Houmen Fenghua: Meet the best evil mother-in-law
Chapter 505
Chapter 505
In fact, it can't be all Gu Qingling's fault. The era in which she lived in her previous life was too far from the current world. The peasants in her impression were like that. The ones in Zhuangzi are miserable enough, can there be worse?
And the original owner is a person who doesn't know the accumulated hardships in the world, so he doesn't know even more.
So, at the end of the day, it's a cognitive difference.
Ye Maosheng has written letters with Miss Yao Qi for so long, and he somewhat understands this somewhat delicate + arrogant lady.
Therefore, when he chose this place as the place to get married, he was already mentally prepared for her to get angry.
He just wanted to show her off and let her know clearly who he was, where he came from, and where he grew up.
If she can't even accept this, then these things will definitely become her point of "picking" herself in the future.
If he didn't want to be a "grievance couple", he had to make her sober.
However, he seemed to have underestimated Miss Yao Qi.
Although Miss Yao Qi is squeamish, when she chose Ye Maosheng as her fiancé, she had already been vaccinated by the old lady Gu Qingling, who told her that the worst situation would be - she would have to rely on her own dowry in the future Have a meal.
Therefore, the most important thing is not what the Ye family looks like, but how much dowry you have, whether you can support yourself, your future husband and children.
If other people in your husband's family are greedy for your dowry, how can you keep these things.
……
After entering the bridal chamber, Miss Yao Qi no longer had any romantic thoughts, she felt that she would have a tough battle to fight in a moment - she needed to explain clearly to Ye Maosheng what her bottom line was, and she had to ask his bottom line clearly.
They need to set a "run-in period" to adapt to each other.
This is also what Gu Qingling taught her - you don't need to hide what you can't do, just tell your husband directly.
Then you have to be clear about his bottom line. During this run-in period, you all have to step back, run in with each other, and find a point where you can balance.
He is a scholar and a magistrate, so he must not be impulsive. If you reason with him, he will definitely reason with you.
As long as you don't touch his bottom line, even for the sake of the Yao family, he will never make things difficult for you, the "aunt".
If he dares, you can go back to your natal family for help.
Of course, if you touch his bottom line and do it yourself, then don't blame your natal family for being cold-blooded and won't help you.
Before she got married, Gu Qingling gave Miss Yao Qi a good name and told her what she could and couldn't do.
Miss Yao Qi just has the self-esteem of a big lady, and she is not really stupid.
With so many preliminary preparations, even if she is dissatisfied with the status quo, she will not directly make a fuss, but will first find a way to negotiate with Ye Maosheng, and if the negotiation fails, then make a fuss.
Therefore, when Ye Maosheng came back from toasting outside and entered the room, he was greeted by Miss Yao Qi who had a calm face and wanted to talk to him.
Ye Maosheng:? ? ? ? ! ! ! !
Where's Hipa?
Shouldn't I lift the HIPA?
"Miss Seven?"
Miss Yao Qi raised her head, expressed her satisfaction with Ye Maosheng's appearance, and said, "You can call me Ruyue from now on."
"Ru Yue." Although it was a bit unexpected, Ye Maosheng still exchanged the courtesy, "You can call me Maosheng."
"Okay, Maosheng," Miss Yao Qi didn't feel ashamed at all (she had it, but she forgot because she wanted to talk about something), patted on her side, and told him to sit down, as if she was doing business, " I have something I want to talk to you about, and I think it's necessary."
Ye Maosheng raised his eyebrows and sat down.
This feeling is really strange. On the wedding night, he didn't answer the wedding invitation, and he didn't see a shy bride, and was talked to by the bride?
The daughters of big families are all like this...
Is it tough?
Ms. Yao Qi expressed her disgust for the living environment of the Ye family very bluntly. She wanted to know how long she would stay here. If it was a long time, she wanted to build a new yard.
She is not used to living in such an environment, and she wants to build a yard according to her own ideas.
Of course, if old man Ye and Mrs. Ye lived with them, she would also reserve a yard for them and arrange servants to take care of them.
She is used to being served by others, and she has little assets in her hands. It is not realistic for her to serve her in-laws without lying to others, but she can guarantee that the servants she arranges are all trained according to the standards of the family, and they can definitely take care of her. Get everything in order and you won't have any problems.
So the question now is whether Ye Maosheng agrees, and whether the rest of the Ye family agree.
"This is my bottom line, so what about you, what is your bottom line?" Miss Yao Qi raised her chin slightly, motioning for him to answer her own question.
Miss Yao Qi, who was well-behaved in front of Gu Qingling, was somewhat arrogant in front of Ye Maosheng. Although she was not overbearing, it could be seen that she placed her status a little higher.
Even though he tried his best to have the intention of negotiating, there was a bit of "command" in his tone.
Ye Maosheng laughed a little, the situation was much better than he thought, and he also understood her temperament in the letter she wrote, and said: "We won't stay here any longer, if you want to stay here again To build a yard, the question is whether or not...but, after your yard is finished, is it going to be empty, or is it going to be lived in?"
He reminded Ms. Yao Qi that if she wanted to be vacant, she had better leave it vacant from the beginning, not letting anyone live in it, otherwise once someone moved in, when they came back in a few years, no one would know who owned the yard. .
No matter how good you say it at the beginning, once you make a start, it will be difficult to finish it later.
"If we won't stay longer, how long will we stay?" Miss Yao Qi frowned slightly, "If it's not too long, I can consider being patient."
The use of the word patience shows Miss Yao Qi's dislike for this place, Ye Maosheng laughed again: "I have three months of marriage leave."
"Three months..." Ms. Yao Qi calculated, "But where do I live with so many servants? How often do we come back? Every time we come back, the servants must have a place to stay, right? What if I Bring a lot of things..."
Balabala, the more I talked, the more I felt that even if we didn't stay for a long time, it was necessary to build a new yard.
One, she is not used to the Ye family's "broken house"; the other, she is spoiled, living with them, she is afraid that she will not get used to it.
Instead of this, it's better to separate from the beginning, the smell of being far away, and the smell of being close, maybe you can avoid some unnecessary troubles.
Don't worry about the money. She wants to live in a new yard, so she builds it herself. Everything here is hers.
Just like she used to be at Yao's house, she usually lived in her own yard, but she would still go to the old lady's yard when something happened.
Ye Maosheng soon understood that Miss Yao Qi wanted to maintain her previous life in the Yao family - she regarded his parents as the old Mrs. Yao who went to pay her respects every day.
I usually live my own life, step by step, and go to the elders to greet and talk to the elders when necessary.
He was also very interested in the "bottom line" and "run-in period" proposed by Ms. Yao Qi. He felt that this Ms. Yao Qi was not as "brainless" and "impulsive" as the letter showed, and she clearly had some ideas.
This is good, he wants to be promoted, and he doesn't want the woman in the backyard to be too stupid to cause him trouble.
(End of this chapter)
In fact, it can't be all Gu Qingling's fault. The era in which she lived in her previous life was too far from the current world. The peasants in her impression were like that. The ones in Zhuangzi are miserable enough, can there be worse?
And the original owner is a person who doesn't know the accumulated hardships in the world, so he doesn't know even more.
So, at the end of the day, it's a cognitive difference.
Ye Maosheng has written letters with Miss Yao Qi for so long, and he somewhat understands this somewhat delicate + arrogant lady.
Therefore, when he chose this place as the place to get married, he was already mentally prepared for her to get angry.
He just wanted to show her off and let her know clearly who he was, where he came from, and where he grew up.
If she can't even accept this, then these things will definitely become her point of "picking" herself in the future.
If he didn't want to be a "grievance couple", he had to make her sober.
However, he seemed to have underestimated Miss Yao Qi.
Although Miss Yao Qi is squeamish, when she chose Ye Maosheng as her fiancé, she had already been vaccinated by the old lady Gu Qingling, who told her that the worst situation would be - she would have to rely on her own dowry in the future Have a meal.
Therefore, the most important thing is not what the Ye family looks like, but how much dowry you have, whether you can support yourself, your future husband and children.
If other people in your husband's family are greedy for your dowry, how can you keep these things.
……
After entering the bridal chamber, Miss Yao Qi no longer had any romantic thoughts, she felt that she would have a tough battle to fight in a moment - she needed to explain clearly to Ye Maosheng what her bottom line was, and she had to ask his bottom line clearly.
They need to set a "run-in period" to adapt to each other.
This is also what Gu Qingling taught her - you don't need to hide what you can't do, just tell your husband directly.
Then you have to be clear about his bottom line. During this run-in period, you all have to step back, run in with each other, and find a point where you can balance.
He is a scholar and a magistrate, so he must not be impulsive. If you reason with him, he will definitely reason with you.
As long as you don't touch his bottom line, even for the sake of the Yao family, he will never make things difficult for you, the "aunt".
If he dares, you can go back to your natal family for help.
Of course, if you touch his bottom line and do it yourself, then don't blame your natal family for being cold-blooded and won't help you.
Before she got married, Gu Qingling gave Miss Yao Qi a good name and told her what she could and couldn't do.
Miss Yao Qi just has the self-esteem of a big lady, and she is not really stupid.
With so many preliminary preparations, even if she is dissatisfied with the status quo, she will not directly make a fuss, but will first find a way to negotiate with Ye Maosheng, and if the negotiation fails, then make a fuss.
Therefore, when Ye Maosheng came back from toasting outside and entered the room, he was greeted by Miss Yao Qi who had a calm face and wanted to talk to him.
Ye Maosheng:? ? ? ? ! ! ! !
Where's Hipa?
Shouldn't I lift the HIPA?
"Miss Seven?"
Miss Yao Qi raised her head, expressed her satisfaction with Ye Maosheng's appearance, and said, "You can call me Ruyue from now on."
"Ru Yue." Although it was a bit unexpected, Ye Maosheng still exchanged the courtesy, "You can call me Maosheng."
"Okay, Maosheng," Miss Yao Qi didn't feel ashamed at all (she had it, but she forgot because she wanted to talk about something), patted on her side, and told him to sit down, as if she was doing business, " I have something I want to talk to you about, and I think it's necessary."
Ye Maosheng raised his eyebrows and sat down.
This feeling is really strange. On the wedding night, he didn't answer the wedding invitation, and he didn't see a shy bride, and was talked to by the bride?
The daughters of big families are all like this...
Is it tough?
Ms. Yao Qi expressed her disgust for the living environment of the Ye family very bluntly. She wanted to know how long she would stay here. If it was a long time, she wanted to build a new yard.
She is not used to living in such an environment, and she wants to build a yard according to her own ideas.
Of course, if old man Ye and Mrs. Ye lived with them, she would also reserve a yard for them and arrange servants to take care of them.
She is used to being served by others, and she has little assets in her hands. It is not realistic for her to serve her in-laws without lying to others, but she can guarantee that the servants she arranges are all trained according to the standards of the family, and they can definitely take care of her. Get everything in order and you won't have any problems.
So the question now is whether Ye Maosheng agrees, and whether the rest of the Ye family agree.
"This is my bottom line, so what about you, what is your bottom line?" Miss Yao Qi raised her chin slightly, motioning for him to answer her own question.
Miss Yao Qi, who was well-behaved in front of Gu Qingling, was somewhat arrogant in front of Ye Maosheng. Although she was not overbearing, it could be seen that she placed her status a little higher.
Even though he tried his best to have the intention of negotiating, there was a bit of "command" in his tone.
Ye Maosheng laughed a little, the situation was much better than he thought, and he also understood her temperament in the letter she wrote, and said: "We won't stay here any longer, if you want to stay here again To build a yard, the question is whether or not...but, after your yard is finished, is it going to be empty, or is it going to be lived in?"
He reminded Ms. Yao Qi that if she wanted to be vacant, she had better leave it vacant from the beginning, not letting anyone live in it, otherwise once someone moved in, when they came back in a few years, no one would know who owned the yard. .
No matter how good you say it at the beginning, once you make a start, it will be difficult to finish it later.
"If we won't stay longer, how long will we stay?" Miss Yao Qi frowned slightly, "If it's not too long, I can consider being patient."
The use of the word patience shows Miss Yao Qi's dislike for this place, Ye Maosheng laughed again: "I have three months of marriage leave."
"Three months..." Ms. Yao Qi calculated, "But where do I live with so many servants? How often do we come back? Every time we come back, the servants must have a place to stay, right? What if I Bring a lot of things..."
Balabala, the more I talked, the more I felt that even if we didn't stay for a long time, it was necessary to build a new yard.
One, she is not used to the Ye family's "broken house"; the other, she is spoiled, living with them, she is afraid that she will not get used to it.
Instead of this, it's better to separate from the beginning, the smell of being far away, and the smell of being close, maybe you can avoid some unnecessary troubles.
Don't worry about the money. She wants to live in a new yard, so she builds it herself. Everything here is hers.
Just like she used to be at Yao's house, she usually lived in her own yard, but she would still go to the old lady's yard when something happened.
Ye Maosheng soon understood that Miss Yao Qi wanted to maintain her previous life in the Yao family - she regarded his parents as the old Mrs. Yao who went to pay her respects every day.
I usually live my own life, step by step, and go to the elders to greet and talk to the elders when necessary.
He was also very interested in the "bottom line" and "run-in period" proposed by Ms. Yao Qi. He felt that this Ms. Yao Qi was not as "brainless" and "impulsive" as the letter showed, and she clearly had some ideas.
This is good, he wants to be promoted, and he doesn't want the woman in the backyard to be too stupid to cause him trouble.
(End of this chapter)
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