Sign on the hidden marriage

Sui Xinlei is not ignorant of Tang Meijia's kindness, but at the moment she really has no plans to talk about marriage, even though she has already entered the ranks of "leftover women".

"Meijia, I don't think women have to be married to be happy. Women can also rely entirely on themselves, and their lives can be beautiful."

Yes, these are Sui Xinlei's true thoughts. She has always believed that a person can live a wonderful life. Why do people have to get married?And once a person reaches the age to talk about marriage and does not get married, will they definitely attract strange eyes?Isn't marriage a matter of two people?Why the attention of irrelevant people?Sui Xinlei really couldn't figure this out.

"Besides, I'm living a good life now! Don't worry about my affairs anymore. What you should worry about now is your marriage, and be your bride." Regarding Tang Meijia's kindness, Sui Xinlei sincerely grateful.

"But Xinlei," Tang Meijia didn't fully agree with what Sui Xinlei said. Women can't rely entirely on men, but the traditional concept of "men should marry when they grow up and women should marry when they grow up" still occupies Tang Meijia's thoughts. She sighed He said in a very serious tone, "Sometimes, we do some things, even though we don't like it, or even don't want to, but we still do it. Why? The decisions we make are sometimes not for ourselves, we are For the people around us, such as our dearest people - our parents."

Tang Meijia patted Sui Xinlei's shoulder, and then continued: "Think about your parents, think about them, you can completely ignore the opinions of people around you, but your parents can't be so free and easy, they have to face a little pressure Not less than you, even more than you imagined. Which parent in the world doesn’t want their children to have a happy family? This is their greatest wish.”

Originally, there were a lot of rebuttals in her stomach, but after hearing these words from Tang Meijia, Sui Xinlei went dumb for a moment. Yes, she never thought about the pressure her parents were facing.

How long has it been since I was too busy with work to call home, and every time I call home, I can still hear the mother on the phone chatting with concern at the beginning, asking if I have a boyfriend, etc. Later, once I yelled impatiently at the other end of the phone due to work pressure, every subsequent call turned into such a short conversation: I only heard the life of my parents on the other end of the phone. Care, nothing else.As for myself, every time I only responded with "um" and "okay" and then "goodbye" and hung up the phone.

Over time, this seems to have become an unspoken tacit understanding between Sui Xinlei and her parents. Sui Xinlei understands it, and her parents also understand it.

The reason why they do this is because they are afraid that if they care about their daughter's emotional life, then maybe they will never hear the voice of their daughter who is not in the same city as them. Don't bother, what kind of sadness is this?Every time she thinks of this, Sui Xinlei feels as if her heart is blocked by something, making her very uncomfortable.

Although it is uncomfortable, although I feel that I am sorry for my parents, but there are some things that cannot be said in person. If you can’t say it, you should take action. During the Chinese New Year, or when you see clothes that suit your parents when you go shopping, Sui Xinlei I will buy it, hoping that these material gifts can make up for the spiritual regrets of my parents and make myself feel better.

Sui Xinlei has always had such a wish in her heart: one day she will bring her parents to her city, buy a big house for them to live with her, and take care of her parents' old age.

Therefore, Sui Xinlei has been working very hard and making money.She wants to realize this wish sooner.

"Xinlei, just listen to me, maybe you are destined?" Tang Meijia stretched out her hand to cover Sui Xinlei's hand, "It's good to make friends! Or..."

Tang Meijia's eyebrows changed, and she stared deeply at Sui Xinlei who was playing with the silver fork with her head down:

"Still, you can't forget him?"

The air froze all of a sudden, only the crisp sound of the fork hitting the porcelain bowl could be heard, and someone's arm was seen stiff in mid-air.