Daming Taoist Medicine

Chapter 267 Chapter 267
Seeing Yang Fan's thirsty expression, Kong Ru was in a good mood, and said with a smile: "Eating with bowls is to cherish food, and wedding etiquette is naturally to correct one's mentality to cherish feelings; when guests come to our house, we will take bowls and pass chopsticks , Serving rice, and serving vegetables, this is to show our respect and friendship to the guests. The same is true for the complicated etiquette of marriage. It is to express to the woman’s family that we will love and cherish their daughters, and to express to the women that we will respect and care. her whole life."

"People invent troublesome etiquette systems to lower themselves and make others feel comfortable with you; to straighten their minds so that others can see our solemnity; to let others see our seriousness with sincerity. Attitude. As for getting blessings and blessings, they are all fake. How can blessings be obtained through rituals? Don’t you get rich by giving a gift? Who wants to manage life in a down-to-earth manner? Blessings are obtained through hard work after correcting your mentality, and only what you get through your own struggles can not be scattered, lost, and continued.”

"You pray to Buddha to get rich, but you still gamble the next day. Can you get rich? You worship your ancestors to bless yourself from illness, and you still don't take medicine or exercise the next day. Can you be healthy? You prayed three times to enter the bridal chamber and get married. But later you are too lazy to play around, can you be happy?"

Yang Fan shook his head.

Kong Ru said: "Impossible. The etiquette system is to let oneself calm down after achieving results, to abandon the previous suspicions to each other after making mistakes, to let go of the past, and to embrace the future. Any etiquette is not the end, but the starting point. .Marriage is the beginning of happiness, not the end of happiness; just like, New Year's Eve is the beginning of the new year, not the end of the old year."

Yuan Nong couldn't help nodding, Yang Fan said thoughtfully: "Then it seems that I have misunderstood, I still think that marriage is a vanity for women to satisfy themselves."

Kong Ru smiled and said, "It's not completely unreasonable for you to think so."

Yang Fan cupped his hands and said, "I would like to hear the details."

Kong Rudao: "I don't know when it started. The luxury of the wedding ceremony, whether the dowry is rich or not, and the number of tables at the wedding banquet have become the criteria for judging whether a woman is married well or not, and whether a man loves her. It has become a topic for women to compare .So you say that marriage is for women to satisfy their own vanity, and that makes sense."

"But, can a wedding really show that a man loves you?"

Yang Fan said: "Of course not. The high-ranking officials and nobles carried the sedan chairs eight times, one after another, each of them eighteen beautiful, but what he loves is not the person, but the sex. When the color fades, the love fades, and when a person fades, he loves the widow. Look at Xiao Cui and Tie Zhu, a man who has returned from a long life, a lover from a poor family, no order from his parents, no words from a matchmaker, no one to look after him, no one to bless him, not even a decent gift from the Duke of Zhou, but they One blocked the knife for love, and the other died for love, who can say they are despicable?"

Kong Ru nodded in agreement, "Eating sex is also good. But eating only one color is a taste."

Yang Fan asked: "Brother! Since etiquette is a troublesome and useless rule, why do people like to indulge in extravagance?"

Kong Ru shook his head and said, "Etiquette is useless, but its meaning is."

Yang Fan: "Brother, please teach me."

Kong Ru: "We still use the wedding analysis. Whether we are in love or not, whether we can be happy or not, cannot be measured by the grandness of the wedding. As I said just now, the wedding is the beginning, not the end. The wedding is just the end of love, but it is The starting line for the family."

"It's obviously thankless, and it's clear that money is spent to pay for sins. Why do I still advocate that it should be held? Because a man marries a woman to give women a sense of security; a woman marries a man to create a sense of belonging; to let relatives, friends, and neighbors Youshe participated in order to witness for others."

"Etiquette is a ceremony to summarize one's past, correct one's mentality, yearn for one's future, be proactive, and create greater glories."

"Marriage is to give a family a name and a starting point."

"A full moon is about giving a child a name and warmth."

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Kong Ru worked tirelessly and taught earnestly; Yang Fan listened with radiance and bright eyes; Yuan Nong watched without saying a word and smiled, nodding repeatedly.

The more knowledgeable a person is, the more he likes those who are eager to learn to ask him for advice; the more virtuous an elder is, the more he hopes that there will be successors in culture and thought.

There was a sudden coughing sound in the wing room, and Yang Fan was stunned when he heard it, thinking of his daughter, he didn't care about the chair he brought down, got up hurriedly, and rushed to the bed in a hurry.

Yuan Nong and Kong Ru smiled at each other, and followed them in to check the condition of the sheep.

Yang Yang was weak, with big blinking eyes looking at Yang Fan weakly through the corners of the quilt, and asked softly, "Have I slept for many years?"

Yang Fan: "Why do you ask such a question?"

Yangyang: "Your hair is gray, I must have slept for a long time."

Only then did Yang Fan notice his own situation, and said with a smile, "I'm really angry."

Yang Yang said with concern: "Then you need to exercise more."

Yang Fan: "Huh?"

Yangyang: "Once you get old, your body must be very weak. Do you think you should exercise more?"

Yuan Nong and Kong Ru stood behind Yang Fan, and burst out laughing when they heard this, Yang Fan was embarrassed.It would be unfair to say that Yang Fan is physically weak.

The five elements of the human body are interdependent in circulation.People who drink and blush are less likely to die of drunkenness than those who don't. This is because people with red faces have obvious reactions to alcohol poisoning, so they will not cause tragedies due to excessive drinking; women generally live longer than men because of tears. Because tears contain a lot of toxins, shedding them will obviously help the body, so women who can cry live longer than men who advocate bleeding but not tears.

Yang Fan understands these principles, but it is difficult to explain them.

He was born without tears, and the toxins accumulated over the years, and his emotions were depressed after the joys and sorrows. If the demons enter the body and the sadness is excessive, it is reasonable to lose the essence of life.

When Yang Fan heard Yang Yang's concern, he gently covered Yang Yang's hand and nodded yes.

Yang Yang coyly said: "Don't look at me like this, I think you are so nasty now."

Yang Fan asked with a smile, "Do you know who I'm talking about?"

Yangyang said: "Sometimes you call yourself Wu Ba, and sometimes you call yourself a thief. How do I know who you are? You can't be a fool, right?"

Yang Fan: ...

Yuan Nong and Kong Ru supported each other's shoulders, forced to smile solemnly.

Yang Fan: "I'm really your father!"

Yangyang: "If you're a bully, you're a bully. Why do you still say it's mine? I can't afford you."

Yang Fan didn't know whether to laugh or cry: "Father means father."

Yangyang closed his eyes tiredly, and said helplessly, "You can't marry a wife, so you want to claim your daughter?"

Yang Fan's face is a bit long, this is not the scene he imagined when father and daughter meet each other.This child keeps saying that he wants to match him with her mother, and even in a dangerous situation, he can still blurt out and call daddy to strangers. Why does he act like this when it's his turn to tell the truth?

Yuan Nong and Kong Ru blushed and walked quickly to the bedroom, and then there was a burst of belly laughs from outside.

Yang Fan couldn't laugh or cry: "I'm really your father."

Yang Yang gave Yang Fan a reassuring look, and said with a smile, "Oh, don't worry, I will introduce you to my mother."

Yang Fan said: "Look at me carefully, and then compare yourself, don't you find that we are very similar?"

Yangyang: "You are already old, and you still put gold on your face." The implication is: how can you be as beautiful as me?

Yang Fan was completely defeated.

Yang Yang said seriously: "Although you are also very skilled, my father is the most beautiful man in the world. How could he be a white-haired man? Do you know how many people pretend to be my father?"

Yang Fan: "Oh? Are you talking about Yang Fan?"

Yang Yang nodded and said: "Yes, you have heard of his name, right? Do you also think I am impersonating his daughter?"

Yang Fan affirmed: "You are Yang Fan's daughter, you must be Yang Fan's daughter, only his daughter has such good looks and high IQ."

Yang Yang smiled like a flower, cute and compelling, "That's natural."

Yang Fan: "Is your mother's name Tong Tong? She has beautiful double eyes, is good at archery, and wears simple clothes."

Yang Yang looked at Yang Fan in astonishment, and nodded slightly.

Yang Fan: "Does she like to eat fish, does she practice archery every night, does she squat while sitting on the bench, does she like to sew a little cash into her clothes?"

Yangyang: "You..."

Yang Fan: "I am really your father."

Yang Yang stretched out his hand with watery eyes, and yelled crisply: "Daddy!" and burst into tears.

Yang Fan hugged him into his arms and spoke softly to comfort him.

The father and daughter spoke softly and missed each other.

outside the door.

Yuan Nong imitated Yang Fan's tone and said: "You are Yang Fan's daughter, you must be Yang Fan's daughter, only his daughter has such good looks and high IQ."

Kong Ru also imitated the sheep's tone, "That's natural."

The room was awkward for a long time, and then it started to chatter again.

Yuan Nong and Kong Ru looked at each other and smiled.

Yuan Nong said: "Let this narcissistic father and daughter have a good chat, let's go get some rice porridge, this father is boasting that he is smart, my girl has been in a coma for two days, and she doesn't know how to get something to eat .”

Kong Ru nodded yes, and walked side by side.

Hearing the footsteps going away outside, Yangyang lay in Yang Fan's arms and asked softly, "Daddy! Who were the two grandpas just now?"

Yang Fan said: "The shorter one is your father's senior brother named Yuan Nong, and the taller one is your father's second senior brother named Kong Ru."

Yangyang: "So it's Daddy's senior brother, no wonder he looks so kind."

Yang Fan: "A good person will give people a sense of intimacy."

(End of this chapter)