The origin of the star lotus world

Chapter 2212 Text

Chapter 2135

I didn’t buy anything in that bookstore, but I looked at a lot of products and gained some understanding of them.

There are some unique products in that store, and the variety of products is quite rich. Maybe I will buy something there in the future and go back.

Once you leave the park, you can walk to the shopping mall without taking a car. It’s only ten minutes’ walk to the shopping mall street. It’s not far away.

While walking, talk to your family, chat, and talk about family matters.

I said that in the software, I saw several chat groups that often posted pictures and texts to prevent fraud. We should really be vigilant, pay attention to the property safety of ourselves and our families, and don't trust others easily. We should guard against scams and tricks, not be greedy, and be wise to avoid some scams. In the suburbs, or even in nearby communities, some people have been defrauded of tens of thousands, hundreds of thousands, or even hundreds of thousands of yuan. Some people can't even keep their houses because of a lot of debts. There are many real cases. Some people have spent many years and finally saved up their money, but they were defrauded. There are many traps, so we have to be careful not to be credulous, knowing that it is difficult to make a fortune easily. Ordinary people save a limited amount of money every year, so they should cherish and make good use of the money they get from hard work.

She said that there were many such cases, even in her relatives' families. Her niece, a few years ago, did not know what she invested in, and lost hundreds of thousands of yuan, which was caused by her credulity. Her niece's mother used some method to get the money out and make a whole lot of money, probably borrowed money, to pay back the boss of the unit. Later, thanks to the 200,000 yuan of betrothal gifts given by the man, most of the debts were paid off, and the remaining debts were paid off with the money given by relatives and friends as wedding gifts.

When this happened, my mother's brother didn't allow me to ask more questions. He thought that at 30, she was still a child and didn't know much. Whoever married such a good woman was blessed. He didn't think it was a big deal. It was just bad luck and the investment failed. The boss of the company also thought so. It was fine as long as the money was paid back. However, it was only one month's salary for that company. I was just fired and could not continue to work there. I had a good and stable job, but I lost it. I also lost a lot of money and affected my reputation. I went to work in another dental clinic. I couldn't manage the finances. I didn't have that much trust. I paid a price. I invested in bad projects and lost so much money.

I asked her family why they didn't pay off their niece's debts? They lent her tens of thousands of dollars, just like her brother said, and when she got sick, she would have to sell her property to pay for her medical treatment. That man's ex-wife also felt that my aunt should be in charge, and that the daughter of that family was the real descendant of the family with the surname. As for my aunt's own son, he was just an outsider with a different surname. He should not have received so much care and love from the patriarch of the family. Instead, he was the authentic descendant who was not valued and cared for. Grandpa likes his grandson, and has loved and accompanied him since he was a child, treating him as a treasure in his old age, but he doesn't like or think highly of his granddaughter. Because of this, there are many conflicts among family members, and some of them are quite serious.

Her family members asked her why she had to pay off debts to relatives. For many years, no relatives helped her own children. They just stood by and criticized her children, saying this was not good, that was not right, and they didn’t want to give any money. They kept blaming and criticizing her children. She didn’t know how much her children had offended those people and had so many grudges and complaints. She couldn’t help other people’s children. When her niece got married, she gave a gift of 5,000 yuan, which was not good enough. She admitted that she was not like the woman’s uncle and aunt, who gave a starting gift of 10,000 yuan. They were all wealthy people and that was a sign of wealth. Ordinary relatives and friends gave gifts of hundreds, thousands, or even thousands of yuan, but she felt that 5,000 yuan was not too little. Later, she would buy some more gifts or give a little money to do what she could. As for her brother, if he gets sick again and needs a lot of money, then sell his two-bedroom house, which is worth hundreds of thousands of yuan, and is worth a lot of money. He also has a monthly pension of 4,000 yuan. This income is considered a mid-range salary in his hometown, and he has a pension every month, so it's not like he has no money to spend. In the future, don't always think about the property of your relatives. The relatives have some property, which is also earned through labor and saved by diligence and thrift. You have descendants who need to spend money. For example, her brother had a heart attack last summer and went to the hospital for rescue. It was quite serious. In total, he spent more than 20,000 yuan out of his own pocket. He didn't want to waste money, and he didn't want to spend much money on his daughter. When he was in danger, her niece called and cried to her aunt, asking what to do? I didn't know what to do. I didn't think that I was already thirty years old, had a family and a career, and had hope. If a family member is sick, I can spend some money within my ability and give priority to rescuing the patient. I don't need to ask others too much. I have to face my own family affairs myself. After the treatment, my mother gave her brother money, more than 10,000 yuan. She also had to pay for her brother's round-trip ticket to Hainan this year, which cost several thousand yuan. As for living expenses, he still used his pension to live. She has tried her best to do what she can, live up to her parents, treat her relatives well, and take responsibility. She has paid so much, but some people still think it is not good. Others want more money, but they will blame her if she does not give it.

I nodded and said that brothers should settle accounts clearly. This is a famous saying from ancient times and it makes a lot of sense. This principle is quite suitable for ordinary families and should be taken as a guideline. Some people think that relatives will not borrow money and not pay it back, and will not become enemies because of money, but in fact, there is a high possibility of financial disputes. Ordinary families are not wealthy families, and they cannot take too much property to share with relatives. It is okay to get together with relatives during festivals, eat and drink, and buy some gifts. If relatives encounter difficulties, you can help appropriately and provide help within your ability, but if it involves a certain amount of money, you should treat it with caution. The other party must have credibility and the ability to repay the money before lending money, so as not to borrow money easily but repay it too difficult. Some people on the Internet say that their relatives open restaurants or clothing stores and can make hundreds of thousands of dollars a year. They feel jealous. If the relatives do not give them money for free, they will often complain and blame them, thinking that the relatives are stingy and can make a lot of money but do not give them much free benefits. But why should I give money for free? They are not my parents and children, so I have no obligation to give money to my relatives for free. Others open stores to make money, but they work hard from dawn to dusk. They have to endure so much hardship and put in so much labor to accumulate that money. It is not easy. My family has many places to spend money. I earn a lot and spend a lot. It is okay to borrow money from relatives, but you have to pay it back. It is good enough that relatives can borrow money without interest, and you have to pay it back. If you borrow a certain amount of money from other platforms, you will be charged interest, and you must pay it back.

If you always try to get something for free, you will eventually have to pay the price. You have to understand this principle and rule.