The Su God of the Reopening of the Sports Arena

Chapter 1956 The Eve of the Wedding

Chapter 1956 The Eve of the Wedding

New house in Yangcheng.

The first night of the wedding.

The bed is being made.

This is a local custom in Xiangshan.

People who are healthy, have both parents, are strong and healthy, have a spouse who is still alive and have many children will be chosen to set up the bed. Such people are considered to be blessed and can pass on good luck to the newlyweds.

Generally, a good day for bed installation is selected according to the lunar calendar or by professionals. Usually, bed installation is done before the wedding, and some people choose to do it on the morning before the wedding, which means a new beginning and a bright future.

The new bed should be placed in a lucky position that is beneficial to the newlyweds. It should not face the door or window, or the pillar, and it should not press against the beam.

"How did you do that? Oh, you run really fast, and you sound great outside, but how come you can't even do such a small thing?"

"It's not placed in the right position. Come here, let me do it. It's really worrying."

Su's mother watched Su Shen fiddling with the bed for a long time and couldn't get it set up, so she couldn't help but give him instructions.

This requires personal involvement.

It seems like this was the case for my parents' generation.

At this point, no matter how you give orders, you won't feel at ease.

It’s best to do it yourself.

Only then can you feel happy.

"Mom, is there any difference between what I put up and what you put up?" Su Shen looked down, but he didn't see much difference anyway.

But in the eyes of the elders, this is quite a lot of tricks.

"Of course there is a difference. Look at what you have placed. It is almost facing the door and window. You have opened the window from the beginning, which breaks the auspicious position. You are getting married tomorrow. How can this be possible?"

“You must put positive energy in place to achieve harmony and beauty.”

Su Shen smiled bitterly.

Although these aspects are customs.

But in fact, it has come to their generation.

I am becoming less and less understanding.

You can only listen to your parents and do what they say.

Of course, you don’t have to do it if it’s big.

But this kind of thing.

I still hope that both parents are satisfied.

Since parents like this kind of ritual and feel at ease after it is done, it is equivalent to buying them peace of mind.

"This bed is very particular. Look at it."

Mother Su said, "When making the bed, the process should be as follows. When setting up the bed, new bedding will be used. Almost all of it will be red, with red being the main color, symbolizing festivity. It is most auspicious to place eighteen items on the bed, including four quilts, four mattresses, two pairs of pillows, two pairs of cushions, etc."

"After making the bed, sprinkle red dates, peanuts, longans, lotus seeds and other dried fruits on it, which means early birth of a son and happiness."

“It’s called the Sashiko.”

"After the lucky couple makes the bed, they will find a pair of healthy, lively, and smart children to jump on the bed. It is best to choose children born in the year of the dragon, pig, or tiger to add child blessings to the couple. In some places, children will be allowed to spend the night on the new bed. There is even a saying that children should pee on the new bed, which means having many children."

"This is called the child pressing the bed."

After listening to this, Su Shen wanted to lie down.

There are so many preparation steps, and it feels more mentally tiring than training.

As a result, he was immediately hit and told, "After the bed is set up, before the couple gets married, they cannot sleep in the new bed. Especially pregnant women, people in mourning, widows, and women during their menstrual period cannot enter the bridal chamber, so as not to disturb the couple's joy."

"Why do you have to lie down when you come up?"

"You should just sprinkle some candy."

"Eh? More bedside!"

"How come you don't sprinkle so little on the bedside? You need to sprinkle more on these places, so that they can be sweet and beautiful, understand? You have to remember this, otherwise when your own children get married in the future, you won't know anything."

“It’s really worrying.”

Su Shen could only smile bitterly: "Mom, there are so many details for just one installation, how can I remember them all?"

"Is this a lot?" Mother Su said, "When I was young, I had much more than this. Now it's very simple."

"I know you young people don't believe this, but you only get married once, and this time you have to follow your father and I's wishes."

"Otherwise we won't feel at ease."

"You have to know that we all like Afang very much, and our in-laws have been very polite to us. We can't neglect her, and we must be very polite to Afang, so that we can be worthy of her, understand?"

Su Shen could only nod repeatedly.

He felt that Su's mother had never spoken so much in his memory.

It seems that he really cares about this matter.

Since my parents care so much, there is nothing much for me as their son to say. I should just go along with them.

"Look at how you make the bed. The movements must be gentle and meticulous. The sheets and quilts must be spread out flat and neatly without any wrinkles or tilts. Each time you make a layer, you can recite some auspicious words, such as "Make the bed, dragon and phoenix bring good luck", "One layer of gold, two layers of silver, three layers of children bring a multitude of children", etc., to send good wishes to the newlyweds."

"Do you understand."

Su Shen nodded repeatedly.

"First lay out the mattress, then the sheets, quilt, etc., and finally the pillows. The pillows should be placed side by side with a certain distance in between, which means that the couple can accompany each other but also be independent."

"As a person, you spend half of your life in bed, so you must make sure your bed is well-made, so that you can have a more stable future."

Su Shen nodded and agreed, "I know, Mom. I probably spent most of my time in a hotel at night..."

"You are such a fool." Mother Su glared at him, then smiled again and said, "We didn't expect you to get married so early. When you were getting better and better, your father and I were discussing when you would get married."

"I heard that celebrities get married very late, and some even don't get married at all. This makes us very anxious."

Su Shen laughed and said, "There's nothing I can do, Mom. I've already found my soulmate, so why not get married?"

"Yes, yes, that's right." Mother Su smiled even more broadly when she heard this, as if she had become several years younger: "By then, we'll be able to hold our grandchildren in our arms and see them get married. If we get married so early, perhaps our grandchildren's grandchildren will be able to see them..."

"My life is perfect as I have four generations living under one roof. I can also report to your Su family when I go down."

These were the wishes of the previous generation of Chinese.

Since my parents like it.

Then there is no need for him to object.

Because of what I want to do.

Your parents never objected, did they?

Heart to heart.

This is just a kind of filial piety.

"After the bed is set up, a red bedspread or bed sheet will be used to cover the new bed to prevent dust or other debris from dirtying the new bed. The bedspread will not be officially removed until the wedding day."

"From the time the bed is installed until the couple's wedding, the new bed must be kept clean and tidy. Except for the child who is on the bed, others should try not to touch the new bed to avoid affecting the festive atmosphere of the new bed."

"Remember? If we are no longer around, you must make a good bed with my grandson or my great-grandson. Otherwise, your father and I will come down and make trouble for you."

Su Shen could only continue to smile bitterly and nodded: "Okay, okay, I'll remember it, but you will live a long life, and then you may have to command me about these things yourself."

"Haha, I really want to see my grandchildren."

Speaking of this, Su's mother smiled even brighter. Suddenly, she seemed to remember something and turned back to Su Shen and said, "By the way, you always say that we are superstitious. Now let me tell you something scientific."

"Huh?" Su Shen was stunned.

Weiwei never expected that her mother would suddenly say this. She was stunned for a long time without saying anything.

"Why, you're the only one who understands science."

"Remember that."

After Su's mother made the bed and came down, she said, "If the room is temporarily unoccupied after the bed is installed, the doors and windows should be closed to prevent dust, mosquitoes, etc. from entering the room. At the same time, it can also maintain the temperature and humidity in the room and protect the new bed and bedding."

“Be sure to remember to close it.”

"I'll open it before you come in."

"There's more." Su's mother said.

"Anything else???" Su Shen said, feeling like he wouldn't be able to remember any more.

"You must be nice to Afang."

"This is something your father and I discussed."

"You grew up together and know each other well. But don't get cocky just because you're a little famous now."

"You must be nice to her." "Our Su family only recognizes this daughter-in-law."

"No matter how fast you run outside, you should run slower at home."

"If you lose her, we won't let you go without them."

When Su Shen heard this, he restrained his bitter smile, nodded seriously and said, "Don't worry, Mom, I will definitely do this."

"I have been determined to be with her since I was a child."

"Since childhood? How young?" Su's mother suddenly asked, and Su Shen said it without hesitation, almost letting it slip: "Since childhood..."

"Mom, you're done. I can't tell you this."

"Because if Ah Fang's parents find out that I'm still thinking about her at such a young age, they will definitely criticize me."

"Haha." Mother Su laughed again. It seemed that this incident really made her feel good: "You are afraid sometimes, too."

"Your father and I thought you were fearless."

"but."

Mother Su looked at the room full of joy and suddenly thought of something, and her eyes became slightly blurred.

“Decades have gone by in a flash.”

"Thinking back then you were still a little baby who needed to be held in my arms."

"It's been a blink of an eye."

"Mom." Su Shen said, "Thank you for raising me. I am now a grown-up son."

"From now on, it will be my turn to be filial to you."

"You and Dad should prepare to enjoy your life in peace and contentment."

"Okay." Mother Su looked at Su Shen, a smile reappeared on her face, she nodded gently and said softly:

"Good."

"We'll wait."

……

ancient town.

The same is true here.

Lin's father and mother are both busy preparing for their daughter's wedding eve.

"Have you prepared the new clothes?"

"When the time comes, send it over to my in-laws early."

"Don't worry about me. After so many years, don't you know my ability? I have already done it." Father Lin said, "We must take our daughter's affairs seriously."

Mother Lin nodded.

At this time, she also waved her hand, asked Lin Yanfang to sit down in front of the dressing mirror, and said softly: "You will be married tomorrow."

"You have to dress up nicely."

"Come, let mom help you."

above.

Similar to the bed above.

It is also a local custom.

Mainly girls.

The hair-combing ceremony is usually held the night before the wedding, with the elders combing the newlyweds' hair and saying auspicious words while combing.

"In the past, you would have to find a lucky wife."

"Times are different now, and I don't trust others, so I'd better do it myself."

After saying that, he took out a wooden hairpin comb, walked to the left side of Lin Yanfang, and said while combing her hair:

"Comb the left side first."

"A comb to the end."

After saying that, he walked to the right and said:

"Comb the right side again."

"Two combs of white hair reaching eyebrow level."

After finishing here:

"Before combing again."

"Three combs of hair will fill the ground with children and grandchildren."

Finally, he came behind Lin Yanfang, put down the comb again, and said in a softer voice:

"After combing it again."

"Four combs and four silver bamboo shoots, all in line."

"Come here and pay respect to the ancestors."

Lin Yanfang came over and looked at the tablet in front of her. She knelt on the mat and knocked gently a few times.

After they were done, Lin's mother pulled her to sit beside the bed and said, "She's going to get married soon. Our Ah Fang is going to be a big girl."

"What do you think."

"How did time go by so quickly? I remember you were only this small at that time, and the bed was much taller than you."

"In a blink of an eye, you've grown so tall now, much taller than me. Tell me, we all hoped that you would get married and find a good family, but now you're really going to get married..."

“I’m actually reluctant to let go.”

"Mom." Lin Yanfang rarely saw her mother like this, and was also infected by her emotions. She said, "We live very close. If you want to come, just come to Yangcheng. We have a place to live, and the house that Tian bought for me when I was in college is also in Yangcheng. You can live there if you want."

"That's different." Mother Lin shook her head and said, "After tomorrow you will no longer be a simple daughter. You will be different."

"Afang, young people have their own lives. It's okay for us to visit you occasionally, but we are not used to living together." Father Lin said, "Your mother and I are used to living in the ancient town. So many years have passed. We don't plan to change. It's good to get a haircut here and have a small life."

"Just live your life well."

"But I'm wondering what you guys should do." Lin Yanfang suddenly became emotional and almost cried out loud. Perhaps every girl who was getting married that night would feel the same.

"We'll come back when you miss us."

Father Lin almost burst into tears when he saw this, so he could only pretend to be very manly and said, "Anyway, that kid is training outside on weekdays and has to compete outside. He flies everywhere and is not at home. If he stays alone and misses us, he will come back."

"The lights in the house are always left on for you."

"Yeah." Lin Yanfang nodded barely audibly.

"You're also very nice to her." Lin's mother said, "I can see that they like you very much, too. Tian is a good kid, but sometimes he's just too nice. Alas..."

"Why are you sighing? It's good or bad." Father Lin said, "What if we find someone who is mediocre? Then we will have to worry ourselves to death."

"That's right. Tian has been around for so many years, and he is reliable."

Mother Lin calmed down a bit, looked at Lin Yanfang and smiled again: "Okay, go to bed early, the bride will be picked up tomorrow."

"Our daughter must be beautiful."

“Let others know too.”

"Our daughter."

“It’s pretty good.”

"By the way, Dad, drink less." Lin Yanfang said before leaving: "I almost couldn't stop you last time."

"Okay, Mom and Dad."

"I am leaving."

"Ah."

"Let's go."