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Chapter 89 089 Pearl Flower
Jiang Wenshan talked about her criteria for finding a partner, which Jiang Wenzhu agrees with very much.

Not only Jiang Wenzhu, but the whole family agrees.

This standard was unanimously agreed upon after discussion.

The reason why such a standard was formed was mainly due to Lin's experience summed up based on his own experience, coupled with Jiang Wenzhu's ideas explained to them intentionally or unintentionally, and slowly formed.

That is to say, in this process, Jiang Wenzhu passed on some modern concepts of the Three Views to his family members.

Although it is ancient times, it is not appropriate to say these things, but the essence of life is the same no matter ancient or modern.

Ancient people would not agree with the three modern views on marriage, would not think that women can hold up half the sky, and would not appreciate women showing their faces, making their own careers, husbands and children, and the ultimate destination of lonely women, but let her watch helplessly, Her three elder sisters became the kind of virtuous and virtuous women in ancient times, which she couldn't do.

At home, the father is the heaven; when married, the husband is the heaven; when the husband dies, the son is the heaven.

Among other things, what happened to them in Jiang's family, if they took their father as their heaven, they would have died long ago.

So how can a family be casual?How can it become the appearance that ancient men wanted women to become?

Take the initiative to be filial to your parents-in-law, treat your parents-in-law as your parents, be obedient and obedient, and not disobey, no matter how difficult you are, you should.

Be respectful to your husband, regard him as the heaven, put your husband's interests first, marry and have children for him, and arrange for a woman to serve your husband even if you are pregnant, so as not to be wronged.

Tch, the wife didn't feel wronged when she was pregnant, and she didn't feel wronged at all when she gave birth to a child, but he was wronged when he didn't have a woman to serve him, so easy to feel wronged?It's all what women are used to, and it's all those rules of etiquette that make women completely lose themselves.

How could her sister be such a person?

In married life, both men and women should be considerate of each other and not require unilateral contributions.Otherwise, the marriage is out of balance and cannot last long.

"Sister, let's take a look together, or we can find those strangers instead of picking around us." Jiang Wenzhu suggested.

The people who came to their house to propose marriage before were all from nearby families.

There are not no ones in the distance, but they are relatively few, and the most important thing is that they are not suitable.

"Okay, let's go to the matchmaker first, tell her about our conditions first, eliminate those who don't meet the requirements, and then find a suitable match." Jiang Wenshan said.

In fact, this thing has been done before, and since she was 16 years old, she has no way to sit still on the Diaoyutai.

She was anxious, temporarily anxious, and it was not that she did not arrange to visit the matchmaker, but it was always unsatisfactory.

Maybe it's really fate.

A few people are going to look at the official media. Speaking of which, the matchmakers in Daqing are basically official matchmakers. They must be registered with the government and have the qualifications of matchmakers to earn the matchmaker money.

Those well-meaning people who matchmaking among the people cannot be regarded as matchmakers. Their main purpose of matchmaking is to achieve good things, not to earn the matchmaker's money.

Even if they get things done, if the men and women who have already done things don't accept his favor and don't want to thank him, then he has done nothing and can't find anyone to reason with.

And when a matchmaker says matchmaking, she must collect money, not to do good deeds obligatoryly.

In fact, if a matchmaker can help someone find a satisfactory marriage, I believe that most people, whether it is a man or a woman, are willing to pay the matchmaking money, but the knowledge of matchmaking is great.

Both men and women have their own requirements, and it is actually quite difficult to facilitate a marriage.

Of course, any industry has its own difficulties. People who can do this kind of business are all quick-spoken people. Generally speaking, they will magnify the advantages of the man and the woman, and praise them like flowers , improve the success rate of matchmaking, so a good gold medal matchmaker can earn a lot of money.

Some matchmakers have a better conscience, have professional ethics, and don't mess around with couples.

And some matchmakers, regardless of whether they are suitable or not, just open their mouths to fool people, as long as the matter is done and the money is settled, they don't care what will happen to the two parties in the future?
This kind of matchmaker does things unscrupulously, cheating the man and the woman. After the reputation spreads, few people come to the door, and they smash their own signs.

However, the matchmaker industry is very special. Almost every matchmaker who introduces a successful marriage has problems of one kind or another.

After all, the matchmaker only introduces matchmaking, and the subsequent relationship still depends on both parties themselves. No one can guarantee that there will be no conflicts after marriage, and this cannot be blamed on the matchmaker.

But the kind of obvious pitfalls, matchmakers who don't tell the truth, just want to get money, and ignore the wishes of both parties, will naturally spread, so matchmakers who can work for a long time have decent conduct.

What they are looking for this time is a very famous matchmaker in Hangzhou City—Fang Fang, known as Aunt Fang.

It takes less than half an hour to walk from Huaishu Lane to Mao'er Alley where Aunt Fang lives.

Since they opened the wine shop in the county, they moved from Taohua village to live in the county town. The courtyard behind the wine shop in Huaishu Lane is where they live for a long time.

Jiang Wenzhu followed Jiang Wenshan through the street and saw the bustling main street of the county town. Although it was only a small county town, it was quite lively.

Autumn is crisp and the sun is shining brightly.

Vendors and crowds of people come and go in the city, and there are all kinds of cries and bargains.

"Hey, I think the bead flower in front is very beautiful, eldest sister, let's buy one and save it for you." Jiang Wenzhu said, "Let's see if there are any other beautiful ones, buy them back for the second and third sisters to wear." .”

This time it was Jiang Wenzhu and Jiang Wenshan, Jiang Wenhu and Jiang Wenbao, Lin and Jiang Wenyan, the whole family was divided into three groups, each looking for candidates, hoping to expand opportunities and find suitable people.

"Okay, let's take a look."

The two walked to a small roadside stall and carefully selected the beaded flowers on it. Not to mention it was just a small stall, but the beaded flowers on it were quite unique in style, and the materials were also very good. It is expensive, so it attracts many customers, big girls, young wives, and elderly ladies all come here to choose.

Jiang Wenzhu and the others acted very quickly, and when they saw it right, they picked a butterfly bead, a peony bead, and a peach blossom bead.

The peach blossom pearls are bright in color, and the red petals are extremely delicately carved, which is very suitable for a little lady like Jiang Wenshan to wear.

However, just after Jiang Wenzhu paid the money and planned to put the pearl flower on Jiang Wenshan's head, a kid who didn't know where came out, jumped out, snatched the pearl flower and ran away.

(End of this chapter)