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On the way Zhao Shucheng and Lu Xiaoshan went home, Lu Xiaoshan kept talking about his parents.In fact, she has always wanted her parents to remarry, but the way the two of them looked at each other made her feel hopeless.

"Yuan Shuai, do you think my dad won't really empathize?"

"I can't say for sure, but I think it's not a day's cold for the two of them to be frozen three feet. Even if your father doesn't empathize with each other, but if your mother doesn't change, you still have to reprimand and find fault with your father. , No man can bear it all the time, and it will be a matter of time before we break up."

"Wives scold their husbands because they are picking faults. It is your woman's nature to find faults. No matter how good a man is, you will never just stare at the good things, but always pick the faults with a magnifying glass. It's just that Some are lighter, some are heavier."

Hearing what Zhao Shucheng said, Lu Xiaoshan stared at him and said, "What do you mean by that? You mean I'm picking on you too, is it wrong?"

"Look, look, I'll reason with you and analyze the situation, you're angry now, do you want to stop?"

"You keep talking!"

"A man actually sometimes needs his wife to pick on his faults, so that he can become a better version of himself. And most of the places where men are picked on are their hobbies. And if they can't control it, they are easy to be liked. Control, which requires the help of my other half to remind me, so as to control my hobbies to a reasonable level, not too crazy."

"For example, some men like to play games, but if they forget to eat and sleep to play games, or even keep charging money into the game for a little bit of desire to win, this is naturally very wrong. And the daughter-in-law's scolding can make men sober , not too addicted to it.”

Zhao Shucheng glanced at Lu Xiaoshan, and said: "But there is a limit to everything, too much is too late. Besides, everyone reacts differently when facing this situation. Some men have a good temper, and their wives don't care if they scold them , but smiling, so there is not much conflict between the husband and wife. But my father-in-law has such a temper, which is a personality that is always on the line. Facing the constant bombardment of my closest confidant, I can't help but start to fight back. The relationship between the two naturally became more and more rigid."

Lu Xiaoshan was silent for a while after hearing this, and said, "Then there is nothing to do?"

"It's difficult, it's too difficult. My mother has been criticizing my father-in-law for more than 20 years, and it has long become my habit, and even a part of my life. I can't change it just by saying it. And my father-in-law has endured it for more than 20 years. What man do you think can accept his ex-wife’s scolding? In the past, she was patient for the sake of her being his wife, but after the divorce, it was for the sake of you and Beckham. There is always a limit to patience. Especially when other The old lady in front of him is gentle, considerate, and considerate, so compared, if it were you, how would you choose? Do you want a fierce wife or a Xie Yuhua?"

Lu Xiaoshan said unconvinced: "But my mother didn't do it on purpose, she just did it for the good of the family. And if it wasn't for my mother's urging, my father wouldn't be able to reach retirement age safely."

"Yes, what you said is indeed correct. When your father-in-law was scolded by your mother back then, he would feel guilty and feel that he had let his wife down. But after a long time, he began to doubt himself, wondering whether he was really with his wife. Saying this, is he an incompetent person? But then, he will feel angry."

"I don't know what happened to the others, but in your family, your father is the pillar of the family. Your mother's years of scolding him will only make him lose his dignity, especially when facing you and Lu Xiaoshan. Your mother He also doesn't give any face. He just talks and quarrels when he comes up. He also maintains his majesty in front of his children, so he can only stand up to your mother. This back and forth may be pure scolding at the beginning, and then they quarreled for the sake of quarreling .”

After hearing this, Lu Xiaoshan said with some regret: "Then there is nothing we can do?"

"It's not impossible, that is to ask your mother to change her temper and get along with your father in a different way, such as being gentle and considerate, or taking the initiative, maybe there is a way."

Lu Xiaoshan sighed after hearing this, if only he could really do it.I had already persuaded my mother not to behave like this, but my mother didn't want to listen to me at all, and she still went her own way.

"Okay, you don't have to worry too much. The problems between them can only be solved by themselves. As children, we can only persuade them from the sidelines, and we can't intervene too much."

"Oh, that's the only way to go."

Lu Xiaoshan suddenly thought of something, hesitated for a moment, lowered his head and said: "Yuan Shuai, I read from the Internet that if the ligation operation takes too long, it will be bad for your health, or you can go to the hospital to be relieved another day. open it."

Zhao Shucheng looked back at Lu Xiaoshan in surprise when he heard the words, and when he saw Lu Xiaoshan whose ears were all red, he immediately understood what she meant, couldn't help but smiled, and said, "Okay!"

In fact, Zhao Shucheng's body has recovered a long time ago. After all, Zhao Shucheng is also a doctor with a good level of both Chinese and Western medicine.Although it is said that doctors do not heal themselves, in this case, Zhao Shucheng still has a way to recuperate and recover himself.

It's just that before Lu Xiaoshan was unwilling to have a child, Zhao Shucheng deliberately used contraceptive methods, but now that Lu Xiaoshan didn't refuse, he was not stingy to give Lu Xiaoshan a child.

When Zhao Shucheng and Lu Xiaoshan went home, Gu Xiaojun was not at all happy.

Since the last time I separated from Ouyang Jian at the gate of the Civil Affairs Bureau, the two of them are like a kite with a broken string, and there is no contact with each other.

Once she thought that she was Ouyang Jian's true love, Ouyang Jian couldn't help but take the initiative to contact her, but she didn't call or send herself a message for a few days, as if she didn't care about this relationship at all.

If it's just that, it's not a big deal. Ever since I came back and said to go on a blind date in a fit of anger, the parents have become agitated.Although he didn't say anything in person, the expression clearly wanted to ask about the situation of the blind date.

In order to stop her parents from bothering her, she simply brought back some men's information from a dating agency, and planned to use these to deal with her parents.

But when Gu Xiaojun came home, she saw her parents separated nervously, as if they had done something shameful.

"Yeah, how can you still be affectionate at such an old age?"

"Out of shape." Gu Dahai said.

"Oh, watching TV, have you eaten yet?" Wang Meijuan quickly found an excuse to cover up.

"I don't eat, I want to lose weight. By the way, do you know why I went today?"

Gu Dahai leaned on the sofa and said, "As long as you don't see that old thing, I don't care what you like."

"I went on a blind date."

These words made Gu Dahai sit up suddenly, and said, "Why didn't you tell me?"

"What are you doing? Are you still going with me?"

"Out of tune!"

"Oh, the ones that went here today are all top quality. It's a pity that you didn't go. Then, here are the materials. You can read them yourself!"

After Gu Xiaojun went to the room, Gu Dahai and Wang Meijuan began to look through the materials, but the more they read, the more disturbed they became.This daughter's blind date information is not as good as the other, making them wonder if they went to a dating agency.

Seeing that her parents were dissatisfied with these blind dates, Gu Xiaojun said with a smile: "Well, these are all top-notch. I only know after seeing these people. If I can marry Ouyang Jian, I will be so happy."

Gu Dahai was unhappy, and said: "There is no door, wait until I die." He stood up and winked at his wife.

Wang Meijuan said: "Xiaojun, I went to the park with your father today, do you know?"

"do not know!"

"It just so happens that there is a blind date party in the park. It turns out that there is a blind date party here every Saturday. We didn't know about it a long time ago. If we had known earlier, maybe you are married now, aren't you?"

"What about your father and I, I met a young man for you, he is very nice, he works in a bank, right?"

Gu Dahai nodded and said, 'Ah! Then I saw that my wife was still staring at me, and then I remembered, and took out Cheng Bin's photo.

Wang Meijuan showed her daughter Cheng Bin's photo and asked Gu Xiaojun to make an appointment with Cheng Bin.

Seeing her parents like this, Gu Xiaojun said, "Dad, do you think I will go or not?"

"Whether you want to go or not, you are an old girl, you can't get married, you are anxious, you deserve it."

Gu Xiaojun thought that if she was idle, she might be idle, and she might be able to stimulate Ouyang Jian, so she decided to meet Cheng Bin.

The next day.

Gu Xiaojun met Cheng Bin, and the parents of both parties were nervously looking at their children outside the restaurant they had agreed upon.

Cheng Bin treated Gu Xiaojun frankly. In fact, he was very satisfied with Gu Xiaojun, so he explained his situation sincerely.

Although Gu Xiaojun didn't fall in love with Cheng Bin at first sight, but after talking with each other, she felt that it was okay.

Cheng Bin asked Gu Xiaojun directly about their plans for their relationship, whether they planned to get in touch or get to know each other gradually.

Gu Xiaojun asked, "Is there a difference?"

"Of course there is. The first one is to be a lover, and the second one is to be a friend. Of course, there is no chance that the second one can go around the first one."

Gu Xiaojun was silent all of a sudden, in fact, she was not ready to start a new relationship so soon.And looking at Cheng Bin in front of him, several figures kept circling in his mind, for a while it was his ex-boyfriend Chen Fang, for a while it was Ouyang Jian, and suddenly the figure of Zhao Shucheng appeared.

This surprised Gu Xiaojun, because the first two were her boyfriends, but why did Zhao Shucheng appear, and compared with Cheng Bin?
Cheng Bin asked the waiter to deliver fresh orange juice to the three parents who were watching outside, and waited for Gu Xiaojun's reply.

Gu Xiaojun hesitated for a moment, and told Cheng Bin frankly about her situation. The two gradually got to know each other, and we will talk about the future. (end of this chapter)