The film and television city starts from the courtyard

Chapter 1341

Seeing Gao Junling starting to cut clothes, He Wenyuan hesitated to speak, turned his back to Gao Junling, looked out the window, and said, "Sister, I can't sleep these days!" "Are you happy? Let me tell you, everyone Same. No one who changes from a big girl to a little daughter-in-law can't sleep, even my sister couldn't sleep at that time."

"No, I'm a little scared."

"What are you afraid of?"

He Wenyuan said: "I don't know, I'm just afraid, I don't know what to do."

Gao Junling said comfortingly: "Don't be afraid, don't worry too much. Hong Chang is a good man, he will treat you well, and take care of you for the rest of his life. You don't look like sister... sister was afraid at that time, Houdunzi and I both You are young, those days were deep and one foot shallow, but these days are over. If you live with Hong Chang, your life must be sweeter than honey."

Gao Junling wanted to say that when she and Backing were together, she was about to have sex on the first night, but her father and his family came to catch him, and he threw his naked buttocks directly into the river. In the twelfth lunar month of winter, after Houdunzi crawled out of the river, he was already a useless person.

For so many years, the two lived without a husband and wife life. Gao Junling always felt that it was because of her own family that Houdunzi Bai Qingshan became like this, so she always felt guilty and felt pity for her husband who couldn't be a man. .

It's not that Bai Qingshan didn't propose a divorce, but Gao Junling didn't want a divorce, she felt that she was responsible, and it wasn't that they didn't have feelings, so they came here for so many years.

In the eyes of others, their husband and wife are a model of love, only they themselves know the ups and downs.It's not that she hasn't thought about telling others about her difficulties, but every time the words come to her lips, she can't say anything.

After all, this is not something glorious. My husband is a useless person. If other people find out, it will only make my husband a laughing stock in others' mouths.She wished so much that the two of them didn't choose to elope at that time, but instead proposed to get married, just like Zhao Shucheng and He Wenhui now, living an ordinary life.

He Wenyuan didn't know that there was an unknown side behind Gao Junling's seemingly happy marriage. Instead, he said, "Sister, how does brother-in-law treat you? Isn't he very nice?"

Gao Junling was stunned for a moment, and said, "It's okay, but ah, your life will definitely be better than that of your sister."

"Okay, let's not talk, try your wedding dress first to see if it fits."

Gao Junling didn't want to bring up this topic anymore, after all, no matter how you say it, her marriage is not a happy one, and the life with Houdunzi is just treating each other like guests, which is different from a normal couple.

When Zhao Shucheng came back from get off work, the first time he opened the door, he saw that the sheets that were originally spread on the bed were gone.

Zhao Shucheng subconsciously thought that it was He Wenyuan who stole the clothes, but he locked the door and didn't give He Wenyuan the key. Why could she come in and take away his bed sheets?Moreover, there is no broken glass in this room, nor is it very messy. It looks like it has been walked in and cleaned up.

Suddenly Zhao Shucheng remembered that Liu Hongchang once gave He Wenhui a room key, but he never used it. Could it be that He Wenyuan got the key from He Wenhui, so he came to steal the bed sheet?
Just when Zhao Shucheng was about to settle the score with He Wenyuan, he saw He Wenhui walking in from the outside with a package of things, and seeing the package, it was the fabric of the previous bed sheet.

Zhao Shucheng couldn't help frowning and looked at He Wenhui, and said, "Wenhui, come here, what's the matter with this bed sheet?"

He Wenhui didn't expect that Zhao Shucheng would come back before him, and he had already found out about the bed sheets, but thinking that he was married to Zhao Shucheng, he didn't have any fear.

"Hong Chang, you're back, and I'm just about to tell you. I think this bed sheet is too wasteful, and Wen Yuan has no new clothes, so I took the bed sheet and Wen Yuan made two sets of clothes. .Look, sister Junling's craftsmanship is really good."

Zhao Shucheng suppressed his anger and said, "Wen Hui, do you know that these are the wedding sheets I prepared?"

"I know, Hong Chang, don't be angry about this."

Zhao Shucheng said: "I'm not angry, of course I'm not. I have nothing to be angry about. As long as you didn't tear down this house, my house is also yours. You can do anything else."

Seeing He Wenhui's relieved look, Zhao Shucheng continued: "But Wenhui, I think sometimes you are too spoiled by your younger brothers and sisters. Now you are the person who sets the door and pillar of your family. You have to learn to discipline your children and be If they are wrong, they should be said, and if they make mistakes again, they should be beaten, so as to let them know their mistakes, let them get used to it, and sooner or later make them think that all this is taken for granted."

"At home, we don't have to care about them, but outside, other people don't treat them like this. Have you ever heard a saying that habit is like murder?"

He Wenhui was a little unhappy when he heard it, and said: "Hong Chang, how can you say that? They are my younger brothers and sisters. Is it wrong for me to treat them well? And I told you, this is myself The idea. Wen Yuan is quite pitiful. I have worn my remaining clothes all these years, and I haven’t worn a single new one. Girls, they have grown up so much. It’s normal to be ugly. I bought a new dress, and I have one myself. Even if it was not given to Wen Yuan, you should give me two new clothes, and I will give one to Wen Yun as a gift, okay?"

Zhao Shucheng said with a smile: "You should be very clear about whether it is right or wrong. Of course it's okay if you want to treat them well, but you don't know what is the fastest way to destroy a child? That is to let He lived very comfortably, pampering her non-stop, pampering her hard."

"Let me tell you a story. Once upon a time, a prisoner on death row saw his mother for the last time before he died. When his mother came, he told his mother that he wanted to have sex with her again. Mother agreed to this request with great grief. , but the death row inmate actually bit off the mother's nanny."

"Do you know why? The death row inmate said a word to his mother viciously. He hated his mother and gave him whatever he wanted since childhood. No matter what he did, no matter right or wrong, he never said no. If he was disciplined when he was young , he would not have come to where he is today, so the condemned prisoner hates his mother."

"The starting point of doting is love, but the end point is hatred. This is why habitual children are like killing children. If you really love your younger siblings, don't take doting as doting. You must grasp this scale, whether it is shopping , or other things, don’t want everything to meet their needs, but let them learn self-control, learn to distinguish right from wrong, understand what is right and what is wrong, what can be done and what cannot be done.”

"As the saying goes, the children of the poor are good at home, but I haven't seen this from Wen Yuan and Wen Tao. Even Wen Da is the same. What kind of life did your family live before I came, you yourself It is also very clear that Wenda still has to keep a puppy, which is stealing food from the adults. If you are really good to the child, even if you agree to raise a puppy, you should tell him what kind of responsibility he should bear For example, if you want to feed a puppy, you have to squeeze out part of Wenda’s own monthly food as the puppy’s dog food, instead of asking the whole family to bear it together. Also, let Wenda take care of the puppy by himself. Puppy bathing, pooping, etc. But have you ever told Wenda about these things?"

He Wenhui didn't expect Zhao Shucheng to say so much all at once, his eyes turned red, and he said, "Liu Hongchang, what are you talking about? I just made two clothes with sheets, so why are you talking endlessly? How can I educate me?" My younger siblings are my own business, and you don't need to take care of them!"

Zhao Shucheng smiled and said, "He Wenhui, remember what you said just now, if your siblings have anything to do in the future, don't come to me for help."

"Of course I know what I'm talking about, my own brothers and sisters, I will take care of myself."

Seeing He Wenhui crying and going back to his home, Zhao Shucheng shook his head and closed the door, ready to rest.

In fact, what Zhao Shucheng and He Wenhui said just now had been heard by everyone in the courtyard, but they all felt that what Zhao Shucheng said was right, habit is like killing a child.Although the children of one's own family are loved by oneself, no one else's children are used to the same as He's children.Not to mention whether other people are willing to raise a dog in the yard, but before He Wentao broke Zhao Shucheng's glass, the He family actually chose to settle the matter and not let He Wentao admit his mistake, which made the people in the yard have some opinions on He Wentao.

Of course, He Wentao was still a child after all, and they just thought the child was naughty, saying that this was also a family affair between the He family and Zhao Shucheng, so they didn't get involved.

However, although they only heard a few words about Zhao Shucheng's educational philosophy, they all admitted in their hearts that it was really good for children.Loving children is different from doting on them, they will not allow their children to agree to any conditions.

Of course, some people felt that He Wenyuan didn't know what to do. Before the wedding, he used the sheets prepared by her husband to make clothes, and gave them to her family, not to her husband.If they had changed their house, the world would have been turned upside down.

Cloth is not something you can buy casually these days, but you need to buy it with a ticket, and it still costs a lot of money, and ordinary people don't have that luxury at all.In many families, except for children, adults may not have a new piece of clothes for three to five years, and many children's clothes are not bought by themselves, but they ask relatives and friends for their children's old clothes To wear, or to change the adult's clothes.

Regarding He Wenyuan and the others wasting Zhao Shucheng's intentions so much, everyone can't say anything. We can only hope that He Wenyuan can figure it out by himself. Otherwise, wouldn't tomorrow's wedding be impossible?

(End of this chapter)