mortal train conductor

Chapter 56

Wang Jian said: "I don't suffer from road rage. I never get angry when I drive. I try to avoid other people overtaking, changing lanes, etc.."

Liu Qun has done research on psychology, and he deeply knows that in work and life, there are many eloquent people who often use their rhetoric to refute the other party's verbal opinions, thinking that they have persuaded others , but I don’t know what doubts and unsolved things are still hidden in other people’s hearts.This kind of "persuasion" is only verbal persuasion, but not in my heart.If you are not convinced, you will not do what you say.Therefore, we should study and analyze their behavioral motives and the laws of their psychological activities, and persuasion with a definite purpose.

Liu Qun said: "The concept of 'road rage' originated from foreign psychology. With the increase in the number of cars in China, this psychological problem has also attracted the attention of more and more domestic experts. 'Road rage' is not a simple psychological hidden danger , which describes the anger caused by the pressure and frustration of driving when traffic jams or other people violate the rules and are not very good at driving. The author will attack other people's cars, and sometimes innocent passengers in the same car will also suffer. The medical profession regards 'Road rage' is classified as a paroxysmal rage disorder, which refers to multiple outbursts of rage, which can be surprising to the extent that people with road rage often utter threats, use violence, and even damage other people's property, which is aggression Driving. Studies have shown that a significant number of drivers have these symptoms, but not everyone who does understands that they are a pathology."

After listening to what Liu Qun said, Wang Jian nodded thoughtfully, and said, "However, the 'road rage' occurred while driving on the road, and I had already expected it, not while driving. ah?"

Liu Qun said: "Road rage is actually not that simple. Let me put it bluntly. In fact, deliberately crashing a car is a specific manifestation of 'road rage'. You really don't get angry suddenly while driving in traffic, but You have a strong feeling of indignation against the violation of laws and regulations by drivers on the road. However, in your daily work, I have not noticed your indignation. Is this kind of illegal behavior abnormally angry and unacceptable? Or do you feel unaccustomed to this kind of behavior at any time and are angry?"

Wang Jian pondered for a moment, then said slowly: "It's true, usually when I sit on the car, I feel like I have a sense of mission, and I feel that I must stop that kind of illegal behavior, even at the expense of my own car. Hit the opponent's car to let the opponent learn a lesson. In fact, I also feel it. It seems that after hitting the opponent's car, I have a sense of satisfaction in my heart. This is the main reason why I asked you to take a look today. , there is a saying called 'the authorities are obsessed, the bystanders are clear', I want you to see from the perspective of a bystander, how should I characterize my behavior, should I continue to persist?"

Liu Qun knew that it was not appropriate to deny Wang Jian's approach at this time. He said firmly: "I suggest you stick to your behavior! A man should do something and not do something in this world. Your starting point is completely correct. Yes, it is to stop illegal activities, but can we stop them through some non-violent actions?

For example, can you use your mobile phone to take pictures of violating vehicles on road sections with a high violation rate, and then report to the traffic police department?Some cities in our country have tried the method that the masses take videos and photos of violating vehicles and send them to the traffic police department. After screening, rewards will be given to those who violate the rules. Many unexpected incidents occurred, for example, some photographers actually did the trick of blackmailing violating drivers.

Or can we report to the traffic police department and the government hotline, and increase the number and coverage of illegal detection cameras on the road sections with high violations?
In some places, private anti-pickpocket squads have been established, composed of some veterans, to specifically target pickpockets and become a powerful arm of the public security department.Can we also organize an anti-violation team, but don't use cars as roadblocks or use cars to collide and intercept. For illegal vehicles, can we place some plastic barriers in front of the illegal vehicles, so as to force the other party to stop , Is it more secure?After the other party stops, we can take pictures, give them oral education, and call the police quickly;
Finally, can you publish the behavior of violating drivers on some popular video websites? If there are too many such videos, once the click-through rate increases, the local police will definitely intervene.

What do you think of the types of non-violent behavior I mentioned, they all do not deviate from your original intention, and they are relatively much safer, whether it is for you or for the violators. "

Seeing that Wang Jian had entered a state of contemplation, Liu Qun took out his mobile phone again. After searching the Baidu page for "road rage", he picked up an important read to Wang Jian: "The cause of 'road rage' is caused by seeing 39.8% of others were angry when others violated the rules, which affected their own driving, and 26.6% were angry when they saw others violated the rules even if they did not affect themselves. I won’t talk about other reasons. Wang Jian, take a look, you This situation is not an exception, and I think we should pay close attention to it."

Wang Jian was also a little at a loss, but Liu Qun could tell that he was also worried about his mental state.

Liu Qun continued: "In my personal opinion, using violence to control violence cannot achieve true justice. The measurement and sanctions of justice cannot allow any individual will to override legal principles. Law enforcement cannot make a fair measurement, let alone reflect its justice. In a case in Guangxi in 2014, a child was abducted by a criminal suspect. The grandfather who chased the suspect was furious and beat him to death The criminal suspect is certainly hateful, and it is definitely just to rescue the child, but should the criminal suspect be beaten to death without trial? It is precisely because the victim has difficulty in controlling the way and degree of violence used to control violence that led to the Killing the criminal suspect will also bear the consequences of legal responsibility.

Even if reality is put aside, from the perspective of value, if using violence to control violence becomes justice, then everyone can raise the banner of justice, and we all use our own subjective standards to judge and sanction violence, instead of obeying order, Recourse to the law, what will this bring to our society?If you use violence against him today, tomorrow he will use violence to control violence, and you will use violence to control violence again, and the recipient will do more, and the giver will receive again. Not only will the violence escalate, but the two parties will fall into endless grievances. up? "

Wang Jian said: "Liu Che, I understand what you mean. Today I just want you to evaluate my behavior. Sometimes I also have doubts about the nature of my behavior. What is it for? Is it right? ?”

Liu Qun knew that what Wang Jian needed deep in his heart was not blindly preaching, let alone wanting others to deny his approach. If at this time, once he said something wrong and made Wang Jian feel resistant, then it would be impossible Accept whatever you say.If you want to persuade others, first put yourself in another place, think about it, what do others need and want to hear now?

Liu Qun said unhurriedly: "Your original intention is good. There is no doubt about it. Don't doubt that you have any bad motives. What you have done before has been affirmed by many people. Look, The driver of the official car just now affirmed your behavior, and you didn't ask for a penny from others, and you donated through legitimate channels."

After saying these words, Liu Qun obviously saw that Wang Jian was relieved.

Liu Qun changed the subject and continued: "However, if you still want to continue to stop this kind of illegal behavior, then you'd better do as I said, don't use car collisions to control violence with violence, this is really Playing around the edge of the law, although the current law cannot define your behavior as a crime, it cannot be said that it does not violate any regulations or moral principles. Once a major injury accident is caused, then analyze your subjective mentality from a legal perspective. , What kind of mentality do you hold?

As far as the car crash is concerned, you have an intentional mentality, at least knowing that there will be a possibility of harmful results, and you are still letting go or pursuing such results. This is a subjective element of an intentional crime. For the mentality of wanting to stop violations of rules and disciplines, causing harm may constitute a negligent crime, which belongs to the negligence of overconfidence, knowing that harmful results may occur, but credulously believing that harmful results can be avoided, leading to the occurrence of harmful results.I hope you have not caused any major accidents or injuries in the past two years, right? "

"That's not true. I've always had minor scratches, which mainly caused damage to the vehicle." Wang Jian said.

"That's good. Since you trust me today and let me know about this matter and evaluate this matter, then I advise you to stop from today. This matter cannot continue. On the one hand, it is very It is possible to cause major personal injury or death accidents, and the characterization will be very serious at that time; on the other hand, you will have an illusion in your heart, that is to say, you will treat every collision accident as a "great" cause, which will lead to a sense of satisfaction and even So pleasure, this is a kind of morbid sense of satisfaction; and this method of using violence to control violence is also very dangerous for you. Anger patients, it is very likely to retaliate against your behavior with violence, to fight with violence, to cause physical harm to you when you lose your mind, think about our parents, our children, our wives are waiting for us Go home. Of course, I’m not saying that you won’t get justice, but you have to choose the right way and method.”

Wang Jian nodded silently, and he said: "Yes, Liu Che, after a long time, I have also doubted the nature of my behavior." Listening to Wang Jian himself having doubts about the nature of his behavior, Liu Qun knew that his Preaching played a role.

Liu Qun said: "Don't doubt your original intention, it is absolutely correct. Around us, illegal and criminal behavior is an act that disrupts the normal life and production order of society. Everyone in society should unanimously maintain the legitimate order. When personal rights are violated, one has the right to seek judicial protection. When the rights of others are violated, everyone should have a heart of justice and take the initiative to stop these rights violations.

I remember that we stopped the robbery on the bus. The reason why we were praised by the public and the media was because we did not use violence to control violence and caused heavy casualties. Whether it caused personal injury to the passengers in the car, or our own heavy casualties, or even the death or injury of criminal suspects, is something that everyone does not want to see. Even if their actions violate the law, they should be publicly judged through the national judicial organs. Punishment, instead of us being responsible for the arrest of the police, the sentence pronounced by the judge, and the execution of their punishment. "

Wang Jian said with a sigh of relief: "Yes, today I have told you so much and heard you say so much. My thoughts are clear. I decided to do what you said and stop using violence to control violence."

Liu Qun said with relief: "I hope you can always maintain your sense of justice. Our society needs it very much, but be careful, don't fight alone, seek the help of government departments, judicial organs, and the public. In this way, the justice in your heart Only when it can be done reasonably and legally, our society will get better and better.

The most important point, I feel, Wang Jian, you are a model of our socialist core values ​​at the personal level!You see, your behavior to stop breaking the law is a 'patriotic' behavior for the sake of a more harmonious society; you are serious and responsible in your work, which is a 'dedication' behavior; you never deceive others in your work and life, and you would rather suffer a loss than uphold justice. It is the performance of 'integrity'; if you can stop the illegal behavior in a peaceful way, then you have everything and show 'friendliness'. "

Wang Jian scratched his head and said shyly, "Liu Che, you are too good at talking. I'm not that great, am I?"

"It's definitely so great, don't forget, I'm the secretary of the party branch, and I still have a certain representativeness when I speak! But no one is perfect, and you are still one step away from being 'friendly' in stopping illegal behavior. , Today's conversation, Yu private is a conversation between our brothers, Yu Gong is a conversation between a Communist Party member and a party branch secretary, let's focus on big things, start small, and start working hard from ourselves!" Liu Qun said solemnly.

"Don't worry, Liu Che, Secretary Liu, I will follow your proposal and move towards a 'friendly' way to stop illegal activities!" Wang Jian also said solemnly.

(End of this chapter)