Houmen Fenghua: Meet the best evil mother-in-law

Chapter 242
Don't ask why.

The question is, Yao Anling thinks that Yao Anyi is "easy to bully" and easier to manipulate.

After all, compared to Yao Anyi, Yao Anhong is her own brother, who was "in poor health" when she was young, and Yao Anling was reluctant to disturb her brother's study; while Yao Anxin was the only girl in the group, and she was the oldest, and she was about to reach her age. Now, Yao Anling is also embarrassed to keep ordering this cousin who is so much older than herself.

The most important thing is that the age difference between the two is too large, and Yao Anling always feels distressed that her cousin can't understand what she is saying.

Yao Anxin: "..."

—Are you sure I don’t understand?
——Are you sure it's not because you have too many ideas, and I can't keep up with your brain circuits at all?

A group of people from the elementary school group greeted Gu Qingling, and they returned to everyone in a proper manner.

Yao Anling signaled that Yao Anyi was ready, and she was going to start asking questions. After getting Yao Anyi's response, Yao Anling took out the "questionnaire", and asked the old lady Gu Qingling one question at a time.

"It seems that you have already discovered it," Gu Qingling said with a smile, "it is indeed the case. Many people think that children don't understand anything, and when they grow up, they will understand. But it is not the case. We It can be assumed that a child is a blank slate, and he doesn’t understand anything at the beginning, but it’s not that when he grows up, he will understand naturally, but what he has learned, he will understand.”

"Why do some adults think that the child understands it even though he didn't teach it? In fact, it's not that he didn't teach it, but that he didn't notice where the child learned it from."

"A child's learning does not start by teaching him to read and write, but he has been learning since he was born. He has to learn to breathe, learn to drink milk, learn to eat, and learn to understand the world..."

……

Gu Qingling opened a new door for these children, she even used Yao's Academy as a metaphor.

Obviously there are so many courtyards in the house, she just invites her husband to the house, why should she set up a special academy and send them to the academy?
There are only four of them in the family, even with the unmarried Mr. Yao Liu, Miss Yao Qi, and Miss Yao Ba, there are only seven people. There is no need to spend so much money to set up such a separate academy.

But Gu Qingling told them that it wasn't like that.

Comparing Yao's Academy to a "closed environment", where all their eating, drinking, and casual activities are kept, no matter their academic situation or living habits, they must follow the rules of Yao's Academy. In the long run, Will they become what Yao's Academy expects, grow into what Yao's Academy looks like?
"Don't rush to deny it, think about it carefully, how did you develop the habit of going to bed early and getting up early? Did it develop in my yard, or did I order you to be by your parents' side?" Is it cultivated?"

"Is your etiquette and etiquette slowly developed because you hired a nanny, or because you were placed in the environment like Yao's Academy, and with the strict requirements of your nanny and sir?"

"Look at you now, and then look at what you were like before I intervened in your teaching. Compare it well. When did you start to change? And before and after this change, what changes happened around you?"

"People are one of the factors, the environment is also very important, and the environment I created for you is to make you better progress and become the person you want to be."

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The result of asking the questionnaire at the old lady Gu Qingling's place is that there is an extra small composition when I go back--write a related thought report and summary.

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Yao Anyi looked at her, a little speechless: Isn't it tiring to act like that every time?

But he didn't dare to say it, he could only pretend that he didn't know, then he lowered his head and recalled what the old matriarch said, wondering if it was like that.

Each of the four of them has undergone tremendous changes after the old matriarch stepped in.

Among them, he himself, because of the old lady, was finally able to be a boy in an upright manner, going to and after school, doing homework and exercising together with his cousin Yao Anhong (except that their exercise is boxing, and the girl's is boxing) Wuqinxi only).

As a girl, in order to cover up his secret, he had to bow his head and hold his chest, for fear that others would see his secret.

In the eyes of others, he has become "ugly and weak". This is what Yao Anling scolded him the most - a boy, like a sissy, is really annoying.

But at that time, what did the old lady say?

The old lady specially called Yao Anling to her, and said, "Sister Ling, do you know why Brother Yi became like that?"

"How do I know why?"

"Because, he was raised as a girl since he was a child. He had to learn the rules of a girl and do what a girl should do. If he didn't do well, he would be punished. Anyone who would be suspected of being a boy You can do things like this, but he can't."

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This won't work, that won't work, Yao Anyi, who was forcibly restrained, lost his vitality and only dared to do things that were allowed by others.That's it, he still has to be frightened, afraid that his secret will be discovered.

At that time, the old lady just gave a "specific example" to "educate" Yao Anling, but thinking about it now, Yao Anyi seemed to understand why the old lady would say that.

Because the old lady really felt that it was not his fault that he looked like that, but because he was put into an "illusion" growth environment and grew up according to a wrong mold, that's why he grew up like that. The weird look that everyone hates.

Several people returned to their special study room, Yao Anling asked Yao Anyi for the recorded questionnaire, and began to read one question at a time.

While reading, she also confirmed with everyone how the old lady explained it at that time.

After all, the answers on the questionnaire were very simple, but the old lady gave a detailed explanation behind the answers.Yao Anyi didn't have time to write it down, so everyone could only memorize it in their heads.

The reason why we discuss it as soon as we come back from the investigation is because we are afraid that once this time has passed, everyone will not remember clearly.

"Do you think what the old lady said is true? Does the environment really have such a big impact on a person?" Yao Anling tilted her head, not quite understanding the question.

Yao Anyi said weakly: "I think...it should be true."

Facing everyone's eyes, he spoke with a little fear, but he still mustered up his courage and finished what he wanted to say.

"Look at me, don't you know?"

"I... I am the best example."

"I'm a boy, but... I was raised as a girl, so I'm... a little weird."

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(End of this chapter)