I want to work hard too!

Chapter 917 Love Should Be Pure
At the next table where Zhao Mingyang was eating, a father and daughter were having a conversation. After a while, a boy came, wearing a school uniform. The boy was a little cautious and scared, especially when facing the middle-aged man with short hair who was throwing at him, the boy lowered his head and dared not look at the middle-aged man.

The boy didn't know where to sit, so he stood there at a loss. The middle-aged man looked at the boy and said, "Sit, sit next to my daughter."

The boy deliberately kept a certain distance from the girl. After drinking the noodle soup, the middle-aged man put down his chopsticks, wiped his mouth with a napkin and said, "I don't object to your falling in love. At the age when you are in love, I asked you to come out for a chat. I didn't go to the teacher. , did not go to your parents, I know that if they know about this, they will criticize you at most, and the more you criticize and oppose, the more you may resist."

The middle-aged man's daughter and the boy didn't speak, they were both silent, Zhao Mingyang was at their table in the restaurant, and the boss was busy in the kitchen, so Zhao Mingyang could hear very clearly at this moment.

The main reason is that it’s almost ten o’clock, and almost no one comes to the noodle restaurant to eat, and most of them go to food stalls or barbecue restaurants.

The two teenagers should have just finished their evening self-study and school. The middle-aged man looked at the two of them and said again: "I am also from the past. There is a saying that is very good. The person I like the most in life stays at the age of seventeen or eighteen, because most people I will never get it and never forget it, so I often recall this beauty. Love at this age is the purest and purest.

But as a parent and a father, I want to consider my daughter's health and future. Don't worry, I will not stop you from falling in love. I even wish you a beautiful love. Girl, you don't have to lie to me in the future, and you don't have to I sneaked out to meet this kid on Saturday, and when I was in a relationship, I was open and generous, and there was nothing shameful about it.

But there is a premise, you are in the second year of high school, and you will be in the third year of high school soon, one major in liberal arts and one major in science, thinking about each other every day, running to see each other after class is really a waste of time and affects emotions, and ultimately affects your studies and future.

On Saturday, you can make an appointment to watch a movie. How good is that? The premise is that your grades will start from this time, and you must maintain the top [-] in the class. This is not a high requirement, right?If you fall out, I'm sorry, your short-term love ends here.

Let's put it this way, I will transfer my daughter directly to another school, and I will never approve of you being together, because you can't even keep your promise to me, let alone love."

The two teenagers looked at each other, and they didn't expect the middle-aged man to say such words.

Zhao Mingyang found it very interesting, this father's idea is very unique.

"Okay, let's go back, give you time to think, you must send my daughter home safely, her mother is at home, I will go back later, when I get home, I hope you will give me an answer, or promise to maintain the previous Twenty, or separate as soon as possible." The middle-aged said.

The two teenagers were a little confused. They didn't expect that the middle-aged man would not object or criticize at all. They were a little at a loss. They got up and left with their schoolbags on their backs. Zhao Mingyang looked at each other. This brain circuit was very novel.

After the two boys left, another middle-aged man wearing glasses came in and said, "Have my son and your daughter left?"

"Let's go." The short-haired middle-aged man said.

"How did you tell them?" The middle-aged man in glasses asked.

"I said let them have a good relationship." The middle-aged man with short hair said.

"No, Lao Li, are you crazy? I asked you to persuade them to leave. I told my son that he would not listen. I was afraid of causing a reaction. That's why I asked you to tell me to scare them. You How come you still support it?"

"He Gong, you are still a university teacher, why are you so pedantic, how do you teach your students, I say your university is not as good as ours." The short-haired man laughed.

"Get out, our school is much better than your school, why do you compare with us, wait, why are you talking about this, I'm talking about children, children, falling in love, affecting study, Puppy love!

You let them continue talking, Li Shanhe, are you crazy, you are really crazy, you support this, your daughter. "The man with glasses scolded angrily.

"I'm not crazy." Li Shanhe said.

"Are you not crazy? Don't you know what falling in love means to children's learning at this stage? If they don't get into college, do you know how serious the consequences will be? It's a matter of their life, you Can you take this responsibility? You can't take it." He Gong said.

"I know, why don't I know, you and I both know, didn't the two of us come here from a small county because of the college entrance examination that changed our destiny, and settled down here to work, without the college entrance examination, we might only be in that place for the rest of our lives, Without the college entrance examination, we would not be able to live the life we ​​are today.

But He Gong, you have to be clear. Times have changed. In the past, the sun rose and the sun went down. Anyone who sleeps in will be called a lazy person. It’s shameful to stay up late if you don’t study hard. Go out at night People are basically said not to do good deeds.

You are a university teacher, don't you know that times have changed?Nowadays, many people have to work night shifts and sleep during the day. Do you think they are at fault?Are they slobs?For example, some young people are playing live games at night. Their work and rest are different from others, but game live broadcast is also their type of work. They like this job and can persist. Was there such a type of work in the past?no.

You can’t kill lazy people who sleep late. There wasn’t so much nightlife in the past. It’s just relative. There are mixed crowds in the nightclub. I don’t deny that there are all kinds of tricks in it, so I decided to take my daughter to the bar to have a good look. Save her from being curious about meeting people who are not good.

I want to take the child to see the scene and tell her some routines, so that she can be more careful in the future. The more I hide it from them, the more curious they are and want to try to explore, the easier it is to be deceived. Tell them Some things that can't be done, why can't they be done.

Your son secretly goes to the Internet cafe, you are going crazy, and your daughter-in-law feels that the sky is falling, you take your son there in a fair manner, tell him what kind of people are surfing the Internet now, and there will be plenty of time to surf the Internet in the future, but many people because of this time Be happy, drop out of school and go online, what life is like in the end, you have to tell him.

Just like falling in love, will it really affect learning?Can you tell me that those unrequited loves and secret loves will affect learning?That's even worse, thinking about messes every day, it's even more terrifying.

Besides, is your son a heinous person?Is my niece a bad girl?No, we are classmates. The two children have played together since they were young. They can be called childhood sweethearts. Why don't we guide them correctly?

The two of them may not know whether they are suitable for each other, it is only a temporary fit, but if we break up by force, then they will hate us for the rest of their lives, and when they find their other half, they will not be as happy as each other, and they will resent us for ruining their love. Can you afford the responsibility? He Gong? "

He Gong was silent for a long time after being told by Li Shanhe, he really didn't know what to say.

Because He Gong couldn't refute everything Li Shanhe said, because what Li Shanhe said was objective.

"Let's put it this way, both of us attach great importance to studying to change our destiny. We think that we have created such good conditions, our children will definitely be better than us, and their foundation is better than ours, but the reality is different. We We must be mentally prepared that our children will never surpass us in their entire lives.

You teach physics, and I teach history. Let’s put it this way, we must not be as good as our children at our children’s age. Their knowledge must be far superior to ours, but their opportunities must not be as many as ours. How many people can go to school, how many are in school, and they will have a solid job when they go to college, and they will be allocated a job, and they will be allocated housing if they participate in work. You let us buy a suite in Shanghai now, can you afford it or can I buy it? afford it?Can't afford it.

So I also hate those experts who give advice to young people. Now that young people graduate, how many of them are related to their majors?How many people are allocated houses after graduation? Most of them are thinking about how to buy a house. How many people can’t stay in big cities. You and I are graduating now, and we may have to go back. One house is difficult for us Oh, the experts who put aside the era and the advantages of the great era are a group of parallel importers. Last time, there was a program that invited me to give lectures to young people. I directly refused, fearing that I would be called an expert.

I told your son and my daughter to keep the top [-] in the class before they are allowed to fall in love, otherwise my daughter will be transferred to another school and they will never be able to talk in this life.

Their school is not bad, and they have a Shanghai household registration. To put it bluntly, the pressure is much lower than other peers. It is not difficult to keep twenty, and it is not difficult to get 211. It is not difficult to read the end of 985. After all, there are Great advantage.

I just want them to study in a campus with a relatively good learning atmosphere. To put it bluntly, even if they go to the university we teach, they are not the pride of heaven. After graduation, they may work better than most of their peers. A little bit, but it can't be too easy.

They will have children in the future, and we will probably help them buy a house. Your house and mine cost about 120 to 130 square meters. Your house is 15 square meters, and our house is similar. Even if it is 950 square meters, based on the calculation of [-], He Gong, our house can be sold for [-] million. Is this what we worked hard for?

It can only be said that a very small part, our greatest advantage is the advantage of the big era.

We belong to those who take the elevator to go upstairs. How many young people today, including graduates from your school and our school, can buy a house in the area where we live in Shanghai?
A down payment of 30.00% is 700 million. How many years does it take for a monthly salary to reach [-] to [-] after graduation? Several times the wage growth rate, saving money for ten years may not be enough to pay [-]% of the down payment.

In this case, if you don’t earn tens of millions at once explosively, don’t even think about buying the house we live in now, or the child’s family has money, it’s not that the child wants to grow old and needs help from his parents, but it’s us, We will be the same as today's children.

For our children, you said that we will not help them buy a house in the future, you let them buy a house by themselves, to be honest, just like my daughter and your son, it is no problem to buy a house, maybe buy a small apartment in the suburbs of Shencheng, and you have to go into debt For 30 years, they will never be able to return to the place where they lived from childhood to adulthood.

The difference between the suburbs of Shanghai and the urban areas of third- and fourth-tier cities is actually not too big, just like the inner third ring and outer fifth ring of the imperial capital are two different concepts.

He Gong, if you can’t see this clearly, you are a university teacher for nothing, you have lived for nothing, and you have read so many books for nothing, don’t expect too much from your children, just be healthy and happy, and leave a good memory in your youth Very good, what is the purpose of getting into a good university in college?
In order to better experience college life, in order to have a few high-quality relationships, don’t wait until you graduate from college, you haven’t talked about a relationship, and you will lose money if you fall into a big somersault in the end.

Look at the student who graduated from the school next door. He has a successful career in his 30s and has never been in a relationship. In the end, he was cheated by a woman who is generally a little bit pretty. Why?Without love experience, the most important thing for contemporary young people to learn is the homework of love.

A marriage is likely to ruin a person's life. The reason why my marriage with you is still good, isn't it because I married a college classmate. We understand each other, have common words, and appreciate each other. That's our own choice. It's better than At the beginning, I didn't like to live together reluctantly, but it's okay to leave in the end. "

He Gong was thinking about Li Shanhe's words. The boss walked to the table with a plate and chatted with them in a typical Shaanxi accent. He cooked home-cooked food specially for them. The three of them opened a bottle of wine and spoke in a Shaanxi accent. chatting.

It turned out that these three people were from the same village, Zhao Mingyang got up and said: "Do you mind adding me as a seat, just now I benefited a lot from the chat between the two brothers, I didn't listen to it on purpose, please forgive me.

I don't eat your food for free, I know the rules, and I brought wine. "

"What do you mind, don't mind, let's have a drink together." The boss said.

"That's fine, I'll get the wine in the car, don't worry, I live nearby, don't drink and drive, don't drink when driving." Zhao Mingyang finished speaking and walked out. He chose two bottles of liquor at the tobacconist next door, and didn't choose too expensive ones. A bottle is more than 200. If you go to Moutai directly, you may not feel comfortable drinking this wine.

Zhao Mingyang took the wine and two packs of Yuxi more than 20 years ago, and used which cigarettes and wine for which occasions.

"I'm not in vain. This wine was given by someone last time. I don't usually drink much, and I don't know how to do it. The main thing is to watch you get together to drink. I suddenly want to drink, or to see you get together. I am touched by the friendship and nostalgia of being together." Zhao Mingyang opened a bottle of liquor while talking.

"You say you, we have wine here, what do you spend, this wine is a lot of money." The boss said.

"It's not much money. I paid for some old brothers. How many are from the same village?" Zhao Mingyang asked.

"Isn't that right? They're from a county town. They came out together. These two are university teachers. Back then, we were the number one scholar in liberal arts and science. They were very good." The boss gave Zhao Mingyang a proud thumbs up. Said.

"What a bull, what a bull, don't mention the brave man in the past, there are more people in Shencheng than us, and the county champion is here."If there is no ten thousand, there will be eight thousand, which is not worth mentioning. It is nothing more than a meal, nothing else, just a teacher.

Little brother, please don’t open a noodle restaurant like me, he’s amazing. This front house is his, and there are two houses here. He’s a charterer. "He Gong took a sip of wine and said.

"Yeah, the three of us were in a middle school back then, and he was a year younger than us. Later, this kid came to Shanghai after finishing middle school. He worked as a chef for several years, and just caught up with the wave of entrepreneurship. He started a business early. I opened a noodle shop and made a profit of thousands of yuan a day. At that time, many people in Shanghai had a monthly salary of only 20 yuan, and some people in other areas had a monthly salary of only [-] to [-] yuan. What kind of concept is it? He caught up with the wave of private noodle restaurants. He was the owner at the age of [-], and we were still in school. His children have graduated from college now, and our child is only a sophomore in high school. He is ahead of us in everything.

At that time, the housing price here was [-] square meters, and his daily turnover was only one square meter. He bought a facade house first, and later bought a house. If I had known what school we were going to, it would be great to come to Shanghai with you. . "Li Shanhe pointed at the boss and smiled.

"Boss, you are a charterer. I'm sorry." Zhao Mingyang looked at the boss and said.

"Hi~ I just caught up with the good times. I bought this facade house and asked someone to buy it, otherwise I couldn't buy it. In the early 90s, I spent 5000 on someone. If I didn't find someone, I couldn't buy this house. The number of places is limited. I am the most common landlord on this street, and the rest are either rich or expensive. The house cost more than [-] square meters. At that time, if you think about it, it was not cheap, so a house in a good location is not cheap. One said.

My grandfather told me that if you earn money, you should buy a front house first, and you will have money when you open the door.

I didn’t think about anything at the time, and I didn’t know what to do when I made money, so I bought a house. I was lucky to catch up with the good times. At that time, a bowl of noodles cost three yuan, and foreigners came to eat. They came to do business. For things like travel and tourism, a bowl of beef noodles for five yuan is the best seller, starting at three to five hundred copies every day.

To be honest, money was easy to make at that time. After all, there were few competitors and a lot of customer traffic, but it was also chaotic.

I only made money for five or six years. Later, there was more and more competition, and the business became worse and worse. Compared with before, the daily turnover is not as good as one-tenth of the previous one, but I am also planning to retire. Fortunately, I bought a house without messing with investment. "

Zhao Mingyang chatted with several people happily, talking about everything, and even talked about buying a car.

He Gong smiled and said: "Look at the people nowadays, many people's underlying logic is wrong and they can't break through. They only reach poverty in the end and have been unable to break through. An economics teacher in our school specifically discussed this with me."

"What logic?" Li Shanhe asked curiously.

But Zhao Mingyang has been observing this He Gong. He has an impression of this person, because one of his future research directions is very powerful. Zhao Mingyang deliberately approached them only when he saw this person appear.

(End of this chapter)