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Qu Lianjie called Fan Shengmei again, saying that he had dinner with the client he accompanied last time, and Fan Shengmei agreed without hesitation.Fan Shengmei doesn't have much money now, so she naturally wants to get some money from Qu Lianjie, so she won't give up such an opportunity.

Wang Baichuan was also not reconciled, since he knew about Fan Shengmei's family, he felt that his chance had come again.

But since the call that day, Fan Shengmei didn't answer his calls at all, which made Wang Baichuan a little anxious.Because icing on the cake is worse than giving charcoal in the snow, if I can help Fan Shengmei solve this matter, then Fan Shengmei's attitude towards him will definitely be different.

As for the matter that Fan Shengmei didn't give him a good face last time, as a senior dog licker, this is not a big deal at all.

After thinking about it, Wang Baichuan wanted to call Zhao Shucheng, but found that he didn't have Zhao Shucheng's contact information at all.The same goes for Andy.

He does have Qu Xiaoxiao's contact information. After all, Qu Xiaoxiao gave him his business card last time, but Qu Xiaoxiao just had a conflict with Zhao Qiping, let alone about the girl Fan Shengmei she despises. Naturally, I took it as a pleasure to listen to it, and then hung up the phone directly.

Wang Baichuan had no choice but to ask someone to find Andy's phone number after thinking about it. He wanted Andy to ask if Fan Shengmei had any solution now.

It was only then that Andy knew that something had happened to Fan Shengmei's family, or that her brother had been blackmailed after beating someone up.She also felt a little dizzy when she heard it, because she didn't know how to deal with such a matter. According to her thinking, it must be a legal procedure, but Fan Shengmei might not agree to such a method.

Originally, she heard from Qu Xiaoxiao that Fan Shengmei didn't know how to manage money, but now she realized that Fan's family was Fan Shengmei's bottomless pit.She couldn't figure out why Wang Baichuan called her. Could it be that he wanted a hero to save the beauty?
But after hearing Wang Baichuan's words, Andy knew that he wanted to be simple.Wang Bochuan not only wants a hero to save the beauty, but also wants Fan Shengmei to tear off her vanity mask and stop covering up her life, knowing that her life is not as glamorous as she thought.

Wang Baichuan said: "Only in this way can she make up her mind and make a break! I'm sorry, if I have no other way, I won't let you come forward!"

"It's okay, let's deal with this matter like this. You want me to come forward because you are afraid that Xiaofan will anger you, so don't worry, I will not reveal that I got the news through you. If there is any progress, I will contact you again .”

Wang Baichuan got what he wanted, as long as Fan Shengmei's mask was torn off and he no longer fantasized about marrying a rich man, then the only person Fan Shengmei could rely on was him, and he could embrace the beauty.

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It's a pity that he didn't know that Xiaomei, whom he was thinking of, was even with Qu Xiaoxiao's brother Qu Lianjie at this time, and the two of them were fooling around together, with a satisfied smile on their faces.

Andy thought for a while, and instead of going directly to Fan Shengmei, he came to Zhao Shucheng's house, saw Guan Juer was there, hesitated for a while, and told what Wang Baichuan said.

Zhao Shucheng asked: "Then what do you want to do?"

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"Of course it helped!"

"Even if it's cannon fodder?"

Andy said indifferently: "His method may indeed be effective, but I need to bear the risk of Xiaofan becoming angry!"

Zhao Shucheng shook his head and said, "Wang Baichuan's method works for ordinary people, but it may not work for Fan Shengmei."

"why?"

Zhao Shucheng said: "Sit down and talk! First of all, you can give your brother a monthly maintenance fee, not to mention that Fan Shengmei was raised by her parents since she was a child, and the relationship between them cannot be separated just by saying goodbye." , can she help her parents?"

"Secondly, if you really succeed in stopping it, will her conscience be okay? Can she really make up her mind to do this? If she regrets it, or even condemns herself, then not only will she not thank you, but instead Will accuse you of meddling in your own business."

Andy said, "Then what do you say?"

"Fan Shengmei's parents are very traditional and typical patriarchal parents in Daxia. They regard their sons as treasures and their daughters as grass. They spoiled their sons and neglected their daughters since childhood. As a result, their sons grew up to be incompetent, ignorant and incompetent. Unable to work and support himself, he even became a scourge to the family, causing trouble for the family every day. The daughter of the family grew up and went away to work hard. I don’t know how much better than her brother. The son is incompetent, and the parents help Help, my daughter is capable, so I have to exploit my daughter, let my daughter help my son, and let my daughter help and subsidize my brother together. Find a job for my brother, find a partner, buy a house, help my brother support his family in Hukou, and completely lose my own life. Become the object of exploitation and slavery by the whole family."

"They don't think about how much their daughter has paid for this family, and they don't feel any sense of her contribution. Instead, they think that everything is natural and it is their daughter's life. Once Fan Shengmei really decides not to support her parents With her elder brother's family, when the time comes, they will accuse Fan Shengmei of being unfilial, call her shameless, heartless, and even go to Fan Shengmei's company in the magic capital to make trouble. Will Fan Shengmei succumb to the pressure of her parents and choose to reunite with her? Help parents?"

Guan Juer didn't believe it when he heard it, and said, "Brother Zhao, things won't be as bad as you think, right? Sister Fan is their daughter after all, so what's the benefit of them doing this?"

Zhao Shucheng laughed when he heard it, and said: "Xiaoguan, Andy, the ugliness of human nature lies in the fact that as a person who is not valued, the more you give, the more they will take what you give for granted, and the more they take it for granted. You are used as a tool to satisfy your own desires. Your sacrifices will not bring you gratitude and family affection, but will encourage their selfishness and greed. Your sister Fan is a good example. You have sent a lot of money back to your family over the years. But what was exchanged was a bottomless pit.”

Seeing their disbelief, Zhao Shucheng said: "Let me tell you a story. Once upon a time, there was a young man who would pass a beggar every time he went to work. He would give the beggar ten yuan, but then he would give the beggar ten yuan every day. Five yuan, and later only gave the beggar one yuan. The beggar felt a little strange in his heart, so when the young man put one yuan into the beggar's bowl again and was about to leave, the beggar grabbed him and asked angrily: "You used to Give me ten dollars, and then give me five dollars, how come it becomes one dollar now?"

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"The young man replied: I used to live alone, so I gave you ten yuan. Later, I got married and wanted to support a family, so I could only give you five yuan. Now that I have another child, I can only give you one yuan."

"The beggar was furious after hearing this, and said: How can you not use my money to support your family? Sheng Mi En, Dou Mi Qiu, when you give to someone, you may still be grateful at the beginning, but it takes a long time. If you don’t give up, you will take it for granted, and if one day you pay less, the other party will even hate you for it.”

Zhao Shucheng looked at Guan Juer and Andy who were thinking, and said: "You should understand when you hear this, Fan Shengmei's family is like this, maybe when Fan Shengmei started working, when they sent money to the family, they The whole family is happy and feels that Fan Shengmei is still thinking about her family. But after so many years, Fan Shengmei has been sending money to the family, and even when her brother had an accident, she gave all her help, which made them think that everything is for granted As it should be."

"That is to say, Fan Shengmei is not married yet, if they suddenly stopped sending money after marriage, what do you think they will think? Do you think that the money that should have been theirs was used by Fan Shengmei to raise her children?"

Guan Ju'er can only be thankful that her mother has only one child, she can't imagine what she will do if she encounters such a thing.

Andy asked: "Then how do you think Miss Fan should solve this situation?"

Zhao Shucheng thought for a while and said: "From now on, she should discuss with her family how much she will pay her family each month, and there will be no more money. Even if his parents, brother and sister-in-law make noise, I can’t give it. As long as she has the determination, courage, and cruelty to cut off their parasitism and exploitation of her, and no longer have such a close connection with her parents and elder brother. Although it seems ruthless, it is actually a good thing for them. "

"If she doesn't do this, she will have to bear the burden of her life. No man will want to help fill the bottomless pit of their family, not even Wang Baichuan. Otherwise, Wang Baichuan would not have thought of such a way, because he I know that if I am really entangled by this family, I will not be able to deceive myself at all."

"When she can establish a good boundary, help when she should help, never help when she should not help, and firmly refuse what should be firmly rejected, her life will improve. And after her brother knew that she could not rely on Fan Shengmei, her parents did not Only when he has the ability to help him, will he seriously think about his future path, and he will no longer simply rely on his sister."

"If she can really do this, and then do what she can to help her parents or elder brother, they will thank Fan Shengmei and stop taking her efforts for granted."

"However, I think this is a very difficult thing, because it requires Fan Shengmei to let go of her vanity and love of face. If she doesn't let go, once her parents come to make a fuss, or even her brother comes to Shanghai, she will definitely be scared and continue. Giving money to my brother and mother will still not solve any problems."

"Fan Shengmei said that she bought a house in front of Wang Baichuan, and she must have said the same in the company. Maybe even in front of her family, for her own face, even if she said that she rented a house, she would not admit that she was a moonlight clan. Yue earns a lot of money, making her parents think she is really rich. Only by letting their parents know what kind of environment they live in, and even knowing that Fan Shengmei is not as glamorous as they imagined, can they not keep lying on her body and sucking blood like this .”

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