Houmen Fenghua: Meet the best evil mother-in-law

Chapter 340 Everyone Loves Little Buns (Auspicious First Year!)
At this time, a mother who gave birth to a second child was very experienced, and said: "It's very simple, he is used to calling it. Like my family, when my daughter was young, I asked her to call her Dad. So when she grows up so big, Whenever she has something to do, she will go to her father, and I will be free."

The mothers sitting next to her have learned from her.

It turns out that children call their mother whenever they have something to do. In fact, mothers themselves are "used".

Before the child speaks, the mother has selfishness. She wants to be the first one to hear the child shout, so she keeps teaching the child to call "Mom" all day long.In order to induce children to call themselves, they also "tempted" them with various benefits.

When the children really learn it, the mothers are very happy. In order to consolidate this behavior of the children, they continue to "tempt" with various benefits.

And in this process, mothers are actually telling their children-baby, mother is the best for you, no matter what you have, mother will help you.

"It seems that there is nothing wrong with it?" A mother asked suspiciously.

The second-born mother smiled: "No problem, I didn't say there is a problem with it. From a psychological point of view, it is a positive feedback for the child. It teaches the child to remember to tell the adult if he encounters any problems. Ask for help, and the person who asked for help is not someone else, but his mother. During the process of growing up and learning, the child has experienced several experiments and found that this is a correct conclusion. What kind of reaction do you think he will have?"

"What kind of reaction?"

"Naturally, no matter what happens, the first thing to do is to find your mother. When he finds you, you help him. As soon as he finds you, you help him... After a long time, if he stirs you up, who do you find? ?”

The mothers struggled: "But...that is my child, I can't refuse him, right? And if there are too many rejections, it's not good for the child, right?"

Second-born mother: "I didn't ask you to reject your child, but to teach your child to ask his mother for help with some things and his father for some things. Let him learn to divide time and ask for help according to the object."

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Although Gu Qingling also wanted Yao Jiuye to be close to her, she really didn't want Yao Jiuye to call "Mother" whenever something happened in the future.

Let Yao Jiu get used to the existence of the maids, and let him know who to ask for help on what matters, so that she can relax.

Otherwise, when Yao Jiuye can talk and run away, Gu Qingling will really have a hard time—it will be difficult to do other things if he is caught up in the child.This is also why, in the big families of this era, the head of the house will always arrange nanny, maid and mother-in-law to take care of the children, because if she doesn't do that, she won't be able to spare her hands to manage the general affairs.

Gu Qingling didn't want to throw Yao Jiuye to the nanny, he got close to the nanny and treated the nanny as another mother.

Just like Mrs. Yao, she came from a scholarly family, virtuous and virtuous, but when she married into Yao's family, didn't she bring a nanny along with her?
Not only brought the nanny with her, but also arranged work for the nanny to provide for her in the elderly.

But what about a modern "nanny"?

In modern society, there are a few children who are brought up by nanny who will say when they grow up: "I want to provide for the nanny".

Babysitting is just a job.

After the child learns to be independent, she should abdicate and return to her own job.

Gu Qingling, the nanny next to Yao Jiuye, planned to arrange it like this - she was only responsible for breastfeeding, and everything else had nothing to do with you.One day, Yao Jiuye no longer needs to drink milk, and the nanny can leave.

Gu Qingling can ask the maid to take care of Yao Jiuye's daily life, but the child's education must be firmly in her hands.

Gu Qingling explained the whole thing, and the big girl Chunchun understood, but unfortunately, she herself is an unmarried girl and has never brought up children, so how can she understand the truth of this, she just thinks that the old lady is "souring" herself .

She smiled and said: "Old Majesty, slaves are meant to serve the master. Isn't it right for Master Jiu to call out servants and order them to work? If Master Jiu is willing to use slaves, slaves will be happy. This shows that Master Jiu likes them." Slaves."

"That's true, if he likes to look for you whenever he has something to do, he must like you and trust you, otherwise he won't look for you." Gu Qingling said, "I'm just afraid that you will have too many things to do and you will be too busy. Now you Do you know why I named his maid 'Shusu'?"

"Is it for the convenience of Master Jiu calling her name? Madam, you have thought too carefully, haven't you?" The big servant girl Chunchun finally realized.

She just said, why is the maid's name different from everyone's, so she is waiting for everyone here.

"You are my maid, and you will definitely follow me. Even if Master Jiu wants to find you, you can't follow him every day. Shusu is the maid I gave him, and I follow him all day. Naturally, I want to get a good one." Name." Saying that, Gu Qingling smiled and looked at Shusu, the eldest maid who was standing aside.

The eldest maid, Shusu, was stunned for a moment, then came back to her senses, and quickly thanked Gu Qingling, saying that she would definitely take good care of Jiuye in the future, so that Jiuye can grow up healthy.

When she was sent to Yao Jiuye's side, Shusu had already guessed the old lady's intentions, and she would definitely stay by Yao Jiuye's side to serve her in the future.

But what Shusu didn't expect was that the old matriarch had already been making arrangements for her since he named her.

Gu Qingling said: "I believe in you. When I gave you this name, I knew that you have a calm temperament, a down-to-earth person, and you are rough and delicate. With you serving Xiaojiu, I can rest assured."

The news that Yao Jiuye would call people spread throughout the Yao mansion overnight.

Even Uncle Yao, who was preparing for the exam, ran up to Gu Qingling, congratulated her, and joined in the fun, Yao Jiuye called "Brother".

"ge-ge!"

"Hey!" Uncle Yao was very happy when he heard that Yao Jiu had successfully called out "Brother". He immediately hugged Yao Jiu into his arms, his serious face was full of smiles.

It has been almost twelve years since Yao Anxin was born, and Uncle Yao has not held such a small child in his arms for a long time.

Now in my arms, the feeling is naturally a little different.

If Gu Qingling hadn't recognized Master Yao Jiu as his "adopted son" in advance, looking at this white and beautiful little doll in front of him, who was as beautiful as the boy under Guanyin's seat, Master Yao would have wanted to take him back to their big house to raise him.

"Xiao Jiu and I are really close, I will call you brother as soon as I teach, hahahahaha..."

On the side, Second Master Yao rolled his eyes and said, "You know what you can do as soon as you teach it? Obviously, I taught it all afternoon, and finally taught it, so you came here to take advantage of it."

Saying that, let Yao Jiuye call his brother.

Yao Jiuye didn't know good or bad. When someone teased him, he opened his mouth and shouted, "ge-ge."

The little face smiled, so cute.

No matter if it was Mrs. Yao, Second Mrs. Yao, or Third Mrs. Yao, all of them were greedy when they saw it.

Yao Erfu touched his belly secretly, hoping that the child he would give birth to in the future would be as cute as Yao Jiuye.

As for Mrs. Yao and Mrs. Yao, they hoped that they would get pregnant soon. It would be great if they could give birth to a child as lovely as Yao Jiuye.

(End of this chapter)