Manufacturing Empire in the Valley

Chapter 1584 Niu Xiaoqiang Feels Conflicted

Barbara knows these situations better than anyone else. The reason why she did that just now is mainly because feelings are something that cannot be controlled: "I know it all, but I can't control myself. When you put a coat on me At that moment, my heart just melted."

At this point, Barbara winked at Niu Xiaoqiang: "Niu Xiaoqiang, your charm is so great that I can't escape it."

Niu Xiaoqiang scratched his head: "Is my charm really that great? Why didn't I feel it?"

Barbara chuckled, took Niu Xiaoqiang's arm and continued to walk forward: "Charm is different from person to person, some people like the opposite sex who is good-looking, some like the opposite sex with good personality, and some people like smart The opposite sex, some people like like-minded opposite sex, as for me, my requirements are a bit high, all the above conditions must be met, so I have never talked about a boyfriend until now, fortunately I met you, you are completely in line All my standards for the opposite sex, so I will become so active."

When she said this, she changed the subject: "Of course I know that there are many unresolvable resistances between us, but I don't care, no matter whether you call me short-sighted or stupid, I just want to enjoy the current happiness Time, this is actually a very rare thing for me. It is because it is so rare that I have to be more proactive. I don’t want to wait until I am old and then regret that I didn’t seize the opportunity when I was young. This is so sad. .”

After all, Barbara is an American woman, and many ideas of American women are completely different from those of domestic women.Women in China value chastity and womanhood more. Even if they like a man very much, many people will not do anything out of line, except for their husbands.

American women are never bound by these frameworks. They pursue the liberation of human nature and generally follow their own heart in doing things. Therefore, relatively speaking, American women are more bold and proactive.

This is the result of differences in social habits and cultures. There is no right or wrong. Putting on airs is just living in the most acceptable way for each.

What Barbara said is very clear, she doesn't care if she can marry Niu Xiaoqiang, she just wants to live a good life according to her own ideas.This is also the biggest reason why she left the family voluntarily.

Niu Xiaoqiang is not a pedantic person, on the contrary, he is very able to accept open ideas from different cultures.But no matter how open he is, he still feels ashamed about what happened to him.

Since childhood, Niu Xiaoqiang has determined to be a good person.Even though he was still a fool at that time and didn't quite understand what kind of person is a good person, he never wavered in his belief.

As he grew up slowly and finally opened his mind, Niu Xiaoqiang discovered that it is actually very simple to be a good person, but at the same time it is very difficult.

Being willing to help others in life and not bullying others is considered a good person.But in terms of feelings, if you directly reject a girl's kindness, you can't be regarded as a good person.

If you live up to someone's good intentions, they will definitely be very caring. Can you be considered a good person if you hurt others?But if he doesn't refuse, how can he face his fiancée?

For his fiancée, Niu Xiaoqiang's actions are undoubtedly very wrong. When he didn't hurt other women, he had actually hurt his fiancée.

Although Wang Xiaoshuang made it clear that he would not mind, and other women would not mind that Niu Xiaoqiang had a fiancée, but this kind of thing is not accepted by domestic morals, so Niu Xiaoqiang has always been contradictory.

He really wanted to sever relations with other women, but he was worried that he would deeply hurt these women if he did so.For example, Yu Simei, this woman is relatively simple and very kind. She has been doing her own things in obscurity, never fighting or robbing, and just accepting gossip silently, neither arguing nor explaining. Is it wrong to pay so much and just want to get some emotional supplement from Niu Xiaoqiang?
If Niu Xiaoqiang completely cut off the relationship with Yu Simei, will Yu Simei still have the courage to live in the future?

Because of this, it was difficult for Niu Xiaoqiang to make up his mind, so his relationship with the women became more and more chaotic.Sometimes Niu Xiaoqiang himself looks down on himself a bit: Niu Xiaoqiang, Niu Xiaoqiang, don’t you always want to be a decent young man?Are your actions worthy of the title of good youth?

Every time he thinks about this problem, Niu Xiaoqiang will keep himself busy, because only when he is very busy can he understand this problem.

When he couldn't avoid it, he would always secretly comfort himself: This can't be my fault, can it?They clearly knew about my situation, but they did it without hesitation. How should I deal with it?If I refuse, I won't even have to be friends in the future if I don't offend others.But if I don't refuse, I will appear to be very despicable. After weighing it, it's better to choose the lesser harm.

Niu Xiaoqiang never told anyone about these situations, even Yu Simei and Zhang Xiaolan who could talk to him, Niu Xiaoqiang didn't confide a word.The reason why he didn't want to speak out was because he knew that not only would he not be accused of anything, but he would also be comforted by them.

Sometimes things in the world are so unreasonable. Even Yu Simi and Zhang Xiaolan, who have been influenced by traditional Chinese culture, don't think there is anything wrong with Niu Xiaoqiang's doing so.

If they were replaced by other men, I'm afraid they would adopt a completely different attitude.People are different, this sentence is especially vividly reflected in Niu Xiaoqiang, as if he is right no matter what he does, even if he does something wrong, others will help him find reasons to explain it forcibly.

It sounds ridiculous, but it is true, Niu Xiaoqiang is such a man, a very special man.

Niu Xiaoqiang shook his head and temporarily put aside these thoughts, he sighed, and took the initiative to wrap his arms around Barbara's waist: "Barbara, I understand what you mean, let everything take its course."

Barbara turned her head and glanced at Niu Xiaoqiang: "It sounds like you are not very happy, don't you want to?"

Niu Xiaoqiang smiled wryly and said, "I can get such a good girl like you, what am I not willing to do?"

Barbara couldn't understand: "In that case, why are you sighing?"

(End of this chapter)