The film and television city starts from the courtyard

In fact, Zhao Shucheng has always felt that it is okay to suffer more setbacks when he was a child. On the contrary, if he has been well protected and encountered setbacks and difficulties after entering the society, it will bring great blows to those who have not experienced setbacks.

I think that after 2000, many young people would end their own lives instead of summarizing their experience and lessons because they were broken up in love or even encountered problems at work.

In fact, this is because they all had a very happy childhood, but they feel unhappy when they grow up, and cannot bear the fierce competition and complex and changeable society of adult society.

On the contrary, the older generation and those who came out of the countryside are very resistant to blows and will not give up easily. Even if they fail, they will choose to start over instead of ending their lives.

It’s like a child learning to walk. If you don’t let him walk by himself, he will always stumble and even learn to walk very slowly.But if you let him go and just encourage him, he can learn to walk very quickly.

Every age group has different setbacks waiting for everyone. On the contrary, if you do not have such experiences, it is impossible for your mind to mature.For example, you have to let go when you are learning to walk, and let him stand up by himself when he falls while running, and don't be afraid of pain.When they encounter failure, they can be encouraged, but don't help to solve these problems.

You can let them learn to sum up the lessons of failure, but not tell him the answer directly.Only with guidance and encouragement can he not give up on himself when he encounters setbacks in the future, but use the correct method to solve it and get out of the quagmire with wisdom.

Only by experiencing what you can’t ask for, what you can’t ask for, what you can’t love, regret, regret, loss, loss, being excluded, not being understood, being weak, weighing pros and cons, taking responsibility, etc., can a person really mature and have A tough heart.

Of course, the frustration education here is not the same as the persecution education. It is not about looking at other people’s children, why are you so stupid, and I don’t want you if you do this again.

Although the ancients said that filial sons are born under the stick, the stick also has applicable conditions.They have their own set of family rules and laws, and only after breaking such family rules will they enforce the family laws.On the contrary, many families nowadays do not have such family rules and family laws. On the contrary, they still refuse to listen to blows to their children, which dampens their self-confidence and thus become sensitive and resistant.

Now Qiao Qiqi is going through such a setback education stage, it can be regarded as making up for a lesson that was missed when she was a child.What Zhao Shucheng and Qiao Sanli can do is to visit Qiao Qiqi occasionally, cheer him up, encourage him, and let him know that he is doing well.

Qi Weimin didn't think so. He was busy preparing for the marriage with Chang Xingyu at the beginning, and when Qiao Qiqi first came home, Qiao Yicheng and the others really took care of Qiao Qiqi, so they were very relieved.

But when he went to visit Qiao Qiqi that day, he saw only Qiao Qiqi in the entire Qiao family, and no one else was there.

After asking Qiao Qiqi, I found out that Qiao Simei had also moved out, and now only Qiao Qiqi was at home, and she had to do everything by herself, so it was better when she was at Qi's house.

This made Qi Weimin very angry and felt that Qiao Yicheng had cheated him.If he didn't trust Qiao Yicheng, how could he agree to let Qiao Qiqi come back, but now he is suffering like this?
"Qiqi, how can you do it like this, come home with me now."

"Brother, I'm fine here."

Seeing Qiao Qiqi, Qi Weimin still felt pretty good, and immediately said angrily: "What are you doing? If you are really good, why are you the only one in this house, and you have to do everything by yourself? You come home with me right now." , at home, your mother washes all your clothes, and you don’t have to cook the meals yourself, you just need to concentrate on your studies.”

"Brother, I won't go with you, this is my home, and I really think it's good to be like this, I can do what I like by myself, and no one will bother me."

Qi Weimin saw that Qiao Qiqi was still resisting to go with him, and thought that maybe Qiao Qiqi was worried that Qiao Yicheng and the others would have opinions, so he didn't dare to go with him.

"Alright then, I'll go find Qiao Yicheng and see what he says."

After finishing speaking, without waiting for Qiao Qiqi to say anything, she ran to the TV station angrily to find Qiao Yicheng.

Qiao Yicheng was chatting with Song Qingyuan, and when he heard Qi Weimin came looking for him, he thought it was because Chang Xingyu wanted to apply for their TV station, so he came here to ask about his previous application process.

But when he walked to the door and saw Qi Weimin, he found that things were not as he thought, but Qi Weimin looked very angry.

This makes Qiao Yicheng very strange, this good Mr. Qi Weimin, who can make him so angry?You must know that Qi Weimin had never been so angry about the second aunt's relationship with Lao Ma at dusk.

"Weimin, what's wrong with you?"

"Qiao Yicheng, do you still have the face to ask me what's wrong? Did you say it yourself, Qiqi will definitely live well after returning to Qiao's house, and you will all take care of him, and this is how you take care of him?"

Qiao Yicheng was taken aback for a moment, and asked, "What's wrong with Qiqi?" '

"What's the matter? Why did you only have Qiqi in your house when I went to see Qiqi, and you had to wash your own clothes, cook by yourself, and even live alone at night?"

When Qiao Yicheng heard that Qi Weimin came to him for such a small matter, he smiled and said, "Is that why you are angry?"

"Otherwise? If you don't care about Qiqi, why do you let him go back to Qiao's house? But if you really care about Qiqi, why do you let him live alone. It's better to stay in my house, at least he You can have a hot breakfast when you go to school in the morning, and you can eat delicious meals when you come back from school in the evening, and you don’t have to wash and cook by yourself, wasting precious study time on it.”

Qiao Yicheng said: "I don't think there is any problem with this. The four of us grew up like this, and Qiqi should be used to this kind of life. I know you care about Qiqi, but I asked before Qiqi. He likes his current life very much, and he doesn't think there is anything wrong with it."

"I don't care. If you can't take care of Qiqi, then let Qiqi go back with me, and we can continue to take care of Qiqi."

After hearing this, Qiao Yicheng looked at Qi Weimin and said, "Qi Weimin, Qiao Qiqi is my younger brother, he can be wherever he should be. Besides, isn't it because Qiqi doesn't want to go back with you when you come to me?"

"He was worried that you would be unhappy, so he rejected me."

Qiao Yicheng said with a smile: "We all respect Qiqi's opinion, and we will never force Qiqi to do something he doesn't like. So this is Qiqi's own idea. If you want Qiqi to go with you, that's okay. You have to persuade him yourself."

Qiao Yicheng couldn't help thanking Zhao Shucheng, if Zhao Shucheng hadn't told him after Simei and Qiqi quarreled that this was also an opportunity to exercise Qiqi's independence, he wouldn't have been so determined to let Qiqi live like this alone.

At that time, Zhao Shucheng told him that Qiqi was a little uninitiated and didn't know how to reject others.He still didn't believe it at the time, but he tried it casually and found that it was true.

In order for Qiqi to learn to refuse, and even become more independent, the brothers and sisters went home to visit Qiqi occasionally, but they didn't really feel like taking care of Qiqi every day as before.

But now it seems that the situation is not bad, at least Qiqi knows how to refuse, instead of directly obeying Qi Weimin's idea, she follows him back to Qi's house.

"By the way, Qi Weimin, instead of thinking about getting Qiqi to go back with you, you should first care about your girlfriend's affairs."

"What happened to Xingyu?"

Qi Weimin looked at Qiao Yicheng strangely, wondering why he suddenly mentioned Chang Xingyu.

"You don't know, your girlfriend is preparing to be admitted to our TV station, right?"

"Of course I know this, but with Xingyu's level, it shouldn't be a problem for him to enter your TV station."

Qiao Yicheng sighed, and said: "I don't think there will be any problems with her test scores, but you should also care about her, what kind of position will she be directly photographed by then? The work of the TV station looks good. Decent, but also tiring work, don't you worry?"

"I have nothing to worry about. I believe in Xingyu's strength, and I also believe that the leaders of your TV station will not deliberately target a certain person."

Qiao Yicheng shook his head. Although he didn't want to admit it, the TV station is also a small society, and the competition in it is not simple at all. On the contrary, those invisible swords and swords are the ones who kill without blood.

But seeing Qi Weimin's self-confidence, he couldn't expose his faults any longer. He could only wait for Chang Xingyu to come to work, and then tell her some things that need attention.

Qi Weimin didn't get the result he wanted, but Qiao Yicheng said a lot. Qiao Qiqi was from their Qiao family, so he couldn't force Qiqi to go home with him.

Seeing that Qiao Yicheng couldn't make sense here, he could only think of other ways, such as going to the second strong, Sanli and Simei to see if he could persuade Qiqi to go back with him.

He felt that as long as the members of Qiao's family agreed and persuaded her, Qiqi would definitely agree to go back with him, but he never thought about how Qiao Qiqi would feel if this was the case.

He only thought that he was doing it for Qiao Qiqi's benefit, but he didn't know that such behavior would make Qiao Qiqi feel that he was not accepted by his family and was also a person who was rejected.

Of course, none of the Qiao family would agree to Qi Weimin's request. After all, now that Qiqi had finally come back, she had to go back to the Qi family. Wouldn't this be a joke, and it would be bad for the brothers.What's more, after knowing that the elder brother refused, it is impossible to do this thing at the risk of making the elder brother angry.

Especially Simei, although she had a little conflict with Qiqi, she didn't want Qiqi to go back to Qi's house, instead she thought it was pretty good now.

Now I can live in Zhao Shucheng's house because Qiao Qiqi has conflicts with her, but if Qiqi returns to Qi's house, wouldn't he have to go back to live in a small house and take care of Qiao Zuwang, an unreliable person?