20 years of restarting life

Chapter 3205 The warmth and warmth of human relationships

As for the explanations Sui Yong had given to Zhao Changan before, he could regard them as harmless, well-intentioned, and artistically processed words that understood propriety, righteousness, and shame.

The relationship between friends needs to be maintained, especially one should not be too honest about the dark side of oneself.

This is also true between couples. Some women have been married for many years, but their husbands have never seen her true face without makeup.

What's more, among friends, there are those dirty fantasies and secrets in one's heart that cannot be told to outsiders.

To put it bluntly, as long as your friend's wife is slim, plump, attractive, pretty, or your own wife is relatively beautiful, wearing a tight skirt that shows off her long legs, swaying her graceful and enchanting charm as she walks, showing her body curves and details.

More than half of the friends have secretly fantasized in their hearts that they and the other party’s wife have an erotic story that cannot be told. If they say this frankly, not only can they not be friends, but they will become enemies. However, as long as they don’t say it in their hearts, there will be no problem.

It's man's nature, and no one can do anything about it.

We are all men, and we all know what's going on in our hearts. We have some hidden thoughts about our friends' wives, and we also know that our friends are particularly concerned about our beautiful wives. However, as long as we act out of emotion and within the bounds of courtesy, we just don't say it out loud.

To be honest, Zhao Changan can especially understand Sui Yong's psychology.

Not to mention that Sui Yong and Mi Xiaoyin were husband and wife before, even Zhao Changan and Mi Xiaoyin have only been working together for one or two years and have not been lovers for long, but when facing this woman, he feels particularly stubborn, stagnant, and tired.

This tiredness is not physical tiredness. If she has the ability to make him physically tired, that would be a good thing. A woman who can make Zhao Changan feel physically tired is definitely a female fairy picked out of millions.

Instead, Zhao Changan felt tired. This woman was too self-centered and selfish. She was too profit-oriented, and she had a strange mentality that when a man and a woman are together, the man enjoys while the woman suffers, so the man should compensate the woman in other areas.

Then there is no doubt that Sui Yong was caught in a dilemma between his wife's unwillingness to have another son to carry on the Sui family line and his parents' obsession with carrying on the family line.

She was also dissatisfied with Mi Xiaoyin's excessive work all year round and her lack of attention to the children. She also ignored her husband's normal and strong physiological needs, and made money everywhere in the name of her aunt, affecting her aunt's reputation.

Moreover, Mi Xiaoyin is not the kind of troublemaker who knows how to please men in bed. When fighting, she just lies on the bed, closes her eyes like a dead fish and does not speak.

She tried hard to keep her expression unchanged, as traditional people believed that this was a man's job and women just had to accept it.

Some even believe that a woman would be ashamed and shameless if she showed even a little bit of uncontrollable emotional fluctuations.

But she doesn't know, or even if she knows, she can't overcome it psychologically and do it. For men, sometimes watching a woman's expression and body changes can make them lose control of their emotions, and they yell, cry and make a fuss.

These extremely out-of-control performances, even the distorted and slightly deformed beautiful faces, are the highest rewards that can make men more interested and give them a special sense of conquest and accomplishment.

Although Zhao Changan and Mi Xiaoyin knew each other well and had not known each other for a long time, after playing chess against each other several times, Zhao Changan had a deep understanding of her paranoid and stubborn character, her self-esteem and inferiority complex.

I'm not even saying this outrageously. Even Mi Xiaoyin's ex-husband Sui Yong, who had been married to Mi Xiaoyin for so many years, didn't know Mi Xiaoyin's character as well as Zhao Changan did.

Even if we encounter extremely bad weather, with lightning, thunder, heavy rain, and a flood like the one in Genesis, there will be a disaster.

She can also be like a pillar, strong and silent, trying to be a salted fish without dreams. So if Mi Xiaoyin said how much she loved Sui Yong, Zhao Changan would definitely laugh and sneer.

Just like if Mi Xiaoyin said now that she liked him, Zhao Changan, he would also think it was a ridiculous joke.

If a woman really loves a man, how could she not want to make the man happy from the bottom of his heart?

Mi Xiaoyin is not that simple and easy, nor is she a woman who can easily fall in love with a man.

Zhao Changan's gentlemanly attitude seems very impressive when Wen Ye brags about it, and in practice it is indeed very impressive in many cases. However, for those PUA masters, they can also do this with some selective women.

One can even go even further than "a gentleman is not a tool" and mentally control the other party so that he completely loses his self and becomes his vassal.

A gentleman is not a tool. For girls like Zeng Xiaoxiao, who can't wait to let Zhao Changan do PUA, or simple girls like Shen Xiaoyi, or rebellious girls like Su Rongrong, it is easy to catch them.

However, for women who are older and more experienced, it requires a gradual process, and there is no guarantee that they can achieve it.

Zhao Changan and Shan Qiang have known each other for several years, but he still couldn't control her. This time, she forced him to give up control of Luyuan, as if he was being taken down.

Not to mention Mi Xiaoyin, who has only been dating for more than ten days, is nearly thirty years old, has ambitions, ideas, abilities, financial resources and knowledge.

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Of course, putting aside these vulgar interests, there is another very important factor here. Although Sui Yong is getting married for the second time, Lu Yuhua is getting married for the first time. According to the policy, she can have a child with Sui Yong without affecting their work and careers.

The warmth and coldness of human hearts are as sharp as frost and ice swords. They are nothing more than cold calculations of climbing up and down layer by layer. There have never been too many different highlights and graces.

Since Zhao Changan is not a good person, he cannot stand on the moral high ground to criticize Sui Yong's desire to satisfy his parents and Niu Meng'en's persistence back then.

Everyone has their own choices. As long as they don't break the law and go against secular orthodoxy on the moral level, that is their own business.

When Mi Xiaoyin wanted to take a shortcut and deliberately seduced Sui Yong into bed and then got married with a child, she never thought that within a few years, she would be stolen away by another woman who also had no high moral bottom line.

It can be said that cause and effect, every sip and every peck.

In fact, from the perspective of money, which is what Mi Xiaoyin really cares about, she is not at a disadvantage at all. In the mind of such a materialistic woman, there is often a pragmatic idea and attitude of "it doesn't matter who you give it to, as long as the price is high enough" and she will wait for the right price.

After being married to Sui Yong for less than ten years, she went from being an ordinary female college graduate with less than ten thousand yuan in her pocket to a wealthy woman with assets worth hundreds of millions. What else does she have to complain about?

Zhao Changan drank a cup of green tea and sat for less than ten minutes. Lu Yuhua appeared at the stairs on the second floor of the building with Zhao Changan's down jacket.

(End of this chapter)