Back to 80s, after marrying a rough guy, she has a soft body and a sweet body

Chapter 135 Unspoken
The next day, when Dong Yanru and Pei Chang were talking with Long or the woman who came to help, the grandfather's son came over.

When he came, Dong Yanru and the others were collectively worrying.

"If there is anything I can help, just ask. If I can help, I will definitely help. If I can't, maybe I can help you find a way."

After hearing what he said, Pei Chang gently tugged on Dong Yanru's clothes, signaling that she could chat with him.After all, he has always been in the system and is a member of a government agency. He doesn't know how to do things better than them.

"You mean, that old lady wants to bury the Hui people there?"

The grandpa's son frowned and thought for a while: "You said that I still have a little impression of that place. My mother took me there several times when I was a child. But that place has been requisitioned long ago, and the previous graves have also been moved collectively. Specifically, in Where I have to ask to find out."

The woman carrying the child said that her mother would come in the afternoon, probably her mother knew the place.

"Well, you guys go to see the situation over there in the afternoon, and I will ask my colleagues later to see if there is any way for them to be buried there."

But it has been several decades, and it is hard to say whether the cemetery that was placed at the beginning is still free. Even if it is free, how to pay the fee is also a problem with the old lady's family having such a large population.

At 03:30 in the afternoon, they picked up the woman's mother at the bus station.

Dong Yanru couldn't understand how to pronounce their names at all, so he could only follow the dragon or call each other Amu.

"It's a strange feeling, shouldn't Eminem mean mother?"

The woman next to her heard what she was whispering to Pei Chang, and the other party suddenly explained in a low voice: "Amu is what we call older female elders here, just like you Han people call you aunt."

Hearing her words, Dong Yanru's face flushed red, stuck out her tongue in embarrassment, and hid behind Pei Chang.

The woman looked at her with a smile, and then formally introduced herself to her.

Dong Yanru couldn't understand the pronunciation of her minority name. She only knew that her Chinese name was Yang, and her name was Yang Mina.

Yang Muna got married early, she is only 19 years old, and she is already the mother of three children.

The country has stipulated the marriage law early, but among the ethnic minorities in some mountainous areas, they don't pay much attention to the marriage certificate, as long as there is wine and betrothal, it is considered a marriage.

Only after increasing publicity in the past few years, the phenomenon of early marriage was further curbed.But as far as Dong Yanru knows, the age of marriage for women in some ethnic minority areas is not earlier than that for women, and it is looser than that in Han areas.

Yang Mu is the one without a marriage certificate, and her eldest son and the father of the next two children are not the same person.

After learning about this situation, Dong Yanru was shocked.

However, people including Long or Yu are not surprised, especially some relatively rare ethnic groups still advocate matriarchal families, and children are all supported by the mother's family after birth.

It was the first time for Dong Yanru to come into contact with these things in person. Like a recording madman, she kept writing, drawing and collecting materials with a notebook.

Yang Muna's mother drove them out, and they talked to the old lady alone in the ward for a long time, and there were angry roars from the old lady, but the doctor who rushed over was also driven out by Yang Muna's mother.

When she finally opened the door and called the doctor in, the old lady was lying on the bed, crying silently until her whole body was shaking.

The attending doctor was so angry that he was shaking all over, and he called the people from the medical department and said that if the patient had any problems, they would be held accountable.

Unexpectedly, from that day on, the old lady has been very cooperative, asking for all examinations, and will not scold the doctors and nurses.

Yang Muna's mother gave them an address and asked them to find the cemetery, and she lived in the old lady's house.

Yang Muna followed in, watching his mother weep loudly in the room full of spirit altars and spirit tablets.

Later she told Dong Yanru and the others that her mother was the youngest child when they moved.

She looked at her young mother, whom she had never seen in the photo, with a surprised expression.

"The relationship between mother and Mu's little daughter is very good. Although the two families have a lot of quarrels, they will secretly play together. Before they separated, they made an appointment to meet when Mu and the others left. Unexpectedly..."

I didn't expect that a farewell on that day would be a lifetime.

Yang Muna sniffled: "My grandma said, when we find that cemetery, we will buy all the remaining places. Our family has saved some money, which should be enough."

The grandfather's son was not bad, so he helped them contact a van and took them around the geological team for two days before finding the dilapidated small cemetery.

Although the size of the cemetery is small, the location is good, and there have been people helping to guard it for so many years, so the cemetery looks quite clean.

After inquiring around, they found the old man who had been helping guard the cemetery for free all these years.

According to the old man himself, his elders were once rescued by Yang Mu’s elders, so after knowing that this is their family’s cemetery, the old man would come to clean it twice a year and offer simple sacrifices.

He said that a few years ago, there were people who would come to help sweep the tomb and offer sacrifices, but he hasn't seen anyone come for six or seven years.

After listening to Dong Yanru's explanation that there is only an old lady left in the branch living in the city, who is still illiterate and unable to speak Chinese, the old man sighed disappointedly.

"At the beginning, this area was allocated to their cemetery by the government, but they were required to follow the conventional tomb system, and no messy things were allowed."

The old man led them around, and there was a lot of open space.

This is different from the later standardized cemeteries. Here, a piece of land is designated as a cemetery, and then you can choose a place to build the tomb and bury it.Must be cremated, not buried.

Yang Muna heaved a sigh of relief.It’s fine if you don’t need to buy land. Their clan doesn’t have high requirements for building tombs. A simple pile of loess will do, or a tomb made of green bricks will do.Moreover, the blue brick tombs must be enjoyed by people with a certain status in the family, and ordinary people are loess tombs.

As for cremation, their family worshiped fire totems, and they had been cremated hundreds of years earlier.

After learning about the specific situation with the old man and registering with the village committee to which the land belonged, Yang Muna hurried back to discuss with her mother about setting up the altar.

If it was inconvenient for them to intervene in this matter, Dong Yan didn't follow him. After sending Yang Muna off, he went straight home.

As soon as I sat down, the son and daughter-in-law of the grandfather's house upstairs came again with fruit.

"Uncle, what are you doing, how many times do you have to thank me for one thing. Besides, you still help us so much, we should thank you."

The two sides were polite for a while, and then the uncle explained his purpose.

Gratitude is one thing. In addition, he would like to ask Dong Yanru to help explain which hospital to go to for surgery.

"For this, I don't know which hospital is better, but I can give you some reference."

When she was bored before, she had already checked it on the small suite computer, and now she just took it out as a favor.

After getting a satisfactory reply, the couple whispered to Dong Yanru before leaving the house that the government has a special compensation policy for ethnic minorities, and they can try to apply for it.

Everyone blinked tacitly and said good night to each other.

(End of this chapter)