The goddess gave birth to a dragon and a phoenix

Chapter 257
The next day, Wu Jiangtao found out about the conflict between Li Xiaoshan and her family through her cousin...

There was such an incident in the family group yesterday, and seeing that her daughter couldn't make sense, Li's father and Li's mother actually called Yu Wenhuang directly last night, communicated with him, talked a lot, and summed it up It means to hold an engagement ceremony for her daughter first, and then hold a grand wedding ceremony...

But Yu Wenhuang was also in a dilemma. After all, Li Xiaoshan's attitude was very clear, but although Li's father didn't say it very bluntly, but what he said was—

I'm just such a daughter, you can figure it out yourself.

This attitude... this means...

I just want him to persuade Li Xiaoshan.

Another one is...

Last night, Li Xiaoshan's second aunt added his Weixin, um, it was his future father-in-law who pushed his Weixin to Second Aunt, and told him not to tell Li Xiaoshan about it.

I have to say that her second aunt is quite powerful. After joining Weixin, she apologized to Yu Wenhuang first, saying that she had no intention of interfering with their marriage too much, and said that she had heard that they were so sudden about this matter. It was only after getting married that I reminded Li's parents and Li's mother that they were the ones who decided to hold an engagement ceremony for their daughter...

He also said that these are not important, what is important is your marriage.

Going around, the second aunt Li Xiaoshan finally came back to the question of whether they should hold an engagement ceremony, what this engagement ceremony means to the woman, and the engagement ceremony is still more important in province C, because engagement is very important. It's the woman's family who will take care of it...

He also said that although their Li family is not a rich family, they must not be ambiguous about marrying their daughter.

For traditional etiquette, there is no question of choice and escape, but a question of ability.

In other words, "Our Li family is not weaker than others"!
In today's era, although it is changing with each passing day, many traditions are still preserved, such as the past bride price, engagement, etc., are actually several sets of procedures specially set up before women's independence to protect women from being bullied in the man's family. The more rigorous the procedure, the more it can prove that the woman's man's family is valued, and the woman's sense of security will naturally be higher.Of course, on the other hand, in ancient times, etiquette was the highest order, and the person who was the most respectful of etiquette must be the most powerful local gangster. This is also the ultimate test of the man's family's human, material and financial resources.

This is the same reason that rich people marry wives and daughters and make a big fuss now.

Even now, except for first- and second-tier cities, many women have not achieved economic independence. Especially in many rural areas, marriage means being out of production, and they can only rely on men economically, and women have a low sense of security.

Therefore, only through repeated program settings before marriage can a man's ability and sincerity be tested relatively truly.

To put it bluntly, this is a disguised consideration of the weak side.

If you feel that you are not weak, if you pursue gender equality, if you have absolute trust in men, it is self-evident whether engagement is necessary.

As for Li Xiaoshan...

In the beginning, I didn't want to hold an engagement ceremony because I simply didn't want to be troublesome, but now...

Well, why do labor and management get worse the more they think about it?
I, Li Xiaoshan, still need to hold this engagement ceremony to show off? !

Or is this noodle arrangement just what you need? !
Regarding these thoughts, Li Xiaoshan also made it very clear with her boyfriend, if you don't do it, you don't do it, it's obviously an insignificant matter...

The most important thing is that Yu Wenhuang has now become the one caught between Li Xiaoshan and Li's parents and Li's mother. I don't want to trouble or hold an engagement ceremony here, and I'm just such a daughter over there. A good son-in-law depends on you...

Well, as for him coming to 0903 this morning, he was mainly not looking for Wu Jiangtao, but Chen Jun.

"Her parents now hope that I can persuade Li Xiaoshan, but I don't know how to tell her about this..."

Yu Wenhuang looked at Chen Jun with a wry smile, "I'm not afraid of her getting angry at me, but I don't want her to continue to have conflicts with the family because of this matter, and you know her temper..."

"..."

After learning about this, Chen Jun, who is a best friend, couldn't help but frown.

Really, as long as Yu Wenhuang talks to Li Xiaoshan about this matter, with her temper, maybe something will happen...

The few of them discussed and discussed here, but in the end they still couldn't figure out how to tell Li Xiaoshan about this matter. She is not an idiot either. Whether it was Chen Jun or Yu Wenhuang who said this matter, she must have guessed it was her father right away. For the good deeds my mother has done, I will definitely go to them directly.

Right now, the most important thing is not to further intensify the conflict, but to find ways to resolve it.

"Uh, how about..."

Chen Jun thought over and over again, and said, "Why don't you invite Xiaoyuan to come up with ideas together, and more people will have more ideas... She also knows something about this matter, maybe she has a good way!"

"okay!"

Yu Wenhuang naturally had no opinion.

As promised, she immediately sent a Weixin video call to Bai Xiaoyuan...

"What's wrong?"

Soon, Bai Xiaoyuan in the research institute appeared in front of the camera wearing work clothes.

"There is something I need your help to come up with..."

Chen Jun didn't talk nonsense, and told her about Yu Wenhuang's embarrassment.

"Forehead……"

Bai Xiaoyuan was speechless after hearing this, but she could understand...

The biggest difference between falling in love and getting married is that the former is a matter of two people, while the latter is a matter of two families. Just like she and Lu Zhou have already reached the time to discuss marriage, they will also be married because of some obviously not very important things. things, and caused a lot of unhappiness, but fortunately, she was quite magnanimous and did not keep entangled.

"I think about it..."

After thinking about it seriously, she shook her head lightly and said, "I don't think this is a question of how to tell her, but a question of whether Dahuang can talk about it..."

Upon hearing this, Yu Wenhuang was taken aback, while Chen Jun was thoughtful.

"After all, it's full of calculations. You and our Xiaoshan have only been in love for a long time. It hasn't been a year, right? Although you are now talking about marriage, it's better not to cause the two of you to quarrel at this juncture..."

"Fortunately, you came to ask us. If you were rash enough to tell Xiaoshan directly, she might have a big fight with you, saying that you have no opinion. Moreover, based on my experience, once such conflicts occur, there will be many things that affect your relationship. It will happen one after another..."

She has been in love with Lu Zhou for many years, and she has experienced too many similar situations. Bai Xiaoyuan didn't continue to say the following words, but the meaning is already obvious...

On the other end of the phone, Yu Wenhuang's face was already sweating, and his face was full of joy!

(End of this chapter)