, and she was distracted from time to time. It was difficult to study alone, and she also liked to secretly read comic books.

Seeing Nan Li's frowning face, Qian Wen asked curiously, "What's the matter with you, I heard that Brother Xia is already opening his own personal studio, so what else do you have to worry about.

In the future, when Brother Xia's personal studio title is typed out, you just have to wait for your hands to cramp while counting the money. "

Qian Wen joked that after Xia Junshan failed to find a suitable workplace, he finally decided to open his own studio.

The personal studio has no requirements for the office location. Now Nan Jianlong's house has been vacant. Xia Junshan opened his personal studio there after asking for permission.

But everything is difficult in the beginning, and now he is taking the first step.

"Don't be joking, we're talking about Huanhuan." Tian Yulan patted Qian Wen's arm.

Qian Wen called the waiter, ordered a cup of coffee, and looked at Nan Li, "What's wrong with Huanhuan, what a lively and cheerful child, everyone likes it."

Nan Li and Tian Yulan repeated the topic just now.

Qian Wen pondered for a while, Nan Li looked over, "Yan Peng, do you have a solution?"

"I don't know if I should say it, maybe you and Brother Xia don't agree." Qian Wen hesitated.

"If you have something to say, just talk about it." Before Nan Li could speak, Tian Yulan became anxious.

Huanhuan can be regarded as the one she watched growing up, and she also hopes to be well.

"Some humble opinion, I don't know if it's right or not, just listen to Nan Li, don't take it seriously." Qian Wen said softly.

"You said, brainstorming, I am willing to try any method for Huanhuan's future." Nan Li said hastily.

"Actually, Huanhuan's reluctance to study cannot be entirely blamed on the children, the adults have more reasons.

Look at Ziyou, Tian Yulan taught him from a young age.

Although the way of education is not desirable, but Ziyou is used to this kind of learning, if you relieve him, give him a certain amount of space, add encouragement, and correct him appropriately, Ziyou will be very relieved.

As for Huanhuan, your family adopts the happy education method, which means that it is more important for the child to be happy. If you force her to study, she will bounce back like a spring.

To put it bluntly, you and Xia Junshan are too spoiled and doting on your child.

Let Huanhuan be a little too self-willed, you suddenly put her under pressure to study, she can't stand it, she can't understand. "

"But it's up to Huanhuan to enroll in the remedial class and get good grades," Nan Li said.

"Children are like a blank slate, they are still young and like to do things according to their preferences.

Huanhuan insisted on going to the number-choice tutoring institution, was it because she didn't work as a cadre and her grades dropped, which made her classmates dislike her, so she cried and wanted to go. " Qian Wen asked.

Nan Li nodded.

"That's because you spoiled her too much before, and didn't catch her to study, and she didn't feel that learning is so difficult.

But after you really started to study and you started to take care of her, she found that she was different from what she thought, so she became emotional and resisted.

The more you push her and think that you are good to her, the more she will not understand, thinking that you have changed and appearing rebellious. "Qian Wen said.

(End of this chapter)