life is sweet

Chapter 214 [214] Raising children for old age

Su Qingchun let out a long sigh and said, "Mom, why is having a daughter the same as not having a daughter? Aren't all children the same?"

"That's a long way off. Having a son is going to take care of the elderly, what about the daughter?" He Meizhen asked rhetorically.

"What age is this? There is no such thing as retirement."

"Why not? This has been the same law for thousands of years. Do you still expect Xuanxuan to support you when you get old?"

"When we had children, we never thought about asking them to take care of us until we die. We just want them to live well."

"That's because you're just a daughter, so there's no hope."

When Su Qingchun heard this, he felt speechless.

"Okay." Su Qingchun slowly analyzed again, "I can understand you saying that everyone wants a son and a daughter to make up a good character."

"But the problem is that Qingfu already has Zihao. He already has a son and a daughter. There is really no need to torment his wife just to have another son."

"In my opinion, it is enough for their economic conditions to have a son Han. If Qiqi feels that there are few children, she can have another one, but there is no need to have an abortion just to have a son."

"That's crazy, I'd say it to any of my patients."

"What is Zihao?" Su Tiejun, who had been standing by, finally spoke again.

"That's right, Zihao can't count!" He Meizhen also echoed.

"Why doesn't Zihao count? Isn't he Qingfu's son?" Su Qingchun asked back.

"Although Zihao said that Qing Fusheng belonged to him, but now that he has been taken away by his mother, it's not very different. In the future, Qingfu and the others will not be able to rely on him when they retire!" He Meizhen was plausible.

Su Qingchun heard the words of his son's retirement, after all, he is also a son, and arguing with his parents about such a matter will only make them feel that they are shirking responsibility.

His original intention was actually just to express that he never thought about letting his children do something for him, and now that he finally has a few mouths, he knows that he can't talk about his mother.

I had no choice but to stop mentioning it.

"Okay, I can't talk to you."

Su Qingchun lowered his head helplessly and continued to eat.

Seeing her son disarm and surrender, He Meizhen didn't expect to give up so soon.

She pressed, "No, you haven't answered what I just asked you?"

"What are you talking about?"

"Oh...it's Qiqi, did she have a miscarriage before, will it affect this baby?"

"Now do you know if asking has any effect?" Su Qingchun replied angrily.

"This kid, I'm asking you something."

"Of course, otherwise, why did I say so much just now?"

"What exactly is the impact?"

"This is very complicated. It depends on when she had a miscarriage and how many times she had a miscarriage."

"Is this also related to the number of times?"

"Of course, the uterus will become thinner with each miscarriage and curettage. If there are too many abortions, you may not be able to conceive, or you may not be able to keep your pregnancy."

Su Qingchun replied, "And everyone's physique is different. Some pregnant women with thin uterus will miscarry when they sneeze, while some pregnant women can do physical work without any problems."

"Is it so serious to have a miscarriage just by sneezing?" He Meizhen was dubious.

"It must have happened, otherwise there would be so many infertiles now, many of them were caused by not paying attention when they were young, and there were too many miscarriages." After finishing speaking, Su Qingchun saw that his mother's expression was wrong, and asked, "No Kiki also had more than one miscarriage, right?"

He Meizhen glanced at Su Tiejun after hearing this, and replied, "She has had three streams."

"Three times!" Su Qingchun said in amazement, "Could it be because they were pregnant with a girl and aborted on their own initiative?"

He Meizhen nodded.

"I'm really speechless!" Su Qingchun rolled his eyes and said helplessly.

As an obstetrician and gynecologist, he never thought that there would be such a medical blindness around him.

"I've never heard of such a thing before."

"We don't think there is anything to say about such a thing." He Meizhen said indifferently, "Then Lao Chen's daughter-in-law also lost several grandchildren who were born later."

"Then everyone's physique is different, so how can we compare it? Besides, how can I tell you all the hardships I have suffered in giving birth to a child!"

Su Qingchun was really angry and annoyed.

"You know, every day in our hospital we encounter people who fail to keep the baby due to miscarriage and other reasons."

He Meizhen was also frightened when she heard that her grandson might not be able to keep her life this time.

"Is it really that serious?" He Meizhen asked again.

"Of course, why should I lie to you about such a thing?"

"Then what should we do now?" He Meizhen became nervous at this moment.

"How does Qiqi feel now?"

"I haven't heard of any problems." He Meizhen replied.

"Oh, as long as there is nothing uncomfortable now, let's observe slowly later, but we still have to be more careful and pay attention to the prenatal checkup."

"Oh……"

After He Meizhen finished speaking, she glanced at Su Tiejun again, only to see that Su Tiejun gave him a look, but did not speak, so He Meizhen said again: "Mangzi, I just happen to have something to tell you today."

"What is it?"

"It's not like Qingfu called today to say that Qingqing is pregnant, and they can't eat well there. You know that Qingfu doesn't know how to take care of others, so they plan to let Qingqing go back to her hometown to raise her baby."

"It's okay to go back to my hometown to raise a baby. The two of them are renting a house outside. It's true that they can't eat well and sleep well, and it's not good for fetal development."

"That's what I said, but you should know at this time that your aunt's family is also busy farming at this time, and there is no time to take care of Qingqing, but we are in Shanghai again, and they still have no one to take care of them when they go back."

"Oh, yes, my aunt probably doesn't have much time to take care of her now."

"That's right, so I don't want Qingqing to come to Shanghai to stay for a few days, and then go back after your aunt is done with her work. She will stay at her mother's house for a while, just as our summer vacation is over and we will go back to our hometown. There is no delay." He Meizhen said that she wanted to continue, "It happens that Qingqing hasn't seen Zihan for a long time, and she also misses a child."

"Come to Shanghai, yes." Su Qingchun replied without thinking.

"Really?"

"Of course, as long as she can bear the car." Su Qingchun replied.

"Then Qingqing won't have any complaints from Xiaopei, right?" He Meizhen finally asked her real worry.

"No, Xiaopei is not that stingy, and he only stays for a few days."

"That's good!" He Meizhen asked after finishing speaking, "Then...are you telling Xiaopei or me?"

"I'll get back to Kiki and the others as soon as possible."

"Hey... What's there to say about such a thing, just tell Qiqi to come and play if you want, it's okay." Su Qingchun said disapprovingly.

"It just so happens that they haven't been here before, as long as their health can bear it, they can come anytime,"

"Xiao Pei is not that stingy." Su Qingchun added.

"It's better to tell Xiaopei better." He Meizhen said worriedly.

"I see, don't worry, I'll tell her the head office when she comes back."

While speaking, Su Qingchun had already finished his meal.

"Mom, I'm done eating, so I'm going to go first," Su Qingchun did not forget to tell his daughter, "Xuanxuan, eat quickly, and go to do homework after eating."

"Oh……"

Su Qingchun left the dinner table after hearing this.

(End of this chapter)