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Chapter 466 Education of Children

Wang Yiyuan thought for a while and said, "It just so happens that both of you are here, so I'll just say a few more words about this child's education.

The younger brother said, it is about children's education. Brother, you have been a teacher, read more books than us, and have seen more worlds than us. We wanted to discuss your experience with you, but now we can listen to you.

Xiao Xiaoxiao smiled, how long has your brother been a teacher?It's been so many years, I'm afraid I've almost forgotten it.

Wang Yiyuan took a sip of tea and said that children's education is an issue that everyone attaches great importance to.But in fact, children's education includes not only school education, but also family education.

He said that in terms of family education, parents are the best role models for children.So both of you should set an example in your daily life and at work, so that your child can have a good example to learn from and grow up healthily.

Both the younger brother and Xiaotian sat quietly on the chairs, listening to Wang Yiyuan's continuation.

Wang Yiyuan said that how parents educate and train their children well is actually a focal issue in today's society.Children from kindergarten to elementary school, elementary school to middle school, high school, and finally university are the central topics of people's conversation.Parents and grandparents often arrange the life of the whole family around a certain child. This may not be very many in our rural hometown. Many parents of children have gone out to work in order to make a living, but in the city it is It is no surprise.

Why?The reason is very simple.Wang Yiyuan said that the times have changed, the living environment is better, and with family planning, a big family, including grandparents, grandparents, and parents, usually only has one child, who doesn't take care of it, who doesn't love it?

Hehe, isn't everyone only able to have one child now?Xiao Xiaoxiao said, unless both parents are only children.

Wang Yiyuan said, yes.This also invisibly gives children a sense of self-superiority. Even if some parents do not spoil their children, this social phenomenon will also affect them, and children are also very aware of their "status" in the family.

He said, I sometimes read books or watch news on the Internet. Based on the analysis of these phenomena, I personally think that there are several major problems among children nowadays, for example: there are too many entertainment items and they are not interested in learning; When the living conditions are better, you don’t want to endure more hardships; if you love more people, you can’t listen to contrary opinions, etc.Therefore, educating and cultivating children is quite a headache, and it is even more stressful than working outside.

Xiao Xiaoxiao said, but no matter what, my brother and Xiaotian, let me tell you that children must be raised well.In today's society, without knowledge and some basic skills, I am afraid that I will not even be able to eat in the future.

She said, when I have free time now, I read some books on how to raise and educate children.There are a few points that I understand more deeply.The first is to care for children, not to spoil them.Sometimes the only way to teach children is to suffer and suffer more setbacks. Remember, you must never spoil your children.

The second is to pay attention to the educational function of the family.The responsibility of educating children should be shared by both parents, and no one can give up their responsibility.At the same time, fathers and mothers should create conditions for each other to assume educational responsibilities. There is a division of labor and cooperation in educating children, and they should not monopolize the "big power".Only when parents share educational responsibilities and their influence on children's education is harmonious and complementary can it be possible to give full play to the family's educational functions.

Oda smiled and said, in the current situation in our family, I basically only take care of the education of the children.

Wang Yiyuan said, I will find a way in the future and try my best to arrange the work of the two of you closer.Now that the child is still young, he may not feel that much.When the child grows up gradually, as the father of the boy, his role will only become greater and greater in the process of the child's growth.

The younger brother touched his nose and said, it seems that I need to continue to work hard, otherwise I will not be able to be a role model for children in the future.

Xiao Xiaoxiao smiled, that's right, do you think being a father is so easy and easy?

Wang Yiyuan said, in addition, our child, now from the countryside to the city, must have a lot of discomfort, or some lagging behind others, such as spoken English and Mandarin pronunciation.To be honest, where did we come into contact with English when we were young?

We need to give our children more praise and encouragement, and give them more appreciation, which is conducive to cultivating children's self-confidence, as well as good habits and qualities.Xiao Xiaoxiao said that if you give your child more admiring eyes, you will see his unique strengths and advantages, see his little progress, affirm him, encourage him persistently, guide her patiently, treat him peacefully, and treat him with reality. Support him with actions, and the child will develop his own advantages, which is very necessary.

Yes, I also think children's self-confidence is very important.Oda said, it has been almost a month now, and I think the child has made great progress.

In addition, the head teacher and the class teacher should communicate and contact more, take the initiative to introduce the child's situation to the head teacher, and often learn about the situation from the head teacher and the teacher.Xiao Xiaoxiao said, you should read the contact book more every day, and report your child's little progress to the head teacher and teacher, so that you can communicate with the head teacher in time.

Xiao Xiaoxiao said, we said that we should pay attention to daily communication with children and help them overcome their shortcomings.But don't get angry with your child easily.On this point, what Oda has done is still not enough, you know?

The younger brother looked at Oda.Oda blushed a little, and said embarrassingly, sometimes I just can't help but want to get angry, but sometimes I regret it after getting angry.

Wang Yiyuan said that curiosity, rich imagination and competitiveness are the three elements for a child's growth.Because children are still relatively young and playful by nature, in this regard, it is necessary to ensure that children have plenty of flexible time to play and relax, and to do what they like.Fully respect the child's nature, but also and train him to learn to rest and adjust.This depends on us as parents to grasp and adjust.

While talking, the phone rang.Wang Yiyuan walked over to the desk and picked up the mobile phone, and saw that it was Mr. Wu calling.So he motioned for a moment of silence, and he connected the phone.

(End of this chapter)