Rebirth of the courtyard, the start is 80s

Otherwise, men like confidante.

What is a confidante?

The so-called confidante, first of all, you have to be a confidante, that is, you have to be good-looking and seductive, that is, the so-called good-looking.

The second is a confidant, which means that you know how to talk and can talk. To put it bluntly, you have a high emotional intelligence and can comfort others.

Cao Zhiqiang didn't know if the previous Hao Shuwen was someone else's confidante, but after chatting and confiding that night, Cao Zhiqiang was sure that Hao Shuwen could be regarded as his confidante.

In terms of appearance, although Hao Shuwen is not particularly stunning, she is of the good-looking type. The more she looks, the better she looks, and the more she looks, the more comfortable she is.

In terms of comforting people, the analysis she gave Cao Zhiqiang also made Cao Zhiqiang feel like he was seeing the sun.

In his previous life, Cao Zhiqiang had no chance to be a scumbag, so his feelings for men and women were mostly obtained through news novels and the like.

At that time, he often had doubts, that is, why some goddesses who seemed to be very smart and understanding, no matter they were lively or cold, were always easy to be succeeded by scumbags.

The previous Cao Zhiqiang followed the crowd, thinking that those goddesses had gone astray and had been tricked by scumbags.

But now that I have a personal experience like a scumbag, coupled with Hao Shuwen's enlightenment, I suddenly feel a sense of enlightenment.

Thinking about it carefully, those goddesses who were deceived by scumbags in the previous life, especially those high-cold female stars, were really just blind, were they deceived?

Not necessarily.

It is more likely that those goddesses and those scumbags get what they want.

When outsiders look at scumbags, they only see the scumbag behavior of those scumbags, such as flirting with flowers and grass, stepping on two boats, but they may ignore the other advantages of the scumbag himself.

For example, he is very handsome, has a very sweet mouth, or is very good at business, and is very rich and resourceful, etc.

To put it bluntly, the reason why those scumbags were able to win the goddess, in the final analysis, was that the scumbag was able to give the goddess what she wanted.

If you think of it as a business, it makes sense.

It's nothing more than I want something from you and I want to give something.

After weighing the pros and cons, if you feel that the gain is greater than the sacrifice, and you can bear that sacrifice, then the deal will be done.

As far as Hao Shuwen is concerned, she and her current husband originally had no feelings for each other, and even hated each other.

But because the relationship between the two families is good, the parents of the two families think that marriage is more beneficial. After weighing the pros and cons with her husband, Hao Shuwen also felt that the benefits of marriage outweighed the differences and disadvantages, so they got married.

But after getting married, Hao Shuwen's husband was unwilling to be lonely, met another woman he liked more, and felt that the original marriage was not worthwhile and not good, so he wanted to end that marriage, or not end it, just stepping on two boats, following Hao Shuwen maintained her nominal marriage and continued to live with her mistress.

After Hao Shuwen found out, she couldn't accept the result psychologically, so she started to quarrel with the other party.

Of course, if Cao Zhiqiang hadn't appeared, Hao Shuwen might choose to endure it because of her interests, and continue to be a couple with her husband in name only.

After all, continuing to maintain that relationship will allow Hao Shuwen to continue to be a wealthy wife, gain the support of the two families, and continue to be proud in front of others. …

But Hao Shuwen met Cao Zhiqiang during this period, was fascinated by Cao Zhiqiang's handsomeness and talent, and fell in love with Cao Zhiqiang at first sight, then the situation was different.

Hao Shuwen's current situation is just like that of her husband.

Before her husband met the mistress, he could continue to maintain a basic marriage with Hao Shuwen and continue to be a qualified husband, because at that time, his recognition of this marriage relationship was at least acceptable.

It is equivalent to saying that Hao Shuwen's husband had no dissatisfaction with this marriage before, nor did he have any expectations, and he was psychologically balanced.

But after her husband went to Shenzhen and met the mistress, he fell in love with that woman at first sight, so he started to compare, thinking that mistress was better than Hao Shuwen in every way, and then seeing Hao Shuwen felt uncomfortable and bored.

As time went by, Hao Shuwen's husband began to lose balance in his heart, and gradually leaned towards the mistress, wanting to re-establish a family with the mistress and abandon Hao Shuwen, whom he despised.

In this case, you may call it love, or you may call it obsession, but more likely, it is Hao Shuwen's husband who happened to have a hole in his heart and happened to meet a woman who could fill that hole.

To put it bluntly, for Hao Shuwen's husband, that mistress was the woman he really wanted.

So in this matter, strictly speaking, there is no right or wrong, it depends on who you stand on.

From the standpoint of Hao Shuwen's husband, he did the right thing. After all, he didn't love Hao Shuwen at all. Before, he reluctantly married, but just reluctantly endured it. If he didn't meet true love, he would change his heart immediately.

But from Hao Shuwen's point of view, her husband was very wrong, because her husband's behavior is Chen Shimei, a betrayal of her and the family, and it is unforgivable.

Before meeting Cao Zhiqiang, Hao Shuwen could bear it after weighing the pros and cons, but after having Cao Zhiqiang, she couldn't bear it anymore.

Hao Shuwen's logic is very simple, that is, after seeing Cao Zhiqiang, Hao Shuwen also looked down on her husband, fell in love with Cao Zhiqiang, and wanted to be with Cao Zhiqiang.

But Hao Shuwen is a married woman, and the energy of the two families is not small. It is impossible for her to maintain her marriage with her husband and at the same time be good with Cao Zhiqiang. That would be harmful to others and herself.

Just in time, Hao Shuwen knew that her husband cheated first, and thought it was a good opportunity, so she deliberately ran to the south to make a big fuss. In fact, she wanted to mess up the marriage, and by the way, put the hat of cheating on her husband's head , and create an image of himself as a victim, so that he can better approach Cao Zhiqiang and get Cao Zhiqiang.

That's right, in fact, Hao Shuwen had this idea from the beginning, and from the beginning, Hao Shuwen was envious of Cao Zhiqiang.

Otherwise, how could Hao Shuwen have been stalking and caring for Cao Zhiqiang not long after she met her, and even took him to meet her group of friends?

Actually, if Hao Shuwen is replaced by a man and Cao Zhiqiang is replaced by a woman, isn't this just a drama where a married bully falls in love with a girl from a good family, and then hooks up with a girl from a good family? …

It was nothing more than that Hao Shuwen's husband cheated first and was caught. Many people knew about it, so he suffered even more morally.

As for Hao Shuwen, her cheating was after her husband cheated, and she was not caught and was not known to outsiders, so Hao Shuwen is still a victim now, and has won the sympathy of almost everyone.

But from the essence of this matter, Hao Shuwen and her husband are the same, everyone is just the same.

However, it is precisely because Hao Shuwen is a married woman, and she likes Cao Zhiqiang very much, and wants to get Cao Zhiqiang even more, that she is willing to lower her profile and lower her requirements, even if she is an unnamed lover, she is willing.

The reason is very simple, that is, after weighing the pros and cons, Hao Shuwen found that if she wanted to get Cao Zhiqiang, she could only use this method of lowering her posture. stay together.

Just like when a second-married woman wants to get married again, the conditions are often lowered a lot. This is the case of Hao Shuwen.

If Hao Shuwen, who has never been married and had no children, falls in love with Cao Zhiqiang, then Hao Shuwen may have a different face, and she will have more demands. I am afraid that she will really want to completely occupy Cao Zhiqiang. It is impossible to share with others, let alone do it. mistress.

This is how you can eat as much as you can. If you don’t have enough money and you still want to eat high-end meals, then you have to put yourself in the right position and exchange chips with other things, such as dignity.

In the same way, although Yu Yuanyuan's situation is different from Hao Shuwen's, the essence is the same.

Before Yu Yuanyuan met Cao Zhiqiang, of course she felt that Yang Weiguo was better.

Although Yang Weiguo has various shortcomings, such as high self-esteem, selfishness, ruthlessness, etc., if these shortcomings are put aside, he also has many advantages.

Not to mention anything else, just say that Yang Weiguo is a serious college student in a prestigious university, and he plans to continue his postgraduate studies, which in itself surpasses most men of the same age.

You know, in [-], college students were really rare, especially undergraduate students, whose gold content was even more powerful than the master students of later generations.

Moreover, Yang Weiguo's academic performance is not to mention good, and he is also very good at making money. If such a person enters the society, as long as he doesn't end up overturned, he will definitely become an official.

As far as Yu Yuanyuan's situation is concerned, there is no one around her. In terms of talent and appearance, there is really no one who can compare with Yang Weiguo.

So, Yu Yuanyuan has always been friendly with Yang Weiguo, not so much because of habit, or not so much as a childhood sweetheart, but after weighing the pros and cons, she feels that Yang Weiguo has the best conditions.

As for Yu Yuanyuan's colleague, Sister Sun, the reason why she looks down on Yang Weiguo in various ways is probably because she really doesn't like Yang Weiguo, and there is probably a lot of jealousy.

So, before there is no better man, such as Cao Zhiqiang, Yang Weiguo is indeed Yu Yuanyuan's best choice. Even if he has various shortcomings, it is not impossible to accept them reluctantly or find a way to get rid of them.

In other words, if Cao Zhiqiang didn't show up, even if Yu Yuanyuan knew that Yang Weiguo was good with other women, she might choose to forgive and continue to be good with Yang Weiguo in the end, and would try to drive that woman away instead of letting go.

Unless there is no other way, Yu Yuanyuan will not give up on a high-quality man like Yang Weiguo. …

But Cao Zhiqiang happened to show up.

Compared with Yang Weiguo, Cao Zhiqiang, although not as educated, is younger, more handsome, more talented and richer, and of course has more power and status.

Yang Weiguo was still doing all sorts of things about his graduation assignment, kneeling and licking the school leader's niece, and he even didn't hesitate to be Chen Shimei and give up Yu Yuanyuan, whom he himself liked very much.

At this time, Cao Zhiqiang is already the serious president of a large publishing house. He manages a lot of people and a lot of money. He eats and drinks luxurious meals, enters and exits foreign-related hotels, and drives imported cars. , that style is completely different.

As for the future, if Yang Weiguo has no one to help him in the future, he will be a senior cadre if he dies. It cannot be too high. After all, he has limited ability and limited background.

But Cao Zhiqiang, if he does well, his future is limitless. After all, Cao Zhiqiang's background is not comparable to Yang Weiguo's, and the order of magnitude is different.

Yang Weiguo's backstage is nothing more than the deputy secretary of his university, and if he dies, he is a sixth-rank cadre, that is, to help with graduation and employment.

As for Cao Zhiqiang's backstage, they are members of the third rank, and they are not at the same level at all.

So Cao Zhiqiang is inferior to Yang Weiguo in all other aspects except for his academic qualifications.

It's just that Yu Yuanyuan was used to going smoothly before, and she still had a bit of a big lady temper. She wanted to but refused to say it directly.

It was only when she found out that Cao Zhiqiang had a new love that Yu Yuanyuan panicked and began to change rapidly.

It was only after waiting for Yang Weiguo's derailment to happen that there was a trigger, which made Yu Yuanyuan mature instantly and truly understand what she wanted.

That is to say, Yu Yuanyuan had already cheated her heart and fell in love with Cao Zhiqiang a long time ago, but at that time she was too tender-faced, and she was embarrassed to say it, and she was too embarrassed to break up with Yang Weiguo directly, and then went to find Cao Zhiqiang.

It wasn't until Yang Weiguo's derailment incident happened that Yu Yuanyuan let go of her psychological burden and could look for Cao Zhiqiang with peace of mind.

But at this time, Cao Zhiqiang already had a new love and a girlfriend.

How to do it?

At this time, Yu Yuanyuan is faced with two choices, either give up at this point, or lower her body and chase hard.

Yu Yuanyuan resolutely chose the same choice as Hao Shuwen, that is to lower her body and chase hard.

Obviously, two women serve one husband together. This is not only what Yu Fangfang said, but also a step for Yu Yuanyuan.

Because under normal circumstances, when Cao Zhiqiang already has a new love and is relatively honest, Yu Yuanyuan has no chance.

But Yu Yuanyuan had already given up on Yang Weiguo, if she gave up on Cao Zhiqiang again, wouldn't she be empty-handed?

That's why Yu Yuanyuan wanted to fight hard, even resorting to unscrupulous means, such as forcing someone to sleep after getting drunk, to get Cao Zhiqiang.

It's a pity that this trick was resolved by Cao Zhiqiang.

After resolving it, Yu Yuanyuan faced a bigger problem, that is, after the fake drunk incident, Yu Yuanyuan might not even have the possibility of being a sister and brother with Cao Zhiqiang. …

Because of his heart-to-heart comparison, Cao Zhiqiang would definitely not dare to accept a woman who wanted to get him by force and sleep with him, and then use this method to force him to give up his current girlfriend.

How many men like women who like to play tricks.

The bond between Cao Zhiqiang and Yu's family is mainly Yu Yuanyuan. If Yu Yuanyuan and Cao Zhiqiang break up, not only will Yu Yuanyuan lose Cao Zhiqiang, but Yu Fangfang's job and household registration will also be ruined.

Therefore, Yu Fangfang resolutely said "two women serve one husband together", apparently for the sake of her sister, so that her sister has a chance to catch up with Cao Zhiqiang, but in fact it is for herself.

For Yuanyuan, having two daughters serving one husband together is indeed her only chance.

Because two women serving one husband together are very attractive to men, and Yu Yuanyuan's willingness to be small can also make up for her shortcomings in playing tricks to a certain extent.

As far as Yuanyuan is concerned, as long as she still wants to stay by Cao Zhiqiang's side and get Cao Zhiqiang's favor, she has to abandon a certain dignity and stay by Cao Zhiqiang's side willingly as a lover.

Only in this way can she have a chance to fight against Wu Qinghong who has temporarily become the empress of the palace.

And even if he failed, he would not be able to get the complete Cao Zhiqiang, but Cao Zhiqiang has too many advantages, even if it is only half, or even a little, he is better than most men.

Not to mention, it might be because of someone who has been there before. Hao Shuwen's analysis, the analysis of the regulations, immediately cleared up Cao Zhiqiang's confusion, and he walked out of the original confusion in an instant.

As for whether her saying that would make Cao Zhiqiang doubt Hao Shuwen's purpose.

Well, Hao Shuwen said it herself, of course she also has a purpose, of course she also wants to get the complete Cao Zhiqiang, but she is more self-aware, so she is not afraid to say it out loud.

Hao Shuwen believes that Cao Zhiqiang is very smart, and if he speaks out, he can open up to each other and become each other's confidant.

Hao Shuwen even said that she no longer expects Cao Zhiqiang to marry her, but only hopes that Cao Zhiqiang will not abandon her so early, and that she can give Cao Zhiqiang at least one child.

That's right, being able to secretly stay by Cao Zhiqiang's side as a lover and give Cao Zhiqiang a child is Hao Shuwen's biggest request.

She said all her goals, but she can live with Cao Zhiqiang without any barriers, without having to be suspicious.

This is exactly how clever Hao Shuwen is.

A lover must have the consciousness of a lover, and if he wants to be in the position rashly when the fire is not ready, he will only fetch water from a bamboo basket.

Hao Shuwen's self-knowledge is exactly her brilliance.

Moreover, Hao Shuwen not only analyzed the current situation for Cao Zhiqiang, she also taught Cao Zhiqiang what to do.

Originally, Cao Zhiqiang thought that Hao Shuwen would make Cao Zhiqiang stay away from Yu Yuanyuan and give up Yu Yuanyuan.

Who knew that Hao Shuwen's suggestion was for Cao Zhiqiang to accept Yu Yuanyuan as a child.

This surprised Cao Zhiqiang.

However, what Hao Shuwen said next surprised Cao Zhiqiang even more, or rather terrified.

Because Hao Shuwen said, judging from Yu Yuanyuan's current performance, she already loves Cao Zhiqiang to death, and she has lost Yang Weiguo's spare tire. If Cao Zhiqiang is gone, she will really have nothing and lose all face and face. . …

A person like Yu Yuanyuan, once cornered, can really do anything.

It's fine if it's an ordinary woman. After all, Cao Zhiqiang never slept more than Yuanyuan, so he is invincible.

But I was afraid that Yu Yuanyuan would abandon herself and frame Cao Zhiqiang for sleeping with her.

There is no such thing as DNA testing these days, things like rape are mostly reported by women.

If a woman is not a virgin herself, and she is determined to sue Cao Zhiqiang, and she speaks clearly, then in Yu Yuanyuan's case, Cao Zhiqiang has a high probability of suing Cao Zhiqiang.

At that time, it will be even more difficult for Cao Zhiqiang to prove his innocence.

And this kind of thing is hard to say, even if Cao Zhiqiang can finally get out of the law, everyone will think that Cao Zhiqiang is a scumbag and has nothing to do with Yu Yuanyuan.

This is what makes a lot of money, and then sympathizes with the weak.

Because most people would think that if a good woman like Yu Yuanyuan hadn't been scumbag by Cao Zhiqiang, it would be impossible for her to complain without shame, which would be a devastating blow to a woman's reputation.

At that time, even if Cao Zhiqiang can win the lawsuit, he will lose his reputation, not to mention that he may not win the lawsuit.

Therefore, in order not to make Yu Yuanyuan despair, and to prevent her from dying, the best way is to appease her, that is, to accept Yu Yuanyuan.

As long as you accept Yu Yuanyuan as a child, comfort Yu Yuanyuan, and then slowly train her, there is always a way to train Yu Yuanyuan well, so that she can't be tossed about, and she can be an obedient and obedient woman.

Hao Shuwen even said that the task of training Yu Yuanyuan can be handed over to her in the future.

She promises to make people like Yu Yuanyuan look down, and promises not to cause trouble for Cao Zhiqiang.

It was after hearing Hao Shuwen's words that Cao Zhiqiang bought a courtyard house near Taoranting Park for Yu Yuanyuan to live in.

The reason why I bought it near Taoranting Park is because the environment here is good and quiet enough, which is suitable for the golden house, not to mention the beauty, and it is not far from the No.1 civilian hospital where Yu Yuanyuan works.

That is to say, although Cao Zhiqiang is in a golden house, he is not completely raised in captivity, but let Yu Yuanyuan continue to work.

Not to mention, after doing this, Cao Zhiqiang has become much cleaner in at least half a month. Anyway, Yu Yuanyuan never took the initiative to provoke him or trouble him again.

"Sister Hao's method is good, but it's not the way to go on like this."

Thinking of this, Cao Zhiqiang couldn't help pinching his chin.

"You can't keep being so ambiguous about the golden house. There must be an explanation after all."