The wandering of the heavens starts from the fake silly pillar

Chapter 116 Educating Children
He Yuzhu came to the living room at three o'clock in the morning and watched Lou Mancang straighten his body and kneel there,
He Yuzhu: "Now figure out why I made you kneel?"

Lou Mancang: "I figured it out."

He Yuzhu: "Tell me where you figured it out."

Lou Mancang: "We are brothers, we shouldn't demolish each other's towers, and we shouldn't slander the elder brother indiscriminately. You can't be selfish."

He Yuzhu: "Son, do you know what the closest family relationship is?"

Lou Mancang: "It's the love of parents for their children."

He Yuzhu: "Not quite right, the closest relationship is the relationship between brothers and sisters. After your parents are gone, you are the closest people in the world. You said who was helping you when you were bullied when you were young. Your brother and sister, right? People can be selfish. You are not young. When you are only five or six years old, there are some things you have to figure out for yourself. Your parents can’t teach you. If you can help, you still need to help, then go back to sleep."

Educating a child can’t rely entirely on beating, but also clarify the problem, and you can’t just reason, because he has no fear, and a two-pronged approach is the key to solving the problem. Some things let him think slowly, you keep reasoning with him, He will think that you have reached menopause, and he will be very annoying, and he will not listen to you at all when you speak the truth.

He figured out the key to the communication problem, it's like chatting among friends, talking about each other's thoughts, let him understand what you think, don't ask him to do something, some things are just like his personality, you You have to break it to him, and the contradiction will be deeper. Since you like to be selfish, you can be selfish to everyone, but be more tolerant and generous to your relatives.
He Yuzhu returned to the room

Lou Xiao'e: "Why can't I still fall asleep, has Little Four gone to bed yet?"

He Yuzhu: "No, he was still kneeling when I went down, chatted with him for a while, and let him go to sleep."

Lou Xiaoe: "When this child was young, his elder brothers and sisters let him go, and raised his character to be selfish. His nature is still good. He is filial to the elderly, and generous to his second, third, and younger sisters. He just stabbed his elder brother."

He Yuzhu: "It will get better gradually, we all treat the children fairly, not like Yan Bugui who cares about the children, nor like Liu Haizhong who beats and scolds the children for no reason and treats them differently."

Lou Xiaosi ran to He Aijun's room early in the morning, gave He Aijun the electronic watch he got yesterday, apologized to him again, and the two brothers reconciled.

He Aijun, who was wearing a digital watch, looked very excited. Not many people had this thing yet, and the two of them went out together with Xiao Si in their arms. To reconcile, whoever made a mistake can be educated under the condition that it can be corrected. If everything is biased towards one of them, the other will have resentment in his heart, and once it breaks out, he will never communicate with each other.

He Yubing looked at the electronic watch in Lou Yue's hand and wanted to.

He Yubing: "Does Mom still have this watch? I want one."

Lou Xiao'e: "Your grandfather brought four yuan, one for your dad, and one for you from mom."

He Yubing looked at the electronic watch with a smile on his face, and He Aidang looked at his father expectantly, and walked behind He Yuzhu silently.

He Yuzhu: "It's not easy to buy these things now, do you want the electronic watch or the one I brought before?"

He Aidang: "Dad, you don't have to be so polite. I want both, but you can't give it to me. I want a digital watch."

He Yuzhu rolled his eyes at him, handed him the electronic watch, and gave the watch in his hand to Xiaosi. He just went to buy a new one tomorrow. He Aidang took He Yubing to school with him on his bicycle. ,

Lou Yue was beaten up by Lou Xiaoe in bed, telling her to eat and go to school quickly, and she knew to sleep late all day long.
Lou Xiao'e: "My mother owes you, and she has to be behind you all day long, and she is not active in doing anything. It's not like I don't follow your father at all."

He Yuzhu pretended not to hear, and went to see Lou's father and Lou's mother after dinner, and accompanied them around here today, and it may take a year or two to see each other.

Lou Yue: "Mom, I'm going to my aunt's house today, and she said to make me a new dress."

Lou Xiao'e: "Your aunt deserves some of you, who come here every now and then, especially you."

Lou Yue secretly looked at He Yuzhu's expression, and He Yuzhu pretended not to see it. He Yushui made clothes for them, and Lou Xiao'e often bought cloth and nutritional supplements to visit Liu's father and Liu's mother. Now it is much more convenient to buy things in the future without tickets.

Lou Xiao'e: "You're asking your aunt for pocket money. When I come back, I'll take care of you. Tell me how much your aunt owes you, and I'll help her pay you off at once."

Lou Yue stuck out her tongue mischievously, fearing that Lou Xiao'e would pinch her twice if she didn't speak.

It was a coincidence that Lou Xiao'e saw it. This ghost girl sometimes asks He Yushui for pocket money, but the others don't.

Lou Xiao'e gave her fifty cents to send her to school, and followed He Yuzhu to the guest house for foreign guests.

Accompanied by comrades from the United Front Work Department, He Yuzhu followed Lou's father and Lou's mother, walked around the capital a few times, and had a meal at the guest house for foreign guests before heading to He Yushui's house. He Yuzhu hadn't been to her house since he came back. Bought something to take with me.

As soon as I entered the door, I met Liuqin and Liutong, holding He Yuzhu and calling Uncle, Uncle.

Lou Xiaoe and He Yuzhu hugged each other and walked inside, and saw Lou Yue bouncing around in a new dress.

He Yushui saw He Yuzhu get up and greeted, "Brother, sister-in-law, sit down and put the child down first, they are used to it."

He Yuzhu: "It's okay, how are you doing recently?" Said putting down the child, and handing the things to He Yushui.

He Yushui: "It's still the same, going to and from get off work every day, and making two clothes when I have nothing to do."

He Yuzhu: "This watch is a gift from Xiaoyue's grandparents, and it's for Xiaoqin Xiaotong."

He Yushui was not polite to He Yuzhu, and took it for the two children. The two were ten years old and nine years old, both of whom were in the third and fourth grades of elementary school. It's only four dollars.
He Yuzhu looked at Lou Yue and said, "You come to my aunt's house every day, do you bring food for your younger siblings?"

Lou Yue: "I bring my snacks here to share with my younger siblings, and I don't eat alone." After speaking, she turned around and continued to fiddle with her skirt

He Yushui: "I ate here today, and we haven't seen each other for several months."

He Yuzhu: "Okay, let's have a taste of your craft and see if you have improved."

Lou Yue quietly asked Lou Xiao'e for pocket money, Lou Xiao'e gave her a look, took out one and five cents for the three children,

After eating at He Yushui's house, the two walked home slowly, and Lou Yue went directly to take the tram, so she didn't walk with her parents.

(End of this chapter)