Mingmen Family

"Of course, I'm talking about the shopkeeper and the shopkeeper. You need your cook to make dim sum. Remember, in a partnership like this, you must have the dim sum recipe and the cook in your hands. In this way, no matter who you cooperate with, you can guarantee your irreplaceable status, and others will value you and respect you."

Yin Shi nodded thoughtfully.

Ye Yaming taught Yin how to do business and how to speak and do things when interacting with these noble ladies in the capital.One of the mother and daughter dared to teach and the other dared to learn, and they didn't feel any sense of disobedience.

The main reason is that both Ye Chongming and Ye Hongchang admire Ye Yaming's ability, and Yin also thinks that he has no skills. Isn't it right for those who have no skills to ask those who have skills?There is nothing wrong with that.

"In addition, if you want to open branches, don't open two at once. Come one by one, otherwise you will be in a hurry."

Yin Shi nodded again and again.

When the two said these words, they did not avoid Ye Yayin and Ye Yayu.Both of them listened with gusto and felt that they had benefited a lot.

After talking about the business matters, Mrs. Yin began to chase people away: "You two go to the kitchen to see what good dishes there are, and ask the cook to make two more dishes that your sister likes. I have something to say to your sister."

Ye Yayin and Ye Yayu looked at each other, shrugged, agreed and went out hand in hand.

After confirming that the two had left, Yin told the Li family about asking Ye Yayin and wanting to marry the Ye family.

"I asked someone to find out. The Li family only has a son, a grandson and a granddaughter. The granddaughter is married. The grandson is 16 years old and is studying at the Imperial College."

"Mr. Li was originally a fourth-rank official, but he became an official because of illness a few years ago. Mr. Li is a Juren, but he was not admitted to the Jinshi. They wanted his grandson to study for a few years, so they kept suppressing him from taking the imperial examination. He They can all go to the Imperial College to study, and it is not difficult to get admitted to the scholar and raise people."

In addition to recruiting outstanding talents from all over the country, the Guozijian in the Jin Dynasty can also go to study for the children of officials in the capital, but there are also thresholds for admission. Not only must they pass the entrance examination, but they must also have a letter of recommendation from Mr. Guozijian.

It is impossible for the husband to give a recommendation letter to a student with insufficient talent and poor conduct, so as not to ruin his own brand; and each gentleman can only recommend one student per year, and the quota is very precious. be better than others.

Since the young master of the Li family can enter the Imperial Academy, it can be seen that he is indeed a talented and good character.

Before Ye Yaming came to the capital, he asked someone to check the situation of the residents near Ye's house.She also knew that this Mrs. Li was originally an official of the household department. This kind of department has a lot of money, and the Li family's family background is still very rich.

She didn't say that Ye Yayin must marry a rich man.But the husband's family must at least have family assets and be able to support themselves.Otherwise, if you marry someone like the Wang family in Lin'an City, where the whole family depends on the woman's dowry to live, don't you feel uncomfortable?
"The Li family's family style is clean and upright. Even if the children are not rich, the men don't take concubines. I have met Mrs. Li and Mrs. Li. They are both kind people. The family is very harmonious."

Ye Yaming glanced at Yin Shi: "Do you think this one is good?"

Yin shook her head: "I just think it can be considered. As for what to do, you and your father will decide."

Ye Yaming: "..."

She said helplessly: "Have you ever asked Yin'er what kind of family she wants to marry? She lives her life, you have to ask her what she thinks."

"She's a kid, what do you know..." Yin didn't finish her sentence, she glanced at Ye Yaming, and quickly changed her words, "Sure, I'll ask her."

Ye Yaming nodded.

Mrs. Yin endured it, but still didn't hold back, and said: "This Li family, there is one bad thing, that is, Mr. Li's father and him are the only sons in the family, which can be said to be a single heir for three generations. The pressure on their daughter-in-law to have children It must be big. What if there is no son?"

In this regard, she has been aggrieved for half her life.Fortunately, she is a lucky one. Her husband doesn't care, her in-laws don't say anything about her, and she has a capable daughter who makes her stand up straight.

But this is also based on the fact that Ye Hongsheng has three brothers. Both Ye Hongchang and Ye Hongrong have sons, and the Ye family has no shortage of grandchildren to pass on incense.Otherwise, no matter how open-minded the parents-in-law are, they might let Ye Hongsheng take a concubine and have children.

Ye Yaming's marriage is not for her to talk about, and Lu Guanyi has a brother anyway; but here with Ye Yayin, she doesn't want her daughter to suffer again.

Ye Yaming nodded: "This is indeed a problem. But things have two sides. In a family with many brothers, the relationship between sisters-in-law is difficult to handle, and there are many conflicts in the family. There are many people who turn against each other for family property and resources."

Now put Lu Guanyi and Lu Guanyu are typical examples.Shi Shi regards Lu Guanyi as a thorn in her side because he is the eldest son, the logical eldest son, and this blocks her son's way.

If the Lu family is a special case, then the Ye family's family style is clean enough, right?There are not many brothers, they are all compatriots from the same mother, and the relationship between brothers is very good.If so, there are still many conflicts between them, not to mention those brothers and sisters.

Thinking of how she got along with Dow and Zhang over the years, and their cares about family property over the years, Yin became silent.

Ye Yaming said: "So what I mean is to see how the other party is. If the other party's character, ability, and personality are good, then talk openly and honestly. If Yin'er can't give birth to a son, their family will take a concubine. Then you have to agree with Yin'er and Li, and agree with her to take her daughter away. If you agree to this, the marriage can be concluded, otherwise forget it."

"Heli?" Yin Shi was taken aback.

Women in this era, if they can't stay in their in-laws' house, who would want to reconcile?Not to mention that I will be judged by others, even my natal family will be humiliated, and girls from my natal family are not easy to marry.

But this matter is as simple as eating and drinking in Ye Yaming's mouth, Yin Shi can't understand it.

"Could something be wrong with my uncle in the future, and you still want to make up?" She asked incredulously.

Ye Yaming shook his head.When Yin shi breathed a sigh of relief, she said: "I planned it this way, but I was granted a marriage by the emperor. However, there are ways to live without reconciliation. Lu Guanyi is really sorry for me, so I will Take the child back to Lin'an, and never live with him again. This is actually no different from Heli."

Yin Shi barely came up.

"You, you..." She felt that she had a lot to say to reprimand her daughter, but she didn't know how to start it.

Ye Yaming waved his hand: "Anyway, I don't suffer from anything I eat, and I don't suffer from anything. It's impossible for me to live aggrieved. Whoever makes me unhappy, I will make anyone unhappy."

Yin Shi: "..."