Siheyuan: Starting from Saving Qin Huai Ru

At this time, it can be very simple to talk about the object of marriage. It is not uncommon to get married within two or three days, or within one day.

But if you are a responsible parent, you will ask someone to inquire in advance.

I usually ask the neighbors, how are the parents of this family, how is the temper of the whole family, is the family living well, or is it poor?

So, why is it important to have good karma with neighbors, and distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors?

Because neighbors can easily help you with some things, solve your big problems, and even save your life; neighbors can also easily ruin your family's reputation and destroy your family's life, such as blind dates.

Some people don't believe the matchmaker's mouth with a lotus flower, but believe in the evaluation of the family by the neighbors.

So sometimes this may even break the source of an originally agreeable marriage - the evaluation of the neighbors.

Why can the uncle repeatedly use the reason that "the courtyard has a bad reputation" to coerce the people in the courtyard to listen to him and obey his orders?
Very simple, this reason is really high-sounding.

Siheyuan has a bad reputation—everyone's daughters cannot marry good families, and everyone's sons cannot marry good wives. This is the most direct reason why reputation is important.

The uncle originally tied things like "Jia Zhang's family is not easy, everyone can help if they can" and "Everyone must be filial to the elderly" to the reputation of the courtyard house.

Do you think he is being reasonable?

In fact, he is also reminding everyone and threatening everyone... If the reputation is bad, everyone's life will be difficult for everyone!

That's why these women say that You Fengqi is difficult to marry.

She is just pretty, and when her parents inquired, she was not good at housework, had children and had no figure, and it seemed that she was not decent before... This girl is probably finished, and she is unlikely to get married.

What is the standard of a good daughter-in-law in rural areas now?
Big shoulders, round shoulders, strong work, no delay in giving birth, raising children and working, whoever marries such a good wife is simply enviable.

It shouldn't be so exaggerated in the city, it's true that a figure like You Fengqi's Xiaohe level is not pleasing.

Everyone still likes a girl with an apple-like blush on her face, a healthy body and complexion, and a girl who can give birth before and after.

Therefore, apart from You Fengqi's amazing face, no one can deny that she is a beautiful woman, from her figure to her temperament, to housekeeping, to her past reputation...it is really not easy to marry.

Maybe whoever insists on marrying such a daughter-in-law will be able to piss his own father to death that day.

In the afternoon, You Fengxia came with a big smile on her face, and asked someone to help deliver the big and small bags as a salute.

As soon as she entered the courtyard, You Fengxia was very polite, polite and courteous to everyone, getting to know everyone warmly and introducing herself.

After walking to the middle courtyard, the women in the front courtyard laughed and chatted with You Fengxia, and followed them together.

Strange to say, this girl is not very old, but she speaks nicely.

It's completely different from her cold-faced sister.

When I arrived at the middle courtyard, I greeted Qin Jingru and got to know each other. After getting to know each other, You Fengxia went to the backyard, entered the room where the deaf old lady and Yu Li used to live, and began to tidy up.

Light the stove, boil water, lay out bedding, and tidy up the furniture.

You Fengxia worked in an orderly manner, even when ordering You Fengqi, she didn't stop at all.

Seeing this scene, the neighbors in the courtyard were suddenly stunned.

It seems that You Fengqi is the elder sister, but in fact it is the younger sister You Fengxia who is in charge of the family.

Looking at You Fengxia's figure and appearance, her polite speech, and the fact that she has arranged the whole family in a stable manner, and looks like a good wife, everyone couldn't help but praise.

Whoever marries such a girl is blessed!

Qin Jingru also came here again with her three children, and became familiar with the two sisters.

After some conversation, Qin Jingru realized how accurate Qin Huairu's evaluation of the You family sisters was.

The elder sister who seems to be a thousand miles away from others is actually frank and straightforward, she doesn't have many other thoughts, she treats whoever treats her well, and her mind is very pure.

On the contrary, it is easy to build a good relationship with her.

The younger sister, You Fengxia, who looks polite and talks to everyone with a smile, actually only cares about three or two people in her heart, and no one knows what she thinks in her heart.

Just like now, Qin Jingru has already sensed You Fengqi's thoughts, but she can't feel You Fengxia's thoughts at all—You Fengxia is full of applause, as if there is no bad word in her mouth.

However, it was just like this that Qin Jingru knew that it was not easy to make friends with You Fengxia when they met for the first time.

You still have to treat each other with sincerity and don't think too much about other things. Only in this way can you truly become friends with You Fengxia...

Um, when Qin Jingru thought about it, she just did it according to fate.

The main reason is that it takes a lot of energy to take care of three brats every day.

In the evening, after He Yuzhu returned, he saw that You Fengqi and You Fengxia had made arrangements, and he felt much lighter.

In the future, I finally don't have to go back and forth to Dachunshu Hutong frequently.

As long as you go once in a while by yourself, you Fengqi and Youfengxia sisters go back occasionally, and it is enough to declare your presence.

You Fengqi and You Fengxia had just moved here, so it wasn't suitable for being too enthusiastic, so they didn't call them over for dinner.

Qin Huairu, however, had no scruples, and went to the backyard with a smile after dinner, and had a good chat with sisters You Fengqi and You Fengxia.

After the three children were asleep, Qin Huairu returned to He Yuzhu's room.

As soon as she opened the door, she saw Lou Xiao'e looking at He Jin who was sleeping on the bed, her eyes fascinated.

Qin Huairu was not at all surprised that Lou Xiaoe appeared here.

She also smiled, looking at her precious son He Ying.

This son is her greatest hope in the future, the person she loves the most, even He Yuzhu has to get out of here and stand on his feet.

How can he be as important as my precious son?
"I said, have you two finished reading? Go to bed as soon as you finish." He Yuzhu smiled and patted the bed, beckoning.

Qin Huairu snorted coldly, twisted her waist and walked away.

"Who cares!"

Lou Xiaoe was also embarrassed: "You're full of nonsense, when will you change your problem?"

"Send me back!"

"That can't be done..." He Yuzhu chuckled, and picked up Qin Jingru, "You close the door and watch the child, we will go back as soon as we go."

Having not been with his wife Dun Lun for a long time, He Yuzhu decided to plow the field tonight.

Qin Jingru patted him embarrassingly, lowered her head, shook her feet, and was carried into the space by him.

It wasn't until they left that Lou Xiaoe was dumbfounded, and gradually came to her senses, angrily and laughing:
"These two are just that!"

"unacceptable!"