Lucky Star Gao Zhao

Chapter 198 The heart is crooked

Seeing his aunt coming back, County Captain Qian arranged tables and seats for him. After Qian Yunying greeted his elders, he has been honest and honest. Recently, he has no mother's protection. There is an uncle and grandmother who scares him at home. Said that he also behaved himself, and no longer rolled around on the floor playing rogue when he was a little unhappy.

During the meal, Mrs. Wuwu Qian asked about the studies of her nephew and grandson, and she led the conversation to Mr. Jia. Xianwei Qian joked about some interesting things about Mr. Jia, and said that he must have made a mistake and was demoted, unlike the serious gentleman in the school. , but there is a way of teaching.

After dinner, while Old Madam Qian was taking a nap, Old Madam Six and Mrs. Fifth Aunt continued to talk in a low voice.

"Let me say, even if this marriage is divorced, Yulan can still find a good one. It's not about the background of the Tu family. At least a healthy person is a whole person. No matter what happens to the Jia family and the Gao family, it depends on Yulan and the Gao family. The friendship between the eldest lady, the Gao family is well, and Yulan can also get rich. I don’t agree with using the young lady in the family to seek a future for the Qian family, but people always want to take a step forward. marry a wife."

Hearing what the sixth sister-in-law said, Mrs. Qian Wugu blushed. Although the second sister-in-law entrusted her with this marriage, she also had selfish intentions. Said that the husband and son-in-law have no serious position, and although the brother-in-law is a low-level official, he is also a member of the Ministry of Punishment.

"Sister-in-law six, I have selfish intentions, and I am also afraid that Yulan's mother will marry her indiscriminately, which will harm her even more. I did it calmly. Although my cousin sister-in-law changed her mind, her grandson is not a good person except for his bad legs. You're a crooked person, otherwise, no matter how selfish I am, I won't harm my natal niece and grandniece, but if it's for Yulan to settle in the capital, it's hard to find except merchants, so..."

The sixth old lady interrupted her: "You don't need to explain this, I understand, I feel sorry for Yulan, I don't blame you, I can't think clearly about this matter? I just think it's good to divorce the marriage, don't give it to the two beforehand. Sister-in-law said, you returned to Beijing to accept your cousin, and returned the engagement ceremony afterward, and my Qian family didn't keep anything."

Mrs. Fifth Aunt nodded, and she had an idea in her mind. She didn't say anything, and she would bring it up to Sister-in-law Six after returning to Beijing to inquire about it.

The sister-in-law and sister-in-law whispered a few more words, and the fifth aunt waited for the second sister-in-law to wake up and said that she would go back to the old house, but in fact she rushed back to Beijing by car.

The sixth old lady called Qian Yulan, said something casually, and then abducted her to Jia's house.

"Yulan, your aunt has a headache because of your cousin's study. I heard that Mr. Jia is a good teacher and wants him to return to the county to study, so I asked you to ask about it. This is a matter of the Qian family. You just know it. You don't need to tell Sister Zhao."

Qian Yulan, who was puzzled by this today, understood and nodded in agreement.

"Yulan, remember, whether the future is good or bad, don't blame others, keep your own heart, don't let your heart be crooked, just work hard, and don't compare with anyone, don't talk about outsiders, you are the relatives of the family. Sisters, there are still differences after decades, some become wives in rich families, and some work hard in the fields all their lives.”

Qian Yulan thought it meant the fifth aunt's grandmother, who had two siblings, the third aunt and the seventh aunt married in the village, the third aunt and the uncle were very close, and now they lived a life of farm children and grandchildren. Seventh Aunt's grandmother's family was in a mess, she blamed her elders for not choosing a good one for her to marry, blamed a nephew who was a county captain for not supporting her, blamed her sister for not helping her, otherwise she could have married into a wealthy wife in Beijing.

"Back then, some of our little sisters entered the palace as court ladies, and some married like-minded people. I have been in Qian's family for decades, and outsiders don't know whether it is hard or not. But when they see my current scenery, some live happily. I also know what I think in my unsatisfactory heart. I would think that she married the person I like, raised children, respected the elders, and pulled a big family. Why did she not live as decently as I did in the end? But she didn't think about it, how I have done these decades How did I get here? Yulan, you have to remember that what your heart is like will determine how you do things, what you do, not just one or two things will show how you are, it will take years of precipitation , that makes you who you are, and who you are in the eyes of outsiders."

Qian Yulan listened attentively and kept it in her heart.

"What my great-uncle said is not to ask you to do something for the sake of outsiders, or for what others think of you. It is to do it with your heart. To do anything, you must first be worthy of yourself. What kind of person do you think you want to be? , you have to think about it carefully."

Qian Yulan replied sincerely: "Yulan wants to be like a great-uncle."

The sixth old lady smiled, and asked back: "Why didn't you want to be like your fifth aunt's grandmother?"

Qian Yulan smiled embarrassedly, and said: "Yulan also admires Wugu's grandmother, but Yulan has self-knowledge, Yulan doesn't have the brains, and doesn't have that ability. Yulan wants to live her life dignifiedly, but she also wants to be like Wugu's grandmother. Going out to be the second aunt of the Qian family can also comfort my grandparents."

"You're right if you can think like this. Others are living better than you, and there is only so much they can do to help you. Don't let yourself feel dissatisfied, dissatisfied, and unwilling. With this kind of thinking, people will change beyond recognition after a long time, and others will still be the same. Others, but they harm themselves because of this kind of thinking, and when they grow old, they will not only harm themselves, because it is impossible not to show this kind of thinking in life, and it will affect the family to some extent. Your emotions not only affect yourself, It also affects family members, crooked people are cultivated by themselves."

"Grandmother, I understand that when I marry in Beijing in the future, I will not look down on my little sisters from my childhood hometown, nor will I compare myself to my husband's sister-in-law. I know my position."

Qian Yulan thought that her aunt was worried that she would marry in Beijing in the future. She looked beautiful on the outside, but because of her husband's legs and feet, she was definitely not as tall as other sisters-in-law's in the world. Awkwardness arises, and then feelings of injustice, dissatisfaction, and unwillingness to reconcile, gradually become like the seventh aunt and grandmother, becoming a person that everyone's annoying relatives and children despise.

Maybe the fifth aunt's grandmother came this time to ask her great-uncle to explain this to her.

The sixth old lady didn't say anything, just nodded.

"It's good that you know it. In the future, whether it's because your status has changed or because someone else's status has changed, don't let yourself be distracted. Other people's jealousy has no effect on you. You still live your life. You hate others. Apart from making you look unrecognizable, it can't affect others."

Qian Yulan thought of the third lady of the Wang family, and she once said to herself, sister Zhao is not because her father is the chief bookkeeper, otherwise she is nothing, her mother is from the country, and she looks ugly, but the other young ladies in the yamen are all hold her.

In the words of Sister Zhao, Mrs. Wang San has a crooked heart. If this continues, she will become ugly and her family will not accept it.

"I used to wonder why your Seventh Aunt's grandmother has been biting Fifth Aunt's grandmother all her life. It stands to reason that your grandmother is the lucky one. Her natal family is not visible. She has never suffered except being aggrieved by your mother when she married. But you Why did Grandma Qi stare at Grandma Wugu? They are still two sisters. Later I understood that it was because they were two sisters who grew up together. There was no difference when they were daughters. That’s why your seventh aunt and grandma feel aggrieved, and your grandmother didn’t know her before, so there is no difference. Therefore, the seventh aunt and grandmother whose heart is crooked have become what they are now. These two sisters are in such a different state today."

When the great-uncle said this, Qian Yulan understood. Everyone was surprised by the situation of the seventh aunt and grandmother of the Qian family. It stands to reason that the two sisters had no conflicts in the boudoir, and they got along well. There is no distinction between sisters, but later Qigu and grandmother's gossip was aimed at Wugu's grandmother, and she took out the things that pushed her when she was young for decades, to prove that Wugu's grandmother was black-hearted since she was a child .

Many years later, Qian Yulan was very grateful to her great-uncle and grandmother for saying these words to her, so that she could keep her heart and keep in touch with Sister Zhao until she grew old.

It is impossible for a person to be free from injustice and greed, but it depends on how she corrects herself. Thanks to what her great-uncle said, she understood what is right and what is wrong, and did not let the slight injustice in her heart swell and make herself become Hateful.

(End of this chapter)