Lucky Star Gao Zhao

Chapter 210

"Master, which family does Xunsheng's parents belong to?"

Gao Wenlin was also stunned, accepting this apprentice was purely forced in. He had always seen that Mr. Jia was not a good person, and he did not regard Wu Changliang as an apprentice, so he never thought of asking about it.

That's right, there is no one who does not know the parents of the apprentice who has not met the parents of the apprentice.

"I don't know either. I have to ask Mr. Jia. I didn't even think about it. It's strange to think of him as the Jia family. Why are they all from the Jia family? Mr. Jia, Mrs. Jia, Mrs. Jia, the Wang family Erlang is still Mr. Jia’s grandson-in-law, I haven’t heard Mr. Jia mention Chang Liang’s parents, it’s strange, and he’s not an orphan, I was also negligent, and I didn’t even think to ask.”

"I only remembered it two days ago, and I was going to ask Mrs. Jia, but she has returned to Beijing."

"Well, I'll ask tomorrow."

Jia house.

After reading a letter, Mr. Jia sighed and went to his nephew's yard, and said to his nephew, "Changliang, my cousin will be rushing back to Beijing early tomorrow morning. One of my best friends who came to Beijing to make friends with him has passed away. I have to go to mourning, alas! The family is in a bad situation, the son is gone, and the only grandson will not be able to go next year. My cousin has to make arrangements and help if he can. He has known each other for decades, but he is too rigid and has few friends."

Mr. Jia didn't expect his nephew to talk, he said a few words of emotion, told his nephew to rest early and went out.

He had just returned to his room when he saw his granddaughter Jia coming in, "What's the matter? No more money?"

Jia Xibei hesitated for a long time, Mr. Jia was surprised and asked, "What's wrong?"

"Grandfather, I'm most afraid that sister Zhao will ask me."

Mr. Jia raised his eyebrows, "What did I ask you?"

"Last time I asked if my surname was false, true or false, and whether I had plans for her family. I swear I had no ill intentions for the Gao family. Sister Zhao didn't think about it elsewhere. I asked Xiaowanzi today. Who is the cousin, Xiaowanzi said I would not let her tell, sister Zhao got angry, and said that she hated people cheating on her the most."

Mr. Jia smiled, thinking that the children were fighting, "Then how do you explain it?"

"I said that things in my aunt's house are complicated, and we never let them talk about it since we were young."

"That's right, you can't just say anything about the royal family."

"Sister Zhao also said not to give her any more gifts, it will put her in an unrighteous position, grandfather, what does this mean? Why is she unrighteous when I give her a gift?"

Mr. Jia was stunned, he didn't expect the lady of the Gao family to ask such a question.

He didn't know how to explain it to his granddaughter so that she could understand.

After thinking about it, he said, "Xibei, you know the words Sheng Mien and Dou Michou, right?"

Jia Xibei nodded and said, "I know, but I just don't understand, why did you become an enemy?"

"When others need help, others will appreciate your kindness. If you help others too much, it will form a habit, and the gratitude will become a matter of course. Once you don't help, the other party will resent you, so that in the end Enmity."

"Then what sister Zhao said is unrighteous?"

"If on the side being helped, your help makes her greedy, changes her, and finally creates a situation of enmity, then your actions become unrighteous to her, and she doesn't want to change in the future." It’s like this, because you often give gifts and make her an unkind and unrighteous person. It’s the same as Shengmi’s hatred. Those who give rice are also responsible, and those who receive rice are also responsible. This is human nature. Yes, there are many reasons, you must say why the person who gave the help was wrong? You gave Sister Zhao as a good friend and gave it with joy, little lady of the Xue family, you will never give it, right? "

Jia Xibei nodded and said, "Yes, I think the Gao family needs it, and I'm willing to give it."

"The Gao family needs a lot of things, but the Gao family doesn't expect to get them in vain. Once you give this, and every time you buy something in the past, as I just said, develop habits and dependence. If you don't give it, you will resent it. There is one kind that we originally made friends on an equal footing. If you have money, it’s yours. I didn’t want to take advantage of you, but you always give me gifts that I can’t repay. I am not equal in front of you. You are the giver. I am the recipient, but I don't want to accept it all the time, embarrassing, your giving has gradually become the reason for me to hate you."

Jia Xibei snorted: "No wonder Sister Zhao said that the one who pays the bill is happy, and she always won't let me give her something for her family. I thought she was embarrassed."

"Xibei, it is you who come and go between people, so that it lasts for a long time. This you come and go may not refer to objects, but it is often expressed through objects. You must feel that what you send is not what you are very happy with." If you worked so hard to get it, you wouldn’t give it away casually, would you?”

"Yes, I told Sister Zhao too, don't be too polite and take it too seriously, I don't care, I'm willing to give it away."

"Yes, that's true for you. What about others? They don't understand the hand stove you gave to Aunt Gao's family. If they knew it, they would confess it and dare not use it. Not to mention that it came from the palace, that's the value. How many houses can be bought in Wucheng County? This is unbearable for the Gao family. If they can barely bear it, they will be under pressure. This is also the reason why I concealed our family's identity. I concealed our family's identity just to conceal your cousin's identity, otherwise I, Jia Hongguang, have nothing to hide? I’m just a sheep herding boy from the countryside of Datong Prefecture.”

Mr. Jia laughed at himself, put away his smile and became pensive again.

"Xibei, my grandfather told you that when you make friends, you should choose those who are compatible, and among those who are compatible, you should choose those who can benefit you. The benefits are not material money, but ideas, so that you can grow and gain. Yes In other words, if one is diligent and ten is lazy, one should be lazy even if one is not lazy; There is a family inheritance that has been passed down for hundreds of years. When their children and grandchildren grow up, they choose the people around them carefully, that is, the servants they serve are all carefully selected. Benign, what your friends are, you are what you are. Friends will influence each other, it is important to choose your own friends, and you will be happy with happy people, just like you said with Mrs. Gao Play together, you like it very much, and you will become excellent when you are with excellent people, it is a truth."

Jia Xibei listened to his grandfather's teaching with his hands down, and understood his words.

"You go back. Grandpa has to think about it. Is he right? Not necessarily!" Mr. Jia shook his head, frowned, and sighed again.

Jia Xibei didn't understand what his grandfather said, but he didn't dare to ask. He saluted and left, went out, looked back, his grandfather picked up the pen, and wrote vigorously.

　Book friends read down slowly, don’t worry, why did you write like this earlier, writing about Mr. Jia’s effort to conceal his identity, and it took so long in the middle, I want to write a process, and I also want to write some problems during the process, so some people think it is Fraudulent marriage.

　　This chapter is about making friends in life, the mentality of giving and receiving, and choosing friends.I agree with Gao Zhao's idea that friends communicate with each other.

　　I also like to say a word, people who pay the bill are happy (not the kind who are taken advantage of), giving is more satisfying than receiving.

　　Of course, there are also people who feel that it is beautiful to take advantage of it, and it varies from person to person.

　　
　
(End of this chapter)