Sick and beautiful people are not allowed to be white moonlight

Chapter 292 The White Moonlight Imprisoned in the Past Life 63
The phrase "how beautiful must be to be considered beautiful" was learned from my roommate. In the past few days, there seem to be more and more controversial topics about "beautiful", and I can't help but fall into deep thought.

I don’t know if you have noticed, it seems that to be beautiful in your mind, you must have big eyes, double eyelids, and high wealth.

Liang and pointed chin, this is actually a strict standard for the shape of facial features, a kind of beauty that abides by conventions, and beauty that is defined.To talk about a real case, I posted a group of photos of myself in the group of friends a few days ago, and a friend said: Ah,

You have really lost weight recently, so great, so beautiful! Before I had time to be happy, another friend jumped out and said: Your round face is not beautiful enough!? This sentence seems to be the first scene in spring The cold rain was pouring into my skull, what was I thinking at that time? Was I really not beautiful enough? Was a round face going to be defined as not beautiful enough? I was silent for a few seconds and forgot to go After considering the sentence, I replied directly: Your beauty is defined as beauty, but mine is not.Maybe my words are inappropriate, but beauty is not defined. Beauty should not be based on face shape, facial features, skin color, fat or thin, but the essence of energy, confidence, enthusiasm and health. "I love your steadfastness, I admire your courage, and I would like to lean on each other and love your irreplaceable courage."

"Is the premise of being loved must be beautiful?" This sentence was brushed on the campus wall a few days ago. Is it beautiful? Everyone’s life is very anxious, and the first sentence of a friend is always: "Can I see your photo?" But in fact, excellence and beauty are not the same

It is the same person who is the cause of being loved, but the result of being loved.There is never a defined standard for loving someone, when you

When you are loved, you don’t need to be beautiful, perfect, or interesting: is the premise of being loved beautiful? No, it’s self-love, loving yourself. This is the beginning of romance in life: the premise of being liked may be beautiful for everyone

I like you because of your appearance, but almost no one loves you just because of your height.Maybe you'll make an argument, but at least you
You have to be pretty to be liked by others, and if you are not pretty, no one will care about you.First of all, when you say this sentence, you are not beautiful, because you are not confident, you think that only a beautiful appearance can please others, and you can get some kind of love from others. What are we living for? To please Others? Or to gain recognition from others?
But? Must you be trapping your own charm in the eyes of the world? Rather than saying that anxiety about appearance is our pain, it is better to say that

It is the shackles in our hands.Secondly, being beautiful is definitely not a prerequisite for being loved. This idea is not only wrong, but also dangerous.
Dangerous, because hidden behind this kind of thinking is the deadliest inferiority complex. You default that you are not loved, so you will
I always feel that I am not beautiful, interesting, and perfect enough... I keep finding some shortcomings for myself that do not exist, and belittle myself
Self, habitually feel that they are not good enough, this is the real reason for not being loved.Finally, what I want to say is that the premise of being loved is self-confidence and fullness of heart. As I said above, there are always people who like you because you are beautiful, but almost no one loves you just because you are beautiful.

How beautiful do you have to be to be considered beautiful? In fact, you don’t need to look for the answer in a daze, because you are very beautiful.

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