Since I am Yu Huanshui

Qian Wen's cultural relics collection team will not be mentioned for the time being. A week later, he asked Jiang Guotuo, Gong Zide, Sun Li, and Hans Peter to make an investment plan.

Qian Wen listened to their reports in the office and made a preliminary plan.

Among them, Jiang Guotuo, Gong Zide, and Hans Piet were adopted in the investment plan, and given support, let them go to the three industries of clothing, catering, and communication to expand their territory for him.

And once again asked Collison to speed up the progress of the company's talent pool, don't be afraid to spend money, even if you spend money, you have to give him elites from various industries.

Qian Wen is prying the capital and even elite talents from various industries and state-owned enterprises in the surrounding provinces to work for him.

in a few days.

The University of Political Science and Law came to be notified. The teacher just called home, saying that the official notice had come down, and asked him to prepare well and deal with it formally. Immediately afterwards, the street office also called to inform.

It's been more than a week, and there is nothing to prepare for. What should be prepared has been prepared.

The next day, Qian Wen went to the University of Political Science and Law on Xueyuan Road by car.

In fact, Qian Wen has thought carefully about coming to teach politics and law, which is of great benefit to him.

He does not have a strong family background. If he wants his business to be more stable in the future, he needs a certain background. He can create something without anything, and politics and law have given him a good platform.

In addition to accumulating a wave of high-quality contacts, you can also have a batch of high-quality students with close relationships.

It's not a conspiracy theory, it's just a pure love of teaching and educating people, and what you learn will serve the country.

When the school arrived, the car stopped at the school gate. Qian Wen asked the students on campus how to get there. Guided by the school staff, he came to the principal's office.

I stayed in the office for a whole morning. During this period, school leaders, old teachers, and professors entered one after another.

These people are all here to consider Qian Wen. The school attaches great importance to this talent, Qian Wen, and has decided to put it in an important position, and will increase the burden in the future, but before that, don't try his quality.

Don't sell yourself and boast, it's a joke.

Before noon, the door of the principal's office opened, and the people inside came out one by one, chatted casually, and praised Qian Wen full of praise.

Soon, Qian Wen also came out. He was officially appointed as the school's associate professor of law, and the school will soon arrange teaching tasks for him.

On the way to his office with him, Qian Wen was secretly dumbfounded. Just now in the principal's office, the scene was a little scary.

As long as he is a little watery, the school will not listen to the arrangement of the above, but give him a idle job to pass the matter.

That scene was several times more terrifying than the defense. Fortunately, he survived it and got the respect he deserved.

He breathed a sigh of relief in his heart. The principals who can lead the University of Political Science and Law are all high-ranking officials in the judiciary. Just after the end, the principal asked him to say hello to his teacher, obviously an old friend.

The last time I went to the teacher's house, I heard from the teacher that he was about to become a high-ranking official in the judiciary. Qian Wen smiled, and it was easy to handle things with someone in the court.

This is why he must teach here.

When I arrived at my office, it was a not-so-big one-room office, with a desk, a bookcase, a side-by-side tin filing cabinet, and a window with a view of the campus.

Qian Wen was very satisfied. He thought that he would share an office with his colleagues when he was new here.

"Professor Qian, this is your office. Let me know if there is anything missing. I will list it and let the school logistics department arrange it for you as soon as possible." The school staff who led Qian Wen said politely.

The office is clean. It can be seen that it has been cleaned in advance. Qian Wen looked around and smiled, "Thank you, it's already fine, don't bother."

School staff, "Okay, Professor Qian is busy."

The school staff left, Qian Wenjing stood for a moment, closed the office door, stood in front of the window, and looked at the campus downstairs and the students on the path.

Qian Wen officially joined the company.

The school quickly arranged Qian Wen's teaching task, and Qian Wen also calmly started his school work career.

On the contrary, the old man in the family, Guan Xiaoguan, his friend Han Chunming and others were a little surprised that Qian Wen was still an associate professor when he taught politics and law.

I don't know what he is doing. He has such a big company and he still teaches and educates people. Is one person's energy enough?

Ordinary people may have fine points, but for Qian Wen who is open and has a systematic memory bookshelf, he can still deal with it calmly.

Now he is only responsible for steering the general direction of the company, so as not to deviate from the course he wants to sail, and leave the rest to professionals.

On the school side, newcomers really need to devote a certain amount of energy. After all, Qian Wen is not satisfied with being just an associate professor. He still wants to be evaluated, and then he will be a master's supervisor, doctoral supervisor...

As the days passed, Qian Wen gradually became familiar with the rhythm of life in the capital.

He just came out of the dilapidated Hou's house. He has been back for a while, and he hasn't got together for a while. He just took some gifts and went to have a look.

It was still the same when it was dilapidated, without much change, but with my own vision, I took advantage of the spring breeze of reform and distracted myself to start a business.

When I drove to the entrance of the alley where I was about to get home, I saw Xiaozao walking with the old man. Before Qian Wen got out of the car and had no time to speak, the old man waved and said, "What should I do? Don't delay my walk."

Meng Xiaozao covered her mouth and smiled lightly, Qian Wen didn't say a word, watching the old man walk away.

Shaking his head, "It's really comfortable."

Just as he was about to get in the car to go home, he saw Su Meng coming back.

"Su Meng, are you off work?" Qian Wen waved and asked with a smile.

"Well, I just got off work." Su Meng walked over pushing her bicycle, looked at him smelling of alcohol, and asked strangely, "You just came back from school too?"

Qian Wen shook his head, "There is no class today, I went to see an old friend, it's been a while since I returned to China, and we got together."

Su Meng nodded knowingly, then looked at him hesitantly, trying to say something, feeling inappropriate.

The wind is a bit strong today, and this is another outlet. Qian Wen’s brain hurts from the blowing. Qian Wen saw that Su Meng had something to say, and pointed in the direction of his mansion, “Come and sit at my house, how about a cup of coffee? ?”

Su Meng nodded, "Okay."

After Su Meng and Han Chunming got married, they lived in the original courtyard and rented a bungalow in the courtyard, which was convenient for taking care of their parents.

Not long after Qian Wen came home, he was grinding coffee leisurely when Su Meng arrived.

"Sit in the living room, I'll be right over." Qian Wen said with a smile.

Su Meng nodded, looking at Qian Wen's mansion, no matter how many times she came here, she was still very shocked. Now how many people can be like her, Fa Xiao, whose experience can be published in a book.

Without making Su Meng wait for a long time, and letting Andy Na take over his unfinished hand-ground coffee, Qian Wen walked into the living room with two small plates of creamy pastries.

The cream pastry was gently placed in front of Su Meng, "Try it, it's delicious."

Su Meng took a small bite, the cream melted in her mouth, it was so sweet, her eyes narrowed, "It's very delicious."

"It's good if you like it." Qian Wen smiled, without being too polite, and said directly, "You should come to me if you have something to do. If you have something to do, just say it. As far as our relationship is concerned, if you can help me, you will definitely not refuse."

Su Meng hesitated for a moment, then looked at Qian Wen, "You know that Chunming is going to quit his job and go into business, right?"

As Qian Wen expected, Su Meng really did it for this matter.

Qian Wen nodded, "Chunming told me."

Su Meng looked at Qian Wen and said seriously, "You are his best friend, I hope you can persuade Chunming.

Isn't the purpose of going to university to have a good unit and a good future?

Everything is fine now, why suddenly break into an industry that you are not familiar with?
It takes time and effort to let yourself be bruised and bruised, not to mention embarrassed. "

Qian Wen touched the center of his eyebrows, when the coffee came, Andy Na gently placed the tray in front of the two of them.

"Thank you." Su Meng looked at Andy Na and said politely.

Andy Na smiled, put down her things and left without disturbing them.

Su Meng lamented Qian Wen's life, serving crooked nuts, but she would not be envious. It was such an example that appeared in her own life, and she couldn't help but marvel.

"Add cube sugar and milk by yourself." Qian Wen said softly, taking a sip of coffee, "Su Meng, do you really know or love Han Chunming?"

As soon as these words came out, Su Meng, who was adding sugar cubes, was taken aback for a moment, then stopped her hands and looked at Qian Wen, not understanding what it meant.

"Chunming and I are husband and wife."

They are all married, isn't that clear?
Qian Wen shook his head, "I'm not married, and I'm not qualified to talk about experiences between husband and wife.

Let me talk to you from the perspective of a bystander, how are you and Han Chunming?
After you have listened, if you still want me to persuade Chunming, I will help you. "

Su Meng nodded slowly, and looked at Qian Wen seriously. This is the benefit of status and identity. If he was just an ordinary factory worker, who would listen to your so-called eloquent talk.

"You and Chunming grew up in the same school, childhood sweethearts.

You went to the same university together, you should have a certain understanding and understanding of Chunming..."

Before Qian Wen finished speaking, Su Meng wanted to speak, but was stopped by Qian Wen, "Listen, I will tell you, I will ask you to answer, if after I finish speaking, you think what I said is nonsense or biased, then you There is no need to refute it at all, just treat it as a joke.”

Su Meng was a little confused, but she also stopped her speech, took a sip of coffee, her face was bitter, and she forgot to put the sugar cube.

Qian Wen continued, "Don't say those irrelevant things.

Based on your understanding and perception of Chunming, if you were to resign this time, resign from your job in the Education Bureau, and based on your understanding of Chunming, Su Meng, what would he look like? "

Su Meng was silent for a moment, but still respected the rules of this conversation, raised her head and answered seriously, without making a joke, "Chunming has always followed me, it can be said that he dotes on me, and I have always enjoyed and been very happy about this. I always thought I didn't choose the wrong person.

If I want to resign, Chunming will definitely agree, no matter what my reasons are. "

Qian Wen laughed, Su Meng has one good thing. It is commendable that this person has always been upright, has many shortcomings, and has a lot of complaints, but the advantages cannot be covered.

"If after you resigned, the industry you run left you covered in bruises and setbacks. As your husband, Han Chunming, in your perception, what would he choose to do?
It is to accuse you, saying that you are overconfident, arrogant, do not consider the consequences, and do not listen to the original dissuasion.

or something else? "

Qian Wen didn't say anything, but he comforted and encouraged some options. He asked Su Meng to substitute in, considering his own knowledge of Han Chunming.

This time, Su Meng was silent for a long time, the coffee was cold, Qian Wen was not in a hurry, and asked Andy Na to cut some fruit plates, and ate slowly by herself.

As he chewed softly, Su Meng thought clearly, and looked at Qian Wen, "Chunming is a man with a heart, a sense of responsibility, and a strong sense of responsibility.

If I suffer repeated setbacks, bruises all over my body, and be at a loss, he will definitely comfort me first, not to ask about my mistakes, and not to make excuses, and wait until I really accept it and calm down..." Su Meng laughed inexplicably, "He will definitely be at this time Laughing at me like a joke, Chunming is sometimes very childish.

Then laugh it off as a trivial thing, so that I don't feel the pressure and don't blame myself. "

Qian Wen nodded in satisfaction, he had a pertinent understanding of Han Chunming.

Qian Wen continued, "Then if you have caused irreparable or even great losses during the period of starting your own business or running your own business.

Such a loss could be bankrupt.

What do you think Chunming will look like now? "

One question was deeper than the other, and Su Meng already understood what Qian Wen was doing. She was not trying to persuade Chunming for her, but was trying to persuade herself in this way.

But at this time, Su Meng didn't want to stop, because as the person next to her pillow, she found that her husband Han Chunming had changed subtly after getting married.

The same love for oneself, the same filial piety, and the same loyalty to friends, but there is something missing.

She couldn't say it, but she could feel it.

During this conversation with Qian Wen, she vaguely felt that she might know what her husband Han Chunming had lost.

This time, Su Meng basically didn't think much about Qian Wen's question. She pondered for a while and didn't answer directly, but talked about something, "Last year, my father found out that he had a heart problem. There will be danger to life.

I panicked at the time, because the cost of the operation required a lot, so much that my mother, grandma, and I borrowed all our relatives and friends, but they were all in vain.

That's tens of thousands of dollars for the operation, and there are certain risks in the operation. It doesn't mean that if you pay the money, you will be cured, and you may lose money and money.

After some relatives in my family knew about it, they hid themselves and refused to lend us.

At that time, Chunming and I were about to graduate from University, we were preparing our graduation thesis, and we had no money. We were in a relationship. After Chunming found out about this, he didn’t say anything, but kept comforting me, saying that it was fine, that there was him, and he would come. Find a way, let my dad transfer to another hospital, and prepare for the operation.

Has been busy.

At that moment, Chunming was like a mountain, a majestic and reliable mountain.

He took all my anxiety, panic, and daughter's responsibility.

Before the operation, I brought a bag of money, which contained more than 3 yuan. You must know that we are just friends, and we are talking about partners.

That huge sum of money, such a huge debt, Chunming himself carried it, which should have been done by me as a daughter.

In fact, the vast majority of people, after knowing that huge number, hide away, I can understand.

But Chunming didn’t. He resisted and did everything for me.

Afterwards, he still comforted me with a smile, saying that everything will be fine, and I can rest assured that I have him.

At that moment, I knew that I was sure that Chunming would not marry unless he was the only one.

So, Qian Wen, I can answer your question without thinking.

Chunming never paid too much attention to these things.

If I make mistakes that are irreparable, and possibly even bankrupt.

Chunming will only be my strongest backing. "

When Su Meng said the last sentence, she was serious and serious.

Qian Wen smiled, "Now, do you still need me to persuade Chunming?"

Su Meng fell silent.

A few questions showed Han Chunming's love for her vividly and never left her.

"But...but you know it's a detour, so why do you have to go to the first iron.

Chunming University majored in Chinese, not economics or trade. "

Sometimes, Su Meng is not usually stubborn, which is also her characteristic.

Qian Wen didn't explain whether Han Chunming's resignation to start a business was a detour, but asked, "Su Meng, have you noticed that Chunming has changed, he is not as energetic as before, and that kind of inexplicable self-confidence makes people A sideways look brimming with spirit.

Haven't you noticed that Chunming has lost his original vigor, vigor in action and thought? He seems to be entering old age, with a kind of depression and lack of vigor. "

Su Meng was taken aback, she nodded, how could she not feel it, she also asked Chunming, Chunming always said nothing, but a little tired from work.

"Su Meng, do you really understand Chunming? Do you know what he thinks? Do you know what he needs? Have you really thought about him like a wife?

Instead, be pampered and spoiled? "

Qian Wen's words were a bit heavy, and when he suddenly became sharp, Su Meng was stunned when the words fell.

Su Meng is not the kind of person who can't introspect and think. She just takes a few shots back and forth. When something happened, she suddenly realized that she knew where she was wrong and regretted it.

"Don't talk about it when you are in a relationship. At that time, the two parties are two individuals with distinct personalities, different from each other.

But after getting married..." Qian Wen paused, "My humble opinion.

After marriage, two distinct individuals become a great whole.

This whole is called family.

And this family needs mutual understanding, mutual management, mutual care, mutual accommodation, mutual support, mutual comfort, etc... to ensure the smooth, orderly, normal and loving progress of this family.

As a bystander, and during this period of returning to China, what I want to say to you, Su Meng, is that you have always regarded yourself as a princess, you need Han Chunming to care for you, you need Han Chunming to understand you, a princess who needs to accommodate you all the time .

But have you ever thought that Han Chunming should also be your prince, worship him, appreciate him, tolerate him, understand him?

A family is like chopsticks, it is made up of two legs, like human legs, it needs two to be stable, if one is long or short, or if there is a problem, this is called the family as a whole, it can continue to move forward, but It must not be happy, or even painful.

Personality is nothing.

But the best thing to give to your other half is actually support, understanding, trust, and being a "wisdom" wife, rather than blindly consuming the other's love for you. "

Qian Wen paused for a moment to let Su Meng digest, and after a long time, "Before you came to me, did you really have a peaceful talk with Chunming?
Have you really listened to him?Why did he resign?Why does he like to love those old things that don't speak?
Did you hear Chunming tell you that he wanted to quit his job at the school, and you couldn't take it anymore, interrupted his words, and started talking endlessly without understanding.

You stubbornly think that you are right, and you don't give Chunming a chance to talk to you calmly.

Keeping the other party's love for you, go back to your mother's house, thinking that the other party is unreasonable and self-centered. "

As Qian Wen spoke, he looked towards the door of the living room, Guan Xiaoguan was eavesdropping with his little head, smiled awkwardly at him, and then hissed.

Guan Xiaoguan has been here for a while, and after listening to Qian Wen's remarks, I feel a lot of pressure. A good wife with 'wisdom'?She is stressed out.

Su Meng turned her back to Guan Xiaoguan. She didn't know that there was a third person listening in. She listened to Qian Wen's more pointed topic, asked questions, and fell silent.

She really heard her husband Han Chunming say that after he was going to resign, she got excited and didn't talk about it seriously, but just blindly insisted on her own opinion, thinking that the other party must be wrong, and she should listen to her own way.

Also, when she was just married, Chunming excitedly took her to the bungalow where he kept old objects, as if he was taking her to his own treasure place.

At that time, Han Chunming excitedly introduced the stories behind the old objects to her, but he frowned, telling him not to play with things and get discouraged.

It seemed that at that moment, the flames on Han Chunming stagnated, and then his mood was low, as if he loved, loved things and secrets, and happily shared them with his most important people, but what he got was a basin of cold water and incomprehension.

Su Meng suddenly understood. She seemed to know what her husband Han Chunming had lost after getting married.

It was she who shackled the other party. The Han Chunming she liked in the past, the Han Chunming who was active, thoughtful, and charming, was now being wiped out by her under the pretext of family.

Thinking of this, Su Meng got up suddenly, startled Qian Wen, Qian Wen said, "Even if what I said is wrong, Su Meng, you don't have to get angry.

You have to be elegant! "

Su Meng saw Qian Wen on the opposite side blocking her body with both hands, looking like a tigress, she couldn't help but roll her eyes, all of them were small, no one knew who, I still vividly remember the scene where you blasted Cheng Jianjun.

"Thank you for your enlightenment, I know what to do." Su Meng said seriously to Qian Wen, took her bag, turned and walked out.

Qian Wen asked after him, "Do you know what to do?"

Su Meng stopped, "Give Chunming the support and understanding from his wife."

Su Meng left and entered very quickly. It can be seen that she must have listened to it. Han Chunming should not have to go to her mother's house tonight to say hello.

"As expected, mouth escape is the strongest skill." Qian Wen joked.

Guan Xiaoguan came in from the corner where she was hiding. She didn't care much about how Su Meng was doing. What she cared about now was, "Qian Wen, do you have such high demands on your other half?"

Guan Xiaoguan felt that it was too difficult for her to meet all the requirements Qian Wen said.

Qian Wen was stunned, then rubbed Guan Xiaoguan's little head until the little lazy cat was a little furious, then smiled and said, "There are so many rules and regulations, the most important thing in marriage is to like and love each other, that's enough.

Bumps and bumps are unavoidable, fights under the bed must fit together on the bed. "

Guan Xiaoguan rolled his eyes, "Vulgar!"

After that, her heart relaxed a lot, but she also kept in mind what Qian Wen said about the "wisdom" good wife.

Seeing Guan Xiaoguan's expression, Qian Wen smiled, saying that he was talking to others, not to set rules for himself.

Easier said than done!