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Chapter 92
In the end, relying on his youthful advantage, Yu Fei escaped the pursuit.

But after the village party secretary gradually calmed down, he leaned up again, massaged and handed cigarettes to please him, the village party secretary took advantage of the situation and smoked him twice, and the two of them sat under the awning and smoked .

"What's the matter, Uncle? Are you having trouble with your aunt again?" Yu Fei asked.

The village party secretary took a deep drag on his cigarette and did not speak.

"Actually, this should not be said by me, a junior." Yu Fei glanced at him and continued: "You and my aunt have spent more than half of your life, what can't you say well? You still use your hands all day long , don't you make people laugh?"

The village secretary's smoking action obviously paused: "Actually, although your aunt has a bad temper, she is really nice. When I was young, I also had a bad temper, and we often fought between the two of us."

Yu Fei knew this, including his own father, they were not very good young people when they were young.

The village party secretary took a deep breath and continued: "Later, as I got older, I just quarreled. Are we men? We must let you let it go. Sometimes let your aunt say a few words, and let it go when you let it out. gone."

"Then you are..." Yu Fei pointed to his neck and said.

"Isn't it because of your sister?" The village party secretary took another drag on his cigarette after finishing speaking.

girl?Yu Fei was stunned for a moment and realized that the only one who could make the village party secretary and his wife angry was their daughter Nana.

"Nana is not at home, you two can still fight because of her?" Yu Fei remembered that she should be working out of town now.

This girl has been eccentric since she was a child. Under the influence of patriarchal thinking at that time, she was loved by the adults in her family. After she grew up, she became even more graceful, but she didn't like reading very much. up.

"It's because she wasn't at home. If she wasn't allowed to go out, there wouldn't be so much trouble." The village party secretary said helplessly.

"What's wrong?" Yu Fei asked without knowing it.

The village party secretary paused and said, "Nana called last night and said that she would bring a boyfriend from out of town to show us. Your aunt became anxious when she heard that, and she didn't give up her idea no matter what she said on the phone."

"When Nana said she wanted to go out to work, your aunt refused to agree with her life and death. Later, I said that the child should go out to see the world, and your aunt reluctantly agreed."

"A few years ago, when she came back from the Chinese New Year, she was pretty good. She often told your aunt about the outside world. Seeing her happy, your aunt didn't say anything more."

"But yesterday, when I suddenly called and said that I would bring a boyfriend back, your aunt immediately became angry and said that if she dared to bring that man back, she would break Nana's legs. Nana, who is usually quite obedient, also became stubborn. , the two quarreled for a few words."

"After hanging up the phone, your aunt started arguing with me. In the end, I was so annoyed that I said a few words to her. Who knew that this ignited her fire. She has always been persistent, but she didn't expect that, Na Na is also my daughter, so I feel better?"

After the village party secretary finished speaking, he fell silent again, staring into the distance with deep eyes, as if he wanted to see through the space and distance between himself and his daughter.

"Didn't she also say that she is just a boyfriend? No one can guarantee the direction of the matter until it is finally settled." Yu Fei even said that he was not sure.

The village party secretary shook his head: "I know better than anyone else what my daughter's temper is. Since she can bring that man home, she has already made plans."

Yu Fei thought for a while and asked, "Where is that man from?"

"I said it was from Suzhou, but Nana didn't make it clear where it is." The village party secretary said.

"Suzhou!" Yu Fei sighed, "It's not very far, and it takes seven or eight hours by car."

The village party secretary gave him a sideways look and said nothing, Yu Fei laughed a few times. In the eyes of his parents, it was already the limit for his daughter to marry to ten miles and eight villages.

Yu Fei didn't speak any more, just discussed a cigarette and handed it to the village party secretary, and the two smoked silently.

In the "Liren" chapter of "The Analects of Confucius", there is a sentence "If your parents are here, don't travel far away". With today's extremely convenient transportation, this sentence has gradually evolved into "If your parents are here, don't marry far away".

Every woman who married far away has endured more pressure than others in her marriage. The first point is: not being able to stay with her parents.

There is no parent who does not hope that their children will never leave them, just under their noses, but this is impossible at all. When they grow up, they have to accept small separations again and again.

Marrying far away is not like traveling far away, and the return date of thousands of miles is far away. Every parent with a daughter hopes that his daughter will not marry far away, but there are always some daughters who choose to marry love and marry far away.

There are a lot of discussions about distant marriage on the Internet. Some people say that as long as there is true love, the rest doesn't matter. Yu Fei has always sneered at this, a typical sentient being full of water.

Before marriage, you always think that love is everything. After marriage, you will find that marriage is not as simple as treating guests to dinner.

Do you really know what kind of life you need?You yearn for freedom, but can you bear the responsibilities of life by yourself?You don't want to listen to your parents, but can you not need your parents' help?
I remember seeing such a passage in an article: Pregnancy in October, babbling, education, work, love, all arrangements and good intentions are no match for the decision you choose now.

A person goes to another place with more than [-] years of family, friendship, and nostalgia, and then starts anew, creating a new memory, and the previous ones have become the past.

It seems that you have never been here, or you came quietly and left quietly, taking away the thread in the hearts of the two old people, long and far away, putting it where you are and then back and forth pull.

Looking into the distance, put a long look.

Full of sadness, you let your parents stand in the back of the car with a lonely expression, looking from a distance, looking from afar, and walking away for you.

Seeing each other is worse than not seeing each other. Once again, you let your parents chase after the car, and what you are chasing is your figure and the child's figure.

It is your fault that there is no one who loves a son more than a mother, how can you bear to hurt him so deeply.

Then, you can't remember how many years, when you go back once a year, you feel that it is unnecessary.I don't know, should I be happy for you or for my parents.The grandson wrapped around his knees and talked all night long, which has become the deep desire of the two old people's deep eyes...

"When will Nana come back?" Yu Fei asked after a long silence.

"It's just these two days, but I don't know the specific day." The village party secretary thought for a while and said.

"When she comes back, let's see what that man is like, and talk to Nana about the rest." Yu Fei said.

"En!" The village party secretary made a dull nasal sound.

"You rest here for a while, I'll take a look inside the shed for a while." Yu Fei really didn't know how to comfort the person in front of him.

After walking a long distance, Yu Fei looked back and saw that the village party secretary was still sitting there with his back bent and motionless, like a statue that had been eroded by wind and frost for years, and his nose couldn't help being sore.

Married far away, what have you lost?
(End of this chapter)