20 years of spring breeze

Chapter 1319 House and Children

After school in the afternoon, Xiaowei, Chen Hui and Qin Xuemei asked the instructor for leave, and they will not participate in this week's practical activities.Then the three of them went home.

Although there is no point in participating in these practical activities arranged, Xiaowei still thinks it is useful for learning.

Listening to the teacher's theory and combining it with my own reality, I really feel enlightened. Although many things are done, they are hazy, and I don't really know the truth of some links in it. Such a combination I understand.Kind of like an epiphany.

You must know that doing things by feeling and doing things with a clear understanding of the truth and purpose are completely different things.

But after all, there are some regrets.Xiaowei was full of enthusiasm and hope for practical activities, but he was completely disappointed in the end.

Contrary to the enthusiasm of those students from state-owned enterprises, the three left the school after asking for leave.Those students from state-owned enterprises were enthusiastically discussing the arrangements for practical inspections and study with their class guides, and many of them even invited their classmates and teachers to visit and inspect the enterprises he led.

In fact, the school already has this arrangement. At the end of the course, two or three companies that are more active in the class will be selected for a group visit. The main purpose of this is to unite the students.

Let everyone get in touch with each other more, build a class circle with a few students as the center, so that students can communicate even after graduation, and everyone can share information and complement each other. This is the real purpose of this class.Good for schools too.

They are all adults, they all have a certain status, and they all know what is an opportunity and should be seized.

Including the various types of training courses for business school executives later, the main purpose is to provide a platform for everyone to meet and communicate, to develop contacts and form a circle, and then all participants, including the platform itself, are beneficiaries.

Later, some people did not reach a certain level at all, and they were not even considered entrepreneurs. They borrowed money and had to attend various such classes. The purpose was this: to participate and make connections.

As long as the EQ and IQ are online, you can generally have a good result.

There are more women who do this: it is good to develop a relationship if there is no progress in career, and it is also a good choice to be a mistress if the relationship cannot develop and cannot get married.It's all about earning.Men don't have so many options.

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In the north, that is, to the north of the Yellow River, people used to live in this way. The whole family laid a kang and lined up from the top of the kang to the tip of the kang.When the children grow up, they draw a curtain in the middle of the kang, and if there are north and south kangs, a huge curtain is hung to cover the whole kang.

Later, when the conditions improved, some families built a wall on top of the kang, or made a partition door with wood, and closed it at night.But after all, it is inconvenient and not soundproof, so people live depressingly.

That is to say, in this era, information is underdeveloped, people have narrow and few channels for receiving outside information, and children are born late.Even so, the impact is unavoidable.

At this time, many adults will tease their children and ask: How do your parents sleep?It sounds like a joke, but when you think about it, it is helpless and bitter.

Later, with the construction, there were more and more buildings in the city, and the number of people who slept on the kang gradually decreased, but the family still squeezed together.

At the beginning of the 90s, housing was so tight that it was unimaginable. People who had not experienced it would never understand that feeling, let alone understand the persistence and pursuit of houses in this era.

It was unforgettable.

The shantytowns that flooded the country reached their peak in the 90s. From north to south, ordinary people used their ingenuity to build houses in all the places that could be used. In Beijing, Shanghai, Shanghai and Fengtian, houses of two or three square meters can be seen everywhere, and some even When I entered the house, I could only lie down and could not even stand up.

It is common for several generations of a family to squeeze into more than ten square meters.You must know that at that time every family had children in groups.

The rapid growth of the economy and the increase in income have accelerated the growth of this desire for houses.Prices in this day and age are pretty decent.

Before the mid-90s, it was impossible to buy a house with money.In the later period, the era of welfare housing ended and the era of commercial housing began. It was to sell as much as it was built, crowding the market, and eventually driving up housing prices.

The human heart has no bottom line, because it involves interests at various levels.

Victims will not consider ordinary people, but only consider how to expand and enhance these interests.For example, the root of housing prices, land.

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Chen Xiaohui lives with Chen Hui and Chen Xiao, and Wang Yan lives with Wang Jiwei and Qin Xuemei.

After dinner, Lao Chen went to the study to read documents, and Aunt Chen took the children to play.Her workload is not as heavy as that of Lao Chen, and she has high requirements for confidentiality. She rarely brings documents and materials home, and she doesn't talk about work at home.

Xiaowei and Chen Hui sat in the pavilion drinking tea or coffee, smoking and chatting. Now that Wang Jiwei has become a brother-in-law, he also joined in.

Everyone was discussing about Xiaohong's delivery date, and Xiaowei suddenly brought up this issue.

"I feel that it's not without this condition. It's better to let Chen Xiaohui and Yan'er sleep alone. It's not too young."

Chen Hui turned to look at Xiaowei: "Why? Isn't it normal to sleep with parents?"

Xiaowei said: "Children today are different from those when we were young. They know more about TV and radio than we did at that time. As time goes by, you can guarantee that they will not be able to watch anything? Besides, the children lie down. Are you not awkward on the side?"

Chen Xiao spat and turned her face away, Qin Xuemei blushed and lowered her head.

Xiaohong said, "I feel the same way, but I've never been ashamed to say it."

Chen Hui said: "How many families have conditions for their children to live alone? Don't they all sleep like this?"

Xiaohong said: "That is also a separate bed, okay? Besides, now that the conditions are better, you have to compare with those who have no conditions? Let's keep up with the masses and not separate from the masses? Whoever has conditions will still squeeze with children."

Qin Xuemei brushed her hair, glanced at Xiaowei, and said, "Is my wife too young? I can't do things like getting up in the middle of the night."

Wang Jiwei said: "Wait another two years. She must be six or seven years old. Let her sleep by herself. She is a little young now. Such an old child will sleep to death. If she falls asleep, she will not wake up unless she urinates or sleeps enough for thunder. "

Qin Xuemei pinched Wang Jiwei in embarrassment.

Xiaowei shook his head: "Anyway, I don't think it's very good. Habits are formed slowly. To be honest, children's adaptability is better than adults."

Chen Xiao looked at the son who was having trouble with Aunt Chen: "It's mainly because I don't want to part with it? Anyway, I just don't want to part with it, so I don't worry."

Xiaowei said: "This process is necessary. You can't influence your children because of your reluctance. I suggest that you let Xiao Xiaohui and Yan'er live alone, and they can also cultivate their independence from an early age.

The bigger the more separated no, or you just wait and see.Since it's my sister, the two of you probably will have another child next year or two. What will you do then?Would it be a harm to Yan'er to mention sleeping separately at that time? "

Xiaohong thought for a while and said, "That's right, live together for a long time, and when her brother or sister is born, take her out and live by herself, will she feel that you don't like her anymore? Don't want her? Say No."

Chen Hui and Chen Xiao both nodded, feeling that it was possible.

Wang Jiwei turned to look at the child, Qin Xuemei also turned to look at the child, Xiaowei said: "I know my sister will be good to Yan'er, but I'm afraid that the child is paranoid. Yan'er is sensitive."

(End of this chapter)