I want to work hard too!

Chapter 411 Brother?son in law? 【Ask monthly ticket】

Regardless of Zhao Mingyang's previous life or the present, there is an insurmountable thing. He has never reached the top of the pyramid, so his cognitive range is limited.

There is a big information gap, how terrible is the information gap?

For example, when a netizen from Tianya posted an article about what the future would hold, he was chased by a group of people.

Said that he was whimsical, exaggerated, and even said that he was nothing but bragging.

That article was about our domestic real estate market in the future, specific to the future development direction of each region and the value of houses, etc. It was not until ten years later that everyone felt chills, because many plans and his post ten years ago were basically the same. Almost the same direction.

And that netizen was also found out to be a student of a certain boss. He shared what he learned and heard back then, which is the direction of future planning.

Of course, this is considered a violation, but even if he sent it out at the time, no one believed it, so the matter was left alone.

In a few years ago, he meant to buy a house if he had money, and he mentioned which areas would have a sharp rise in housing prices in the future, because a group of companies and plans would be implemented, and if he had no money, he would borrow money to buy a house, and he would return soon. Book.

Who believed it at the time, because the overall housing prices were not high, everyone thought this person was talking nonsense.

This is the problem Zhao Mingyang is facing now. It has been 12 years now, and it will be 13 years soon. He knows the general direction of the next ten years or so, but many things are plans for the next 20 years.

The further he went, the less obvious his advantage was, so he had to climb up, and the surest way to climb up was not to get acquainted with Shen Nanshan and Xu Lang.

In their view, Zhao Mingyang is nothing more than one of the young talents, not something that cannot be given up.

And if they are together with Xu Qingqing, they have a child with Xu Qingqing, coax Xu Qingqing well, after having a child, Zhao Mingyang will be a member of the family.

Zhao Mingyang checked, Xu Qingqing's family is only her one daughter, to be precise, Xu Qingqing's father is only her one daughter, even in the next ten years, no information about her father having any illegitimate children has been revealed.

Her parents won't give up on Xu Qingqing, as long as Xu Qingqing doesn't give up on herself, then this will be bound, then even if it comes to the age when she has no advantage, that is, the next five or six years.

Zhao Mingyang can also use Xu Qing's family's information network to continue to obtain future information and continue to improve his career, which is why Zhao Mingyang insists on entering the Xu family's door.

He knows very well that his advantages are not obvious at all, especially in the next few years, so he must have a backer and an information network.

"President Xu, I have a question for you. I've always been curious, but I haven't come into contact with it. Maybe you have come into contact with it. You said that the so-called nobles, those families that are still prosperous for four or five generations, and those of us ordinary people What is the difference between education?" Zhao Mingyang sat down and looked at Xu Lang and asked.

Xu Lang was also stunned, why didn't this kid answer his own words, but asked this question instead?

Xu Lang paused and said, "Actually, there's no need for you to ask this question, unless you have about the same wealth as me, and I'm actually researching and working on your question.

To put it simply, in some schools, I am the only one who has money, and they don't let me in. It's not that the school doesn't let me in, but some parents, because it belongs to a closed circle, and people must leave before they can invite new people to enter.

At that time, I thought that when this is waiting, the living can still let this suffocate, just use your brain.

I bought a manor in country F, built a teaching building in the manor, and then I spent money to hire teachers from those so-called aristocratic schools, and the annual salary was 100 million US dollars.

Isn't this coming? The teachers are not nobles, they only recognize money, but they have taught nobles and know how to teach.

Soon I understood what was going on. I spent about 2000 to [-] million dollars to buy a reference answer, which was not a loss of money, so I opened this kind of school in China later.

The education mode is actually very simple. It is to let the children try some things when they are young, such as painting, piano, Go, equestrian, skiing and so on.

To find out the hobbies that children are most interested in, the field with the highest talents, and find professionals to cultivate them is to highlight a child's strengths. Do you think children have specialties?
I can tell you from the person in charge that basically every child has a specialty, but why can't ordinary children discover it?

Because there are no more opportunities to try and choose, can ordinary children get in touch with golf?Equestrianism?Do you ski these items?
If you give an ordinary child to try more than ten kinds of projects, you will discover the child's strengths and strengths. In fact, ordinary people can do it, but what ordinary people can't do is to persist in the later stage and have enough time to learn , as well as the guidance of famous teachers.

For many skills, such as playing the piano, the piano teachers in those cram schools may only be able to take children to the beginning, yes, they can only take children to the beginning, because these teachers are also at the entry level.

For teachers with a higher level, ordinary people cannot pay the fees. If ordinary people insist, they can of course pay the fees. Just sell the house and take him to look for famous teachers everywhere, but this is too risky for ordinary people. If the child does not become a talent and does not have a house, it will be very disturbing.

The second is useless socializing and learning. The useless socializing here refers to children playing with a group of children every day. The answer I got from a teacher hired with a high salary is that the children of those families who you say can be rich for four or five generations We will be studied by adults around us since we were young.

For example, when adults go to some conferences, some charity activities, some poverty alleviation in mountainous areas, etc., they will keep their children by their side. The children around the world can actually deal with any situation and know how to deal with it. thing.

Many Zhejiang merchants have brought their children by their side to learn how to do business since they were young, and the routines are actually similar.

There is one more big difference, which probably won’t be accepted by many people, but most of the children of this kind of family, especially boys, the family members will not hinder their love, and they will teach them how to coax girls, which is terrible. Do you know where the problem is? "

Zhao Mingyang was silent. He was digesting Xu Lang's words. He looked up at Xu Lang and said, "I intend to train their children not to be influenced by feelings. Don't give up everything because of a woman. Frankly speaking, people who fall in love too much , People who have never been in love have completely different attitudes towards feelings.

Ordinary boys, who have never been in a relationship, may give everything when they meet a girl, and even know that the girl has betrayed him. When the girl comes back, she can still accept the girl and forgive the girl. He pays too much attention to feelings. "

"That's right, that's why many girls like the rich second generation. It's not that the rich second generation is rich, but that the rich second generation can coax people and know how to coax girls. It's easy to get girls' favor. It's not me. It's just the skills that come with it, but it's taught by the family subtly.

Finally, when it comes to education, their education is actually giving up some useless knowledge. The teaching materials are all customized, such as history books, which teach failure cases in global history. How to avoid such failures, most of them teach how to communicate with Getting along with people is very important. Their academic pressure is not great, but extracurricular activities are the most stressful.

For example, let the children plan a drama by themselves, sort out what they need, purchase by themselves, contact the venue and staff, etc.

I am learning and exercising my child's own abilities all the time. Of course, if some children are very talented in physical chemistry, the family will definitely do everything possible to let the children specialize in this kind of learning and find famous teachers instead of letting them learn. Children are learning subjects that they are not good at, such as foreign languages.

Of course, not all children are eager to learn, so they have one thing in common, that is, there are many children, and they will not let themselves have no way out because of one child.

For example, Wang Sibo's father said that he regretted that there was only Wang Sibo as a child. He was really not kidding, because he had no other choice, only Wang Sibo had a choice, and later he was passive, and could only compromise and support Wang Sibo, because there was only this a child.

Those families that have been rich for several generations rely on choosing the best child to succeed them. If the best child has an accident, they will find the second best. Their core is not how to make money, but how to make money. To train successors.

Of course, many politicians have received this kind of training since they were young. These are too far away from ordinary people, and you really don't need to understand them. "

How could Zhao Mingyang dare to tell Xu Lang that he wanted to know this, maybe it was to get his daughter's attention, Zhao Mingyang just wanted to know the growth trajectory of the children of those families who had been rich for more than five generations.

"Yeah, this is too far away from me. I would like to ask you something. Do the children of those wealthy people on the domestic wealth list have this kind of education?" Zhao Mingyang asked.

"No, there are overseas Chinese. The group of people on the domestic rich list, including me, are really rich, have wealth, and can spend money lavishly. They are all after [-]. At that time, most of the rich didn't understand it themselves. What about the capital market?

The older children of the wealthy are no different from ordinary people. They have no special skills and no planning. The most they can do is to go abroad to study and see the outside world. No one will hire bodyguards because no one knows them. They, they are no different from ordinary people, except that they are very rich, spend money like water, and talk wildly. This is also the origin of the term nouveau riche, which means suddenly rich.

The nouveau riche generally have a maximum of five years of success. Money is windfall, not how strong a person is. For example, a person with little ability is suddenly demolished, and the old man in the family left a lot of land, and he suddenly gained millions. Wan, don't know how to manage wealth at all, including some coal bosses, most of them are windfall.

As for me and Dadongzi Rebs, we ran up step by step on our own. After we have wealth, we know how to plan it, because it belongs to the wealth obtained by personal ability, but now we are at most entrepreneurs, which is still given. It has a great reputation, but it is actually creating a generation.

The children are at most the rich generation, not the rich second generation, because we are now in the stage of starting a business, and wealth is unstable. Many people always think that we are the rich generation, but the rich generation and the entrepreneurial generation are actually very different.

Waiting for my grandson to be regarded as a serious rich second generation. It is generally said that the rich are no more than three generations. In fact, it is four generations, not three generations. Three generations, with the creative generation, will never let the third generation take over the family fortune Lost, and if the first generation passed away suddenly, the fourth generation may be completely ruined.

A century-old family, a century-old family, if it can still prosper after 100 years, it is a rare big family, and it can be called a family. "

Zhao Mingyang basically understood. He looked at Xu Lang again and asked, "In the future, will there be a business legend of a grassroots counterattack?"

"Do you mean after now, that is, 13 years later?"

"Yes." Zhao Mingyang said.

"That's basically impossible. The times have changed, the capital market is stable, and the business circle is mature. You look like the founder of Tuanmei and the Xiao Chen who spoke for him. The two post-[-]s are typical fathers in business. The family already has money, and if they are very rich, they belong to the rich generation. In the future, the younger generation will mostly fight for resources and opportunities for failure and trial and error.

You see, the post-[-]s are not young this year, are there any post-[-]s in their early twenties who are famous in the business circle?Not to mention the post-[-]s, there are not many grassroots post-[-]s.

At that time, we were completely rewarded by the times, the market was empty, and we could make money in any line of work. What would you ask a young relative to do now? "

"So ordinary people, the younger generation wants to counterattack. I'm talking about men. How can they be the same as your era? Or like the boss of Tuanmei."

Xu Lang narrowed his eyes and looked at Zhao Mingyang and said: "I know why you kid asked me the previous question, okay! You brat, you are so brave, I treat you like a brother, but you want to be my son-in-law!"

　What's more, I'm too tired, take a rest first, and feel a little dizzy.

　　
　
(End of this chapter)