The goddess gave birth to a dragon and a phoenix

Chapter 116 Going out to play, ask for a subscription, ask for a monthly pass~
On the other side, Director Xie from the Department of Obstetrics and Gynecology of the Second Hospital of F City just came to his outpatient clinic and sat down. A young couple walked in outside the door. The wife held a crying baby in her arms, and a senior old lady.

As soon as she entered the door, the old lady reprimanded the young couple dissatisfiedly, "I warned you a long time ago, don't pick up the baby immediately when the baby cries, don't pick up the baby right away...then the baby will be dependent, now it's all right, now Even a little bit of discomfort has to be picked up and walked away to be safe... It's not yourselves who are tormenting!"

The husband looked depressed and didn't speak, and the young wife was also full of grievances, but she didn't dare to refute her mother-in-law. After all, they didn't take good care of the baby because they didn't do well...

"Director Xie, look at my little grandson, he has been crying for several nights in succession, no matter how coaxed he is, he can't sleep well, and he keeps spitting up milk..."

As soon as she came up, the mother-in-law had the absolute right to speak and spoke directly to Director Xie.

"Okay, let me see the baby first!"

As she said that, the mother-in-law turned her head and couldn't help scolding her daughter-in-law, "Why are you still holding the baby, put it down!"

"no, I'm fine!"

Director Xie smiled and waved his hands, and asked the young mother to come to her with the baby in her arms. After some examination, she found that the baby was a little flatulent and had some indigestion. Flatulence, there is no problem... Next, you must strictly control the time of breastfeeding, and don't let the baby eat too much, otherwise it will cause damage to the baby's stomach!"

Hearing this, the three adults on the opposite side all breathed a sigh of relief, but the mother-in-law among them still looked anxious immediately, "Director Xie, look, my little grandson has been crying for the past few days. I just hugged him to sleep and cried when I put him down, I couldn't sleep well at all..."

"If you can't put it down, hold it!"

"Ah? But this way the baby will be dependent..."

"It's not like this..."

Director Xie shook his head, smiled and said, "Auntie, first of all, I need to correct a common-sense mistake of yours. The crying of newborn babies is just an instinct. Many people think that taking care of their own baby when it cries will lead to the lack of independence of the baby. .

This is really overthinking, it’s just driven by instinct, when the child grows up and enters puberty, you will find another instinct, that is, the independence is overwhelming, and you want to leave your parents in every possible way. It can't be pulled back. "

Taking the baby's crying instinct and the child's independent instinct in adolescence as a reference, it can be said that what Director Xie said is well-founded and very convincing.

The mother-in-law: "..."

It's a little hard to understand, but she was shocked, so she won't rely on it!
"The baby is still so young, crying is just instinct! Therefore, we adults should follow the child's instinct to take care of the baby, do what at what stage, and don't go against the instinct to do unnecessary things, which will lead to bad consequences. The child cries When the child grows up, it’s fine to hug and cuddle, and it’s okay to cuddle and sleep all the time, so that when the child grows up, he will follow nature, conform to instinct, and will be very cheerful and lively.”

The husband listened thoughtfully, and the wife's grievances were also resolved. I did nothing wrong. Every time the child cries, I feel distressed and hug it. It is right!

"Director Xie, then tell me what we should do..."

The mother-in-law still doesn't understand.

"It's very simple, hold the baby as much as possible, if the mother is tired, when other people hold the baby, they should also wrap the baby in the mother's clothes... This is to let the baby feel the mother's breath all the time, so that they will always have Sufficient sense of security, which lasts until the child's fright has completely subsided, and he will return to normal!"

"Oh! That's it, okay, thank you! Thank you!"

"You're welcome, this is what I should do! Another thing you have to remember, if the baby has not calmed down according to this method, or even if the baby is still crying when you pick it up, you must hold the baby in time Come to the hospital!"

The director Xie said very solemnly: "Generally speaking, the mother's embrace is the most secure for the baby. If the baby is still crying in the mother's arms, it means that the baby must be very uncomfortable somewhere. You must pay attention to this point, don’t shy away from medical treatment, and seek medical treatment in time, understand?”

"Okay, I remember! If this happens, I will take the baby to the hospital in time!"

The novice dad nodded solemnly and finally spoke up.

It has to be said that Director Xie is indeed a veteran doctor who has been working in obstetrics and gynecology for 30 to [-] years. Through the communication with Chen Jun just now, he has more unique insights on soothing and treating babies based on the instinct of crying.

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"Hey, today you hug brother Miaomiao, and I hug sister Doudou..."

In 0903 in Yunlu Garden, Wu Jiangtao watched with some puzzlement as Chen Jun took out a piece of clothing he was wearing recently, wrapped it outside his brother Miaomiao's quilt, and handed it to his arms.

"You're going to..."

"Today we can't let the baby sleep in the baby bed by itself, we must hold it as much as possible, even if you go to the kitchen to cook, you have to carry it in a baby carrier..."

"what?"

"Doudou and Miaomiao are frightened now, so they will keep crying instinctively. They are asking for our comfort. The only thing we can do now is to give them as much sense of security and joy as possible according to their needs. In this way, the shock they received will disappear as quickly as possible, and they will return to the state before the vaccination..."

"Oh, then you wrap your clothes on Miao Miao..."

Chen Jun looked at him seriously, and said: "Babies are very attached to their mothers, which is an instinct that can greatly increase their chances of survival. Various experimental data from scientists have also confirmed that clothes with a mother's smell, It can obviously bring pleasure and security to the baby."

Wu Jiangtao nodded seriously, "I see, I understand!"

He picked up his older brother Miao Miao, and he held him in his arms very skillfully, but he saw this little evil who had made a fuss all night yesterday... Oh, no, it was the little angel poking his head out and rubbing against his mother's clothes, The eyebrows and eyes are not as crying as last night, they are stretched out, and they seem to be very comfortable.

"Actually, I don't think Ning needs to wrap Miao Miao with your clothes..."

Wu Jiangtao said suddenly.

"Ah?" Chen Jun turned around in confusion, "Why? The scientific experiment data in the paper we read before are very reliable and true..."

(End of this chapter)