Sick and beautiful people are not allowed to be white moonlight

Chapter 274 The White Moonlight Imprisoned by His Past Life 45
How beautiful does it have to be to be beautiful?
The phrase "how beautiful must be to be considered beautiful" was learned from my roommate. There seem to be more and more controversial topics about "beautiful" these days, and I can't help but fall into deep thought.

I don’t know if you have noticed that it seems that the beauty in the mind must have big eyes, double eyelids, high nose bridge, and pointed chin. This is actually a strict standard for facial features, and it is a kind of beauty that abides by conventions. Beautifully defined.Let me tell you a real case. A few days ago, I posted a group of photos of myself in the group of friends. A friend said: Ah, you have really lost weight recently. You are so good and beautiful!Before I had time to be happy, another friend jumped out and said: Your round face is not beautiful enough! ?These words seemed to be the first cold rain in spring, pouring crackling into my skull, what was I thinking at that time?Thinking I'm really not pretty enough?Will a round face be defined as not beautiful enough?I was silent for a few seconds, forgot to consider the words, and replied directly: Your beauty is defined as beauty, mine is not.Maybe my words are inappropriate, but beauty is not defined. Beauty should not be based on face shape, facial features, skin color, fat or thin, but the essence of energy, confidence, enthusiasm and health. "I love your steadfastness, I admire your courage, and I would like to lean on each other and fall in love with your irreplaceable courage."

"Is the prerequisite for being loved must be beautiful?" This sentence was brushed on the campus wall a few days ago. It seems that the topic of beauty is always entangled, but it all comes down to appearance anxiety: how beautiful is it? pretty?Everyone's life is very anxious, and the first sentence of a friend is always: "Can I see your photo?" But in fact, excellence and beauty are not the same reason for being loved, but the result of being loved .There is never a defined standard for loving someone. When you are loved, you don’t need to be beautiful, perfect, or interesting; is the premise of being loved beautiful?No, it is self-love, loving yourself, this is the beginning of romance in life; the premise of being liked may be beauty, everyone can like you because of your appearance, but almost no one loves you just because of your beauty.Maybe you will refute: but at least you have to be beautiful to be liked by others, and if you are not beautiful, no one will care about you.First of all, when you say this sentence, you are not beautiful, because you are not confident, you think that only a beautiful appearance can please others, and you can get some kind of love from others. What are we living for?To please others?Or is it for the approval of others?Must you be trapping your own charm in the eyes of the world?Appearance anxiety is not so much our pain as it is the shackles in our hands.Secondly, being beautiful is definitely not a prerequisite for being loved. This idea is not only wrong, but also dangerous, because hidden behind this idea is the most deadly inferiority complex. You default to not being loved, so you will always feel that you are not beautiful enough. , Interesting, perfect. Constantly finding some non-existent shortcomings for myself, belittling myself, habitually feeling that I am not good enough, this is the real reason for not being loved.Finally, what I want to say is that the premise of being loved is self-confidence and fullness of heart. As I said above, there are always people who like you because you are beautiful, but almost no one loves you just because you are beautiful.

How beautiful does it have to be to be beautiful?In fact, there is no need to look around for the answer in a daze, because you are very beautiful.

(End of this chapter)