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Chapter 569 Chapter 584: Li Hao Godson
Chapter 569 Chapter 584: Li Hao Godson
When Li Hao saw that he was yelling at him, he was immediately very unhappy, rolled his eyes at him, and said, "Oh, you are skinny."
Chu Suiliang was taken aback when he heard the words, then raised his eyebrows, pointed at Li Hao with an angry face, and sternly reprimanded: "Li Hao, you insulted me with foul language, and I want to impeach you to His Majesty!"
Li Hao raised his eyebrows, pointed at Chengtianmen and said: "Go, go and impeach me, Chengtianmen is behind you, if you don't go, you will be a bastard."
"You..." Chu Suiliang was so angry when he heard the words, he pointed at Li Hao tremblingly, he finally knew why Kong Yingda was so pissed off by Li Hao, because this bastard is really irritating.
Why did Kong Yingda fall ill?The one who was pissed off by Li Hao was so angry that Li Hao vomited blood on the spot in the hall, and then stayed in bed for half a year, and finally died, so the courtiers all thought that Kong Yingda was pissed off by Li Hao. Before dying, Kong Yingda yelled three times in grief and indignation: "Zhuzi is wronging the country! Shuzi is wronging the country! Shuzi is wronging the country!" Then he hiccupped. Who else could he be talking about but Li Hao.
Chu Suiliang now finally understands the suffering and pain that Kong Yingda suffered in the past. Li Hao has always been known as a bastard in court, and he has no moral burden. If you punch you, you can punch you. If you still can't beat him, even if you go to Li Shimin to complain, Li Shimin will probably keep making peace. Who makes Li Hao a favorite now? Splashing military exploits, and proposing a series of strategies to strengthen the country and enrich the people, Li Shimin does not favor anyone else.
However, Chu Suiliang is not so chic. He is a famous Confucianist and Taoist, so he must first maintain his own demeanor. If he is like Li Hao and swears, it will be a gentleman.
Facing Li Hao's insults and provocations, Chu Suiliang could only grit his teeth and hold back, pointing at Li Hao "you" for a long time, finally shook his sleeves vigorously, and snorted angrily: "I don't want to talk to you. How long will it last! Hmph!" After saying that, he turned and left angrily.
All the ministers waited and watched not far away, seeing that Chu Suiliang was shaken by Li Hao's anger, and they all gave up their plans to flirt with Li Hao, while Changsun Wuji shook his head and sighed softly, and got on the sedan chair silently to go home, he knew Without his own help, at Chu Suiliang's level, he couldn't beat Li Hao, but now that his little braid is being held by Li Hao, what can he do, he can only shrink his head and be a man.
After Li Hao returned home, he saw Li Tu playing with his younger brothers and sisters as soon as he entered the intermediate court. When the four little guys saw Li Hao coming back, they cheered and rushed towards Li Hao. The four surrounded Li Hao live.
When Li Hao saw the rubber band in Li Tu's hand, he immediately laughed, and asked, "Where are you dancing the rubber band? Is it fun?"
"Fun!" All four little guys shouted excitedly.
Li Hao bent down and stroked their heads one by one, and asked with a smile: "Then dad, how about playing with you?"
"Okay!" All four sons and daughters agreed happily.
Ever since, Li Anran and Li Youran stretched their rubber bands, Li Hao took Li Tu and Li Xinran to start jumping rubber bands, because Li Hao was the leader, so he recited the formula: "Small car, Didi, Malan Huahua 21, two five six, Two five seven, two eight two nine 31..."
It happened that Qin Su and Elena came to the middle courtyard to ask the children to eat. Seeing this scene, they both stopped and watched. Seeing Li Hao and the children having fun, both of them smiled.
Elena smiled and asked Qin Su: "Sister Susu, how did you come up with these novelties, and what is a car?"
Qin Su smiled and shook her head: "Who knows, my husband always thinks out of his mind and always has novel ideas. Things like jumping rubber bands, skipping rope, kicking shuttlecocks, hiding sandbags, etc. are all thought up by him. He said it was for the children of the academy to play. Son, while playing, you can also strengthen your body, since my husband said it is a good thing, it must be a good thing."
Elena nodded: "Yes, as long as the children like it."
In order for Li Hao and the children to play longer, Qin Su and Elena stood there for more than half an hour before going forward to urge them to eat. Li Hao and the children put away the rubber bands and agreed to play again tomorrow. Then take the kids to lunch.
At the dinner table, while Li Hao was eating, he suddenly remembered something, and asked Qin Su: "Susu, Li Tu has started learning calligraphy from you this year, right?"
"Yes, husband." Qin Su put down her chopsticks and replied, "After the Chinese New Year, Su'er taught Tu'er how to read according to Sister Ping's instructions, and it has been nearly nine months now."
Li Hao nodded and asked, "Is Tu'er studying seriously? How is the progress?"
Qin Su's expression was a bit unnatural when he heard the words, but it was fleeting, and said: "Tu'er is very hardworking."
Li Hao is so shrewd, he naturally noticed Qin Suyan's insincerity, and said, "Okay, after dinner, I will personally test Tu'er's studies."
Li Tu, who was eating at the side, stopped his chopsticks immediately, and looked at Qin Su with a sad face, and Qin Su returned him a very sympathetic look, expressing his helplessness.
After dinner, Li Hao took Qin Su and Li Tu to his study, fetched the four treasures of the study, and asked Li Tu to write, first of all, let him silently write the poem "Compassion for Farmers".
Li Tu was holding a brush in his hand, and kept rolling his two big eyes, looking at Li Hao for a while, and Qin Su for a while, his small appearance made him feel a little wronged.
"Write, don't look at us." Li Hao pointed to the paper on the table with a relaxed expression.
Li Tu knew that he couldn't escape this catastrophe, so he started to write with a pen. After finishing a poem of pity for farmers, Li Hao picked up the paper and looked at it. His eyebrows were twisted, and he handed the paper to Qin Su, coldly. He hummed: "In nine months, you taught this kind of thing?"
I saw that the handwriting on the paper was worse than Li Hao's handwriting, which was fine. The title "Min Nong", the word "Min" only wrote a radical, and the "Min" on the right could not be written at all, and then The first word of the poem, hoehe, is written wrongly, the word "drip" is missing three dots of water, the word "who" is wrongly written, and the word "meal" can't be written...
Anyway, as long as Li Tu is a little more complicated, he will either not be able to write or make mistakes. Although nine months is very short for students, Li Hao knows that Li Tu is only learning characters now, and there are no other courses. The progress should be very fast. Hurry up, even if you memorize only two characters a day by rote, you should have learned hundreds of characters. Besides, Li Hao knows that Li Tu has inherited his special physique and has an excellent memory. Learning characters should be easy for him .
However, looking at his performance now, there is only one reason, that is, he is playful and does not like to study.
Li Haohu looked at Qin Su with a straight face. Qin Su lowered her head and her face was flushed. She was ready to be punished.
But Li Tu shouted: "Father, it's none of my aunt's business. I'm playful and don't like studying. If you want to blame me, blame me. Don't make things difficult for auntie!"
"Hehe, you are quite righteous, little thing." Li Hao raised his eyebrows and glanced at Li Tu, and said, "Do you know what it means to be lax in teaching and lazy in teaching? You can't learn well because she is too pampered. Drowning you, not being strict enough for you!"
Li Tu was speechless when he heard the words, and reasoning with Li Hao, he was obviously inferior to Li Hao, Qin Su also spoke at this time: "Husband, you are right, the teaching is not strict, the teacher is lazy, Li Tu He was young and didn't like to study, so I let him go and didn't control him, it was my fault."
"It's good if you know your mistake." Li Hao nodded and said, "From today onwards, you will be locked up for seven days as a punishment."
When Li Tu heard the words, he shouted angrily, "Father is unreasonable. It's obviously Tu'er's fault. Why punish Auntie!"
Li Hao looked at Li Tu with raised eyebrows and said, "Not only your Aunt Su will be punished, but your mother and Aunt Ping will also be punished! Because they also have the responsibility to discipline you!"
Li Tu's temper became violent, he poked his neck and blushed and said, "Father, you will also be punished, and you are also responsible for disciplining Tu'er!"
Li Hao nodded and said: "Yes, I have the responsibility of disciplining you, but in this family, I am in charge of external affairs, while your mother and four aunts are in charge of internal affairs. Everyone has an orderly division of labor. I have many important national affairs to deal with. Time is in charge of you, so you can only entrust them with the responsibility of disciplining you, after all, they have a lot of time, and now so many people can't discipline you alone, do you think they should be punished?"
Li Tu was speechless once again, his little face flushed with anger.
Li Hao walked over and patted him on the shoulder and said: "You are willing to excuse my mother and Aunt Su Ping, which shows that you are still very filial and responsible for a man. Father is very pleased about this. If you don't want you His mother and two aunts will continue to be punished in the future, so they should study hard."
Li Tu hurriedly said: "Then please give Tu'er a chance, don't punish mother and the two aunts, give Tu'er a month, Tu'er will learn all the characters and learn all the poems of Dad If you can't learn it, Tu'er is willing to be punished for mother and aunt!"
"Okay!" Li Hao has actually been waiting for his words for a long time. He said so much before just to draw out Li Tu's words. It can also be seen from this that Li Tu is still a very pure and kind child who knows pain Cherishing his mother and aunt, he is very filial, so Li Hao said, "I will give you a month, and when the time comes, I hope you can impress me."
"Tu'er will definitely not disappoint father." Li Tu saluted Li Hao, his appearance was very solemn.
Li Hao nodded in satisfaction, then turned to Qin Su and said, "Su'er, take him down, you need to be more disciplined in the future, children are like this, they are unstable, playful by nature, you can't let their temper go, they should play When it’s time to learn, let go of playing, and when it’s time to learn, learn with your heart.”
"Yes, husband, Su'er understands." Qin Su nodded slightly, stepped forward and took Li Tu's hand and left.
Watching Qin Su and Li Tu leave, Li Hao's face was full of smiles. He was very satisfied with the current family situation. Five wives and four children got along very well, probably because the parents did Good role models. These children are also pure in nature. They have loved each other since they were young, and they are also very grateful. It can be seen from Li Tu. In fact, he does not have too many demands on the children, as long as they live in peace and harmony. He is satisfied with harmony, peace and security, no dandies, no prodigal family, and he has never thought about having a child to become a dragon or something.
Li Hao still attaches great importance to children's education. Combining with the experience of the future world, he has had many thoughts on children's education. In the end, he thinks that Western education should be combined with ancient Chinese education methods, and the best of them should be used. From the dross, this is the best way to educate children.
In the future world, domestic families pamper their children too much, which can be said to be the most failed way of education, while the education in ancient China is too strict, obliterating the nature of children, which hinders the development of some abilities of children and restricts the development of children. For the development of children's thoughts and thinking, Western education has many merits, but it also has many disadvantages. He now feels that the education of children should be based on moral education and supplemented by criminal education. This sounds a bit nonsense. Reasoning with children, isn’t this nonsense? What can children understand? In fact, this is a wrong concept. Children don’t understand reason because their parents didn’t teach them. In fact, children are a blank sheet of paper. Parents’ education is like Write on white paper, whatever you teach him, he will remember firmly, and it is deeply ingrained, hard to erase, until he grows up in the future, he almost thinks these are the truth.
As for the punishment education, Li Hao set up some rules, not many rules, he gave the children the chance to make mistakes, because people make mistakes, let alone children, some small mistakes, verbal warning is enough, big mistakes, will be punished. Severe reprimand and family law punishment, but Li Hao's standards are quite different in countering rebellion.
For example, if a child breaks a valuable antique, in the future world, the parents will definitely reprimand, even beat and scold and punish. However, Li Hao is not the case. He will tell the child very seriously which things are very valuable at home and cannot be touched. , under normal circumstances, children will be very obedient and will not commit the crime again.
For another example, when a child is naughty, he kicks or punches his mother or aunt. This is very common in the future world. In most cases, parents will laugh and think that the child is playing with themselves, but If Li Hao finds out, Li Hao will severely reprimand him, because Li Hao knows that children are actually very delicate. If they hit you with one punch today, they will punch you twice tomorrow. Their small fists are indeed tickling, but they His behavior has tested the bottom line of parents, and it will form a habit as time goes by, which is terrible.
Children will grow up slowly, their fists will become heavier and heavier, and their original behavior will change from playfulness to a violation of the dignity of their parents. This is how many unfilial sons are born.
There is also a very common phenomenon, that is, children want things, and children want to have things they like, but they don’t have the ability, so they will ask their parents. Li Hao warned several of his wives that children don’t count. You can't give him anything easily, you have to make him pay a certain price, even if the price is very small, for example, if a child wants to buy a bunch of candied haws, then let the child run errands to get something for himself, this is the price the child pays , although the price is very small, but the purpose is to let the children understand the truth that if they want to get something, they have to pay. It’s almost like giving what you want, and the child’s greed will become bigger and bigger, so that it will eventually form a habit. In the mall, the child looks at an expensive toy. If the parents don’t buy it for him, he will roll around on the floor , refused to leave, cried heart-rendingly, and had to get it no matter what, the parents either compromised or beat them up, but it was too late at this time, because their habitual thinking had already been developed, just like a plant When the tree is still young, if you don’t cultivate it straight, how will it change when the tree grows up and the trunk is extremely curved.
And some parents are more strict, and generally will not agree to the behavior of children asking for things, which is also very bad. This will cause a lot of pressure on the children, and the children will feel afraid of their parents, and many thoughts will be hidden in their hearts. , dare not communicate with their parents, afraid of being scolded, many introverted children are raised in this way, which will also make the children timid, and when the children grow up, they will lack a kind of aggressiveness.
Although the current situation at home is very good, Li Hao is still a little dissatisfied, because there are still two women that he cares about, one is Fan Lihua, and the other is Hu Ke.
Hu Ke is like a floating cloud in the wind, and he can never capture her heart. Fortunately, Fan Lihua has now settled in Lantian, replacing him as the Marquis of Lantian County. There will be many opportunities to meet each other in the future. Fan Lihua must be filial For three years, he decided to take advantage of these three years to cultivate a good relationship with Fan Lihua.
Action is not as good as heartbeat, Li Haodang ordered Du Hong to start preparations, and the whole family moved to Lantian Mountain Resort two days later.
Regarding children's education, it is a very hot topic in our country now. Huajian combined the cases around him, as well as the information collected on the Internet, as well as psychological knowledge, and made a summary after a long period of research. The results obtained, he has not tried it himself. After all, I don't have children yet, so everyone can learn from it, and if you don't think so, just laugh it off.
(End of this chapter)
When Li Hao saw that he was yelling at him, he was immediately very unhappy, rolled his eyes at him, and said, "Oh, you are skinny."
Chu Suiliang was taken aback when he heard the words, then raised his eyebrows, pointed at Li Hao with an angry face, and sternly reprimanded: "Li Hao, you insulted me with foul language, and I want to impeach you to His Majesty!"
Li Hao raised his eyebrows, pointed at Chengtianmen and said: "Go, go and impeach me, Chengtianmen is behind you, if you don't go, you will be a bastard."
"You..." Chu Suiliang was so angry when he heard the words, he pointed at Li Hao tremblingly, he finally knew why Kong Yingda was so pissed off by Li Hao, because this bastard is really irritating.
Why did Kong Yingda fall ill?The one who was pissed off by Li Hao was so angry that Li Hao vomited blood on the spot in the hall, and then stayed in bed for half a year, and finally died, so the courtiers all thought that Kong Yingda was pissed off by Li Hao. Before dying, Kong Yingda yelled three times in grief and indignation: "Zhuzi is wronging the country! Shuzi is wronging the country! Shuzi is wronging the country!" Then he hiccupped. Who else could he be talking about but Li Hao.
Chu Suiliang now finally understands the suffering and pain that Kong Yingda suffered in the past. Li Hao has always been known as a bastard in court, and he has no moral burden. If you punch you, you can punch you. If you still can't beat him, even if you go to Li Shimin to complain, Li Shimin will probably keep making peace. Who makes Li Hao a favorite now? Splashing military exploits, and proposing a series of strategies to strengthen the country and enrich the people, Li Shimin does not favor anyone else.
However, Chu Suiliang is not so chic. He is a famous Confucianist and Taoist, so he must first maintain his own demeanor. If he is like Li Hao and swears, it will be a gentleman.
Facing Li Hao's insults and provocations, Chu Suiliang could only grit his teeth and hold back, pointing at Li Hao "you" for a long time, finally shook his sleeves vigorously, and snorted angrily: "I don't want to talk to you. How long will it last! Hmph!" After saying that, he turned and left angrily.
All the ministers waited and watched not far away, seeing that Chu Suiliang was shaken by Li Hao's anger, and they all gave up their plans to flirt with Li Hao, while Changsun Wuji shook his head and sighed softly, and got on the sedan chair silently to go home, he knew Without his own help, at Chu Suiliang's level, he couldn't beat Li Hao, but now that his little braid is being held by Li Hao, what can he do, he can only shrink his head and be a man.
After Li Hao returned home, he saw Li Tu playing with his younger brothers and sisters as soon as he entered the intermediate court. When the four little guys saw Li Hao coming back, they cheered and rushed towards Li Hao. The four surrounded Li Hao live.
When Li Hao saw the rubber band in Li Tu's hand, he immediately laughed, and asked, "Where are you dancing the rubber band? Is it fun?"
"Fun!" All four little guys shouted excitedly.
Li Hao bent down and stroked their heads one by one, and asked with a smile: "Then dad, how about playing with you?"
"Okay!" All four sons and daughters agreed happily.
Ever since, Li Anran and Li Youran stretched their rubber bands, Li Hao took Li Tu and Li Xinran to start jumping rubber bands, because Li Hao was the leader, so he recited the formula: "Small car, Didi, Malan Huahua 21, two five six, Two five seven, two eight two nine 31..."
It happened that Qin Su and Elena came to the middle courtyard to ask the children to eat. Seeing this scene, they both stopped and watched. Seeing Li Hao and the children having fun, both of them smiled.
Elena smiled and asked Qin Su: "Sister Susu, how did you come up with these novelties, and what is a car?"
Qin Su smiled and shook her head: "Who knows, my husband always thinks out of his mind and always has novel ideas. Things like jumping rubber bands, skipping rope, kicking shuttlecocks, hiding sandbags, etc. are all thought up by him. He said it was for the children of the academy to play. Son, while playing, you can also strengthen your body, since my husband said it is a good thing, it must be a good thing."
Elena nodded: "Yes, as long as the children like it."
In order for Li Hao and the children to play longer, Qin Su and Elena stood there for more than half an hour before going forward to urge them to eat. Li Hao and the children put away the rubber bands and agreed to play again tomorrow. Then take the kids to lunch.
At the dinner table, while Li Hao was eating, he suddenly remembered something, and asked Qin Su: "Susu, Li Tu has started learning calligraphy from you this year, right?"
"Yes, husband." Qin Su put down her chopsticks and replied, "After the Chinese New Year, Su'er taught Tu'er how to read according to Sister Ping's instructions, and it has been nearly nine months now."
Li Hao nodded and asked, "Is Tu'er studying seriously? How is the progress?"
Qin Su's expression was a bit unnatural when he heard the words, but it was fleeting, and said: "Tu'er is very hardworking."
Li Hao is so shrewd, he naturally noticed Qin Suyan's insincerity, and said, "Okay, after dinner, I will personally test Tu'er's studies."
Li Tu, who was eating at the side, stopped his chopsticks immediately, and looked at Qin Su with a sad face, and Qin Su returned him a very sympathetic look, expressing his helplessness.
After dinner, Li Hao took Qin Su and Li Tu to his study, fetched the four treasures of the study, and asked Li Tu to write, first of all, let him silently write the poem "Compassion for Farmers".
Li Tu was holding a brush in his hand, and kept rolling his two big eyes, looking at Li Hao for a while, and Qin Su for a while, his small appearance made him feel a little wronged.
"Write, don't look at us." Li Hao pointed to the paper on the table with a relaxed expression.
Li Tu knew that he couldn't escape this catastrophe, so he started to write with a pen. After finishing a poem of pity for farmers, Li Hao picked up the paper and looked at it. His eyebrows were twisted, and he handed the paper to Qin Su, coldly. He hummed: "In nine months, you taught this kind of thing?"
I saw that the handwriting on the paper was worse than Li Hao's handwriting, which was fine. The title "Min Nong", the word "Min" only wrote a radical, and the "Min" on the right could not be written at all, and then The first word of the poem, hoehe, is written wrongly, the word "drip" is missing three dots of water, the word "who" is wrongly written, and the word "meal" can't be written...
Anyway, as long as Li Tu is a little more complicated, he will either not be able to write or make mistakes. Although nine months is very short for students, Li Hao knows that Li Tu is only learning characters now, and there are no other courses. The progress should be very fast. Hurry up, even if you memorize only two characters a day by rote, you should have learned hundreds of characters. Besides, Li Hao knows that Li Tu has inherited his special physique and has an excellent memory. Learning characters should be easy for him .
However, looking at his performance now, there is only one reason, that is, he is playful and does not like to study.
Li Haohu looked at Qin Su with a straight face. Qin Su lowered her head and her face was flushed. She was ready to be punished.
But Li Tu shouted: "Father, it's none of my aunt's business. I'm playful and don't like studying. If you want to blame me, blame me. Don't make things difficult for auntie!"
"Hehe, you are quite righteous, little thing." Li Hao raised his eyebrows and glanced at Li Tu, and said, "Do you know what it means to be lax in teaching and lazy in teaching? You can't learn well because she is too pampered. Drowning you, not being strict enough for you!"
Li Tu was speechless when he heard the words, and reasoning with Li Hao, he was obviously inferior to Li Hao, Qin Su also spoke at this time: "Husband, you are right, the teaching is not strict, the teacher is lazy, Li Tu He was young and didn't like to study, so I let him go and didn't control him, it was my fault."
"It's good if you know your mistake." Li Hao nodded and said, "From today onwards, you will be locked up for seven days as a punishment."
When Li Tu heard the words, he shouted angrily, "Father is unreasonable. It's obviously Tu'er's fault. Why punish Auntie!"
Li Hao looked at Li Tu with raised eyebrows and said, "Not only your Aunt Su will be punished, but your mother and Aunt Ping will also be punished! Because they also have the responsibility to discipline you!"
Li Tu's temper became violent, he poked his neck and blushed and said, "Father, you will also be punished, and you are also responsible for disciplining Tu'er!"
Li Hao nodded and said: "Yes, I have the responsibility of disciplining you, but in this family, I am in charge of external affairs, while your mother and four aunts are in charge of internal affairs. Everyone has an orderly division of labor. I have many important national affairs to deal with. Time is in charge of you, so you can only entrust them with the responsibility of disciplining you, after all, they have a lot of time, and now so many people can't discipline you alone, do you think they should be punished?"
Li Tu was speechless once again, his little face flushed with anger.
Li Hao walked over and patted him on the shoulder and said: "You are willing to excuse my mother and Aunt Su Ping, which shows that you are still very filial and responsible for a man. Father is very pleased about this. If you don't want you His mother and two aunts will continue to be punished in the future, so they should study hard."
Li Tu hurriedly said: "Then please give Tu'er a chance, don't punish mother and the two aunts, give Tu'er a month, Tu'er will learn all the characters and learn all the poems of Dad If you can't learn it, Tu'er is willing to be punished for mother and aunt!"
"Okay!" Li Hao has actually been waiting for his words for a long time. He said so much before just to draw out Li Tu's words. It can also be seen from this that Li Tu is still a very pure and kind child who knows pain Cherishing his mother and aunt, he is very filial, so Li Hao said, "I will give you a month, and when the time comes, I hope you can impress me."
"Tu'er will definitely not disappoint father." Li Tu saluted Li Hao, his appearance was very solemn.
Li Hao nodded in satisfaction, then turned to Qin Su and said, "Su'er, take him down, you need to be more disciplined in the future, children are like this, they are unstable, playful by nature, you can't let their temper go, they should play When it’s time to learn, let go of playing, and when it’s time to learn, learn with your heart.”
"Yes, husband, Su'er understands." Qin Su nodded slightly, stepped forward and took Li Tu's hand and left.
Watching Qin Su and Li Tu leave, Li Hao's face was full of smiles. He was very satisfied with the current family situation. Five wives and four children got along very well, probably because the parents did Good role models. These children are also pure in nature. They have loved each other since they were young, and they are also very grateful. It can be seen from Li Tu. In fact, he does not have too many demands on the children, as long as they live in peace and harmony. He is satisfied with harmony, peace and security, no dandies, no prodigal family, and he has never thought about having a child to become a dragon or something.
Li Hao still attaches great importance to children's education. Combining with the experience of the future world, he has had many thoughts on children's education. In the end, he thinks that Western education should be combined with ancient Chinese education methods, and the best of them should be used. From the dross, this is the best way to educate children.
In the future world, domestic families pamper their children too much, which can be said to be the most failed way of education, while the education in ancient China is too strict, obliterating the nature of children, which hinders the development of some abilities of children and restricts the development of children. For the development of children's thoughts and thinking, Western education has many merits, but it also has many disadvantages. He now feels that the education of children should be based on moral education and supplemented by criminal education. This sounds a bit nonsense. Reasoning with children, isn’t this nonsense? What can children understand? In fact, this is a wrong concept. Children don’t understand reason because their parents didn’t teach them. In fact, children are a blank sheet of paper. Parents’ education is like Write on white paper, whatever you teach him, he will remember firmly, and it is deeply ingrained, hard to erase, until he grows up in the future, he almost thinks these are the truth.
As for the punishment education, Li Hao set up some rules, not many rules, he gave the children the chance to make mistakes, because people make mistakes, let alone children, some small mistakes, verbal warning is enough, big mistakes, will be punished. Severe reprimand and family law punishment, but Li Hao's standards are quite different in countering rebellion.
For example, if a child breaks a valuable antique, in the future world, the parents will definitely reprimand, even beat and scold and punish. However, Li Hao is not the case. He will tell the child very seriously which things are very valuable at home and cannot be touched. , under normal circumstances, children will be very obedient and will not commit the crime again.
For another example, when a child is naughty, he kicks or punches his mother or aunt. This is very common in the future world. In most cases, parents will laugh and think that the child is playing with themselves, but If Li Hao finds out, Li Hao will severely reprimand him, because Li Hao knows that children are actually very delicate. If they hit you with one punch today, they will punch you twice tomorrow. Their small fists are indeed tickling, but they His behavior has tested the bottom line of parents, and it will form a habit as time goes by, which is terrible.
Children will grow up slowly, their fists will become heavier and heavier, and their original behavior will change from playfulness to a violation of the dignity of their parents. This is how many unfilial sons are born.
There is also a very common phenomenon, that is, children want things, and children want to have things they like, but they don’t have the ability, so they will ask their parents. Li Hao warned several of his wives that children don’t count. You can't give him anything easily, you have to make him pay a certain price, even if the price is very small, for example, if a child wants to buy a bunch of candied haws, then let the child run errands to get something for himself, this is the price the child pays , although the price is very small, but the purpose is to let the children understand the truth that if they want to get something, they have to pay. It’s almost like giving what you want, and the child’s greed will become bigger and bigger, so that it will eventually form a habit. In the mall, the child looks at an expensive toy. If the parents don’t buy it for him, he will roll around on the floor , refused to leave, cried heart-rendingly, and had to get it no matter what, the parents either compromised or beat them up, but it was too late at this time, because their habitual thinking had already been developed, just like a plant When the tree is still young, if you don’t cultivate it straight, how will it change when the tree grows up and the trunk is extremely curved.
And some parents are more strict, and generally will not agree to the behavior of children asking for things, which is also very bad. This will cause a lot of pressure on the children, and the children will feel afraid of their parents, and many thoughts will be hidden in their hearts. , dare not communicate with their parents, afraid of being scolded, many introverted children are raised in this way, which will also make the children timid, and when the children grow up, they will lack a kind of aggressiveness.
Although the current situation at home is very good, Li Hao is still a little dissatisfied, because there are still two women that he cares about, one is Fan Lihua, and the other is Hu Ke.
Hu Ke is like a floating cloud in the wind, and he can never capture her heart. Fortunately, Fan Lihua has now settled in Lantian, replacing him as the Marquis of Lantian County. There will be many opportunities to meet each other in the future. Fan Lihua must be filial For three years, he decided to take advantage of these three years to cultivate a good relationship with Fan Lihua.
Action is not as good as heartbeat, Li Haodang ordered Du Hong to start preparations, and the whole family moved to Lantian Mountain Resort two days later.
Regarding children's education, it is a very hot topic in our country now. Huajian combined the cases around him, as well as the information collected on the Internet, as well as psychological knowledge, and made a summary after a long period of research. The results obtained, he has not tried it himself. After all, I don't have children yet, so everyone can learn from it, and if you don't think so, just laugh it off.
(End of this chapter)
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