Shanghai is prosperous

Chapter 228 Feelings Are To Be Peaceful And Happy

After Xiaoxiao's mother finished speaking, the whole room fell silent, and everyone looked at Wang Yiyuan.Everyone wants to know how Wang Yiyuan will answer this fresh and old question.

Wang Yiyuan certainly knew the importance of this answer.He looked at the people around him, thought for a while, and said slowly, to be honest, the question of auntie is more difficult to answer.

He said, from my understanding, how can there be any standard answers to questions like this?A thousand people, at least have a thousand understandings.Everyone's growth environment, family influence, education, and various real situations, etc., so everyone's feelings are different.

Uncle Xiao said, Xiao Wang, can you just talk about your own understanding?

Wang Yiyuan pondered for a while, looked at Xiao Xiaoxiao affectionately, and said, since Auntie asked this question, my answer, four words, peace of mind, happiness.An Anxin, happy, is my choice to find a girlfriend, or my choice for the other half of my marriage.

Xiaoxiao's mother smiled and said, these two words sound relatively simple, Xiao Wang, do you have your new understanding?

Wang Yiyuan said, hehe, I am also considered an older youth. I will take this opportunity to express a few words about love and affection today. You will not laugh at me, will you?
Everyone stopped to eat and listened to Wang Yiyuan's continuation.

We always ask, what is beautiful love like, and what kind of relationship is worth cherishing?Wang Yiyuan said, I think that perhaps there is no perfect relationship in the world.

We used to think that love is vigorous and hard-working, until later we realized that the best love is that one person can make another feel at ease, understanding, tolerance, companionship, we have said these words too many times, but we Or ignore its original meaning.

Peace of mind is the best companion.There will be that person in everyone's life. When she is by your side, your heart will be inexplicably quiet. She can let you discover your pride, discover your temper, learn to understand you, tolerate you, and accompany you.Go through wind and rain together, go through hardships together, and become better people for each other.

Yes, lovers don't have to make high-profile oaths, nor do they have to talk sweetly.The companion who stays together safely, even if you don't speak, the moment your eyes collide, you have poured all your heart and soul into it, warming all the years and wind and cold.It's nice to have someone who makes you feel at ease.Accompanying is the longest confession of love.

Meeting you is not a strong temptation, but a long-term peace of mind.If you want to spend a long time with someone, it's best, if you don't pay attention, you will spend a lifetime.When you meet a reassuring person, you will understand that you don't need to say anything, and that you are here is the best promise.

At that moment, my heart was pounding, and it turned out that love was just a distance of eyes.The best tacit understanding in the world is not when someone understands what you mean, but when someone understands what you hesitate to say.

The person who can be with you for a lifetime is the person who understands your past, believes in your future, and tolerates your present.

Wang Yiyuan said, be at ease in Tao and live freely.You understand life, I have to feel at ease.This is my understanding of the word "peace of mind".

After being silent for a while, Xiaoxiao's mother asked, how do you understand this happiness, Xiao Wang?
Wang Yiyuan said, people, why are they happy?I think that is a kind of spiritual enjoyment and a feeling of the soul.What really makes us happy is our heart.

Unhappiness in the heart, worry and sorrow come one after another.If we don't have a happy heart, no matter how good the environment is, it won't make you happy.

Why do people worry?It is because people's hearts are troubled.Why is the human heart troubled?

That's because he wanted a certain outcome.The same breeze and bright moon, when people are in a good mood, people will be happy and intoxicated, but when they are in a bad mood, they will make people feel bleak and chilling.

Happiness in life is actually a feeling, a mood.If you are happy, I will be happy.Because only the love that allows oneself to experience happiness is the perfect love.

After talking about this, Wang Yiyuan joked, of course, if we can achieve the peace of mind and happiness just mentioned, and if the other half we are looking for is also beautiful, gentle and virtuous, then my ancestors have accumulated virtue.

Wang Yiyuan took Xiao Xiaoxiao's hand and said, hehe, for example, just like Xiaoxiao, I am already very, very satisfied.

Uncle Xiao said, Xiao Wang, is your request really that simple?No other ideas?

Wang Yiyuan looked at Uncle Xiao and said seriously, other ideas?Hehe, I know what you really mean, Uncle Xiao, you don't think I wanted to be with Xiaoxiao because of the money of Xiaoxiao's family, did you?
Xiao Xiaoxiao glanced at Wang Yiyuan reproachfully, and pulled her hand out a little embarrassedly.

Wang Yiyuan said that there is indeed a saying in society.It is said that if a wife is found well, many years of struggle can be saved.Hehe, there is nothing wrong with the idea of ​​finding a rich wife.The struggle of one person is indeed very hard.

He laughed and said, the point is, it doesn't mean that if you struggle, you will definitely have good results.Some people have struggled for many years, but in the end they couldn't get along in Shanghai and slipped away obediently. There are also many people.

Uncle Xiao nodded and said, is this the reality?

However, this does not mean that everyone has such an idea.Wang Yiyuan paused, and said, there are two reasons, one is that I actually have no idea about the enjoyment of life.Spend more if you have money, spend less if you have no money.I also don't compare myself to others.

He said, I don’t really have any extravagant demands on how much money I have. As long as I have a room, no worries about food and clothing, and live like ordinary people, I am content.

Uncle Xiao asked, what about the second reason?
Second, I think that other people can create wealth. For example, Xiaoxiao’s father, I am younger than him. Although I don’t have as many opportunities as before, it is not very easy to have food, drink and clothes. Difficult but achievable with hard work.

Wang Yiyuan jokingly said, like now, I am very satisfied and content with the current situation.You say, how much is the money?To be honest, when I was talking about friends with Xiaoxiao, I didn't know that my aunt's family was rich, and it was still so rich.

Everyone couldn't help laughing out loud.

Wang Yiyuan went on to say, I think we both have hands and feet and are in good health, and all of these can be achieved through our own efforts.At the very least, it should not be difficult to solve the basic food and clothing problems in life.Besides, in today's society, as long as you work hard, you shouldn't starve to death, right?

(End of this chapter)